Why Resolutions Don’t Stick

Every year, millions of people set New Year’s resolutions — and by mid-January, most of them feel frustrated, discouraged, or convinced they’ve failed. In this episode, Andrew and Cat break down why resolutions so often fall apart, why it’s not a personal flaw, and what actually works if you want real, lasting change.

This conversation is about releasing shame, understanding how your brain and nervous system work, and building habits that support who you’re becoming — not punishing yourself into change.

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Rejection can feel deeply personal — whether it’s not getting the job, not hearing back, being left out, or feeling unwanted in relationships. In this episode, Andrew and Cat unpack why rejection hurts so much, what’s actually happening in your brain when it happens, and how to move through it without letting it define your self-worth.

This conversation is for anyone who tends to replay rejection over and over, spiral into self-blame, or wonder what’s “wrong” with them after hearing no.

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Bad days happen to everyone — the spilled coffee, the rude driver, the overwhelming to-do list, the kid meltdown, or the spiraling thoughts that won’t quit. But a bad day doesn’t have to turn into a bad week or a bad season. In this episode, Andrew and Cat break down exactly what’s happening in your body and mind during a tough day and share practical, science-backed steps to interrupt the spiral and truly reset.

This is your guide to calming your nervous system, grounding in the present, and giving yourself the compassion you actually need.

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Christmas is often described as the most wonderful time of the year — but for many people, it’s one of the hardest. In this episode, Andrew and Cat talk honestly about holiday burnout, grief, pressure, and unrealistic expectations, and offer compassionate, practical ways to experience Christmas in a way that actually feels good for you.

This episode is especially for anyone who feels overwhelmed, disconnected, grieving, resentful, or simply “not into it” this year. You’re not broken — you’re human.

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You can be surrounded by people and still feel lonely — and that’s something almost everyone experiences. In this episode, Andrew and Cat unpack the difference between being alone and feeling lonely, explore where that emptiness comes from, and share practical, compassionate ways to rebuild connection — both with others and yourself.

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Do you ever wake up and think, “Is this it?” You’ve checked all the boxes — career, home, family — but something still feels flat. In this episode, Andrew and Cat unpack why life can suddenly feel boring even when everything looks good on paper. They share insights on midlife lulls, lost curiosity, and how to bring energy, novelty, and purpose back into your everyday routine.

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Everyone wants to be liked — but trying too hard can make the opposite happen. In this episode, Andrew and Cat unpack the psychology of likability and share practical, science-backed (and heart-backed) ways to connect more deeply with others. Whether you’re navigating work events, friendships, or dating, these tips will help you become the kind of person people remember — for all the right reasons.

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When was the last time you felt truly peaceful? In this episode, Andrew and Cat unpack what peace actually means — and how to protect it when life, family, work, and the holidays all compete for your calm. You’ll learn how to draw healthy boundaries, avoid people-pleasing, and keep your inner world steady even when the outer world isn’t.

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Personal growth is beautiful — until it’s not. In this episode, Andrew and Cat talk about the hidden fatigue that comes with healing, self-development, and “always improving.” They unpack why the messy middle is normal, why growth never really ends, and how to rest without guilt.

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Ever been told you’re “not fun” or “too serious”? Andrew and Cat unpack what fun actually means — and why chasing other people’s version of it leaves you drained. This episode helps you redefine fun on your own terms, whether that means karaoke nights or coloring budget charts.

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Feeling stuck, numb, or like the light went out? Andrew and Cat talk about rebuilding hope—without toxic positivity. You’ll learn why hope is a brain-and-body shift (not a mood), what quietly erodes it, and small, doable steps to feel a spark again.

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If you’ve ever rewritten a simple text 3x, “rescued” the dishwasher, or tried to schedule spontaneity… hi, friend. Andrew and Cat unpack why control feels so necessary (spoiler: anxiety + safety), the hidden costs on your body and relationships, and simple ways to loosen your grip without letting life fall apart.

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“Calm down” never calms anyone down. Andrew and Cat share practical, under-a-minute techniques from their Quick Calm Method—tools you can use at work, in traffic, or mid–dinner chaos to regulate your nervous system fast (without a 60-minute meditation).

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Joy isn’t only for big vacations and milestone days. Andrew and Cat share how to spot, savor, and create tiny moments of joy inside regular Tuesdays—using reframes, mini rituals, and presence.

