Divorce Rich with Jacki Roessler, CDFA

Divorce Rich with Jacki Roessler, CDFA

By: Jacqueline Roessler, CDFA

Language: en-us

Categories: Education, Self Improvement, Business, Investing, Society, Culture, Relationships

Welcome to the Divorce Rich Podcast! Join your host,  highly sought-after speaker and experienced Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Jacki Roessler, CDFA in this engaging  and down to earth show.  Along with her guests, Jacki offers clear and detailed advice to improve your financial decisions before, during and after divorce so you can survive divorce rich! New episodes are posted every  Thursday!  You can reach Jacki through her Michigan-based firm, Roessler Divorce Consulting, located at 600 S. Adams, Suite 300, Birmingham, MI 48009 or by email at jacqueline@roesslerdivorce.com.

Episodes

The Truth about Divorce in the Age of AI
Jan 08, 2026

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We explore how AI can help you prepare during divorce while also showing where it can mislead you with confident but wrong answers. We share safe workflows, a real test that went off the rails on spousal support and legal advice and a clear path for choosing the right professionals.

• defining the core risk of AI’s false certainty 
• examples of bad legal and financial outputs from AI 
• safe uses: question drafting, summaries, checklists 
• the validation rule: local attorney and CDFA review 
• interview questions for attorneys and CDFAs 
• rea...

Duration: 00:19:37
Teenagers and Divorce: The Hardcore Truth with Sarah Kuretzky Rossington
Dec 19, 2025

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When a family splits, teens often look “fine” on the surface—grades steady, activities unchanged—while carrying a storm of fear, anger, and confusion underneath. We sit down with mental health pro Sarah Kuretzky Rossington to unpack how divorce impacts identity formation, autonomy, and early relationships, and why older kids shouldn’t be left to figure it out alone.

We get practical about support that actually works. Sarah explains why narrative therapy helps teens make sense of their story without shame, how a light Internal Family Systems framework validates conflicting emotions, and why DB...

Duration: 00:26:33
Grey Divorce after 50 Revisited: Why the Rules Completely Change with Financial Advisor, Sandy Adams, CFP
Dec 15, 2025

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Unlock crucial insights into the growing phenomenon of gray divorce with our latest episode featuring Sandy Adams from the Center for Financial Planning. We'll unravel the complexities older adults face when contemplating a late-in-life divorce. From understanding the significance of healthcare insurance and Medicare eligibility to the intricacies of timing retirement benefits, Sandy shares indispensable advice that can shape a financially secure future. We dive into the nuances of Social Security, clarifying the difference between Medicare and Social Security benefits, and discussing options for reconsidering Social Security elections under specific conditions.

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Duration: 00:28:41
Holiday Hustle Break: The Divorce Money Tune-Up Your Future Self Will Thank You For
Dec 04, 2025

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Holiday plans are loud; money problems are louder. We press pause on the overwhelm and walk you through a clean, step-by-step year-end checklist designed for life after divorce. From tax withholding to FSAs, investment strategy, and credit safeguards, we focus on the handful of actions that prevent April shocks and set you up for a calmer new year. If you’re rebuilding after divorce and need a focused path to financial stability, this guide gives you practical, timely steps you can complete this week. Subscribe for more smart divorce money insights, share this wi...

Duration: 00:20:59
Switch Days Without Stress: Expert Tips From Forest Levy-Wolfe
Nov 20, 2025

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Jacki and her guest, parenting coach Forrest Levy Wolfe explore how to reduce chaos during two-home transitions with simple rituals, validating language, and clear, respectful limits. 
We cover: 
• why kids struggle most with uncertainty and loss of control
• a transition ritual of plan, food, and rest
• the A and A Protocol to acknowledge and affirm feelings
• replacing threats with “as soon as” clear limits
• staying in your lane when co-parents differ
• moving belongings with checklists and routines
• self-regulation for parents so kids can co-regulate
• reframing divorce as a...

Duration: 00:38:01
Money Panic After Divorce? Let’s Unpanic with Coach Angela Cipriano
Nov 06, 2025

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The moment the decree is signed, real life begins. We walk through the first months of financial independence after a divorce and show how small, steady actions create relief fast. Our guest, Angela Cipriano, a financial coach who rebuilt her own life post-divorce, explains how to move from overwhelm to ownership with checklists, simple systems, and a mindset that actually sticks.

