The Extraordinary Marriage: Faith, Family, Fortified

Ready to be Empowered? 🌟We are delving into the transformative power of vision in our marriage. Join us as we explore how having a shared vision can guide couples through challenges, reignite passion, and foster deeper connections.

We’ll focus on practical steps to create a compelling vision, emphasizing the importance of aligning individual goals with a shared future.

Whether you're facing a crossroads in your relationship or simply seeking to strengthen your bond, this episode offers🌈 valuable insights and five actionable steps to help you create the🌞 extraordinary marriage you desire.

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Connie discusses the importance of proactively addressing issues before they escalate, emphasizing the need to understand love languages, communication styles, and personality differences.

She introduces seven questions to help couples assess their relationship strengths and areas for improvement, sharing personal experiences that highlight the value of intentionality in marriage.

Are you ready to strengthen your marriage and deepen your connection? In this episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, Connie explores the power of regular reflection and assessment in relationships.

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Create positive mental energy every day. Change your mind and change your thoughts. Enjoy your next family get togethers, after all, we LOVE each other, we're family!

In this episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, we explore the often-overlooked dynamics of family gatherings during the holiday season. As we come together to celebrate, it’s easy to forget that everyone carries their own unseen burdens.

We’ll explore how different personalities react to the hustle and bustle of the season, and how we can each take responsibility for our mindset and actions.

Join us t...

Family is the center of a HAPPY LIFE!! We focus on our Irritations when we should be focused on everything we LOVE!! It's Thanksgiving 2025!

Take action and count your Blessings Today. You will GET MORE of what you FOCUS on!! Everyone wants The Extraordinary Marriage.

I help couples shift from Ho-hum or Strained Marriages to Better Communication, Mutual Respect, More Trust & Romance.

How would YOU like to have ALL that? It takes action and one step at a time.

Anyone can eat an elephant... One bit at a time!

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Today you'll find what's holding you back and what to focus on in order to build that romantic long lasting love life you dream of!

Connie, a 46-year-married mother of three and grandmother of 15, shares insights on building a successful marriage.

She identifies three key reasons for relationship challenges: lack of exposure to successful relationships, self-absorption, and the inherent practice nature of marriage.

Connie emphasizes the importance of learning from successful relationships and re-evaluating one's approach to marriage, comparing it to the learning process of parenting.

She concludes by highlighting the...

"Ever feel like your marriage is a rollercoaster ride with more downs than ups?

Join us on Episode 100 of Relationship Reset: Desire-Commitment-Determination, where we unveil the secrets to transforming your relationship into an exciting journey brimming with passion and intention!

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In this milestone episode, we celebrate the journey of love and partnership with insights that will reignite your desire, strengthen your commitment, and bolster your determination. Discover actionable strategies to enhance intimacy, communication, and connection, ensuring your mar...

Are you navigating the tricky waters of in-law relationships? You're not alone! In this episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, Connie dives deep into the challenges of managing in-law dynamics after marriage, emphasizing the critical need to prioritize your spouse over parents while setting healthy boundaries.

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Connie shares her insights on how to reflect on your family dynamics and discuss them with your spouse to understand the origins of advice and behaviors. She encourages listeners to use a guide she provides to na...

Ever say... "Your NOT Listening to me"!  We're talking 5 ways you'll be happier when you listen more than you talk.  Yes... you heard that right!  This episode provides insights into how couples can enhance their relationships by listening more than they talk and aligning their goals and values. Connie delves into the dynamics of marriage, focusing on the importance of communication, shared values, and conflict resolution. Welcome to The Extraordinary Marriage

Key Topics Discussed:

1. The Power of Listening: - Connie emphasizes the importance of listening more than talking to build stronger connections in marriage. This appr...

Turbocharge your marriage by fully practicing what brings you and your spouse closer together. Whether you've been married for two months or 200 years, what you learn here will build a strong relationship and bring more peace and joy to your marriage.

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In this episode, we dive into the importance of recognizing your spouse's needs and how to invest time in understanding what they truly need from you.

This is not what you're thinking.

We introduce the FREE...

Unforgiveness can divide couples, families, and friends, but it doesn’t have to. Join host Connie Durham on this week’s episode of "The Extraordinary Marriage" Podcast as she shares how to move past the hurts and reignite your marriage. This week, Connie discusses how to let go of grudges and find forgiveness in your relationships.

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In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Understanding Unforgiveness: How unresolved feelings like anger, sadness, or betrayal can lead to unforgiveness. Why holding onto grudges is like carrying past burdens into the future...

In this episode, Host Connie Durham and her friend Raissa discuss the stages of raising twin autistic kids, how to keep a positive mindset, ways to help the kids communicate, and how to work together as parents.

In 2018 Raissa took Connie's Class on personality styles, (Then called "Social Savvy") and she's used it to understand herself, her spouse, her twins, and her even clients better.

Connie offers this class to you online now called, "ReDISCover Your Spouse", where you can privately take the assessment which allows you to understand yourself and then... why your spouse...