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Overthinking feels productive—but it’s really a mental treadmill. Andrew and Cat share simple, science-backed ways to break rumination loops, calm anxiety, and take clear next steps.

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Arguments don’t need winners; they need resolution. Andrew and Cat share calm, practical ways to defuse conflict at home, with friends, and at work—so everyone feels seen, heard, and respected.

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Decision dread, analysis paralysis, and the fear of “messing it up” can keep you stuck on the couch while life moves on. In this episode, Andrew and Cat break down how to make choices with more ease, treat “wrong” choices as data, and shift from scarcity (“there’s only one right path”) to abundance (“there’s another bus coming”). Expect gentle reframes, fast decision tools, and permission to experiment.

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In this heart–forward episode, Andrew shares the shoulder injury that forced him to stop, sit still, and confront a lifelong belief that his worth equals his usefulness. Cat opens up about what it’s like to love a helper who suddenly needs help—and how “failing” often just means you’re in a season of healing, not a verdict on who you are.

Expect reframes, gentle tactics for the “I’m behind” spiral, and a reminder that asking for help is a gift you give other people, too.

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Ever feel like you're following a script you didn’t write? In this episode, Andrew and Catherine crack open the idea that many of the “rules” we live by—college, career, homeownership, timelines for success—are completely made up. Some rules serve a purpose (looking at you, traffic lights), but others just keep us stuck, stressed, or chasing lives that don’t fit who we are.

They talk candidly about the internal rules we adopt as children, the external expectations of adulthood, and how to start rewriting your story based on what you want—not what you were told you sh...

Making friends as a grown-up isn’t as easy as it used to be. In this vulnerable and practical episode, Andrew and Catherine talk candidly about their own struggles with adult friendship—and why it's harder than it looks. From mom-friend pickup lines at the park to feeling ghosted after a good conversation, they explore what makes friendships work, how to initiate without overthinking it, and why proximity and personality play such a big role.

If you’ve ever wondered “Is it just me?”—this one’s for you.

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We all get angry—but what do you do with it? In this candid episode, Andrew and Catherine explore the role of anger in our lives, especially when we’ve been taught to suppress it or feel shame for having it. They share deeply personal stories from childhood and parenting, unpack how anger manifests in the body, and offer practical tools for managing big emotions in healthy, non-destructive ways.

From recognizing your triggers to learning how to release built-up energy before it explodes, this conversation is full of useful takeaways for anyone who wants to handle anger with m...

In this episode of the Five Year You podcast, we dive into the framework we created called The Layers of Life. This model helps you understand the difference between living a life on autopilot and living a life on purpose—from your soul outward.

We’ll walk you through the five layers:

If you've ever felt like something’s missing—like you’re living from the outside in...

Feeling burnt out or constantly critical of yourself? In this episode, we explore how becoming your own best friend can radically transform your life, mindset, and self-worth. Learn how to talk to yourself with more compassion, set better boundaries, and build a life rooted in inner support—not just external validation.

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00:00 - Intro: A message to the burnt-out overachiever

02:14 - What does it mean to be your own best friend?

04:51 - The difference between self-care and self-respect

07:36 - Why high-achievers often struggle with self-compassion

12:05 - “If you wo...

We’ve all faced money stress — but what if solving financial problems could actually feel… empowering? In this episode, Andrew and Catherine share a simple 3-step framework to help you approach money issues without shame, panic, or overwhelm. Whether you're dealing with debt, budgeting challenges, or cash flow confusion, this episode will help you feel calm, clear, and ready to take action.

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In this episode of Five Year You, Andrew and Catherine unpack the five most important ingredients for real, lasting wealth. Spoiler: it's not just about money. From redefining what wealth truly means to managing cash flow and building meaningful relationships, this conversation blends personal growth with financial wisdom.

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– The difference between being rich and being truly wealthy

– Why contentment is the foundation of wealth

– How to define your version of success and stop chasing “more”

– The importance of managing your cash flow and creating margin

– A simple wa...

Feeling stuck financially? In this episode, Andrew and Catherine share a simple but powerful framework to help you get unstuck and solve your most pressing money problems. Whether you're facing debt, income challenges, or budgeting issues, this conversation will give you clarity, direction, and hope.

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– Why most money stress comes from overwhelm, not just income

– A 3-step framework to break down financial problems

– How to shift from panic to action

– Real-life stories and examples from people who’ve turned their finances around

– Practical mindset shifts that...

Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

If you've ever told yourself, “I'll feel better once I hit $100K... or when I finally save enough…” — this episode is for you.

Because the truth is, worthiness doesn’t come after you get wealthy.

It’s how you get there.

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Let’s talk about one of the most common (and unspoken) fears: money. Whether you're afraid of not having enough, messing it up, or not knowing where to start — this episode is your guide to facing those fears with clarity and confidence.

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In this episode of Five Year You, we’re talking about what it means to live in uncertain times—and how to stay calm, grounded, and intentional even when the world feels like it’s spinning. Andrew and Catherine share honest insights about fear, control, emotional overwhelm, and how to come back to yourself through small, powerful actions.

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– Why uncertainty is harder right now than it’s been in years

– How to take back control over your inner calm

– Simple ways to simplify when everything feels like too much

– Why...

Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

In this powerful starter episode, we strip self-improvement down to its roots: small, gentle changes. If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to begin your growth journey, this one's for you.

You don’t need a 5 a.m. cold plunge or a 90-minute gym routine to change your life.

You just need a first step — and this is it.

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Disappointment is part of being human — but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. In this episode, we unpack how to actually deal with the daily (and devastating) letdowns of life — without losing yourself or spiraling.

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Ever feel like you're stuck in a loop of “I’ll do it later”? You're not alone. In this episode, we unpack why procrastination isn’t a character flaw — it’s part of being human. And more importantly, we share real strategies (and deep compassion) to help you take that first step forward.

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Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

This episode isn’t about weight loss fads or rigid diet plans. It’s a real, raw look at how we changed our lives through self-worth, gut health, and intentional choices. We didn’t set out to lose weight — we set out to feel better. The 50-pound loss? That was just a powerful side effect.

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In this episode, Andrew and Catherine open up about what it really means to “not feel ready.” Whether it’s rollerblading again as an adult, starting a business, or making a major life change, the truth is: you may never feel fully ready—and that’s okay. This episode is here to help you take that first step anyway.

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Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

Feeling anxious about the world, your future, or just stuck in a funk? You’re not alone—and you’re not broken. In this heartening episode of Five Year You, Andrew and Catherine share how to reconnect with hope during uncertain times, using mindset shifts, body-based tools, and small acts of kindness that actually work.

Whether you’re struggling with job loss, burnout, or just the general heaviness of the news cycle, this episode offers realistic and uplifting ways to find hope—even when it feels out of reach.

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Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

Let’s talk about the real side of healing—the hard, messy, emotional parts that no one puts in a quote card. In this heartfelt episode, Andrew opens up about his return to EMDR therapy, and both hosts explore what it actually feels like to face emotional growth head-on.

Whether you're just beginning your healing journey or you're knee-deep in the “garbage removal” phase, this episode will remind you that you're not alone—and it’s okay to feel all the feelings.

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Hosts: Andrew Dewar & Catherine Collins

In this episode of Five Year You, we get real about failure, setbacks, and those moments when life just… derails. If you’ve ever asked, “Why is this happening to me?”—this conversation will help you reframe the tough moments and find meaning, strength, and even humor in the mess.

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In this episode, Andrew and Catherine dive into one of the most common challenges of modern life: time scarcity. They debunk the myth that "everyone has the same 24 hours" and offer practical strategies for reclaiming your day, without guilt or shame. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or just want to use your time more intentionally, this conversation blends mindset shifts with real-life hacks to help you create more freedom in your schedule.

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What does it actually take to grow into your best self—not just once, but every single day? In this episode, Andrew and Catherine break down the mindset, strategies, and small daily decisions that lead to ongoing self-improvement. They share hard-earned insights on how to enjoy the process of becoming, rather than chasing the elusive finish line of success. From their own lifestyle shifts to practical coaching tools, this episode is for anyone who wants to feel proud of their growth and find peace in the present.

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In this episode, Andrew and Catherine dive into the concept of "Courage Over Comfort." They explore how our brains are wired for survival, how our desire for comfort can sometimes hold us back, and how pushing through fear, even in small ways, can lead to personal growth. Whether it's making a difficult decision or simply getting through the day, courage is a key element in becoming the best version of yourself.

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In this episode, Andrew and Catherine explore the concept of detaching from outcomes and how this practice can lead to greater peace, trust, and curiosity in life. They discuss how our expectations can drive our reactions to life events, how to shift your mindset from controlling outcomes to embracing what unfolds, and why doing so can actually lead to more fulfilling experiences. Detaching from outcomes isn't easy, but it’s a powerful tool for growth and acceptance.

