The Tangle with Kyle Ridley

This week, Kyle is joined by “Real World: New Orleans” groundbreaker Danny Roberts. They reflect on Danny’s time on the show 25 years ago, the intense scrutiny in the aftermath, and his experience reuniting with castmates in 2022 for “The Real World Homecoming.” Danny also reflects on his journey growing up in rural Georgia, the challenges he faced coming out to his family, becoming a prominent figure in the LGBTQ community, and the impact of reality TV on representation He also shares the complex emotions attached to filming the show during “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” as well as his advocacy work...

Duration: 00:58:56

This week, Alex Borstein joins 'The Tangle' to discuss her decades-spanning career in comedy, new tour, and classic roles. Alex shares insights into her early influences, the process of crafting characters, and the balance of personal and political themes in her work. She also discusses her experiences on shows including 'The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel,' 'Family Guy,' 'MADtv,' and 'Getting On.' Catch Alex on tour now with 'Alex Borstein is Thirsty.'

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Developing comedic voiceCrafting characters‘Alex Borstein is Thirsty’ Incorporating political and hard-hitting issues in comedy The impact of 'The M...

Duration: 00:40:33

This week, Kyle welcome Americana singer-songwriter Cam. They discuss her musical upbringing, traveling the world in a choir, and writing songs at an early age. Cam also shares the influences that shaped her and the impact of solo vs. collaborative songwriting. They also explore the challenges of navigating career transitions, the impact of becoming a mom in the pandemic, and the emotional weight and joy of creating music. Cam shares insights from her life as a mother and how it has influenced her artistry, as well as her thoughts on the current state of the music industry...

Duration: 00:46:54

This week, Kyle speaks with Oscar-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black. Kyle shares his personal connection to Black’s 2009 Oscar speech and how it impacted him as a college student. They also discuss Black’s tireless activism, his lifelong fight for equality, his mother’s impact, growing up Mormon, and the current state of filmmaking. Black also reflects on his past projects, his biggest lessons, and what’s next on his slate.  

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Mormon upbringingFaith and identity “Mama’s Boy”Activism is a continuous journey; the work is never doneThe film industry presents unique challenges for LGBTQ narrat...

Duration: 00:58:22

This week, Kyle’s bestie Nick Caggiano returns to discuss their latest tangles! They share their thoughts on the new season of “Real Housewives of Salt Lake City,” as well as Nick’s lifelong love for “Designing Women.”  They also dig into deeper issues including Nick’s coming out story, religious family dynamics, and Nick’s latest dating tangles. They also touch on the role of faith and political views in dating, and the fun and spontaneity of meeting people on the dance floor. 

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“I literally love being interviewed”RHSLC“Designing Women” – Justice for Julia Duffy Coming out/fa...

Duration: 00:53:40

This week, Kyle is joined by the hilarious Wendi McLendon-Covey. They explore Wendi’s journey to Hollywood and the impact of her acclaimed roles on 'Reno 911,’ 'Bridesmaids,’ and ‘The Goldbergs.’ Wendi also shares her hopes for the new season of ‘St. Denis Medical,’ and looks back at some of her more obscure projects. 

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Long Beach for life Discovering improv  The turning point of ‘Reno 911’The enduring impact of ‘Bridesmaids’Experiencing the ‘80s twiceNavigating tense times on ‘The Goldbergs’ Dramatic work offering new challenges A look back at lesser-known projects Current tangles 

Duration: 00:41:06

This week, Kyle speaks with writer, actor and podcaster Matt McConkey. They discuss Matt's influences, friendships, and his journey to become a TV writer. They also revisit his previous podcasts and their impact, including “Homophilia” and “And Just Like Matt.” McConkey also shares his long-lasting love for Jennifer Aniston and the “Sex and the City” characters. 

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Acting, writing, laughingThe influence of Judy GarlandEnduring friendships with Casey Wilson and June Diane RaphaelWriting for the “Heathers” TV series The 'Homophilia' years “And Just Like That” … “And Just Like Matt”Love for Jennifer Aniston (and a personal encounter)“Sex and t...

Duration: 00:49:29

This week, Kyle is joined by comedian, podcast, and writer Julie Klausner. They dive into a random assortment of topics, much like Julie’s podcast, “How Was Your Week?” Julie also shares what it was like to see her longtime friends Jeff Hiller and Cole Escola win major awards this year (Jeff an Emmy, Cole a Tony). They explore Julie's passion for theatre, her experiences writing and producing “Difficult People,” and her thoughts on the current state of comedic television. The discussion also touches on the challenges of navigating the digital world, the joys of food, the WNBA, and Liza Minel...