We start by demystifying the roles: a financial coach handles what most advisors skip—beneficiary updates, utility transfers, passwords, bill flow, and day-to-day budgeting—so you can arrive at your plan...

Duration: 00:29:07
The Shocking Cost of Health Coverage After Divorce
Oct 24, 2025

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The moment a divorce becomes real, health insurance can feel like quicksand. Premiums spike, deadlines loom, and the plans you relied on may no longer cover the treatments that keep you well. We walk through a real client’s story to show how to evaluate COBRA, employer coverage, and ACA marketplace plans without guesswork or panic. The twist: even with a higher monthly premium, COBRA can sometimes save you money and protect continuity of care when you factor in deductibles, prescriptions, integrative therapies, and network access.


Health insurance choices are al...

Duration: 00:23:01
Collaborative Instead of Combative Divorce with Attorney Randy Pitler
Oct 16, 2025

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Divorce doesn’t have to be a courtroom sport. We sit down with Michigan family law attorney Randy Pittler to unpack how collaborative divorce reframes the process from “win-lose” to problem solving—replacing subpoenas and shuttle diplomacy with a trained team, full transparency, and solutions built for real life. Randy explains why litigation so often breeds delay, expense, and post‑mediation regret, and how Collaborative Divorce flips the incentives: each spouse has a collaboratively trained attorney, a neutral financial expert gathers documents and models options, and a mental health coach keeps emotions from steering t...

Duration: 00:39:07
The Financial Cost of Staying in a Bad Marriage
Oct 09, 2025

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What if the most expensive choice isn’t divorce—it’s staying put? We pull back the curtain on the true financial toll of an unhappy marriage, from hidden debts you never signed off on to the slow bleed of funding a lifestyle that later becomes the benchmark for spousal support. Through real client stories, we trace how shared liabilities, unapproved loans, and retirement withdrawals can quietly rewrite your balance sheet while you’re trying to keep the peace.

We talk through practical safeguards—prenups or postnups, shared logins, regular financial check-ins—...

Duration: 00:25:32
Why Your Lawyer is not Your Financial Planner
Sep 25, 2025

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Ever had a doctor prescribe surgery but wondered who would guide you through the daily rehabilitation afterward? That's exactly the situation many people face in divorce when they rely solely on their attorney without bringing in a financial expert.

The most successful divorces involve a collaborative team: your attorney handling legal strategy, a financial expert analyzing long-term sustainability, and you—the informed client—making decisions based on both legal rights and financial realities. This approach not only leads to better outcomes but often saves money by having the right professional handle the...

Duration: 00:31:35
Co-Parenting or Coercing? Recognizing the Difference with AJ Gajjar
Sep 18, 2025

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Ever had your child return from their other parent's house acting like a completely different person? The tears, the aggression, the withdrawal – these aren't just normal post-visitation blues. They might be signs of something more concerning: coercive parenting control.

Child development specialist AJ Gajar joins us to shine a light on this often-misunderstood dynamic that leaves many co-parents feeling helpless and confused. She explains how "strict parenting" can sometimes mask controlling behaviors that profoundly impact children's emotional and psychological development. Drawing from her background in developmental psychology and her own personal ex...

Duration: 00:33:22
Could the Court Decide You Should Have a Bigger Paycheck? with Vocational Expert Karen Grossberg
Sep 09, 2025

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Ever wondered who determines what you "could" be earning during a divorce? Meet the vocational expert—a professional whose assessment of your earning potential might significantly impact your financial settlement.

Vocational experts analyze education, work experience, and job market opportunities to establish reasonable income expectations for divorcing spouses. They're often hired when one spouse has been out of the workforce, works part-time, or appears underemployed relative to their qualifications. While their evaluations frequently benefit the higher-earning spouse, understanding their methodology empowers you to navigate this aspect of divorce more effectively.
Duration: 00:31:26

5 Biggest Money Myths in Divorce (and the Truth Behind Them)
Aug 28, 2025

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We're starting off Season 2 with a bang! Divorce is the single largest financial transaction of most people's lives, and making uninformed decisions based on common money myths can have devastating long-term consequences. We debunk five major misconceptions about divorce finances to help you navigate this complex process with confidence and clarity.

