Come Talk with Aimee

Physician assistant, intimacy educator, and podcast host Jordan D’Nelle joins me on the show for a bold, honest, no-sugarcoating conversation about casual sex, casual relationships, and how to actually enjoy them without losing yourself. From defining what casual really means to calling out the double standards women still face, we get into the real mechanics of having sex for pleasure without shame, confusion, or emotional burnout. We talk about why intention matters, how assumptions wreck the dynamic, and why self-respect is the sexiest boundary you can have.

We talk about:

How to...

Stand-up comedian and Broadway star Rick Younger joins me on the podcast for a hilariously real, no-filter conversation about sex, comedy, and the art of being a grown-ass man. From his legendary reputation as "the guy who's not afraid to eat the pussy" to navigating the wild worlds of stand-up, acting, and ethical porn, Rick leaves no stone (or taboo) unturned. We get into the hilarious truths about bedroom awkwardness, why men need to stop treating every pussy like the last one, and how a sense of humor is the ultimate aphrodisiac. 

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Why are so many men not getting laid, and why does sex feel so out of reach for so many men? In this episode, I sit with former Google engineer and creator Robyn Silber for a direct, honest conversation about unbed men, incels, the manosphere, and what is actually blocking connection for men today. We unpack why this is not just a dating or sex problem, but a deeper issue rooted in loneliness, emotional disconnection, and missing relational skills.

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TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ABUSE, INCEST 

There is no shame in wanting a life that feels more alive, more erotic, and more deeply connected to your body.

In this episode, I sit with erotic mystic and author Sharon Marie Scott for a conversation on desire, sovereignty, kink, and the alchemy that happens when you finally let yourself want more. We explore Sharon Marie’s work in forbidden alchemy, including how pleasure becomes a spiritual technology, why shame points us toward our deepest healing, and how kink can be a tool for...

There is no shame in craving deeper pleasure, and there is no shame in wanting sex that feels more intentional and responsive to your body.

In this episode, I sit with Pleasure Dom, Sir Marvelous for a conversation on what truly creates mind-blowing pleasure. We explore the foundations of real pleasure through patience, anticipation, presence, and the psychology of arousal. Sir Marvelous breaks down edging, sensual dominance, temperature play, rope, fire, and the illusion of danger, along with why vibrators, clitoral stimulation, and thoughtful touch should be standard in every bedroom. We also talk...

There is no shame in wanting what you want, and there is no shame in asking for it out loud.

In my very first Quickie episode, I take you inside a moment from my Paint Your Pleasure event, where we guided a room full of people through a consent-based touch practice that cracked everyone open in the softest, sweetest ways. From neon lights to body paint to dry brush strokes on skin, the entire night was designed to invite people out of performance and into their real desires, and the transformation was electric. We...

TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence 

There is a kind of harm that does not leave bruises, yet leaves a mark on your entire life.

In this episode, I sit with speaker and advocate Eunice Brownlee for a conversation that brings clarity to the subtle, confusing, and often invisible experience of coercive control. Eunice shares how a situationship that felt casual and harmless slowly shifted into a dynamic filled with manipulation, fear, and emotional exhaustion, long before she had the language to recognise it as abuse.

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There is no shame in pleasure, and there is no shame in kink.

In this episode, I’m joined by certified sexologist and educator Bre Green for a conversation that’s equal parts healing and hot.Bre shares how she went from growing up in a deeply religious environment to reclaiming her sexuality through exploration, curiosity, and kink. We talk about why kink isn’t just about pain or power, rather it’s about safety, trust, and self-knowledge.

From pleasure mapping and sensory play to negotiation, communication, and aftercare, Bre brea...

What if the most sacred thing you could do was not to “preserve your purity” but to reclaim your pleasure?

In this episode, I sit down with Lacey Bond, a certified sex, relationship, and intimacy coach whose work focuses on purity culture, kink, and polyamory. Together, we dive into how growing up in religious purity culture can shape your relationship with your body, your boundaries, and your ability to feel safe in intimacy and how kink offers a way home to yourself.

If you’ve ever been curious about how power play can be healing, what a...

What if intimacy could feel like play? In this conversation, we take touch, connection, and communication out of the serious zone and make it fun again.

In this episode, I’m joined by Candace Johnson, the creator of Touchy Feely, a game designed to help people connect more deeply through the power of touch and conversation. We talk about why touch isn’t just physical, how emotional intimacy shapes connection, and the different “levels” of closeness that make this game a total heart-opener.

This game (and this conversation) is flirty...

Ghosting isn’t just something we do to others. We do it to ourselves when we stay too long, avoid the truth, or ignore what we really want. So how do you leave well, without abandoning yourself in the process?

In this episode, I sit down with Naomi Hattaway, author and consultant on the art of Leaving Well. We dive into why endings feel so messy, how to know when it’s time to walk away, and what it really looks like to close a chapter with clarity and dignity.

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What if the key to hotter, more pleasurable sex was hiding in your pelvic floor? Most of us only hear about it after pregnancy, but pelvic floor health is for everyone. And yes, it can take your orgasms to the next level.

In this episode, I sit down with movement coach and pelvic floor expert Elyse Sparkes to break down everything you need to know about your pelvis. We talk about why pelvic floor health matters beyond childbirth, how it impacts pleasure in the bedroom, and the biggest myths that need to be retired once and for...

What happens when you date three dominant men — blindfolded — and one of them is your ex? 