Duration: 00:49:15

This week, Kyle speaks with bestselling author and podcaster Danny Pellegrino! The two discuss Danny’s journey in the entertainment industry, his biggest influences and hereos, their shared love of nostalgia, and the challenges of writing and fatherhood. They also discuss the impact of iconic women in comedy, the current state of the film industry, and the importance of community in parenting. 

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From Ohio to Los Angeles“The Rosie O’Donnell Show” Iconic funny womenLove of nostalgiaMental health inspiring a shift into podcastingWriting and creative process Body image struggles State of the industry Fatherhood 

Duration: 01:01:48

Kyle discusses the importance of free speech and collective action in today's society. He also shares nostalgic memories of the Lilith Fair and its impact on the music industry. Kyle is then joined by Emmy winner Carson Kressley, who discusses the legacy of LGBTQ representation in media, particularly through his shows "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" and "RuPaul's Drag Race." Carson also shares his lifelong love of equestrianism and his background in fashion, while also honoring late fashion icon Giorgio Armani.

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Collective action and collective actionLilith Fair nostalgia Caron's global adventures LGBTQ re...

Duration: 00:33:55

This week, Kyle is joined by “Golden Bachelorette” Joan Vassos, who has had a whirlwind couple years since appearing on ABC’s inaugural season of “The Golden Bachelor.” Joan discusses the highs and lows of fame, her engagement to Chock Chapple, and learning to balance a long-distance relationship while merging families. Joan also discusses her recent Mediterranean cruise, the importance of female friendships, and the challenges of navigating social media while using it as a platform for advocacy. 

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Joan's Mediterranean cruise adventure The power of girls’ tripsRomance with ChockJoan’s investment in “Golden Bachelorette” viewe...

Duration: 00:53:12

Lifestyle expert and author Valerie Greenberg joins Kyle to celebrate the release of her first book, “You've Been VALidated: A Playbook for Confidence and Connection.” Valerie shares her journey of personal growth, the importance of validation, and the power of community. She also discusses the challenges she’s faced while learning to be her own best friend. They explore the significance of kindness in a competitive industry, the role of family in personal development, and the art of embracing imperfection. Valerie emphasizes the need for resilience and the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals. 

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Duration: 00:54:28

Emmy nominee Jeff Hiller joins Kyle to discuss his whirlwind year of success – from filming the final season of “Somebody Somewhere,” releasing his memoir “Actress of a Certain Age,” and receiving his first Emmy nomination! Their conversation runs the gamut of emotions, with Jeff getting candid about career struggles, body image, aging, and becoming an “overnight” success after 20 years. 

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Sudden fameTitling the memoir “Actress of a Certain Age"   Fascination with celebrity autobiographies Societal perceptions of agingThe power of empathyMom

Duration: 00:47:24

Comedian Chris Franjola joins Kyle to discuss his standup tour, “Cover to Cover” podcast, and years on “Chelsea Lately.” He gets candid about the highs and lows of working on the groundbreaking late-night show and his evolution after it ended. Chris discusses comedy in the digital age, his friendship with Heather McDonald, and the importance of maintaining a balance between entertainment and political commentary. Chris also reflects on the challenges and joys of fatherhood later in life.  

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Long Island, a hub for comediansThe “Chelsea Lately” yearsCelebrity encounters Neutrality amid backstage drama “Juicy Scoop” and Heather McDonal...

Duration: 00:38:49

This week, Rob Goddard shares his journey of self-discovery, vulnerability, and removing the masks we often wear. Kyle and Rob take a deep dive into various masks covered in Rob’s new book, “Behind the Smile,” and how to recognize when they’re doing more harm than good. 

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Growing up in Northern CanadaThe concept of 'masks' representing personas we adopt for security and safetyA childhood marked by challenges and his mother's alcoholismThe struggle of being vulnerable and the need to open up in relationshipsRob's coming out experience The mask of seduction Healing and the importanc...

Duration: 00:51:13

This week, Kyle speaks with podcast queen Sarah Fraser. She gets candid about her journey from radio to podcasting, her struggles with body image, the challenges of navigating a toxic workplace, and her fertility ups and downs. Sarah also offers valuable lessons for aspiring podcasters and highlights the ongoing evolution of the podcasting industry.