• DIY divorce is rarely the money-saving solution it appears to be and can cost significantly more in the long run
• Keeping the house requires careful financial analysis including mortgage qualification, affordability, and evaluating its long-term impact on your finances
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Duration: 00:37:57
Divorce Like a Boss: Real Talk and Strategy for High Earners with Financial Advisor, Nick Defenthaler, CFP, RIPC
Jul 31, 2025

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Tax strategies that high-wage earners need during divorce but rarely receive proper guidance on - that's the focus of this deep-diving conversation between host Jacki Roessler, CDFA and returning guest Nick Defenthaler, CFP and partner at the Center for Financial Planning.

For executives receiving equity compensation, the conversation turns to concentration risk - the danger of having too much net worth tied to a single company's performance. "Our general rule of thumb is no more than 10-20% within one particular company stock," explains Nick, while acknowledging the emotional attachment many feel...

Duration: 00:37:19
The Mailbag is Here! Divorce Rich gets Personal
Jul 24, 2025

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Ever wondered who pays for your kid's braces after divorce? Or whether your ex can claim half your frequent flyer miles? The Divorce Rich Podcast tackles these questions head-on in our exciting new "Divorce Rich Mailbag" segment.Host Jacki Roessler, CDFA, a veteran Certified Divorce Financial Analyst  introduces her son Kevyn as co-host for this listener-driven Q&A feature that will close every episode moving forward. Together, they dive into the financial questions that keep divorcees up at night, offering straightforward answers with a touch of warmth and occasional humor.

Ready t...

Duration: 00:21:15
The Money Moves That Can Make or Break You — Jacki on Journey Beyond Divorce
Jul 17, 2025

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Taking control of your financial future after divorce isn't just important—it's urgent. When that settlement ink dries, most people want to close the book and move on, but that's exactly when crucial financial decisions need attention. What happens in those first weeks and months can dramatically impact your long-term security.

In my conversation with Karen McMahon on her Journey Beyond Divorce podcast, we dive deep into the post-divorce money moves that absolutely cannot wait. From creating a strategic calendar of settlement-related dates to making immediate decisions about retirement accounts, we br...

Duration: 00:43:27
Sweat Equity: Securing RSUs and Company Stock in Divorce
Jul 08, 2025

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Ever wonder if your tech executive spouse has compensation you don't fully understand? You're not alone. The modern divorce landscape has become increasingly complex as companies shift away from straightforward salaries toward sophisticated equity-based compensation packages.

In this essential episode, I tackle one of divorce's most misunderstood financial topics: non-standard compensation. I break down the mysterious world of RSUs (Restricted Stock Units), PSUs (Performance Stock Units), deferred compensation, and various bonus structures that often make up significant portions of total income in tech, finance, and corporate settings.

Through clear...

Duration: 00:17:14
The Right Attorney Can Change EVERYTHING-How to Choose Yours with Family Law Attorney Kelsey Minor
Jun 19, 2025

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Choosing the right divorce attorney is the most crucial decision you can make during this life transition, with geographic expertise and family law specialization being top priorities. Managing partner Kelsey Minor from DAWN (Divorce Attorneys for Women's Needs) shares her insights on finding representation that provides both legal expertise and emotional support.

• Hire an attorney experienced in your specific county as local court procedures vary significantly between judges
• Look for family law specialists who understand both legal complexities and emotional dynamics
• Good attorneys provide clear process timelines and connect you wi...

Duration: 00:28:34
Whose Career Is It Anyway? Divorce and Professional Assets
Jun 05, 2025

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Forgotten assets can cost you thousands in your divorce settlement. While houses and retirement accounts get plenty of attention, your spouse's career—that law degree you helped them earn, the executive position you moved cities for, or the tenure track you supported them through—often gets overlooked completely.

Career assets represent significant value that you helped build during your marriage. From company cars and expense accounts to health insurance benefits, advanced degrees, stock options, and performance-based compensation, these benefits directly impact your spouse's financial position after divorce. Even unvested benefits deserve cons...

Duration: 00:12:16
Mediation, Divorce (and Marriage) with Attorney, Xavier Prather
May 29, 2025

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When most people think of divorce, they picture contentious courtroom battles and emotional warfare. But what if there's a better way? Family law attorney and certified domestic relations mediator Xavier Prather reveals how mediation offers couples a path to resolution that  saves money, and creates better outcomes for everyone involved.

Xavier brings an unexpected background to his mediation practice. As the historic winner of Big Brother Season 23—the first Black winner in the show's two-decade history—he developed remarkable skills for helping people in conflict communicate effectively. "In the Big Brother house...