Are you seeking practical tips to strengthen your marriage while enjoying engaging and insightful conversations? Join me, Connie Durham, as your host for "The Extraordinary Marriage" podcast, where each episode dives deep into the essentials of a thriving relationship.

We’ll cover a variety of crucial topics, including effective communication strategies, building trust, and identifying challenges to help you resolve conflicts and reignite the spark in your marriage. Each episode will feature a mix of solo insights and guest interviews, providing diverse perspectives and practical advice.

Prepare for an exciting journey as we explore the hi...

In this heartfelt episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, host Connie Durham and Life Coach Jackie Cote explore an empowering perspective on life's challenges. Adversity is a Gift if We Allow it to Be delves into the transformative power of hardship, revealing how we can take control of our experiences and use them for self-reflection, growth, and empowerment.

Through candid conversations and heartfelt anecdotes, Connie and Jackie encourage listeners to embrace adversity as a catalyst for higher learning and personal development.

Join them as they share practical strategies for navigating life's difficulties and emerging stronger...

In this enlightening episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, hosts Connie Durham and Toni Hebel delve into a topic that can silently sabotage even the most beautiful relationships: unforgiveness. They discuss how unresolved conflicts can create a rift in your marriage that may lead to separation or divorce.

What You’ll Learn: The hardships that unforgiveness causes in marriage The importance of asking for forgiveness How to forgive yourself Don't carry the burden of unforgiveness any longer.

Tune in to learn how to let go of the past and rekindle the love you both deserve! Ta...

Join host Connie Durham and declutter expert Amy Slenker-Smith in this enlightening episode of The Extraordinary Marriage, where we tackle the complexities of marital habits and home organization. Have you ever wondered why opposites attract, only to find yourself frustrated by your spouse's messy habits? You're not alone!

In this episode, Connie and Amy explore why some people are neat and others are messy, and how understanding these differences can help you move past the frustrations and strengthen your marriage.

Tune in to discover practical tips for organizing your home, along with insightful strategies for...

Jeff and Host Connie Durham dive into the captivating world of military family life.  Have you ever wondered what it's like to grow up with a parent serving in the military? Join us as we explore the unique blend of love, structure, and freedom that shapes the lives of military families.

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You'll hear personal stories that bring to life the role of a Master Gunnery Sergeant and the profound impact of military service on family dynamics. Discover the resilience required to navigate the challenges of deployments and the joy of...

 Host Connie Durham focuses on enhancing marital relationships through understanding and applying love languages. Connie emphasizes the importance of recognizing different personality styles and communication methods within a marriage. She introduces the concept of love languages, encouraging viewers to identify both their own and their spouse's love languages to foster a happier and healthier marriage.

Key points discussed in the video include:

Understanding Differences: Connie highlights that couples often come from different backgrounds with varying preferences and motivators. Recognizing and respecting these differences is crucial for a successful marriage.

Love Languages: The episode de...

Join us for an insightful episode of "The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast," hosted by Connie Durham, featuring special guest Lissa Figgins. In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of time management and its profound impact on both personal and professional life.

Connie is a relationship coach and speaker helping couples cultivate connection, undertraining, and lasting love for an extraordinary marriage.  Best place to start is with the FREE "Chemistry of Lasting Love" guide that simply uncovers your best ways to connect. 

Introduction to Time Management: Connie and Lissa kick off the conversation by dis...

Dive into an engaging conversation that unravels the intricate journey of marriage, from high school sweethearts to navigating life's unpredictable challenges.

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In this insightful episode, Mandy shares her personal experiences and the pivotal moments that shaped her relationship. Discover how faith, community support, and personal growth play crucial roles in sustaining a healthy marriage. Whether you're in a relationship or simply curious about the dynamics of love and commitment, this discussion offers valuable lessons and heartfelt reflections.

Join us as we ex...

In this episode, Connie Durham, host of the Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, delves into the complexities of maintaining a lasting and fulfilling marriage. She shares insights and practical advice to help couples navigate their differences and enhance their relationships.

 1. Understanding Differences: - Connie emphasizes the importance of recognizing and respecting the differences between partners, such as personality styles and upbringing. These differences can often lead to misunderstandings but can also be a source of strength if managed well.

2. Communication is Key: - Effective communication is highlighted as a cornerstone of a healthy marriage. Connie discusses the si...

In this insightful episode, Connie Durham delves into the parallels between camping experiences and marriage dynamics. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, she explores how stress, communication, and perspective play crucial roles in both camping and marital relationships.   

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1. The Challenge of Communication:   - Connie shares her experiences of parking a 32-foot camper with her husband, highlighting the importance of effective communication under pressure.  - She discusses how stress can lead to a breakdown in communication, causing partners to stop listening to each other.  

2. Perspective and Reality:   - The episode emp...

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"There is no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one. Remember that focusing on what is good, whatever you focus on expands. You get more of it. If you focus on the good, the good expands."

In today's fast-paced world, the role of a mother often goes unrecognized, yet it is one of the most significant managerial positions one can hold. This article explores the multifaceted responsibilities of mothers, empha...