In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with Amanda, The Kink Consultant, and producer/host Catherine Drysdale to go behind the scenes of The Ex Factor, the bold live show where kink, chemistry, and past relationships collided on stage.

We get into why Amanda said yes, how Catherine brought it to life, and what it means to center desire and sexual preferences in dating.

Raw. Playful. Provocative. This is The Ex Factor, unmasked. 

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What if love didn’t come with rules? Relationship anarchy challenges everything you think you know about commitment, desire, and connection—and it’s hotter than you might expect. 🔥

In this episode of Come Talk with Aimee, I sit down with the brilliant Adriana Smith to explore how to craft relationships on your own terms—where honesty, autonomy, and radical desire lead the way. We talk about breaking free from labels, rewriting the “relationship escalator,” and embracing love that’s unapologetically yours.

Whether you’re curious, adventurous, or ready to ignite your own love revolution, this episode is you...

Hot take: there’s nothing wrong with your desire—it just has a flavor, babe. Join Aimee and Angie Enger as they spill the tea on spontaneous vs. responsive desire, why ‘low libido’ is a total myth, and how to turn frustration into exploration. It’s time to stop feeling broken and start owning your unique, sexy blueprint.

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Ready to blow the lid off your pleasure potential?

In this juicy convo, Aimee and certified sex coach Amari Leigh dive deep into the world of orgasms, sexual wellness, and self-empowerment. From the orgasm gap in heterosexual dynamics to the power of self-exploration and communication, they unpack why so many of us are disconnected from pleasure — and how to reclaim it.

You’ll learn:

The difference between 40 types of orgasms (yes, really)

Why the orgasm gap still exists — and how to challenge it

How to communicate your desires with more confide...

We’re kicking off Anal August with a bold convo on anal sex, female pleasure, and why butt stuff should absolutely be on the brunch menu. 🍑✨

Aimee is joined by Whitaker Cohen, founder of AmorSui, to talk anatomy, aftercare, and how to center your pleasure — with zero shame. Whether you’re new to backdoor play or already a baddie, this one’s for you.

We get into:

Why anal play is about more than penetration

How to center female pleasure in anal sex

Talking about butt stuff with yo...

Before the heat, there has to be safety—and sometimes, pleasure is the pathway.

In this episode, somatic sex coach Meryl Victoria joins Aimee to explore the powerful link between the nervous system and intimacy. From polyvagal theory to embodied arousal, we’re flipping the script on what turns you on.

We dive into:

How nervous system regulation sets the stage for deeper connection

Why some bodies shut down—and how to invite them back online

Using sex as a tool for nervous system regulat...

🔥 Pleasure in the Pause with Tony-Nominated Broadway Legend Brenda Braxton

What if menopause wasn’t the end of pleasure—but a powerful new beginning?

This week, Aimee is joined by the fierce and fabulous Brenda Braxton—Tony-nominated actress, Broadway royalty, and founder of Pause by BBraxton. They get real about sex after 50, the myths that keep us silent, and how to keep the fire burning even as hormones shift.

From hot flashes to hot nights, Brenda brings humor, heart, and unfiltered truth about embracing your body...

Intentional intimacy doesn't leave you guessing - it comes with clarity, care, and damn good boundaries. In this episode, Aimee and Dakota unpack what it means to stop settling for crumbs and start owning your yes, your no, and your worth.

If someone can't hold your "no," they don't deserve your "yes."

Part of being healthy? Don't be a d*ck.

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Why does romance always get the spotlight—and everyone else becomes the understudy?

In this spicy episode, I sit down with the brilliant Adam Fitzgerald to take a sledgehammer to relationship hierarchy—that cultural obsession with putting your romantic partner above all else. We unpack how this model often leads to co-dependency, unrealistic expectations, and emotional burnout.

But here’s the truth: healthy relationships don’t happen in isolation. They need community—the friendships, chosen family, and support systems that queer folks have long known are essential to thriving love and i...

Apparently, saying "clit" is more dangerous than spreading hate online - because when it comes to sex, the internet loses its damn mind. In this episode, I'm joined by Mandy Salley, COO of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, to call out the hypocrisy, the censorship, and the very real fight for our right to talk about sex without getting digitally gagged.

We're breaking down shadowbans, community guidelines that aren't so "community-friendly," and why sexual freedom is free speech. This convo? It's bold, unflitered, and absolutely necessary.

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Is your sex life feeling a little… dry? You’re not alone—and it’s time to change that. In this candid and unapologetically real episode, intimacy coach Aimee sits down with Orla Maguire, founder of Lubify, to talk about why personal lubricant is a game-changer for everyone.

From increasing pleasure and reducing discomfort to enhancing intimacy and self-connection, we cover it all: how to choose the right lube for sex, why lube isn’t just for “older people” or “issues,” and how adding a little (or a lot) of slip can completely transform your solo or partn...

What does it mean to make an impact - on bodies systems, and culture?

In this episode, Aimee is joined by the brilliant and bold Steph Zapata, a sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work.

We dive into the layered world of impact play - from the physical sensations to the emotional and political power of consensual exchange. Steph shared how her work in sexuality and social justice intertwines, how pleasure can be radical, and why healing doesn't have to...

Sexual shame loves to lurk in the dark - but we're turning on the lights. In this honest and heart-opening conversation, I'm joined by the brilliant Rebecca Giguere to talk about why shame around sex runs so deep, how it shapes our lives, and what it really takes to break free. Expect real talk, a few laughs, and a whole lot of empowerment as we tackle the myths and messages that no longer serve us. It's time to rewrite the story -and it starts here.

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