Menobodies

Menobodies

By: Beth Lohman

Language: en

Categories: Health, Fitness, Mental, Education, Self Improvement

Menobodies Podcast: Empowering Your Midlife JourneyWelcome to the Menobodies Podcast — the space where perimenopause and menopause aren’t whispered about, but spoken of loud and clear. I’m Beth Lohman — a mental-health therapist, personal trainer, and wellness pro with over 19 years of experience — and I’m here to bring you the insights, strategies, and community you deserve as you navigate this stage. In each episode, we’ll dig into the mind-body connection of midlife health, unravel the research (skip the gimmicks!), talk honestly about the changes in your body and mindset, and outline actionable plans you can start today. Whether you’re just st...

Episodes

Getting rid of the F-word, failure. Learning to work through mistakes.
Jan 08, 2026

Happy 2026, Menobodies! 🎉
We know the new year can bring excitement and anxiety — the pressure to have a “perfect year” can feel heavy. But this episode is all about rethinking that pressure and shifting our mindset toward empowerment.

Today’s Topic
The F-word: Failure.

(Sure… sometimes the other one too. 😆)We’re diving into why failure feels so big and scary — and how redefining it can set us free.

What We Cover
✨ Why failure feels like a threat
✨ Where those beliefs come from (society, family, childho...

Duration: 00:10:22
Freedom from New Year's Resolutions
Dec 30, 2025

Welcome, welcome!

We’re closing out the year with a slightly controversial topic… 👀

It’s almost December 31st.
Which means January 1st is coming.
And that means… New Year’s Resolutions. 🎇

As someone who has spent many years in gyms and wellness — including working as a fitness director — I’ve seen what January looks like firsthand. Gyms are PACKED from the New Year through mid-February. And then? The slow fade. The “die-off.” The resolutions that don’t survive. Not just in fitness, but in every area of life.

And that is why…I...

Duration: 00:06:39
Taking Breaks - why rest matters more than ever
Dec 25, 2025

Hey, hey there! Thanks for tuning in — especially if you're listening the week we dropped this episode (hello, 12/25!). We’re right between Christmas and New Year’s — a weird and wonderful space where “time off” should actually mean time off. And that brings us to today’s topic: Taking breaks. 🛑✨

Whether you’re navigating perimenopause, menopause, or somewhere in between — your body, brain, and emotions need more care. More rest. More down time. Today, we’re diving into why that matters and how to make it happen.


🎙️ In This Episode

We’re tal...

Duration: 00:17:27
7 Ways to take it easy in the busy season and with perimenopause
Dec 18, 2025

Hiiiiiiiii there (cue the yoga exhale 🧘‍♀️).
Because today’s episode is all about taking it easy — slowing down, relaxing, restoring, finding calm and peace, and grounding yourself, especially during the busiest time of the year.

It’s deep in the holiday season as I record this, and that’s exactly why this topic matters. You need rest and restoration the most when life feels the most chaotic. Thirty minutes of true rest will give you more than pushing through another 30 minutes exhausted ever could.

When you slow down and restore, you can think clearly, focus better, have more...

Duration: 00:08:54
Holiday Mantras to Get You Through Hard Times; Positive Self-Messages
Dec 11, 2025

If the holidays bring you more stress than sparkle, this episode is for you. Today, we’re not talking drills or staple guns (though those might come in handy if you need an excuse to “fix something” and sneak away from family chaos 😅). Instead, we’re talking about a different kind of power tool — one that helps you stay calm, grounded, and sane when life (and Aunt Marge) get intense: the power of mantras.


💬 What You’ll Hear About in This Episode:
Why the holidays can be emotionally tough — and you’re not alone if...

Duration: 00:13:21
MiniPod How to Make Friends
Dec 05, 2025

A little bonus share:
tips on how to handle conversations in social settings
how to keep conversations goinghow to handle akward silenceshow to have easy outs when needed

Connect with Beth:
💌 Email: beth@neonlavendertherapy.com
📱 Instagram & Facebook: @menobodies
🌐 Website: www.menobodies.com/home
🗞️Newsletter:www.menobodies.com/newsletter

Duration: 00:06:12
Humor in Perimenopause and Menopause, You are Not Alone
Dec 04, 2025

Share your perim/menopause funny story via this link Menobodies Humor Stories

Welcome, Menobodies!
Hey there, hey there! Today’s episode is short, sweet, and perfect for the busy holiday season. We’re taking a lighter look at something that usually gets a bad rap — the humor of perimenopause and menopause.

If you’ve ever listened to Dax Shepard and Monica Padman’s Armchair Anonymous, you know their “Funny Friday” stories. Well, this is my version — a “Funny Friday: Menobodies Edition.” 

Because let’s be honest… peri/menop...

Duration: 00:06:17
Healthy Holiday Communication - what to say, how to let go of holding guilt and fixing others' emotions; conversation tools and tips
Nov 24, 2025

Happy Holiday Season, Menobodies! Whether you celebrate all the holidays, just one, or none at all — this episode is for you. Because no matter what’s on your calendar, there’s one thing we all have to deal with this time of year: communication.

Let’s be honest — it’s way easier to spot bad communication than to practice healthy communication. You know the drill:
Yelling, sarcasm, or the silent treatmentBottling things up until you explodeTalking about someone instead of to themPassive-aggressive commentsOr just plain pretending everything’s fine when it’s notSound familiar? Yeah… we’ve all been the...