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In this episode, Andrew and Catherine discuss the transformative process of letting go and moving on from the things that no longer serve you. They explore both big and small shifts—whether it's relationships, career choices, or personal habits—and share personal stories and insights about the discomfort of change. The conversation offers valuable tips on embracing new identities, letting go of familiar but unhelpful things, and stepping into a more purposeful life.

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In this episode, Andrew and Catherine discuss breaking negative patterns in life and changing habits that no longer serve us. They explore how awareness and curiosity help us understand our actions.

They share examples from relationships, finances, and daily routines. The conversation offers insights on how to interrupt old habits and reprogram our behavior for lasting change.

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In this candid and transformative episode, Andrew and Catherine challenge the conventional notion that being selfish is inherently negative. They explore how prioritizing your own needs isn’t about being self-absorbed, it’s about self-care, maintaining your energy, and ultimately showing up as the best version of yourself for the people you love.

Through honest discussion and personal examples, they delve into the importance of setting boundaries, replenishing your “bucket,” and redefining selfishness as a vital practice for well-being.

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In this uplifting episode, Andrew and Catherine reframe the notion of “starting over.” Instead of viewing life’s unexpected pivots—whether it’s returning to work, diving back into the dating scene, rebuilding a business, or recovering from personal setbacks—as a complete restart, they remind us that every new beginning is built upon a foundation of experience. The conversation emphasizes that our past choices, even the missteps, equip us with wisdom and resilience, turning each transition into the next chapter of our personal journey.

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In this insightful episode, Andrew and Catherine dive deep into the dynamics of trust—what it means to build it, how to recognize when it's broken, and the steps necessary to rebuild and strengthen it in our personal and professional lives. Through candid conversation, they discuss trust as the congruence between words and actions, the importance of honoring commitments, and the transformative power of self-trust. Whether it’s being punctual, keeping small promises, or shifting your identity to align with your values, this episode offers a roadmap for cultivating trust from within and extending it outward.

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In this episode of 5 Year You, Andrew and Catherine explore the importance of expressing emotions rather than suppressing them. The phrase Expression Not Depression highlights how keeping emotions bottled up can lead to stress, anxiety, and even physical health issues. They discuss their own experiences with emotional expression, the impact of unspoken feelings, and practical ways to release emotions in a healthy way. If you struggle with holding things in, avoiding confrontation, or feeling disconnected from your emotions, this episode is for you.

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In this final episode of the Five Year You coaching series, Andrew and Catherine explore the Significance layer—how you define success, impact, and the legacy you leave behind. While many people focus on external validation like wealth, job titles, and material achievements, true significance comes from within. They help listeners shift their mindset from outside-in living (chasing approval, status, and possessions) to inside-out living (aligning with personal values and making a meaningful difference).

If you've ever wondered what truly matters in the long run, this episode will guide you in defining your legacy bey...

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In this fourth installment of the Five Year You coaching series, Andrew and Catherine dive into Substance—how you spend your life. This layer of life encompasses your financial, occupational, recreational, and lifestyle choices, all of which determine your long-term happiness and well-being.

They help listeners rethink their relationship with money, time, and purpose, shifting from external expectations to living from the inside out.

If you’ve ever felt trapped by your career, financial obligations, or the need to keep up with societal norms, this episode will help you redefine what truly...

In the third episode of their five-part coaching series, Andrew and Catherine tackle the social layer of life by exploring how to build authentic relationships that align with your true self. From friends and family to community and intimacy, they share insights on creating and nurturing connections that enrich your life.

This episode offers actionable strategies to help you cultivate a supportive tribe and let go of relationships that no longer serve you.

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In this second installment of the Five Year You coaching series, Andrew and Catherine focus on rediscovering the "Self." Diving into the four dimensions of self—emotional, spiritual, mental, and physical—they guide listeners to reflect on how they show up in the world and how to align their daily habits and beliefs with their five-year vision. This episode offers insights, strategies, and practical exercises to help you cultivate authenticity, resilience, and self-awareness.

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In this special episode, Andrew and Catherine kick off a transformative five-part series designed to help you uncover your true purpose. Using their signature "Layers of Life" framework, they guide listeners through a step-by-step process to reconnect with their authentic selves. The focus of Week 1 is on the soul, where they help you rediscover what truly lights you up and aligns with your deepest values. This is the first step in crafting a life of meaning, joy, and fulfillment.