Motherhood is a beautiful journey, but it can sometimes feel a little overwhelming.

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It is said it takes two to make a baby, but let me tell you, it also takes two to, to park a camper. Just when you think you've learned to listen to each other, parking a 32-foot camper takes it to another level.   

In this insightful episode, Connie Durham delves into the parallels between camping experiences and marriage dynamics. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, she explores how stress, communication, and perspective play crucial roles in both camping and marital relationships.  

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Moms play a pivotal role in shaping the family environment. Through their unique blend of love, leadership, and intuition, they can transform family dynamics. This podcast explores how moms can harness effective communication, positivity, and understanding to create a nurturing and harmonious home.   

Mastering #communicationskills  

 - Tailoring Communication Styles: Moms often intuitively understand the different communication needs of family members. By recognizing and adapting to these styles, they can facilitate smoother interactions . 

- Encouraging Open Dialogue: Moms can create a safe space for family members to express themselves, ensuring that both talkative and quieter...

In this episode, the host delves into the complexities of blended families, focusing on the challenges faced by children and parents alike. The discussion is centered around understanding and overcoming the hidden divisions that can arise in such family dynamics.

Key Takeaways:

- Understanding Challenges: Blended families face unique challenges, such as integrating different family cultures and managing relationships between step-siblings. Recognizing these challenges is the first step towards creating a harmonious family environment.

- Communication is Key: Open and respectful communication is essential. Encouraging family meetings and shared activities can help family...

Overcome Blended Family Challenges!! Today Connie delves into the complexities and joys of maintaining a happy marriage within blended families.

She shares practical strategies and personal anecdotes to help listeners navigate the unique challenges that come with blending families.  

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Get ready to tame the complaints, tempers, and moodiness, so that you can enjoy dynamic conversations, time together and Live your BEST life.

1. **The Importance of Communication:**   - Understanding different communication styles is crucia...

Delve into the common challenges couples face regarding finances and provide practical solutions to strengthen both their financial health and marital bond. The discussion emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding, and teamwork in managing money within a marriage.

Key Discussions:

The Impact of Money on Marriage:

Money issues are a leading cause of divorce.

The importance of addressing financial conflicts to improve both finances and communication in marriage.

Effective Communication:

Couples should learn to listen to each other's spending habits and financial priorities.

Discussing whether...

In this episode, host Connie Durham discusses the importance of confidence in nurturing a healthy and thriving marriage. She shares seven practical strategies that couples can implement to cultivate confidence, leading to a stronger relationship.

Key Discussions:

Embrace Openness:

Importance of sharing innermost feelings and thoughts with your spouse.

Encouragement to communicate what matters to you for mutual understanding.

Let Go of Past Baggage:

Discusses the need to release negative experiences from past relationships that may affect current dynamics.

Emphasizes the importance of not judging...

Unlock respect in your marriage and discover the building blocks of a thriving partnership! Join host Connie Durham in this enlightening episode as she delves into the essential role of respect in relationships. Drawing on personal experiences and insightful anecdotes, Connie shares how respect can transform your marriage and foster deeper connections.

In this episode, you'll learn:

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In this insightful episode, host Connie Durham shares her expert advice on how to prevent your marriage from feeling "locked up" and distant. With relatable stories and practical strategies, Connie guides listeners through the importance of prioritizing time together, communicating openly, and sharing new experiences. Discover how to break free from the "crazy cycle" of frustration and resentment that can creep into any relationship.

Key Highlights:

 How do things fall apart after we get married?  We thought we were perfect for one another!  Today you'll find 7 steps to a Happy Healthy Marriage.  How would you like to do dissolve some of your big marital frustrations and discover the secret formula that turns your differences into appreciation, attraction, and a brand-new partnership?   

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 Transforming Finances and Marriages: A Journey with Sarah Bradfield In this enlightening episode, host Connie Durham welcomes Sarah Bradfield, a talented graphic designer and aspiring counselor, who shares her inspiring story of overcoming financial struggles and the transformative impact of the Dave Ramsey program on her marriage.   

Together, they delve into the challenges Sarah and her husband faced during their early years of marriage, including navigating debt, job loss, and the importance of communication in financial decisions...

https://www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/Relationships   We're talking more connection!  Who want's it?  In this special Valentine's week episode host Connie Durham explores the theme of L-O-V-E, providing listeners with practical and heartfelt strategies to deepen the sense of love in their marriages.

Connie shares four actionable ways to help your spouse feel more cherished and valued, emphasizing the importance of meaningful conversations, prioritizing what truly matters, and fostering an encouraging environment.

Tune in to discover how focusing on these aspects can bring more love into your relationship and create a stronger emotional connection.

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In this exciting episode, we dive into the transformative journey of understanding your spouse through the lens of personality styles. Join host Connie Durham, a seasoned relationship coach with over 40 years of marriage experience, as she unpacks the complexities of communication and connection that often lead to misunderstandings between partners.

Have you ever felt like you and your spouse are speaking different languages? You're not alone! Connie shares insights into the four main personality styles and how they influence behavior, decision-making, and emotional responses in y...