Duration: 00:31:40
Divorce Rich Snack: Decoding Payroll Stubs: Your Divorce Money Detective Guide
May 22, 2025

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Understanding payroll stubs is a crucial yet often overlooked skill during divorce proceedings. Jacki breaks down how to read both your and your spouse's payroll documentation to ensure you're getting accurate financial information for support calculations and settlements.

• Difference between gross pay (what's earned before deductions) and net pay (what's deposited in your account)
• Federal and state tax withholdings and how to spot potential overwithholding
• Understanding Social Security withholding caps and their impact on paychecks throughout the year
• Health insurance, 401(k) and other deductions that affect net pay
• Ho...

Duration: 00:12:39
From Pay Cuts to Job Changes: Adjusting Child Support with Attorney Jorin Rubin
May 15, 2025

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The economic landscape is shifting. With potential downturns and job insecurity looming, knowing exactly when and how to modify child support becomes more than just useful information—it's financial protection.  This candid conversation with family law attorney Jorin Rubin of https://rubinframpton.com/jorin-g-rubin/ reveals the hidden mechanisms behind child support modifications that every divorced or separating parent should understand.

What makes this discussion particularly valuable is the exploration of complex scenarios rarely addressed in standard divorce guidance. For self-employed parents, those standard business deductions that keep the IRS satisfied won't shi...

Duration: 00:26:47
Your Post-Divorce Paycheck: Creating Tax-Efficient Income in Retirement with Nick Defenthaler, CFP®, RIPC®
Apr 17, 2025

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Facing the financial complexities of divorce in your 50s or 60s? The retirement planning decisions you make now could save you tens of thousands in taxes down the road.

Jacki Roessler welcomes financial planning expert Nick Defenthaler to unpack the crucial yet often overlooked retirement account strategies that can transform your financial future after divorce. Nick breaks down the fundamental differences between traditional and Roth IRAs with crystal clarity, revealing why understanding these distinctions matters tremendously when dividing assets in a divorce settlement.

Nick shares practical wisdom about creating...

Duration: 00:33:37
Divorce in a Downturn: Stock Market Fears with Wealth Advisor, Melissa Fradenburg
Apr 10, 2025

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When market volatility collides with divorce proceedings, the resulting anxiety can feel overwhelming. But what if this turbulence actually presents unexpected opportunities? Jacki Roessler and wealth advisor Melissa Fradenburg cut through the political noise surrounding recent tariffs to deliver actionable financial wisdom for those navigating divorce during uncertain economic times.

This eye-opening conversation tackles the psychological barriers that prevent smart financial decision-making. While most of us hunt for sales when shopping for clothes or furniture, we panic when investments go "on sale" during market dips. 

During divorce, when emotions a...

Duration: 00:33:53
The Marital Home in Divorce: Experts Weigh In: Sell, Split, Buy-Out?
Apr 03, 2025

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The marital home represents far more than bricks and mortar during divorce—it embodies memories, stability, and often the largest financial asset couples must address. This insightful roundtable discussion brings together key experts who should be involved in these critical decisions: family law attorney Max Emmer, mortgage specialist Leeanne McKeon (a Certified Divorce Lending Professional), real estate expert Jodi Douglas, and host Jacki Roessler (a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst).

Most eye-opening are the experts' warnings about poorly crafted divorce decree language,  unrealistic refinancing deadlines, improper quitclaim deed timing, and failure to ver...

Duration: 00:36:34
Surprising Divorce Tax Hacks
Mar 18, 2025

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Tax season brings anxiety for many, but for those navigating divorce, it also presents unique opportunities to protect your financial future. Despite the complexity, understanding a few key tax concepts can literally put thousands of dollars back in your pocket during this challenging life transition.

Tax literacy remains shockingly low among Americans—only 2% demonstrate proficient knowledge according to recent studies. Yet as this episode reveals, even basic tax understanding becomes a powerful tool during divorce negotiations. For example, the difference between filing as "single" versus "head of household" isn't just paperwork; it...

Duration: 00:18:33
Starting Fresh after Divorce with Author, Barb Greenberg
Feb 20, 2025

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Discover how Barb Greenberg transformed the heartbreak of a 33-year marriage ending into a powerful movement of hope and empowerment for women navigating the aftermath of divorce. This episode features Barb's extraordinary journey from personal turmoil to founding "Rediscovering U," an inspiring company that offers educational resources and a community of connection. Listeners will hear about the transformative impact of workshops and monthly gatherings that Barb hosts, where women share their experiences, gain confidence, and find solace in the collective strength of others who understand their path.