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In this episode, Andrew and Catherine dive into the science and habits of better sleep. They share their personal journeys of transforming from night owls to sleep enthusiasts and offer practical tips to improve your sleep quality. From resetting your circadian rhythm to creating a sleep sanctuary, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you wake up feeling refreshed and ready to conquer the day.

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In this inspiring and actionable episode, Andrew and Catherine guide you step-by-step through creating a 5-year plan that aligns with your purpose, values, and dreams. They introduce their unique “Five S’s” framework and share exercises, including connecting with your future self, to help you clarify your vision and set the foundation for a life you love. Whether you're feeling stuck, seeking clarity, or simply looking for a fresh perspective, this episode will empower you to design a future full of meaning and joy.

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In this enlightening episode of 5 Year You, Andrew and Catherine dive deep into the relationship between thoughts and feelings. They explore how thoughts create feelings, why not all feelings are rooted in truth, and how to challenge negative narratives that don’t serve us. Sharing personal experiences and actionable strategies, they empower listeners to step back, observe their thoughts, and choose a mindset that promotes growth and well-being.

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In this insightful episode of 5 Year You, Andrew and Catherine share how to prioritize peace in a world that constantly demands more. They explore why peace feels elusive, the role of boundaries, and how societal pressures encourage busyness instead of calm. With practical tools and personal stories, they discuss how to cultivate inner peace, set boundaries, and eliminate the stressors that disrupt a calm life.

Whether it’s during the holidays or everyday life, this episode will help you build a sustainable sense of peace amidst chaos.

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In this heartfelt episode of 5 Year You, Andrew and Catherine take on the delicate topic of anger—how it manifests, why it’s often misunderstood, and how to manage it constructively. They share personal experiences, reflect on their individual relationships with anger, and discuss the importance of self-awareness and healthy outlets. Whether you’re prone to bottling emotions or experiencing explosive outbursts, this episode provides practical strategies for dealing with anger in ways that foster growth and maintain harmony.

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In this empowering episode of 5 Year You, Andrew and Catherine unpack the myths and realities of confidence. They explore how confidence is not an innate trait but a skill that anyone can learn and develop over time. By sharing personal stories, practical strategies, and insights on overcoming self-doubt, they help listeners build the foundation for self-assuredness and resilience. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to live more authentically and boldly.

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In this thought-provoking episode of 5 Year You, Andrew and Catherine explore the concept of "the trappings of success." They dive into how societal expectations and material pursuits can unintentionally create a life that feels more like a cage than a celebration. Sharing their personal experiences with chasing success and re-evaluating its cost, they offer actionable strategies for breaking free from these traps and aligning success with what truly brings joy and fulfillment.

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In this episode of 5 Year You, Andrew and Catherine explore the challenges of letting go of relationships that no longer align with your personal growth. They share insights on how personal development can create shifts in your circle of friends, family, and colleagues and discuss the concept of “raising your vibration.” The hosts dive deep into setting boundaries, understanding the sunk cost fallacy in relationships, and recognizing when it’s time to create space for new connections. With empathy and honesty, they provide practical advice on navigating these changes while staying true to yourself.

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In this episode of 5 Year You, Andrew and Catherine tackle the deeply personal and universal topic of self-worth. They discuss the pervasive feeling of “not being good enough” that so many people experience, particularly in high-achievement cultures. The hosts reflect on how upbringing, societal pressures, and personal expectations often feed into this feeling and share insights on how to counteract it with self-compassion. This conversation offers practical steps for building a more positive relationship with yourself, embracing self-worth, and learning to be “good enough” in a world that often tells us otherwise.

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In this episode of 5 Year You, Andrew and Catherine dive into the anxiety of always feeling behind in life—whether it's being late to a meeting or feeling like you're falling behind on major life milestones. They share their own stressful morning experiences and discuss the deeper issue of comparing ourselves to others and societal expectations. Throughout the episode, they emphasize the importance of self-compassion, patience, and embracing the fact that we are all on our own unique timelines.

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In this episode, Andrew and Catherine tackle a common challenge—needing permission. Whether it’s waiting for approval to rest, to buy something for yourself, or to pursue a new goal, many of us feel like we need someone else’s okay to live the life we want. The hosts dig deep into why we feel this way, how it’s tied to worthiness, and how we can begin to give ourselves permission to live on our own terms. Filled with relatable stories, practical advice, and a healthy dose of humor, this episode is about empoweri...

