DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

💔 Divorce can feel like the end of everything, but it doesn’t have to be. In this powerful episode of the “Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast,” host David Marcus Webb sits down with Jody Bruns, founder of the Divorce Lending Association and a pioneer in divorce mortgage planning. With over 35 years of experience in finance and real estate, Jody has helped thousands of professionals and families navigate the complexities of divorce with clarity, strategy, and compassion. 🚀

Jody’s personal journey through divorce inspired her mission to educate others, create innovative solutions, and empower families to make smart fi...

Are you a man over 40 struggling to rebuild your life after divorce? You’re not alone. In this episode of Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, host David sits down with Sabrina Trobak, a registered clinical counselor and author of Not Good Enough: Understanding Your Core Belief in Anxiety, to explore the raw truths about mental health, trauma, and healing after divorce.

Sabrina, with over 20 years of experience in counseling and psychology, shares her expert advice on the core beliefs that often leave men feeling “not good enough” after a breakup. 💔 She dives into how suppressed emotions, negative co...

Feeling stuck after divorce? You're not alone. In this episode of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast," host David Webb welcomes Dr. Hana Kabela-Gala, a business professor turned transformational neuro coach, to discuss practical strategies for men over 40 to regain confidence, let go of guilt, and reset their lives.

Dr. Hana specializes in helping high achievers break free from limiting beliefs, overthinking, and mental gridlock using her groundbreaking Rapid Transformational Neuro Coaching (RTNC) method. Through a powerful combination of neuroscience, hypnosis, and mindset hacks, she helps men overcome the emotional chaos...

Are you a man over 40 struggling to recover after a divorce? You're not alone, and this episode of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" is here to guide you through the challenges and opportunities of post-divorce life. 🌟💔

In this episode, David sits down with the inspiring Elizabeth Jane, a transformative speaker, author, and healer, who shares her personal journey of self-discovery after a 25-year marriage ended abruptly. From her profound experiences in an Indian ashram to the tools she developed in her book, "Free and First: Unlocking Your Ultimate Life", Elizabeth offers a roadmap for healin...

💔 Divorce is one of life's toughest challenges, especially for men over 40. On this episode of the "Don’t Pick the Scab" podcast, David sits down with filmmaker, producer, and storyteller John Wayne S. III, who shares his deeply personal journey of rebuilding his life after divorce. From navigating co-parenting struggles to rediscovering his own identity, John’s story is raw, real, and relatable for any man trying to find his footing again.

🎥 With over 20 years of experience in filmmaking, John opens up about how his creativity was stifled during the divorce pr...

Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we tackle the raw and real challenges faced by men over 40 navigating life after divorce. Hosted by David, this episode dives deep into healing, masculinity, and rediscovering your identity with poet, philosopher, and advocate Augustus Vaughn.

📚 What You'll Learn in This Episode:

✅ What is Stoicism? Discover how the ancient philosophy of self-control can transform your emotional recovery.

✅ Why Men Struggle Post-Divorce: The societal programming that undermines masculinity—and how to break free...

Welcome back to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ In this enlightening episode, I have the privilege of welcoming Michele Locke, a distinguished family law attorney with over two decades of experience and a personal journey through divorce. Michele's unique perspective stems not only from her professional expertise but also from her lived experiences, making her insights invaluable for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce later in life.

Divorce can be an overwhelming experience, especially for men over 40 who often face unique challenges. Michele emphasizes the importance of understanding the emoti...

Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ In this transformational episode, host David sits down with Jeff Kolez, a tech professional turned divorce coach for fathers, who shares his powerful story of transformation. Jeff’s mission is simple yet profound: to help men rebuild their lives after divorce, reclaim their power, and create a meaningful future. 💪

Jeff opens up about his personal journey, including his struggles to master himself after divorce forced him to confront his pain. He shares how he went from giving away his energy to his ex to finally taki...

Are you a man over 40 navigating the challenges of life after divorce? 💔 You’re not alone. In this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David sits down with Michael Tierno, a transformational guide and co-founder of Heart Sanctuary, to explore how expanded states of consciousness can help you heal, grow, and rebuild your life. 🌟

Michael shares his journey from being a staunch rational materialist to embracing spirituality and the profound power of the divine masculine and feminine energies. 🙏 Discover how his experiences with Ayahuasca and other transformative practices helped him reconnect w...

🎙️ Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab" Podcast, hosted by David. Today’s episode features an unforgettable conversation with Alan Salas, a man whose journey redefines resilience, reinvention, and purpose. Alan's life is a testament to the power of transformation, and his story will leave you inspired to take control of your own life.

Alan’s incredible journey began on the open seas, living on a sailboat while managing a thriving boat rental business in the South of France. Seeking deeper meaning, he sold everything, moved to the U.S., and pursued his dream of becomi...

Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ I'm your host, David, and today we have an enlightening conversation with Ives T. Mukanya, a remarkable mental health counselor and transformational coach. Originally from the Democratic Republic of Congo, Ive brings a wealth of experience from the pharmaceutical industry and a deep commitment to helping men navigate the emotional challenges that often accompany divorce.