Are you ready to rediscover your marriage? In this episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, we tackle the question: "What Holds You Back?" Join us as we explore three critical considerations for engaged and married couples that can help unlock a deeper connection with your spouse.

Childhood Lessons: What did you learn in your childhood that shapes your views on love and relationships? We’ll discuss how these lessons can impact your marriage today.

Vision for Your Marriage: What do you want your marriage to look like? We’ll guide you through envisioning the ideal relations...

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In this fifth and final installment of The Chemistry of Lasting Love series, we wrap up our exploration of the 10 emotional needs that every person has and must have fulfilled in their marriage.

This week, we finish identifying the Top 5 emotional needs of your spouse, empowering you to foster a more profound connection and reap the rewards of the attention and listening you’ve dedicated to your relationship over the past five weeks.

Key Highlights:

Welcome to Week 4 of our Chemistry of Lasting Love Series, where we delve into what keeps that Eternal Spark alive in your marriage!

Sometimes, once we say "I do," we let our guard down, and the conversations about important topics begin to dwindle.

In this episode, we'll explore the vital discussions surrounding family budgets, responsibilities at home, and how to keep the chemistry flowing by nurturing open communication.

Apply what you’ve learned from your BONUS as you listen today, and gain insights into your unique dynamic. Tune in as we provide practical tips...

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Welcome to Week 3 of our 5-part series, "The Chemistry of Lasting Love." Drawing from the insightful work of Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D. in Psychology, we explore what it means to have an extraordinary marriage—one built on genuine care, emotional intimacy, and connection.

In today's episode, we delve into the Aphrodisiac Effect by discussing the essential components of honesty and openness in your relationship. When you and your spouse are transparent with each other, it paves t...

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Welcome to this week’s episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, part two of our five-part series called “The Chemistry of Lasting Love.” We’ll dive into the top two needs of the heart that, when met, can significantly enhance the bond you share with your spouse. Discover how filling your partner’s Love Bank is essential in nurturing romantic love and learn effective strategies to deepen your emotional connection. We’ll also explore the significance of deep conversations, wh...

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Welcome to "The Chemistry of Lasting Love," a transformative 5-part series from The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Connie Durham, this episode invites you to explore the essential elements that contribute to a thriving marriage. 

 Discover the Secrets to a Lasting Love: Are you ready to open the door to more romance, fun, and adventure in your marriage? Connie...

Happy NEW Year 2025!

Every day matters! 12 Daily Practices for Success: Discover John Maxwell's 12 practices that can transform your relationship, from choosing the right attitude to embracing growth and generosity.

Drawing inspiration from Maxwell's book "Today Matters," Connie emphasizes the importance of taking action now to prevent regrets later. She explores how leadership skills can be applied to marriage, highlighting the power of daily practices that guarantee success for tomorrow.   Key

Topics:  

The Power of Today: Understand why today is the most important day to make changes in your marriage, and how focus...

Join Connie today as she shares her husband's experience with her dad, as he asked for her hand in marriage. We'll also uncover the dynamics of task and people-oriented personalities within marriage. Discover how understanding these differences can lead to a harmonious partnership and bring more romance, fun, and adventure into your relationship.

Key Topics:

Jeff & Connie have spent lots of time together working on rental properties, but on this day, something when extremely wrong!  Talk about a miscommunication!

Key Topics:

SUBSCRIBE - Understanding Happiness: Key Concepts for a Fulfilling Life   Explore five core concepts that contribute to happiness and significantly impact your relationship.

Connie shares an unexpected life change that exposes these concepts through hindsight. In this video Connie identifies key happiness drivers.  

Understand Your Happiness Drivers  

*Love and Belonging:

The fundamental need to feel loved, accepted, and connected to others. 

*Freedom and Choice: The ability to make decisions and have autonomy over one's life. 

*Safety and Security: The feeling of being protected, stable, and free from worry.  Duration: 00:26:28

 We're delving into the art of transforming family gatherings into joyous occasions filled with love, understanding, and memorable conversations.

Connie shares real-life stories and practical advice on how to approach family events with a positive mindset. Learn how to say "yes" with genuine enthusiasm, let go of past frustrations, and embrace the unique personalities within your family.

Discover the power of understanding and respecting differences, and how these small shifts can lead to stronger family bonds and beautiful memories.

Key Takeaways:

In this enlightening episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, host Connie Durham delves into the transformative power of gratitude in marriage.

Discover how cultivating thankfulness can strengthen your bond, prevent negativity, and encourage kindness in your relationship.

Key Topics:

 ✨ Join host Connie Durham and special guest Gina Stinson as they explore the profound power of words in shaping our relationships and personal well-being. As a pastor's wife and writer, Gina shares her journey of overcoming negative self-talk and the importance of grace deposits in our daily interactions.

Key Takeaways:

- Grace Deposits: Discover how making daily grace deposits can offset the occasional withdrawals when we fall short, enhancing forgiveness and understanding in your marriage.

- Power of Words: Learn how the words we use with ourselves and others can eit...

