The Mind I Live In | True Life | Psychology of Thoughts We Shouldn't Have
By: Elikay.Space
Language: en-us
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The Psychology of Thoughts We Shouldn't Have | Welcome to the mental jungle we all secretly inhabit.Where overthinking is an Olympic sport, childhood traumas still echo, and confidence is a shape-shifter.Where sex, shame, love, fear, ego, and the endless pursuit of “being enough” collide in chaotic beauty.This isn’t therapy.This is you, unfiltered.Hosted by Katara Lilith from EliKay.Space — part philosopher, part psychologist, part rebel soul — this podcast explores the raw, real, brutally honest inner monologues we all have but rarely admit. From toxic relationships to self-love, from confidence to kink, from existential dread to the audacity of...
Episodes
The Art of Female Seduction - The Mind Game that Always Wins | 18+ Use it Wisely
Jan 08, 2026Send us a text
Welcome to ELIKAY Space, where Katara Lilith breaks down the psychology of desire, feminine confidence, and the nervous-system foundations of real pleasure.
This episode explores how sex begins in the mind, how breath and stability shape arousal, and why women must learn their own rhythm before teaching it to a man.
Raw, honest, slow, feminine — this is the training every woman should have had.
Topics:
female pleasure, sexual psychology, nervous system safety, feminine en...
Duration: 00:22:20Why January Lies to Us and The Psychology of Starting Over in a New Year
Dec 27, 2025Send us a text
New Year, Same Brain is a deep psychological and cultural exploration of why New Year resolutions fail, why motivation fades by February, and how humans across history have defined “the New Year” very differently.
In this episode of The Mind I Live In, Katara Lilith breaks down the psychology of New Year goals, the fresh start effect, and the role of dopamine, stress hormones, and the nervous system in motivation, habit formation, and long-term behavior change. You’ll learn why people feel inspired at the beginning of the year, why discipline collap...
Duration: 00:17:58The Forgiveness BS — Why Anxiety Creeps in at Night.
Dec 11, 2025Send us a text
Why does your mind turn dark at night?
Why do the thoughts you avoid all day come crashing in the moment you close your eyes? In this episode of The Mind I Live In, Katara Lilith unpacks the real psychology behind nighttime anxiety, overthinking, childhood wounds, mother wounds, and the memories your nervous system hides until you’re finally alone with yourself.
We explore:
– Why you feel overwhelmed at night
– Why your brain won’t shut off even when you’re exhausted
– How childhood em...
Duration: 00:18:00True Love Life | When love Turns Into Silence |
Dec 04, 2025Send us a text
What if I told you the moment a woman stops loving isn’t dramatic — it’s silent?
In this raw and unfiltered episode, Katara Lilith breaks down the psychological collapse of female love:
the first crack, the emotional withdrawal, the hormonal shift, the disappointment stage…
and the exact point where a relationship crosses from “in love” into “goodbye.”
This is the episode EVERY man should hear —
and every woman will feel in her bones.
... Duration: 00:16:03Middle Age: The End of Pretending, Not Crisis!
Nov 20, 2025Send us a text
Middle age isn’t a crisis — it’s an awakening.
In this bold, emotional, and unapologetically honest episode, Katara Lilith explores what really happens to the human mind, body, and soul after forty — when masks start falling and truth finally begins to breathe. Why do so many marriages collapse after decades?
Why do men walk away — and why do women rise stronger?
What’s really happening in the brain when we lose desire, change partners, or suddenly crave freedom instead of stability? Katara dives deep into the psychology o...
Duration: 00:19:34Poor but Still Trying? That's Why - Your Body rejects abundance. Find out Why...
Nov 13, 2025Send us a text
Are you constantly working hard but still not seeing real money flow? Do you feel guilty when you rest, receive help, or ask for more? This episode uncovers the hidden psychological blocks and nervous system patterns keeping abundance away — even when you’re doing “all the right things.”
We explore the deep mind-body connection between trauma, financial patterns, and how your childhood conditioning shaped your relationship with wealth. If love, attention, or safety were only given to you when you performed — your nervous system may now reject money, rest, ease...
Duration: 00:16:16The Body Was Found — A Story About Life, Death, and What We Really Are
Nov 06, 2025Send us a text
This powerful 30-minute voice-over episode blends spiritual psychology, neuroscience of consciousness, and soul-level storytelling. It asks one haunting question: if the body was found, then who was lost?
Katara explores how ancient civilizations — from Egypt and Greece to China, Tibet, and Mexico — treated the body as sacred, yet separate from the eternal soul. She unpacks how Día de los Muertos, Samhain, and Halloween all mirror the same truth: the body ends, but love and memory continue.
Through her own life, coma survival, and raw h...
Duration: 00:18:52Brain relaxes in a bathroom! Why child escapes there?
Oct 30, 2025Send us a text
Have you ever felt invisible in your relationships?
Do you fall for emotionally unavailable people?
Do you shut down when you’re hurt, even when you want to speak?
You might think you’re just “bad at love” or “too sensitive.”
But more often, these are symptoms of unresolved childhood trauma—
specifically the kind that taught you to hide to stay safe.
And for many of us, that hiding happene...
Duration: 00:10:07True Love Search | Healing the Wound | Attachment Trauma, Emotional Neglect, Reparenting |
Oct 22, 2025Send us a text
You’re beautiful… you’re smart… you’re worthy…
So why do you still feel unworthy of love?
In this 35-minute voice-guided episode of The Mind I Live In, Katara Lilith takes you deep into one of the most hidden emotional roots of adult suffering — The Forever Search for True Love - the mother wound.
When a child grows up without feeling love from their mother, that absence becomes the blueprint for every future relationship.
Throug...
Duration: 00:36:23