In this episode, we delve into the often-overlooked struggles that men face after divorce, including stress, depression, and low self-esteem. 💔 Many men suffer in silence, internalizing their pain ins...

💬 Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab" Podcast, where host David helps men over 40 heal, thrive, and conquer life after divorce! In this episode, we're joined by financial expert Steve Schleupner, a seasoned planner with over 20 years of experience specializing in divorce transitions. 💼

Steve dives deep into the unique challenges men face when managing their finances post-divorce, from housing transitions to understanding retirement accounts and tax implications. He shares actionable advice to help you navigate the storm and rebuild your wealth with clarity and confidence. 🌟

💡 Topics we cover in this episode:

The #1 financial mistake men...

In this heartfelt episode of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast," David interviews Shawn Richardson, a fitness trainer, audiobook narrator, and former Ninja Warrior finalist, about his journey through resilience, healing, and self-improvement. The podcast starts with a different flavor - the importance of flossing your teeth.  Really?  But eventually, Shawn shares his experiences with overcoming the challenges of divorce, including coping with depression, rebuilding his life after a house fire, and navigating the complexities of fatherhood. He emphasizes the importance of discipline, humor, and faith while discussing his fitness philosophy, therapeutic endeavors, and the role forgiveness plays in pe...

Welcome back to the 'Don't Pick the Scab Podcast,' where we delve deep into the emotional journey of divorce recovery for men over 40. In our latest episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with Suzan Peltikian, a passionate peak performance coach and global speaker. Suzan is dedicated to helping individuals transform their mindsets and manifest their dreams—a truly positive force for change.

In our conversation, we explored several key topics including the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of self-care during recovery, and what true healing looks like for men navigating life after di...

In Episode #88 of Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David welcomes guest Jack Kammer, a seasoned advocate for male gender issues with over 40 years of experience. Together, they tackle the complex landscape of divorce recovery, fatherhood, and co-parenting for men over 40. Jack shares his unique perspective as a social worker and former Executive Director of the National Congress for Men, shedding light on the societal pressures and evolving roles of fathers in the aftermath of divorce. Despite not being a father himself, Jack passionately discusses the importance of fatherhood and the societal challenges men face, such as the stigma...

In this insightful episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, host David interviews Victor Giusfredi—a certified life and wellness coach with over 20 years of experience in mindset and behavioral psychology. Victor, also an internationally certified neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) practitioner, shares his transformative journey from emotional struggles to becoming an expert in sustainable change. As the author of No Grail Without Dragons and the upcoming Marriage by Design, Victor dives deep into the challenges men face during divorce recovery and personal growth. 

During the conversation, Victor explores the subconscious patterns of men deali...

The podcast episode from Don't Pick the Scab Podcast hosted by David M. Webb features guest Michael Read, a men's coach specializing in healthy masculinity, mental health, and co-parenting. The discussion centers on helping men over 40 recover from divorce, navigate co-parenting challenges, and embrace healthier masculinity. Michael shares insights from his personal journey, including his exploration of attachment theory and the patterns that shape relationships. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, emotional regulation, and building supportive male communities.

The conversation also delves into the psychological impact of being a second-generation divorcee, the challenges of co-parenting without effective...

In this episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab podcast, I interview Rabbi Avi Kahan, a seasoned mediator, judge, and expert in conflict resolution, who shares deep insights into divorce recovery for men over 40. Avi’s unique perspective stems from his 15 years of experience with matrimonial disputes and his background in both religious and civil mediation. He emphasizes that divorce is not merely an end but an opportunity for immense personal growth and healing.

Avi introduces the concept of transitioning from "needing" a divorce to "wanting" one, explaining that the latter comes from a place of s...

In this episode of the "Don't The Scab Podcast”, host David connects with Jon Emery, a single father of two who transformed his life after divorce and job loss. Jon shares his inspiring journey of resilience and self-discovery, offering valuable insights for men over 40 navigating similar challenges. After losing his job of 20 years and going through a painful divorce, Jon chose to rebuild his life by focusing on personal growth, community, and eventually launching a successful podcast.

Jon credits podcasting as a transformative tool, which not only helped him process his emotions but also allowed him to co...

In this episode of the podcast, David interviews Dr. Bernadette Atanga, a physician and mental health expert with a focus on empowering men through life’s challenges, particularly conflict. Dr. Bernadette shares her extensive experience working with men globally and discusses the unique struggles they face due to societal expectations of emotional suppression. She highlights the importance of mental health in physical well-being, explaining how unresolved emotions often manifest in physical ailments. The conversation delves into the cultural norms surrounding masculinity, the lack of support systems for men, and the need for a men's empowerment movement.

Dr...