Recognizing and finding root causes of irritation, conflict, and disconnect in your marriage, are key in resolving them.

Only then will you reset your life and find your joy again!

Key Topics:

Welcome to Season Two of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast! As the holiday season approaches, we delve into practical strategies to conquer holiday stress and enhance your marriage.

Host Connie Durham shares her personal insights and five actionable steps to help you navigate financial pressures, family obligations, and time management during this bustling time of year. Key

Takeaways:

Plan Ahead: Begin holiday preparations early to ease financial strain and enjoy gift-giving without stress.

Budget Wisely: Create a realistic budget, consider drawing names for gifts, and explore handmade options to keep costs down.<...

In this episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, Connie Durham and Tala Hershey explore the power of meaningful conversation in strengthening your marriage and supporting your child's speech development.

If you're a married couple looking to deepen your connection and foster open communication, this episode is for you.

Enhance Connection: Discover five practical strategies to engage in more fulfilling conversations with your spouse.

Develop Better Speech: Learn effective techniques to support your child's speech development, ensuring they grow up with strong communication skills.

Importance of Communication: Understand why developing a strong...

In this episode, Connie tackles the complexities of blended families. Combining households, navigating different parenting styles, and fostering unity can be challenging. But with Godly advice and years of experience, we offer practical strategies to help you create a harmonious blended family.

Why Listen to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast? You Want A Happy Healthy Marriage!

Godly Guidance: We integrate faith-based principles to provide you with time-honored wisdom.

Expert Insights: Benefit from our years of experience and deep understanding of human needs and relationships.

Practical Tips: Learn actionable steps that you can...

Join us on "The Extraordinary Marriage" as we explore how to overcome childhood trauma to build a positive and successful marriage. Together, we'll uncover the secrets to letting go of a troubled past and creating a future filled with love and harmony.

Featuring expert insights and personal stories, this podcast is your guide to recognizing past challenges for a more hopeful future. Perfect for couples and women committed to transforming their relationships and finding lasting happiness.

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Welcome to The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast, where we empower married couples with the insights and tools needed to create a thriving, fulfilling relationship.

Our podcast is dedicated to helping you identify and overcome marital challenges so that you can focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and live your best life together.

Key Topics We Cover: Childhood Impact: Explore...

This month we're talking about different... Parenting Styles Explore diverse parenting styles based on behavior & personality types.

Whether you're a calm mediator or a spirited decision-maker, we provide insights on how to harmonize your approach to parenting and grow together as a couple.

Love First Approach... Connie emphasizes the importance of loving first. Learn how to move past the irritations and focus on what truly works in your marriage.

Discover the strategies that Connie has successfully applied, not only in raising her own children but also with her grandchildren.

Gain Confidence...

You always hear that introverts and extroverts are absolute opposites, but have you thought about how that effects your marriage?

Each wanting exactly what the other, doesn't want. Are you thinking about that?

Today we talk about living with your opposite and how to understand them better. Understanding will improve your relationship at least 50%.

Would you like to figure out your differences and turn them into more support, romance, and intimacy?  Take a look...

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 Today Pastor Brian joins me as we journey through his saying I do, figuring out how to be a better spouse and following Gods word. Pastor Brian lives in Fayetteville GA with his wife Codie and 5 children.

Hi I'm Connie Durham, the Host of this podcast and Brian is my pastor. May I say he's passionate, transparent, and also dedicated to his family and church. My mission is to cultivate connection & lasting love for an Extraordinary Marriage.

Often our past experiences color our future and we loose our way, in finding love that last. Our p...

Moms have a hard job. Focusing on the right things will bring you energy to navigate your very busy days.

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In today's episode, Navigating Love's Frustration, Jeff & Connie explore the emotional dynamics that either strengthen love or create division in marriage. Discover how predictable out of control emotions influence your relationship and learn practical strategies to overcome these challenges.

Go to www.theextraordinarymarriage.com - scroll down and find your Free Positive Attitude PDF... ready to download.  (It's a button)  We can not control the things around us... but we can control our own MIND.  At least we can try. 😅  Thank you for listening.

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In this episode, Connie Durham dives into "Three Mistakes Couples Make That Push Their Spouse Away." With over 40 years of marriage experience, Connie shares heartfelt stories, practical advice, and actionable steps to help you reconnect with your spouse and navigate through common marital conflicts.

Connie emphasizes the importance of understanding your spouse's personality, effective communication, and prioritizing each other. She also shares a personal story about a challenging day at one of her rental properties, illustrating how miscommunication and assumptions can lead to frustration and conflict.

Stay tuned until the end of the episode to...

 In this episode, Connie Durham dives deep into the root causes of conflict in marriage and how our predictable personalities play a role in recurring issues. Using relatable anecdotes and practical advice, Connie explores the importance of understanding different perspectives, levels of patience, and upbringing influences.

Discover how focusing on the good and beautiful aspects of your relationship can transform your marriage. Connie also introduces the concept of the compound effect, where small, consistent choices over time lead to significant benefits. Learn about the four predictable personality styles and how recognizing these traits in yourself and your s...