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In this episode, Andrew and Catherine dive into a profound yet relatable concept they call the "Emotional Garage." Our bodies tend to store emotions just like we store boxes in a garage, but over time, this accumulation can have detrimental effects on both our mental and physical health. The hosts share personal stories and insights about how unprocessed emotions can manifest physically, how to acknowledge and release these emotions safely, and how to maintain emotional well-being in everyday life.

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Do you find yourself constantly wanting more, chasing the next big thing, and never feeling truly satisfied? If so, you’re not alone.

In this episode, we explore how discovering contentment with what you have can lead to a richer, more fulfilling life. From personal anecdotes about overconsumption and the mental weight of material possessions, to practical coaching advice on finding your authentic self, this episode is packed with insights that encourage you to pause, reflect, and appreciate your current state.

Plus, stay tuned for our glimmers segment where we share some personal highlights, including Ca...

Perfection. It's something that I think a lot of us struggle with. In this episode, we will explore our deep-seeded roots of perfectionism that often dates back to our childhood, and discuss how societal pressures shape our relentless pursuit of unattainable standards.

Cat shares her personal journey of being a "recovering perfectionist" and offers a glimpse into the mindset that often drives these behaviors.

Andrew brings valuable insights into embracing our imperfections and finding self-love.

Together, we highlight the importance of creating supportive communities and discovering our true selves.

Welcome back to the Five Year You Podcast, where we guide you on the journey to becoming your best self one day at a time. In today's episode, titled "Releasing Rigidity," we dive deep into the mental constructs and self-imposed rules that often hinder our personal growth and happiness.

Join us as we explore relatable examples, from the habitual ways we think about mealtime to the deep-rooted behaviors stemming from childhood. We discuss the balance between structure and flexibility, and how challenging our own rigid rules can open up pathways for new, fulfilling experiences.

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Feeling stuck in a rut or bogged down by negative thoughts? Fear not—we are here to unpack the importance of small, consistent mindset shifts and how they can lead to profound personal growth over time.

Tune in as we discuss practical tips, share relatable examples, and even delve into the complexities of long-held beliefs about money, self-worth, and more.

Whether it's improving how you view your body, your parenting, or even your financial outlook, this episode promises to be raw, real, and incredibly valuable for anyone looking to become the best version of themselves. Re...

Join us as we Move to Authenticity and embrace our true selves. From exploring the joy of childhood passions to the significance of personal preferences, we delve into the vital steps that lead to genuine happiness. We discuss the challenges of overcoming societal expectations, the importance of acknowledging your inner desires, and how living authentically can transform your life.

Whether you're looking to reignite old hobbies, reassess life choices, or simply find more joy in the everyday, this episode is a must-listen. So, pack your bags—metaphorically, of course—and get ready to move into your own auth...

Celebrating a special milestone – our 30th episode! We're taking a moment to reflect on what’s working in our paths to personal growth and what isn’t. This isn’t just about celebrating our successes; it’s about keeping it raw, real, and relatable as we navigate personal development's highs and lows.

We will share our journey with you, from health improvements and financial decisions to the benefits of new habits and biohacking. We'll be giving you an honest look at what’s been effective, what hasn’t, and how small changes can lead to big transformations over time. Whe...

Struggling with feeling content in your life? On this episode of Five Year You, Catherine and I dive into practical and relatable steps to finding contentment right where you are. If you are an overthinker, you are going to love this, because we are too.

We share personal stories, discuss the power of mindset shifts, and explore how to rewire those old, negative thought patterns.

Join us as we uncover how to make contentment your baseline and live more joyfully every day.

Do you ever find yourself rehashing the same frustrations over and over in your head or in conversations with loved ones? In the latest episode of the Five Year You podcast, hosts Andrew and Cat introduce the "60-second rule" - a simple but powerful technique for getting things off your chest in a healthy way so you can let go and move on.

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Are you stuck in a job you hate, believing the myth that you have to choose between making money and doing work you love? I'm here to tell you that you CAN find fulfilling work that pays well!

The key is to reconnect with the activities and interests that lit you up as a kid. What did you love doing just for the joy of it? Use that as a starting point to explore career paths that align with your passions. Take small steps, like volunteering, taking a class, or job shadowing to test the waters.