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Smalltown Maine childhoodBody image and being bulliedMindful eating journeyRadio days The toxic workplaceTaking the podcasting leapBuilding a brandSarah's fertility journeyAddiction and recovery within the family Helping new podcasters grow 

 

Duration: 00:54:01

This week, Kyle is joined by comedy legend and dream guest Margaret Cho! They discuss her groundbreaking sitcom “All American Girl” and its lasting impact on representation in media. They also dive into the evolution of comedy, the importance of political humor, and the challenges of navigating the political divide. Margaret also discusses her new “Choligarchy” tour, her new album “Lucky Gift,” and a few of her most memorable acting roles.  

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The lasting impact and possible reboot of “All American Girl” Mothering the next generationThe political rollercoaster and the importance of humor as a release and a we...

Duration: 00:38:10

This week, Kyle is joined by writer-producer Liam Gareau for a proper pop-culture ramble! They get tangled in “The White Lotus,” SNL’s leading ladies, and decades of powerhouse female musicians. Liam also offers a deep dive into his love for Cyndi Lauper and his all-time favorite artist Linda Rondstandt. Kyle and Liam also discuss the evolution of music consumption and the emergence of new artists today compared to decades past. 

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The love of pop culture  “The White Lotus” and Mike White obsessionCheri, Molly, Ana, and SNL’s trailblazing women   Cyndi Lauper’s often-overlooked im...

Duration: 00:56:52

This week, Kyle is joined by comedy icon Kym Whitley. They cover a range of career and personal highlights, from motherhood, female friendships, and fame. They also discuss the "Two Funny Mamas" podcast, the forthcoming "Walk in the Light" short film, and Kym's latest tangles.  

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Touring with plans to record a specialThe value of female friendships "Two Funny Mamas" podcastBeing a single momRaising her son with large community Kym's passion for producing"Walk in the Light"Future projects 

Duration: 00:31:49

In this week’s episode, Kyle is joined by author, podcaster, and Emmy nominated TV writer Chelsea Devantez. They explore the hurdles and rewards of creating a brand, the intricacies of memoir writing, and the challenges of sharing one's harrowing story with humor, as Chelsea does in her book, “I Shouldn’t Be Telling You This (But I’m Going to Anyway).” Chelsea also shares her podcasting journey and the evolution of “Glamorous Trash,” in addition to discussing the hardships of donor conception, the significance of grudges, and the bittersweet healing of sharing one’s story. 

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Duration: 00:49:44

In this conversation, media host Autumn Joi shares her harrowing journey through the entertainment industry – from the elating highs, to devastating lows in radio and television. Autum Joi gets candid about motherhood, dating, and mental health while balancing an often-tumultuous career. She reflects on her early days working in radio across the country, to hitting it big in the DC area, to having it all disappear overnight – leaving her on the brink of suicide. Autumn Joi also shares her healing journey, current projects, and upcoming children’s book.

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Hometown prideRich background in radio and TV...

Duration: 00:48:20

In this week's episode, comedian Rachel Feinstein shares her hectic and hilarious life in comedy, with plenty of laughs inspired by her mom, hus band and daughter. She discusses her familial and relationship-based humor, the pros and cons of being married to a firefighter, and the quirks of living in a household teeming with ADD and OCD. She delves into the challenges of parenting, the creative process behind her writing, and the importance of friendship and collaboration in comedy. Rachel is currently on tour across the U.S. 

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Comedy deeply rooted in family a...

Duration: 00:30:48

In this week’s episode, Kyle sits down with media juggernaut Ross Mathews. They explore the various eras of Ross's life, from his early days on “The Tonight Show,” hosting his own talk show, to joining the global phenomenon “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” They also discuss the challenges and triumphs faced in the entertainment industry, the impact of reality TV, and the transformational power of grief. Ross also shares insights on his podcasting journey, the importance of vulnerability, and his recent foray into children's literature. 

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Leaving a farm town for Hollywood dreamsInterning at “The Tonight Sho...

Duration: 00:49:58

In this powerful discussion, trailblazing comedian Judy Gold shares her incredible journey through comedy over the past four decades. She shares her experiences in stand-up, working on the groundbreaking series 'All American Girl,’ and the evolution of LGBTQ representation in comedy. Judy also reflects on the challenges faced by women in the industry, her time working on 'The Rosie O'Donnell Show,' and the current landscape of comedy amidst rising antisemitism. 

