Menobodies
By: Beth Lohman
Language: en
Categories: Health, Fitness, Mental, Education, Self Improvement
Menobodies Podcast: Empowering Your Midlife JourneyWelcome to the Menobodies Podcast — the space where perimenopause and menopause aren’t whispered about, but spoken of loud and clear. I’m Beth Lohman — a mental-health therapist, personal trainer, and wellness pro with over 19 years of experience — and I’m here to bring you the insights, strategies, and community you deserve as you navigate this stage. In each episode, we’ll dig into the mind-body connection of midlife health, unravel the research (skip the gimmicks!), talk honestly about the changes in your body and mindset, and outline actionable plans you can start today. Whether you’re just st...
Episodes
Getting rid of the F-word, failure. Learning to work through mistakes.
Jan 08, 2026Happy 2026, Menobodies! đ
We know the new year can bring excitement and anxiety â the pressure to have a âperfect yearâ can feel heavy. But this episode is all about rethinking that pressure and shifting our mindset toward empowerment.
Todayâs Topic
The F-word: Failure.
(Sure⌠sometimes the other one too. đ)Weâre diving into why failure feels so big and scary â and how redefining it can set us free.
What We Cover
⨠Why failure feels like a threat
⨠Where those beliefs come from (society, family, childho...
Freedom from New Year's Resolutions
Dec 30, 2025Welcome, welcome!
Weâre closing out the year with a slightly controversial topic⌠đ
Itâs almost December 31st.
Which means January 1st is coming.
And that means⌠New Yearâs Resolutions. đ
As someone who has spent many years in gyms and wellness â including working as a fitness director â Iâve seen what January looks like firsthand. Gyms are PACKED from the New Year through mid-February. And then? The slow fade. The âdie-off.â The resolutions that donât survive. Not just in fitness, but in every area of life.
And that is whyâŚI...
Taking Breaks - why rest matters more than ever
Dec 25, 2025Hey, hey there! Thanks for tuning in â especially if you're listening the week we dropped this episode (hello, 12/25!). Weâre right between Christmas and New Yearâs â a weird and wonderful space where âtime offâ should actually mean time off. And that brings us to todayâs topic: Taking breaks. đâ¨
Whether youâre navigating perimenopause, menopause, or somewhere in between â your body, brain, and emotions need more care. More rest. More down time. Today, weâre diving into why that matters and how to make it happen.
đď¸ In This Episode
Weâre tal...
7 Ways to take it easy in the busy season and with perimenopause
Dec 18, 2025Hiiiiiiiii there (cue the yoga exhale đ§ââď¸).
Because todayâs episode is all about taking it easy â slowing down, relaxing, restoring, finding calm and peace, and grounding yourself, especially during the busiest time of the year.
Itâs deep in the holiday season as I record this, and thatâs exactly why this topic matters. You need rest and restoration the most when life feels the most chaotic. Thirty minutes of true rest will give you more than pushing through another 30 minutes exhausted ever could.
When you slow down and restore, you can think clearly, focus better, have more...
Holiday Mantras to Get You Through Hard Times; Positive Self-Messages
Dec 11, 2025If the holidays bring you more stress than sparkle, this episode is for you. Today, weâre not talking drills or staple guns (though those might come in handy if you need an excuse to âfix somethingâ and sneak away from family chaos đ
). Instead, weâre talking about a different kind of power tool â one that helps you stay calm, grounded, and sane when life (and Aunt Marge) get intense: the power of mantras.
đŹ What Youâll Hear About in This Episode:
Why the holidays can be emotionally tough â and youâre not alone if...
MiniPod How to Make Friends
Dec 05, 2025A little bonus share:
tips on how to handle conversations in social settings
how to keep conversations goinghow to handle akward silenceshow to have easy outs when needed
Connect with Beth:
đ Email: beth@neonlavendertherapy.com
đą Instagram & Facebook: @menobodies
đ Website: www.menobodies.com/home
đď¸Newsletter:www.menobodies.com/newsletter
Humor in Perimenopause and Menopause, You are Not Alone
Dec 04, 2025Share your perim/menopause funny story via this link Menobodies Humor Stories
Welcome, Menobodies!
Hey there, hey there! Todayâs episode is short, sweet, and perfect for the busy holiday season. Weâre taking a lighter look at something that usually gets a bad rap â the humor of perimenopause and menopause.
If youâve ever listened to Dax Shepard and Monica Padmanâs Armchair Anonymous, you know their âFunny Fridayâ stories. Well, this is my version â a âFunny Friday: Menobodies Edition.âÂ
Because letâs be honest⌠peri/menop...
Healthy Holiday Communication - what to say, how to let go of holding guilt and fixing others' emotions; conversation tools and tips
Nov 24, 2025Happy Holiday Season, Menobodies! Whether you celebrate all the holidays, just one, or none at all â this episode is for you. Because no matter whatâs on your calendar, thereâs one thing we all have to deal with this time of year: communication.
Letâs be honest â itâs way easier to spot bad communication than to practice healthy communication. You know the drill:
Yelling, sarcasm, or the silent treatmentBottling things up until you explodeTalking about someone instead of to themPassive-aggressive commentsOr just plain pretending everythingâs fine when itâs notSound familiar? Yeah⌠weâve all been the...