   Have you ever wondered what keeps the spark alive in a marriage? In this episode, Connie Durham delves into the nuances of attraction and how it evolves over time. From the body language and loving tones that first drew you to your spouse, to the everyday habits that might be causing friction now, Connie offers insights into maintaining and rekindling that initial connection.

Do you feel like your marriage could use a boost in romance, fun, and adventure? Or perhaps you seek more compassion, support, and strength? Discover real-life stories and practical advice to overcome the common pi...

It's not where you start, but where you finish. Connie Durham dives into the essence of creating harmony in your marriage, focusing on the choices you make today and tomorrow. Drawing inspiration from Albert Einstein's wisdom, Connie explores how to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters and foster a loving, supportive relationship.

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In this episode, Connie shares ten actionable ways to find more harmony with your spouse. From turning on your positive attitude to showing appreciation, she provides practical advice to...

Have you ever been given a second chance?  What did that mean to you?

Connie Durham dives into the profound impact of second chances on relationships in this heartfelt episode. Reflecting on personal experiences and drawing inspiration from two compelling movies, Connie explores how forgiveness and understanding can transform lives and marriages.

Could it be that simple misunderstandings and differences in how you and your spouse SEE life, are causing division? Love to chat!

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Honestly procrastination drains the energy out of me way too often, putting me in defense mode. I don't like it! Seems like everyday I am striving, trying, wishing, wanting to be proactive, accomplished, successful, and balanced.

Today, Connie dives deep into the power of habits and how they shape our lives and marriages. If you've ever struggled with feeling like you don't measure up, this episode is for you. Connie shares personal stories, practical advice, and actionable steps to help you move from feeling reactive to being proactive in your marriage and life.

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Connie and Lisa discuss the importance of getting to know your spouse in what they need, how they think, and how we should cut each other some slack!

Hi I'm Connie Durham and I just celebrated my 45th wedding anniversary in June!

Helping couples and families thrive is my #1 passion.  I believe everyone can cultivate a better connection, understanding, and lasting love through the study of how we all THINK - ACT - and RESPOND differently.  Your preferences in life are determined by past experiences and your God given personality style.  FIND MORE AT:  https://www...

It's Day 5 and everything starts with YOU. Remember the crazy cycle where rubbing each other wrong begins to go round and round and where it stops, nobody knows? What do you NOT know about your spouse that could be causing gaps in your communication? Getting an A+ in relationships......takes work. What's next?

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Day 4 - It's not personal but it's important to every relationship. Connecting through conversation. Some need it and some can do without it. Find out why.

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Day 3 - The battle is half won when you use this daily concept, bit it will be up to you to lead the way.

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Day 2 - Assessing the Best Time, to talk. We're all on the run and rarely stop! Make note of today's message and put it to use.

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Day 1 - Is he a talker or a listener? Getting your husband to listen is not going to happen overnight. It's a process and it begins... not where you think it will.

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Respect the differences between you and your spouse. This episode of The Extraordinary Marriage Podcast dives deep into the importance of high standards in every aspect of life, especially in your marriage. Host Connie Durham shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to elevate your relationship by appreciating your partner's unique strengths and abilities.

Discover real-life stories and actionable steps to overcome the pitfalls every marriage encounters. Whether it's about setting high standards in your home, your children's e...

Today, Connie sits down with the dynamic Erin Dimon, a fitness expert turned business consultant, to explore the intersections of marriage, personal growth, and fitness. 🌟

Erin shares the challenges of divorce, how we learn from it, and get it right the 2nd time around.

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(00:00) What causes a divorce, and how do...

Unlock the Secrets to a Harmonious Marriage with Connie Durham!

Have you ever faced a sudden crisis, like a broken refrigerator, a car that won't start, or a storm causing chaos in your home? We rush to fix these problems, but why do we hesitate when it comes to fixing our most important relationship—our marriage?

In this insightful episode of The Extraordinary Marriage, Connie Durham dives deep into the three core reasons why couples struggle to see eye to eye. Drawing from her 40 years of marriage and extensive experience in human behavior, Connie offers pra...

Football, Fatherhood, and real family conversation.  Join Connie as she sits down with her sons, Jeremy and Josh, for an intimate and lively discussion on the values, memories, and lessons learned from their father.

In this episode, we explore the challenges and joys of being a dad, the impact of father figures, and the essential role fathers play in shaping their children's lives. From the camaraderie of Georgia football to the crucial life skills passed down from father to son, this conversation is a heartfelt tribute to fatherhood.

(00:00) Discover real life stories and a path to...

In this heartfelt episode of "The Extraordinary Marriage," Jeff & Connie explore the unique challenges and valuable lessons learned from a life shaped by the love, structure, and the discipline of a military upbringing. 💂‍♂️

(00:00) It seems like it works out fine. Come closer. No, we're the same height

(01:12) Today we're looking at Jeff's life growing up in the military (03:24) Jeff: My dad was a marine. He joined the marines in 1953

(07:35) My dad went to Vietnam in 67 and 1967 and came home in 69

(08:52) So often we forget about the reality of the military

(09:35...