Duration: 00:12:44
Phase of Menopause in colors of the seasons, how we can move through them with success
Nov 20, 2025

Welcome, Menobodies and all who are listening!
Beth here — and guess what? It’s our first snowfall of the season! Still technically fall, but that walk today with chilly air and a few flakes falling got me really looking at the trees. The colors were still hanging on — and that bright, vivid red? I decided to name it “Alive Red.” You know that color that can’t quite be captured by camera, crayon, or marker? It’s vibrant, full of life, and totally stands out. And that “Alive Red” got me thinking about us — about the phases we go through in per...

Duration: 00:07:50
Chameleoning - knowing how to show up differently in different situations but not lose who you are
Nov 13, 2025

Welcome, Menobodies!
Hi there, hi there! I’m so glad you’re here today — because we’re diving into one of my favorite topics: Chameleoning.

Now, I don’t have a copyright on that term (at least not yet, ha!), but I might’ve come up with it! So what does chameleoning mean?

👉 Definition: being a different version of yourself in different situations.
Not lying, not pretending — but shifting energy, expression, and focus depending on where you are and who you’re with.

For example:
When I’m with friends who lo...

Duration: 00:10:08
The Power of Pausing to Calm Yourself and Reset; Reset Physically, Emotionally, and Mentally
Nov 06, 2025

Welcome, Menobodies!
Hey, hey — it’s another day and another Menobodies podcast episode! We’re exploring what it means to pause, how to do it, and why it’s so powerful—especially in the busier, more exhausting seasons of life, like peri/menopause.

💭 In This Episode

We’ll dive into:
What it really means to pauseWhy pausing helps your body, mind, and emotionsHow it resets your nervous system and helps you regain controlThree types of pauses: physical, mental, and emotionalPractical tools you can start using today to calm your system and think clearly🧘‍♀️ W...

Duration: 00:20:33
Rebeling against culture expectations of menopause
Oct 28, 2025

Happy Halloween — or not! In this week’s episode of Menobodies, Beth shares how a floating ghost in a tree triggered a reflection on cultural expectations — from Halloween to menopause. What happens when you realize you don’t have to love what everyone else does? Or dress, act, and age the way society says you should? This episode dives into finding joy in doing things your own way — whether that means skipping the scary stuff, embracing elastic-waist freedom (or not!), or starting something completely new in midlife.

In This Episode:
👻 Why Beth’s Halloween “boo” moment turned into...

Duration: 00:05:36
Resetting nervous system
Oct 24, 2025

Hey Menobodies! In this calming and practical episode, Beth tackles a topic that affects everyone—especially during perimenopause and menopause—the nervous system and how to reset it.

If you’ve been feeling anxious, on edge, or constantly “on,” this episode is for you. Beth explains what the nervous system is, how stress keeps it stuck in overdrive, and why learning to reset it can transform both your mental and physical health.

In this episode, Beth covers:
The basics of the nervous system and what “resetting” really means
Duration: 00:08:36

Spiraling Thoughts and How to Stop Them
Oct 24, 2025

Welcome back, Menobodies! In this episode, Beth dives into a topic she often talks about in her therapy sessions—spiraling thoughts. You know that mental tornado that starts with one worry and suddenly sweeps you into worst-case scenarios? Whether it’s about sleep, weight, or everyday stress, Beth breaks it down with her signature mix of humor, heart, and practicality.

In this episode, Beth covers:
What spiraling thoughts actually are (and why they hit harder during perimenopause and menopause)How anxiety, intrusive thoughts, and black-and-white thinking feed the spiralHer “tornado” visual—how one thought builds into chaos...

Duration: 00:08:11
Weigh, Hormones, and Midlife Bodies
Oct 24, 2025

Welcome back, Menobodies! In this honest and compassionate episode, Beth dives into one of the most common (and emotional) parts of perimenopause and menopause—weight changes.

She starts with a gentle reminder: this episode discusses weight and body image, so take care of yourself before listening if the topic feels sensitive.

In this episode, Beth talks about:
Why many women gain weight during perimenopause and menopause

Shifts in estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone

Cortisol’s role in midsection weight gain

Slower metabolism with age

Her...

Duration: 00:12:37
Peeing Your Pants Isn’t Cool—But It Is Normal
Oct 24, 2025

Welcome back, Menobodies! Beth dives into the first real topic episode with a mix of humor, honesty, and real talk about something a lot of women deal with but rarely discuss—bladder leaks and pelvic floor changes during perimenopause and menopause.

Yes, we’re talking about sneezing, laughing, running, or jumping…and realizing you just tinkled a bit. It happens, and Beth’s here to normalize the conversation, reduce the shame, and explore what you can actually do about it.

In this episode, Beth covers:
Why bladder leaks are common: age, childbir...

Duration: 00:07:37
Meet Beth: The Heart Behind Menobodies
Oct 24, 2025

In this first episode, Beth warmly welcomes listeners and shares how her perimenopause journey—weight changes, sleepless nights, and shifting moods—sparked a deeper dive into wellness and mental health. With a background in fitness, kinesiology, and therapy, she combines science, humor, and heart to help others navigate life’s transitions.

Beth opens up about her own experiences with anxiety, perfectionism, and loss, explaining how they shaped her as a therapist and inspired Neon Lavender Therapy & Wellness and Menobodies & NL Coaching.

Listeners can expect future episodes that blend real talk, research, and relatable stories on per...

Duration: 00:14:38