We'll also highlight the...

Duration: 00:15:56
Ready, Set, GO! Post-Divorce Gameplan: Divorce Rich SNACKS
Feb 13, 2025

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Have you ever wondered how to navigate the maze of post-divorce financial tasks without losing your sanity? This episode promises to equip you with essential tools and strategies, transforming a challenging process into a manageable one. From mastering the art of organization with a downloadable worksheet to celebrating your progress with well-deserved rewards, Jacki ensures you're not just surviving but thriving after divorce.

This episode is packed with quick, practical advice designed to guide you through the first crucial year after a divorce. Learn the importance of updating your beneficiary designations...

Duration: 00:23:00
Divide and Conquer! Organize Your Life Through Divorce with Lani Moore
Feb 06, 2025

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Discover the transformative power of organization during life's most challenging transitions with our special guest, professional organizer, Lani Moore. Having made a remarkable shift from the world of supply chain to become a professional organizer, Lani opens up about her personal journey through divorce. She shares how structured organization can provide both a therapeutic outlet and a sense of control amidst chaos. From managing the overwhelming piles of paperwork to gracefully dividing personal property, Lani offers invaluable insights for anyone navigating the turbulent waters of divorce.

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Duration: 00:32:41
Bossing the QDRO Process-Divorce Rich SNACKS
Jan 30, 2025

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Ever wondered how quickly you should act on a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) to claim your rightful share of an ex-spouse's retirement assets? We take a quick dive  into the QDRO process in this "snack" episode, offering you practical advice on gathering essential documents, choosing the right QDRO preparer, and ensuring that all parties cooperate to avoid unnecessary delays. With expert insights, I emphasize the importance of keeping the lines of communication open and navigating this complex process with urgency and precision.

Time is of the essence, and understanding the c...

Duration: 00:14:16
Financial Wisdom for Divorce: Mastering 401(k)s and IRAs with Kali Hassinger, CFP
Jan 23, 2025

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Unlock the secrets of managing your financial future amidst the challenges of divorce with our latest episode featuring certified financial planner Kali Hassinger, CFP®, CSRIC® from the Center for Financial Planning. We dive into the world of defined contribution plans like 401(k)s and IRAs, revealing the tax advantages they offer and how they can lower taxable income while boosting long-term savings. Callie's expertise sheds light on the complex rules surrounding 401(k) withdrawals, loans, and vesting schedules, providing clarity on these crucial financial tools during a divorce.

With practical advice and an...

Duration: 00:41:01
Death after Divorce; Are You Prepared? with Karen Schultz Tarnopol
Jan 08, 2025

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Unlock the secrets to regaining financial control after divorce with insights from our special guest, Karen Schultz-Tarnopol, the mastermind behind Heirloom Consulting. Karen offers her wisdom on the often neglected yet vital realm of estate planning and legacy management, shedding light on the intense responsibilities a trustee carries and the sometimes staggering 500 hours it can take to settle an estate. This episode is a treasure trove of advice for single individuals aged 40 to 65, who strive to protect their children and secure their financial future post-divorce. We promise a deep dive into the complexities...

Duration: 00:23:40
Plant-Based Eating: Re-set your Body (and Budget) after Divorce with author and nutritionist, Kathryn J. Pollard, MS
Dec 26, 2024

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Discover how a plate full of plants can give your body, mind and wallet the re-set it needs after divorce with my guest, Kathryn Pollard, MS, a celebrated author and nutritionist. Kathryn's award-winning book "Eating Does It" serves as our guide, offering a roadmap to reclaim health and wellness through nutrition. We dig into groundbreaking research by Dr. T. Colin Campbell shedding light on how whole food, plant-based diets can lead to improved health and prevent disease. This episode is a deep dive into how dietary changes can help you regain control over...

Duration: 00:31:08
Investment Literacy 101 (and why it matters in divorce)
Dec 12, 2024

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Have you ever said, "I'm bad with money"? How about "My spouse understands finances and I just don't-it's a weak area for me"?  If you answered yes to either of the above, this episode is a must-listen! Financial and investment literacy has nothing to do with intelligence and everything to do with exposure and education. 
Divorcing individuals need a basic understanding of finances to make good decisions about which investments to take in a divorce settlement as well as how to manage them effectively for their future financial security. 