Step into the heart of financial harmony with Connie Durham and Gail West, in this enlightening episode of The Extraordinary Marriage. Discover the dance of money in matrimony, where we unravel the complexities of our relationship with finances and its impact on our union with our beloved.

Episode Chapters

(00:00) Navigating the intricate relationship between love and money in marriage

(07:15) Gail West shares her personal story of love, commitment, and overcoming adversity

(12:30) The importance of space and time in nurturing a relationship

(17:45) How to express and fulfill individual n...

Embrace the power of forgiveness to transform your marriage! In this eye-opening episode of The Extraordinary Marriage, as Connie sits down with Toni Hebel, a beacon of hope for couples entangled in the web of unforgiveness.

With her profound insights and life-changing strategies, Toni unveils the secret to unlocking a world of freedom, love, and reconciliation in your relationship. Toni's story is not just a testament to the resilience of love but also a guide to navigating the tumultuous waters of marriage with grace and wisdom.

Whether you're battling anxiety, depression, anger, or addiction, discover...

Embark on a journey through the values and legacy of an extraordinary family with Connie's special guest, Trudy Cathy White, daughter of Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A.

In this episode of "The Extraordinary Marriage," we delve into the roots of a business built on biblical principles and the impact of a consistent, faithful, and generous life on marriage and family. 🕊️

Episode Chapters

(00:00) The profound influence of Trudy's parents on her life and marriage

(07:57) Trudy's childhood memories and the birth of Chick-fil-A

(12:09) The importance of communication and commitment in Trudy...

Embark on a heartfelt journey into the essence of 🌷 motherhood with Connie Durham and her delightful guests— Melissa, Tiffany, and Brittany, three vibrant young moms sharing their experiences and wisdom.

This episode of The Extraordinary Marriage is a tribute to the unconditional love, the laughter, the lessons, and the legacy that mothers bestow upon their children and the world.

🌷 Episode Chapters

(00:00) Connie introduces the touching theme of motherhood and its celebration

(03:24) Melissa shares the humorous side of parenting and the importance of positive reinforcement

(07:15) Tiffany reflects on the power of forgiv...

Join Jeff & Connie as they share personal anecdotes and practical advice, drawing from their own 40-year journey of love and collaboration. Whether it's tackling the chores, managing finances, or supporting each other's roles, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for couples at any stage of their relationship.

🏡 Episode Chapters

(00:00) A warm welcome back with insights on household responsibilities

(02:15) How our parents' roles shape our approach to marriage

(04:48) Jeff's childhood lessons on responsibility and teamwork

(08:30) The pitfalls of not discussing responsibilities with your spouse

(11:52) The consequences of...

Discover the art of nurturing peace and strength within your family. Join Lisa Reichelt, a seasoned educator turned parent coach, and Relationship Coach Connie, as they unfold the intricate tapestry of parenting with a heartwarming and enlightening conversation.

Ever wonder why you and your spouse are butting heads? Are you finding the same problems with your teen?

Both Connie and Lisa have FREE Gifts on understanding and getting along better with your TEEN in the Show notes.  www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast Episode 28 

Lisa Reichelt, a parent coach and passionate advocate for healthy families. I s...

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Welcome to a podcast that illuminates the intricate dance of communication within the sacred bond of marriage. Designed for those who have pledged their lives to one another, this podcast serves as a beacon for married couples seeking to foster a profound connection through the power of conversation and understanding.

Communication Styles: We all communicate differently. Delve into the diverse ways in which we express ourselves—beyond word...

Host - Connie Durham & Guest Tiffany Wicks

We all dream of an extraordinary marriage; a union filled with love 💌, communication, and everlasting companionship. Yet, achieving this can often feel like a mystery.

In our todays episode, we feature an incredible guest, Tiffany Wicks, whose life story resonates with strength and resilience. Like many of you, Tiffany has encountered real-life challenges stemming from her childhood and past experiences. Yet, it is her commitment to personal growth and determination to thrive as a wife and mother that truly sets her apart. 

Through our engaging discussion, we e...

Dive into the heart of a thriving partnership with Connie Durham in this week's episode of The Extraordinary Marriage, where we explore the critical balance of deposits and withdrawals in your love account. 🌹

💑 Connie, with her characteristic warmth and wisdom, invites us into an intimate conversation about the everyday actions that either enrich or deplete our marital bonds. From the art of forgiveness to the power of patience, she illuminates the small yet significant choices that can lead to a full 'bank account' of mutual love and respect.

📋 Episode Chapters

(00:00) Being a team pla...

🌟💞 I'm thrilled to bring you a special episode featuring esteemed psychologist, Linda Weigand , renowned for her deep understanding of marital relationships & dynamics. Linda's insights are a treasure trove for every couple eager to enrich their connection and navigate the complexities of married life with grace.

Find out more and find free gifts in the Show Notes www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast EPS 24

In our illuminating session, Linda highlights these pivotal points: Understanding the Core Issues: Uncover the foundational aspects that may underpin your relationship challenges. Building Emotional Intimacy: Discover the importance of emotional closeness and learn practi...