In our fast-paced world, it's essential to create space to relax and recharge. By the end of this episode, we hope you'll have some practical tips and tools to give yourself permission to take it easy.

Join us as we dive into the struggle of slowing down, especially for those of us with type A personalities. We'll share our personal experiences and favorite methods to take a pause in our busy lives. From morning routines without phones to evening wind-downs, we'll discuss how little changes can lead to big improvements in well-being.

Duration: 00:26:39

Are you tired of living by societal guidelines that don't seem to fit your life's aspirations? Today we explore the arbitrary rules we impose on ourselves—from education and career paths to homeownership and societal expectations.

We discuss how these so-called rules can often create a mental cage, limiting our potential and happiness. In this candid episode, our hosts offer insights and encourage listeners to question these norms, find their unique paths, and live a more fulfilling life.

Get ready to challenge everything you think you know about the rules that govern your life. Tune in...

Want to form deeper and more meaningful connections in your adult life? I've got the solution to help you achieve just that. Let's dive into the secrets of making friends as an adult and building long-lasting relationships.

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Does this sound familiar? You've been told to put others first to show kindness and humility, but it's leaving you feeling drained and powerless. The constant energy drain from others is taking a toll on your well-being, leaving you feeling depleted and undervalued. Are you ready to reclaim your power and prioritize your own self-care? Let's break free from the cycle of energy drain and take control of our lives.

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Do you find that as you get older, things seem a little less flexible? Maybe in your mind, maybe in your body?

If this sounds familiar, you might have been told to stick to a strict routine and control every outcome. But let's face it, that's left you feeling stressed, frustrated, and limited. It's time to break free from that rigidity and embrace a more open and adaptable approach to life.

Let's explore how being more flexible can lead to a more fulfilling and exciting journey ahead.

Discover the unexpected...

Have you heard these myths about coming off antidepressants? Myth 1: Antidepressants are a permanent solution. Myth 2: Coming off antidepressants is a smooth process for everyone. Myth 3: Antidepressants work the same for everyone. I'll reveal the truth, but first, let's dive into these myths and uncover the real deal. Stay tuned for an eye-opening journey.

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Discover the surprising truth about self-sabotage and hitting your upper limit. Join Andrew and Cat as they unravel the unexpected reasons behind why we sabotage our own success.

Brace yourself for a mind-blowing revelation about how we subconsciously limit our happiness and financial success. Get ready to uncover the hidden barriers holding you back from embracing positive changes in life. Are you prepared to be shocked by the real reasons behind self-sabotage? Stay tuned to unravel the unexpected truth and break free from your upper limits.

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Discover the unexpected truth about achieving true wealth and happiness. It's not what you think! Tune in as two personal finance experts take you on a journey to redefine richness and abundance, leaving you with a new perspective on what it means to live a truly fulfilling life.

Get ready to challenge your beliefs and open your mind to a world of holistic wealth beyond money. Are you ready to discover the real secret to getting rich? Stay tuned for an eye-opening revelation that will change the way you view success and abundance forever.

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Duration: 00:27:37

If you're feeling lost and uncertain about how to restart your life, then you are not alone! Maybe you've been trying to make changes but feeling overwhelmed by the lack of guidance and direction. Instead of finding your new path, you might be feeling stuck in the same old routine, craving a more powerful direction for your life.

The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:20 - Importance of Restarting Your Life

00:03:13 - Knowing Where You Want to Go

00:06:15 - Overcoming Fear of Making the Wrong Choice

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Andrew and Catherine dive into the world of coping skills, exploring what they are, how to use them, and why they are important for personal growth and wellbeing.

Drawing from personal experiences and insights, they discuss the significance of learning to self-soothe and the impact of different coping mechanisms on our mental health. Listeners are encouraged to explore new coping skills, reflect on their current approaches, and take steps toward becoming the best version of themselves.

Stay tuned for valuable tips and strategies to enhance your coping skills and embark on a journey towards a...

Do you want to understand the secret to manifesting your desires and attracting positivity in your life? Maybe you've been seeking a way to achieve this, and I'm here to share the solution so that you can achieve that goal. Get ready to uncover the transformative mindset and belief systems conducive to manifesting your aspirations. Let's dive into the law of attraction and the impact of energy on attracting positivity. Are you ready to unlock the power within you?