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The importance of representation in comedyChanging landscape of comedy due to social mediaJudy’s journey as a gay parent and comedianWomen in comed...

Duration: 00:43:36

In this heartfelt conversation, Kyle is joined by podcaster-producer-musician-actress Nikki Boyer, who is also the creator of "Dying for Sex." They explore the complexities of life, loss and creativity amid tragedy. They discuss Nikki's journey from performer to podcaster, the impact of her friend Molly's battle with cancer, and the creation of the series 'Dying for Sex.' The conversation delves into themes of grief, legacy, and the importance of embracing uncomfortable conversations. Nikki also reflects on her years co-hosting the "Straight Talk with Ross" podcast with Ross Mathews. 

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Kyle's tangle with TikTokConfessions o...

Duration: 00:50:45

In this bonus episode, Kyle is joined by one of his best friends Nick Caggiano. The two dig into Nick's latest dating debacles, including an epic 10-hour first date, a quick declaration of love, and a furry surprise. They also discuss the complexities of communicating on dating apps, Nick's trad-husband tendencies, and the need to remain authentic from profile to in-person. 

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Dating Adventures and ExperiencesThe Intensity of First DatesUnderstanding Love and AttachmentFashion Choices and Personal PreferencesFriendship and Emotional SupportFuture Aspirations and FamilyReflections on Modern Dating

Duration: 00:37:29

In our latest episode, Kyle is joined by publicist and fashion guru Matt Dillon. The two explore themes of love for animals, personal growth, addiction, and finding one's place in the world. They also discuss the importance of relationships, the impact of loss, and the joy of connecting with furry friends, particularly Matt’s life-changing bond with a chimpanzee named Limbani. 

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Navigating Life Changes and Family DynamicsThe Journey from Australia to the U.S.Building Relationships and CommunityThe Impact of Past TraumaComing Out and Family SupportStruggles with Addiction and RecoveryThe Intersection of Drugs and...

Duration: 00:42:36

In this episode, rising singer-songwriter Chris Housman shares his journey growing up in rural Kansas, to becoming an out and proud country musician. He reflects on the experience of his first headlining tour, the difficulties of coming out in a conservative environment, and the influences that shaped his music. Housman discusses the creative process behind his debut album 'Blueneck' and his mission to write songs that hold no boundaries. He also shares his challenges and triumphs being out in the country music scene, and the impact he hopes to have on younger LGBTQ+ artists. 

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Duration: 00:38:56

In this pride-themed episode, Kyle is joined by fellow podcaster and intuitive Mr. Malone. They share their experiences with Pride, finding your tribe, and navigating the LGBTQ+ landscape. They also reflect on challenges faced in their youth, the impact of the AIDS epidemic, and the importance of seeking community. They also get tangled in the emotions of feeling like an outcast in the gay community, the power of female friendships, and Mr. Malone's rise from the ash after losing his home in a wildfire.

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Navigating the Gay CommunityReflections on the AIDS EpidemicFriendships and...

Duration: 00:38:35

In this episode, we explore themes of loss, the power of food, personal growth, and the importance of community. Chef Carla Hall discusses her rise to success in her 40s, her goal to stretch her limits and explore new passions, and her nearly 20-year marriage. Carla also discusses the significance of embracing challenges, the power of "yes," and her love of the LGBTQ community. Kyle also shares his recent tangles, including a family loss and comfort shows ("The Comeback," "Looking," and "Getting On").

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Food is love and food connects us allPeople are inherently...

Duration: 00:34:32

The inaugural episode of 'The Tangle with Kyle Ridley,' we're joined by high school teacher and 'Housewives' fanatic Nick Caggiano. We're getting tangled in our latest TV obsessions, including the new seasons of 'The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives' and 'Couples Therapy,' as well as a 45-year throwback to a 'gem of a show' called 'It's a Living.' We also get into the underbelly of one's need for reassurance in a professional setting, and how a good old pat on the back can go a long way. 

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Launching The TangleNick's Jo...

Duration: 00:43:01

Welcome to The Tangle with Kyle Ridley.

I’m Kyle, a former morning show producer who spent a decade researching and booking guests, and prepping my anchors to interview them. Of course, there’s only so much that can be said in a 5-minute TV segment, and so many questions go unasked.

Now I’m away from the control room and ready to take the mic, speaking with those who fascinate, inspire and challenge me. And the best part: there’s no commercial to cut to when we the dish gets good!

I’ll be join...

Duration: 00:00:47