Unlock the secret to a flourishing marriage in Connie's revealing podcast! 🌹 Today, we're dissecting the Ten Deadly Sins that could be sabotaging your relationship. But there's hope; with understanding comes the power to change.

Act now—don't let the thorns prevail. Every episode arms you with insights and tactics to combat relationship woes and nurture an extraordinary bond.

Ready to transform your marriage? Tune in and turn the tide. Visit the show notes and access exclusive gifts at www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast. 🎙️💕 #MarriageGoals #RelationshipRescue

Join us as Cass Morrow shares his riveting transformation from a man entangled in the shadows of narcissism and abuse, to a beacon of change, disrupting divorce and championing the power of love and commitment.

This week, hardships transform into stepping stones for growth, and challenges become the catalysts for a renewed understanding of oneself and one's spouse. The message resounds with clarity: positivity, perseverance, and personal development are not just abstract concepts, but practical steps towards a future brimming with potential.

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Join us as we explore the role of camaraderie and companionship in the lifelong journey of marriage. Every episode is filled with authentic stories, expert insights, and practical advice to help you foster a more profound friendship with your partner.

We examine the nuances of what it takes to not only love but genuinely like and enjoy each other through the ebb and flow of life.

Subscribe and be part of "The Extraordinary Marriage" where friendship blooms at the heart. Host today is Jeff & Connie Durham Find Free Gifts and Show notes www.theextraordinarymarriage.com...

What a great opportunity, to do a check up, from the neck up, on just how enjoyable your marriage is.

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Ignite your relationship with exhilarating new experiences and heartfelt conversations that keep the flame alive, with Connie & Peg Arnold.

Find the transcript, free gift, and how to contact Peg in the Show-notes of EPS 19 www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast

Speaker and author Peg Arnold encourages women to embrace their God-given purpose through sharing her joys and challenges as a wife, mother, Nana, sister, friend, teacher, counselor, and church leader. She has been a leader in women’s ministry for more than 25 years, using personal witness, drama, teachings, and humor to make scripture come...

Marriage: the ultimate roller coaster ride! We've all been there, feeling like our life is spinning out of control and hope is nowhere in sight. But fear not my friends, it's time to hit the pause button, take a breather, and reevaluate the situation. Let's bring some sanity back into the chaos!

Hi I'm Connie... visit me at www.theextraordinarymarriage.com/podcast and grab the show-notes, and other ways you can tame the chaos and focus on finding more joy in your relationship.

Why spill the beans, you may ask? Well, if you want a marriage that's out of this world, it's crucial to open up and share your deepest desires with your partner. Trust me, it's like adding rocket fuel to your relationship!

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Lani is a Business Strategist, mindset clarity coach, and founder of Empowered to Profit M.O.R.E. a program for mom entrepreneurs who are ready to design a life and business they love by em...

Prepare for this week's captivating podcast, as we delve into the intriguing realm of divergent perspectives. It's fascinating how what holds significance for one person may hold little value for another. We'll explore the notion that assuming we can read someone else's mind can be an perilous endeavor. Do you follow me?

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Feeling the stress of raising polite and well-behaved kids? Well, brace yourselves because your marriage might also be going through a rough patch!

Prepare yourselves for some hilarious and eye-opening tips from Jaci & Connie as they spill the beans on how to have an extraordinary marriage while dealing with the challenges of parenting.  Don't miss out on this epic conversation!

Jaci has one of my FAVORITE Gifts......Communicate better with your kids AND find many parts superb for husband or wife use also!!   

60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool

Tired of the same old, same old? Hear ye, hear ye! If you're stuck in a rut with your marriage, kids, or work challenges, it's time to break free from the monotony.

Tune in to this week's podcast, "Marriage Makeover," and discover fresh, exciting ways to level up your marriage game. Let's turn your "meh" into "marvelous"!

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Today, Connie & Debbi are here to chat about something super important - starting with the end in mind!

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Now, don't worry, we're not talking about the ultimate "THE END" here, but rather about creating awesome new visions for each phase of your life.

Because let's face it, life is a crazy rollercoaster - with job changes, kids entering the picture, and all sorts of unexpected twists and turns.

But here's the re...

Feeling like your relationship needs a little extra oomph?

Forget the age-old advice of "Happy wife, Happy life."

It's time for some equality, my friends. Happy husbands are just as important! So, how do we achieve that ultimate win-win situation? Buckle up, for a game changing discussion.

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Michelle has helped her clients pay off tens of thousands of dollars in debt, get 5 figure raises, double and triple their money in their bank account, buy their first house, buy their first investment property and ultimately become debt free.

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Kim Stanley is a worship leader, songwriter, and speaker who loves to inspire others to pursue the heart of God. She calls women up to a higher place, awakening them to a lifestyle of worship.

You'll find show notes and free gifts @  

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Along side her husband Joe, they have ministered together for over 30 years, speaking and leading worship in many churches and conferences both stateside and overseas.

They have recorded several CD’s and Kim is also the co-host of a podcast called...