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Are you unknowingly sabotaging your own success? In this unexpected episode, two friends uncover the hidden ways our brains work against us. From always expecting the worst to overlooking our own victories, they reveal a surprising truth about how our thoughts shape our reality. But that's not all – they also share a simple yet powerful technique to shift your mindset and start attracting the positivity and success you deserve. Intrigued? Stay tuned to discover how a small shift in your thinking can lead to big changes in your life. You won't want to miss this eye-opening conversation!

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Duration: 00:24:56

Let Your Guard Down: The Power of Authenticity in Relationships

Want to form deeper, authentic connections and build emotional resilience? Join us as we delve into the art of vulnerability and learn how it can lead to stronger, more meaningful relationships. Get ready to grow and cultivate genuine connections on your personal journey towards becoming your best self. Let's crack open the vulnerability door and explore the power of authenticity. Are you ready to connect on a deeper level?

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Hey there, Five Tribe! Ever heard these myths about feeling behind and societal expectations?

Myth 1: You should have it all figured out by a certain age.

Myth 2: Everyone else is ahead of you.

Myth 3: Success means following a specific path. But what's the truth? I'll reveal the strategies to bust these myths wide open! Stay tuned for the real deal.

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In the episode titled "Redefining Success," Andrew and Cat explore what it truly means to be successful on one's own terms. They share personal experiences and insights, challenging listeners to question societal norms and expectations. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the importance of defining success based on internal values and feelings rather than external validation.

Andrew reflects on his own journey of chasing external markers of success, only to realize that true fulfillment comes from within. He shares anecdotes about reevaluating his priorities and finding peace amidst life's challenges. Cat discusses her process of breaking free from...

Feeling overwhelmed or unable to name the emotions you're experiencing? You're not alone. Learning to identify and process our feelings is critical for well-being, yet it's a skill most of us were never taught. By naming specific emotions and creating space to feel them fully, we can begin to release pent-up energies in a healthy way.

Does feeling disappointed and let down by others sound familiar to you?

You've probably been told to just let go of expectations, but the pain of unmet expectations is real and can leave you feeling frustrated and hurt. Let's dive deeper into why this ineffective advice isn't bringing you the results you need. Get ready to uncover the real reasons behind the pain of expectations and discover effective ways to find joy in daily moments. It's time to change the game and find true fulfillment.

Are you ready to explore a fresh perspective...

Do you want to enhance your daily well-being and create meaningful routines? Get ready to discover a solution that will help you achieve enhanced daily well-being and create meaningful routines. Let's dive in to find out how you can infuse your daily life with joy and positivity.

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Discover an unexpected twist in personal growth that will change the way you see your relationships. Dive into a raw, relatable conversation and learn how a simple shift in mindset can lead to healing and newfound peace. Join Andrew and Kat on their journey towards the best version of themselves, and find out how a seemingly small change can make a monumental difference. Stay tuned for the surprising glimmers that light up their lives. You won't want to miss this.

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Does it sound familiar to always want to help your loved ones through tough times, only to find that nothing you say seems to work?

Have you been told to constantly provide solutions, leaving you feeling frustrated and unheard? If you're tired of feeling this way and not getting the results you desire, it's time to shift your approach. Let's explore a game-changing way to communicate with your loved ones during hard times that can transform your relationships.

Andrew and Catherine share personal experiences and insights on the importance of discerning between offering sympathy and...

Finding Light in Dark Moments: Embracing Contrast for Personal Growth

If you're feeling the weight of hard times and struggling to cope, then you are not alone! The concept of contrast and the power it holds has been a game-changer for many, including Andrew and Cat. They discuss embracing contrast and its role in personal growth, resilience, and understanding the ebb and flow of life. Listen in for some fresh perspective and tools for navigating tough moments.

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Want to experience personal transformation and authentic self-expression? Ready to break free from limiting beliefs and achieve personal growth? In this episode, we're sharing the solution to help you overcome what's holding you back. Let's dive in and unleash your full potential!

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Do you want to experience increased emotional well-being and self-love? Want to transform your relationship with yourself and be your own best friend? I'll be sharing the solution so that you can achieve that result.

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Are you struggling with what life is all about? Why are you here? We dive into the secret of life and some tips and tricks for getting there faster in your day-to-day life. This is one you will want to listen to now!

How to Love Yourself

Before you can truly love another person you need to learn how to love yourself. You are amazing and it's time that you see that. Here are some great ways to learn how to love yourself and to treat yourself as the most important person in your life. Because you are the most important person in your life.