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Duration: 00:33:20
The BEST Way to Divide Pensions in Divorce: One Canoe or Two?
Nov 15, 2024

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Unlock one of the big secrets to dividing pensions in divorce with Jacki Roessler on the Divorce Rich Podcast. Ever wondered how a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) could impact your financial future? This episode promises to simplify the complexities of pension plans, especially for those in Michigan's automotive industry, where pensions are a cornerstone of retirement.

One Canoe or Two? Imagine your retirement pension income as a river, which can be navigated with either one or two canoes. Your QDRO divides the pension  using one of t...

Duration: 00:30:28
Scaring Away Bad Credit Scores and Debt after Divorce
Oct 31, 2024

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Can truly understanding your credit alter your financial future after divorce? Prepare to uncover strategies that could reshape your financial landscape.  In this episode, Jacki will  guide you through the complexities of maintaining and improving your credit score during and after divorce. This episode of the Divorce Rich Podcast will explain why your credit score is more important than ever, especially in securing loans, mortgages, and even job opportunities.  If you want financial freedom after your divorce, you need good credit. We'll discuss practical tactics for credit monitoring using tools like Credit Karma, all...

Duration: 00:27:09
From Abuse to Empowered Divorce Settlements with Divorce Coach Beverly Price
Oct 17, 2024

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How do survivors of domestic violence navigate the treacherous waters of divorce without being re-traumatized? On this episode of the Divorce Rich Podcast, we're joined by Beverly Price, the formidable CEO of the Divorce Coalition and founder of Her Empowered Divorce, to unravel the complexities of divorcing an abusive partner. Together, we break down the crucial elements required for survivors to advocate for themselves effectively. Beverly sheds light on the harsh realities of re-traumatization and emphasizes the critical role of finding attorneys skilled in handling such sensitive cases. We also uncover the immense...

Duration: 00:24:08
Investing Myths Busted, with Melissa Fradenburg, Wealth Advisor
Oct 03, 2024

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Can investing outside of a bank account or CD be safe for those navigating a divorce? Tune in as we shatter the myth of high investment risk with my special guest, Melissa Fradenburg, CDFA, AIF,  a seasoned wealth advisor with Antonelli Financial in Grosse Pointe, Michigan.  Together, we unpack the essential strategies for maintaining your purchasing power and combating inflation through long-term investments. Learn how balancing financial safety with diversified investments can set you on the path to financial security. Let Melissa's practical advice guide you through this transformative period, ensuring your financial de...

Duration: 00:27:10
Maximizing Divorce Benefits with an Expert from Social Security
Sep 19, 2024

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Discover how to navigate the maze of Social Security benefits and divorce with insights from Vonda Van Til, former Public Affairs Specialist for the Social Security Administration in Michigan. Learn the essential requirements for a former spouse to collect benefits, such as the marriage needing to last at least 10 years and both parties being at least 62 years old. Understand how you can file for benefits based on the highest amount from any qualifying former spouse, even if you've had multiple marriages. Vonda also explains key exceptions and provides tips for financial planning post-divorce...

Duration: 00:17:50
Divorce after 50; The Finances of "Gray Divorce" with Sandy Adams
Sep 05, 2024

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Unlock crucial insights into the growing phenomenon of gray divorce with our latest episode featuring Sandy Adams from the Center for Financial Planning. We'll unravel the complexities older adults face when contemplating a late-in-life divorce. From understanding the significance of healthcare insurance and Medicare eligibility to the intricacies of timing retirement benefits, Sandy shares indispensable advice that can shape a financially secure future. We dive into the nuances of Social Security, clarifying the difference between Medicare and Social Security benefits, and discussing options for reconsidering Social Security elections under specific conditions.

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Duration: 00:26:27
Prenup Lessons from J.Lo and Ben with Family Law Attorney, Max Emmer
Aug 22, 2024

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In this mini-episode, host and certified divorce financial analyst, Jacki Roessler, CDFA invites family law attorney, Max Emmer to dissect the recent buzz around high-profile divorces, such as Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck, and discuss the surprising fact that they lacked a prenup. The discussion goes beyond the celebrity world, offering practical advice for everyday people contemplating marriage. If you're thinking about tying the knot and want to make informed financial decisions, this episode is a must-listen!