On this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David interviews Daryl Tanner, a counselor, author, and lay minister from San Antonio, Texas. Daryl shares key insights from his book, Great Expectations Today, which offers practical advice for men healing after divorce. Drawing from his personal experiences and decades of work in Christian counseling, Daryl discusses how men can overcome anger, rebuild self-confidence, and find purpose following divorce. He emphasizes faith, forgiveness, and gratitude as essential components of personal growth.

Daryl explains that many men struggle with feelings of failure, anger, and...

In this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David interviews Dr. Benjamin Ritter, a leadership and career coach with over a decade of experience working with top companies like Amazon, Google, and Pinterest. Dr. Ritter specializes in helping individuals align their values with their careers and navigate life transitions, such as divorce or job loss. The conversation focuses on the parallels between losing a job and going through a divorce, both of which can leave individuals feeling stuck, lost, and disconnected. Dr. Ritter emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, self-care, and intentional living to overcome these challenges.<...

This podcast episode from Don’t Pick The Scab features Mac Pierre-Louis, an attorney and mediator specializing in co-parenting and conflict resolution. Mac, who practices law in Texas and Florida, shares insights from his work helping parents mediate disputes and resolve custody issues amicably. He emphasizes the importance of avoiding court battles by seeking agreements that prioritize the child’s best interests over financial or personal disputes. Mac explains legal processes like modifications, where court orders can be revisited if circumstances change, and highlights how children’s voices are factored into custody cases, particularly when they turn 12.

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The Don’t  Pick the Scab Podcast episode featuring Andra Davidson, a certified divorce coach and mediator, focuses on supporting divorced men over 40 as they navigate the emotional, social, and practical challenges of divorce. Drawing from her personal experience of divorcing after 20 years of marriage, Andra shares insights into overcoming feelings of overwhelm, rebuilding self-confidence, and co-parenting effectively. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, humor, and setting goals to help men recover and grow into the best version of themselves.

Andra introduces her "Better Than Before Divorce" program, which uses a strength-based approach to help clients ide...

Welcome to the “Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast,” where we help men over 40 recover from divorce with a mix of practical advice, humor, and heartfelt conversations. In this episode, David sits down with Markus Wolf, a health and fitness coach who works with men to rebuild their confidence, physical health, and mindset after divorce. Markus brings his unique perspective, blending personal experience, fitness expertise, and a no-nonsense approach to self-belief.

Markus Wolf is no stranger to challenges. From being a high school dropout to holding 25 jobs in five years, Markus...

In this lively and transformative episode of Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, I sit down with the one and only Dr. Robb Kelly, an expert in neuroscience, trauma recovery, addiction, and mental health. Dr. Robb brings his larger-than-life personality and incredible life story to the mic, sharing his journey from the depths of addiction, trauma, and homelessness to becoming a celebrated healer with a 98% success rate. With humor, vulnerability, and actionable advice, this episode is packed with wisdom for men over 40 navigating life after divorce.

Dr. Robb’s story is one of redemption, resilience, an...

Welcome to today’s episode of the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we focus on helping men rebuild their lives after divorce. In this episode, we’re joined by Michael Mendribil, a naturopathic doctor, functional medicine practitioner, and transformative coach. Michael’s journey is one of resilience, self-discovery, and healing, and he brings a wealth of knowledge and personal experience to the table. From navigating divorce himself to overcoming life’s toughest challenges, Michael has dedicated his career to helping others heal and thrive.

Michael shares his deeply personal story, including his experi...

In this episode of the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, host David dives into the challenges of divorce recovery for men over 40 with special guest Michelle Davies, an internationally acclaimed healer and author of Mental Clarity: Daily Habits to Clear Brain Fog and Improve Focus. Michelle shares her expertise in natural osteopathy and energy-based techniques, offering practical advice to help men regain mental clarity, reduce stress, and rebuild their lives after divorce. From understanding the gut-brain connection to adopting daily habits like proper hydration, sleep, and mindfulness, Michelle provides actionable strategies to combat brain fog and improve overall well-being...

In this insightful episode of the "Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast," David welcomes Dr. Larry Waldman, a seasoned clinical forensic psychologist with over 45 years of experience, to discuss divorce recovery for men over 40. Dr. Waldman draws from his extensive background in family law, mental health, and even yoga to provide practical advice for navigating the emotional, psychological, and logistical challenges of divorce. He shares wisdom from his books, including "Love Your Child More Than You Hate Your Ex" and "Silver Sex: Insights into Senior Sexuality," emphasizing the importance of self-reflection, healing, and prioritizing what truly matters post-divorce.

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In this podcast episode, host David interviews Jeff Luther, a former ultra-runner and CrossFit athlete, who shares his journey of resilience and recovery after a life-altering cardiac event and subsequent divorce. Jeff recounts his near-death experience in a CrossFit gym, where he suffered sudden cardiac death in front of his 16-year-old son, was revived with a defibrillator, and diagnosed with a rare heart condition, ARVC, which prohibits strenuous exercise. On top of this, Jeff faced the emotional toll of a divorce, leaving him in a dark place filled with bitterness and despair.

Jeff candidly...