Phase of Menopause in colors of the seasons, how we can move through them with success
Nov 20, 2025Welcome, Menobodies and all who are listening!
Beth here â and guess what? Itâs our first snowfall of the season! Still technically fall, but that walk today with chilly air and a few flakes falling got me really looking at the trees. The colors were still hanging on â and that bright, vivid red? I decided to name it âAlive Red.â You know that color that canât quite be captured by camera, crayon, or marker? Itâs vibrant, full of life, and totally stands out. And that âAlive Redâ got me thinking about us â about the phases we go through in per...
Chameleoning - knowing how to show up differently in different situations but not lose who you are
Nov 13, 2025Welcome, Menobodies!
Hi there, hi there! Iâm so glad youâre here today â because weâre diving into one of my favorite topics: Chameleoning.
Now, I donât have a copyright on that term (at least not yet, ha!), but I mightâve come up with it! So what does chameleoning mean?
đ Definition: being a different version of yourself in different situations.
Not lying, not pretending â but shifting energy, expression, and focus depending on where you are and who youâre with.
For example:
When Iâm with friends who lo...
The Power of Pausing to Calm Yourself and Reset; Reset Physically, Emotionally, and Mentally
Nov 06, 2025Welcome, Menobodies!
Hey, hey â itâs another day and another Menobodies podcast episode! Weâre exploring what it means to pause, how to do it, and why itâs so powerfulâespecially in the busier, more exhausting seasons of life, like peri/menopause.
đ In This Episode
Weâll dive into:
What it really means to pauseWhy pausing helps your body, mind, and emotionsHow it resets your nervous system and helps you regain controlThree types of pauses: physical, mental, and emotionalPractical tools you can start using today to calm your system and think clearlyđ§ââď¸ W...
Rebeling against culture expectations of menopause
Oct 28, 2025Happy Halloween â or not! In this weekâs episode of Menobodies, Beth shares how a floating ghost in a tree triggered a reflection on cultural expectations â from Halloween to menopause. What happens when you realize you donât have to love what everyone else does? Or dress, act, and age the way society says you should? This episode dives into finding joy in doing things your own way â whether that means skipping the scary stuff, embracing elastic-waist freedom (or not!), or starting something completely new in midlife.
In This Episode:
đť Why Bethâs Halloween âbooâ moment turned into...
Resetting nervous system
Oct 24, 2025Hey Menobodies! In this calming and practical episode, Beth tackles a topic that affects everyoneâespecially during perimenopause and menopauseâthe nervous system and how to reset it.
If youâve been feeling anxious, on edge, or constantly âon,â this episode is for you. Beth explains what the nervous system is, how stress keeps it stuck in overdrive, and why learning to reset it can transform both your mental and physical health.
In this episode, Beth covers:
The basics of the nervous system and what âresettingâ really means
Spiraling Thoughts and How to Stop Them
Oct 24, 2025Welcome back, Menobodies! In this episode, Beth dives into a topic she often talks about in her therapy sessionsâspiraling thoughts. You know that mental tornado that starts with one worry and suddenly sweeps you into worst-case scenarios? Whether itâs about sleep, weight, or everyday stress, Beth breaks it down with her signature mix of humor, heart, and practicality.
In this episode, Beth covers:
What spiraling thoughts actually are (and why they hit harder during perimenopause and menopause)How anxiety, intrusive thoughts, and black-and-white thinking feed the spiralHer âtornadoâ visualâhow one thought builds into chaos...
Weigh, Hormones, and Midlife Bodies
Oct 24, 2025Welcome back, Menobodies! In this honest and compassionate episode, Beth dives into one of the most common (and emotional) parts of perimenopause and menopauseâweight changes.
She starts with a gentle reminder: this episode discusses weight and body image, so take care of yourself before listening if the topic feels sensitive.
In this episode, Beth talks about:
Why many women gain weight during perimenopause and menopause
Shifts in estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone
Cortisolâs role in midsection weight gain
Slower metabolism with age
Her...
Peeing Your Pants Isn’t Cool—But It Is Normal
Oct 24, 2025Welcome back, Menobodies! Beth dives into the first real topic episode with a mix of humor, honesty, and real talk about something a lot of women deal with but rarely discussâbladder leaks and pelvic floor changes during perimenopause and menopause.
Yes, weâre talking about sneezing, laughing, running, or jumpingâŚand realizing you just tinkled a bit. It happens, and Bethâs here to normalize the conversation, reduce the shame, and explore what you can actually do about it.
In this episode, Beth covers:
Why bladder leaks are common: age, childbir...
Meet Beth: The Heart Behind Menobodies
Oct 24, 2025In this first episode, Beth warmly welcomes listeners and shares how her perimenopause journeyâweight changes, sleepless nights, and shifting moodsâsparked a deeper dive into wellness and mental health. With a background in fitness, kinesiology, and therapy, she combines science, humor, and heart to help others navigate lifeâs transitions.
Beth opens up about her own experiences with anxiety, perfectionism, and loss, explaining how they shaped her as a therapist and inspired Neon Lavender Therapy & Wellness and Menobodies & NL Coaching.
Listeners can expect future episodes that blend real talk, research, and relatable stories on per...