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Duration: 00:14:11
Financial Infidelity with Divorce Attorney Amy Byer
Aug 05, 2024

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Grab some coffee and listen in as Jacki sits down with family law attorney, Amy Byer for a candid and frank conversation about the importance of financial transparency in romantic relationships. Discover how financial infidelity—often as damaging as adultery—can erode trust and stability within a partnership. We'll break down why financial honesty is essential and how hidden debts and poor money management can lead to significant consequences, particularly for women who may be unprepared for financial realities.
 
Learn why financial issues and infidelity are leading causes of divorce and how r...

Duration: 00:30:22
Divorce Detox: Self-Care Strategies from the "Hardcore Therapist" Sarah Kuretzky-Rossington
Jul 25, 2024

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"I can't sleep!" "I'm too stressed to think about exercise!" "I have no appetite." Sound familiar? If you're dealing with divorce and find yourself saying any of the above, you're not alone! You need to give your body a divorce detox!

Unlock the secrets to maintaining your mental and physical well-being during one of life's most challenging transitions: divorce. In this episode, Jacki is joined by the "Hardcore Therapist", Sarah Kuretzky-Rossington. Sarah is a mental health professional with a fascinating blend of expertise in functional medicine, holistic health coaching, personal training...

Duration: 00:28:19
Separate vs. Marital Property with Divorce Attorney Alisa Peskin-Shepherd
Jul 11, 2024

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Dividing property during a divorce can be a contentious topic for many couples. Today our guest is Family Law Attorney and Mediator Alisa Peskin-Shepherd. Alisa specializes in looking at what is presented to her as well as what is possible while practicing family law and conflict resolution. She will share her best practices for those navigating property issues during divorce. 

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Find more information on  Alisa Peskin-Shepherd, click HERE.To schedule an intro Zoom or phone call with Jacki, CLICK HERE

 

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Duration: 00:33:31
A House Divided: Your Home and Divorce
Jun 27, 2024

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What happens to the family home after a divorce? In this episode, Jacki Roessler unravels one of the toughest financial decisions you're likely to face during a divorce. We explore whether to sell the home and split the proceeds, or if one spouse should buy out the other's interest. With a focus on financial clarity, Jackie guides you through the emotional and financial pros and cons of each option, emphasizing the importance of gathering the necessary financial information to make this crucial decision.

We also tackle the often-overlooked complexity of retaining...

Duration: 00:19:01
Uncovering Financial Abuse in Relationships with Stacey Francis
Jun 13, 2024

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Ever wondered how financial abuse can manifest in relationships and what red flags to watch for? Join us on the Divorce Rich Podcast as we uncover these crucial insights with our guest, Stacey Francis, a financial advisor and CEO of Francis Financial. Stacey shares her deeply personal connection to this topic, inspired by her grandmother's harrowing experiences. Together, we expose the subtle and overt tactics abusers use to control their partners financially, such as restricting access to money and incurring debt in their name. Stacey's practical advice offers hope and steps for those...

Duration: 00:23:34
Is your Divorce Lawyer the Right Fit? with Max Emmer, Esq.
May 30, 2024

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Find the perfect divorce attorney for your unique situation with insights from our esteemed guest, attorney Max Emmer. Together, we emphasize the importance of hiring a lawyer with extensive experience in family law and caution against those who offer unrealistic guarantees. Discover the value of establishing a good rapport with your attorney and why interviewing multiple lawyers can make all the difference in your divorce process.

Explore various alternatives to traditional courtroom battles. Max and I discuss collaborative divorce, limited scope work, and pre-suit negotiation, highlighting their efficiency and cost-effectiveness. We...

Duration: 00:25:45
I'm Divorced, Now What? with Financial Advisor, Melissa Fradenburg
May 16, 2024

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Join Jacki and her guest, financial advisor Melissa Fradenburg to  tackle the crucial steps to regain your financial footing after divorce. This episode isn't just about crunching numbers; it's about crafting a future paved with financial clarity and independence.

Transparency is the cornerstone of any relationship, especially the one with your financial advisor. We peel back the curtain on the compensation models of advisors, emphasizing the need for a crystal-clear understanding of fees. Plus, we underscore the importance of asking the right questions to ensure your advisor is in your corner, r...

Duration: 00:33:31
Best Apps of 2024 for Divorced and Divorcing Spouses
Apr 25, 2024

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Listen in to this "legacy" episode as Jacki shares her favorite apps of 2024 for divorced and divorcing couples. Do you have your favorites? Send Jacki an email at jacqueline@roesslerdivorce.com to share your faves!

https://www.ourfamilywizard.com/ Click here for information on the co-parenting app, Our Family WizardYou'll love Credit Karma, an app to help you keep your credit score at the top of your mind when making financial decisions. https://www.creditkarma.com/Ready to really take control of your financial future? PocketGuard will help you start your journey...

Duration: 00:11:26
A QDRO "Horror Story" with former client, Brooke
Apr 04, 2024

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Have you ever wondered how long it might take to get your money from a QDRO after your divorce is final?

This episode is not just about the dry legalities of divorce; it's a first-hand account of the emotional rollercoaster that can accompany the division of assets. As Brooke narrates the impact on her finances of QDRO processing delays,  you'll understand the weight of patience and self-advocacy, 

 Her personal experiences emphasize the mental fortitude necessary to claim one's fair share and the proactive strategies required to safeguard your financial wel...

Duration: 00:24:36
Post Divorce Estate Planning with Attorney Kristen Gross
Mar 21, 2024

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Unlock the secrets to fortifying your financial future post-divorce with the invaluable advice from estate and trust attorney Kristen Gross. 

Diving into the complexities of post-divorce financial entanglement, our conversation navigates the necessity of severing fiscal connections with your former spouse. Learn how to avoid the common pitfalls that can lead to probate puzzles and unintended involvement from an ex in your financial legacy. Kristen and I dissect the strategic use of trusts and careful guardian selection, offering insights into maintaining control over your wealth and the future of your children. W...

Duration: 00:36:17
Co-Parenting Success with Jordana Wolfson
Mar 12, 2024

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Discover the blueprint to successful co-parenting with Jordana Wolfson, the co-founder of Co-Parenting Solutions LLC. With Jordana's rich background in social work paired with her personal journey as a child and parent of divorce, we unravel the complexities of crafting parenting plans that put children's needs at the forefront. Our enlightening discussion underscores the importance of maintaining normalcy for children post-divorce, particularly through their extracurricular activities, and presents the parenting plan as the cornerstone of amicable co-parenting relationships.

 Remember to follow Divorce Rich for more empowering discussions that shed light on t...

Duration: 00:32:46
A Candid Conversation with Jacki and a Former Divorce Client
Mar 10, 2024

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Divorce is overwhelming and feels like a whirlwind while you're in it. Who better to give advice about what worked for them (and what didn't) than someone whose divorce is firmly in the rearview mirror?  In this candid episode, Jacki interviews one of her former clients to discuss the importance of having the right attorney, working with a financial advisor during the divorce, finding support and much more! Get the inside scoop!

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Click here to book a complimentary 30-Minute consultation with Jacki https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/let-s-tape-our-podcast-episodeDownload Jacki's post-divorce C...

Duration: 00:26:18
QDRO Time Bombs with Expert Dave Roessler
Mar 10, 2024

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When the divorce is final, no one wants to think about filling out more paperwork and paying additional fees.  But what if your former spouse dies, remarries or retires before the QDRO is entered? What if the market takes a nose-dive in the interim? In this episwode, Jacki and her guest, Dave Roessler, owner of Divorce Solutions (a QDRO preparation firm in Michigan) have a conversation about why getting the QDRO started quickly should be your top priority when the divorce is final. 

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Duration: 00:17:26
How Does Spousal Support Work with Attorney Jorin Rubin?
Mar 09, 2024

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Jacki's guest, family law attorney Jorin Rubin provides invaluable advice for those divorcing in Michigan. Since opening her own office in 2002, she has focused much of her practice on divorce, child custody and spousal support matters, in addition to criminal defense.  An aggressive litigator in both civil and criminal matters, Jorin knows when a fair and reasonable agreement has been reached and when to engage in litigation “warfare.”  Tune in to hear her best tips!

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Click here to learn more about Jorin https://rubinframpton.com/jorin-g-rubin/Click here to book a...

Duration: 00:23:54
Understanding your Budget and Divorce with Jacki Roessler, CDFA
Mar 02, 2024

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Join Jacki Roessler, CDFA in this keystone episode about the importance of creating a current and post-divorce anticipated budget.  Although often forgotten or overlooked,  getting on paper what you spend every month is a powerful tool that helps clients make decisions. It's one thing to say you want to keep the house and another to put that idea into concrete numbers.

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Click here to download Jacki's budget worksheetClick here to book a complimentary 30-minute Zoom meeting with Jacki to review your budget! https://calendly.com/roessler-jacki/30min


Duration: 00:10:21