Faezeh's Podcast

Faezeh's Podcast

By: Faezeh

Language: en-us

Categories: Health, Fitness, Society, Culture, Relationships, Philosophy

In this podcast we will talk about everything and I mean EVERYTHING! psychology, mental health, habit formation, transformation, dating, finding friends, remaining healthy friendships, setting realistic expectations for ourselves, happiness, travel, tech, cooking life and so much more :) My goal is to show up for this podcast every single day to hang out with all of you and share my message in hopes of helping others.

Episodes

#44: How to Romanticize Your Life: The Art of Slowing Down in a Fast World
Jan 10, 2026

In this episode, we explore what it really means to romanticize your life — not in the cliché, Pinterest-perfect way, but in the grounded, everyday moments where presence turns into peace.

We talk about the art of slowing down in a world that’s constantly rushing us, and how choosing to move with intention can completely shift the way you experience your day.

We share simple, practical tips for adding softness and beauty into your routines:
 ✨ creating rituals instead of habits
 ✨ finding magic in the mundane
 ✨ making small moments feel meaningful
 ✨ reconnecting with your senses<...

Duration: 00:26:42
#43: Why Online Advice Doesn’t Work
Jan 03, 2026

In this episode, I talk about why so much advice online feels harsh, extreme, or impossible to apply in real life. The truth is: a lot of the viral “wisdom” we consume comes from people who’ve been deeply hurt, disappointed, or disillusioned. They’ve seen the dark parts of the world — and their advice reflects that pain.

But when we take guidance from someone’s wounds instead of their healing, it rarely fits our lives. It misses the nuance. It ignores context. It assumes everyone is broken in the same way.

I explore how to recognize...

Duration: 00:29:09
#42: Healing the Anxious–Avoidant Dynamic: Consciousness, Accountability & Real Growth
Dec 27, 2025

In this episode, I explore a perspective most people never consider: we can only share advice from the level of consciousness we’re currently at — and that’s one of the reasons therapy doesn’t always create real transformation.

I talk about how some of the deepest healing doesn’t come from analyzing ourselves in isolation, but from sitting with the person who has been impacted by our behavior. The person who has lived with our patterns, our triggers, our inconsistencies, and our unhealed wounds.

Because the truth is:

it’s often easier to an...

Duration: 00:29:49
#41: Love Bombing - Intermittent Reinforcement vs Continuous Reinforcement
Dec 20, 2025

In this episode, my sister and I break down the psychology behind love bombing — why it feels so intense, why it’s so confusing, and why so many people get stuck in its cycle.

We talk about the difference between intermittent reinforcement (high highs, low lows, mixed signals, unpredictable attention) and continuous reinforcement (steady effort, consistency, emotional safety). One keeps you addicted. The other helps you build real love.

Together, we share how to recognize the patterns, why the intermittent cycle can feel intoxicating even when it’s unhealthy, and how to rew...

Duration: 00:30:35
#40: Consistency vs. Flow: Finding the Balance
Dec 13, 2025

In this episode, I talk about the delicate balance between staying consistent and going with the flow. We all know the power of discipline — sticking to our routines, honoring our commitments, and showing up even when it’s hard. But life also moves in seasons, and sometimes the most aligned thing we can do is slow down, rest, and trust where life is leading us.

I explore how to know when to hold on to your habits — like your gym routine, your sleep schedule, or your evening rituals — and when to let life’s changes guide you in a new d...

Duration: 00:26:21
#39: Setting the Standard: Dating With Confidence & High Expectations
Dec 06, 2025

In this episode, my sister and I dive into dating from a perspective we’ve learned through experience: women set the tone. We decide the standard. We teach people how to treat us by what we accept, what we expect, and what we refuse to entertain.

We talk about why having high standards isn’t “too much” — it’s a form of self-respect. It’s knowing your value and understanding that the right person won’t shrink from your expectations; they’ll show up for them.

Together, we explore how to date with confidence, how to...

Duration: 00:36:17
#38: The Art of Surrender: Finding Balance Between Control and Letting Go
Nov 29, 2025

In this episode, I explore one of life’s most delicate balances — knowing when to take control and when to let go. We talk about the nuances of surrender: how it’s not about giving up, but about trusting timing, people, and ourselves.

I share reflections on the parts of life that need structure, discipline, and direction — and the parts that require softness, acceptance, and flow. Because sometimes, the more we try to control, the more resistance we create… and the moment we let go, everything starts to align naturally.

This episode is a gentle reminder t...

Duration: 00:31:40
#37: Becoming Your Next-Level Self in 2026: A Full-Year Life Audit
Nov 21, 2025

In this episode, I walk you through a full-year audit, exploring every area of life: mental health, physical health, relationships, finances, spirituality, and purpose. Together, we reflect on what worked, what didn’t, and where the gaps are so we can set meaningful resolutions for the year ahead.

I also talk about why December is the best time to begin your transformation, not January. Because if we want lasting change, we have to embody the next version of ourselves before the calendar turns. We can’t wait to become that person; we have to start livi...

Duration: 00:32:34
#36: Why I Stopped Going to Therapy
Nov 15, 2025

In this episode, I open up about why I decided to step away from therapy — and what I’ve learned about healing on my own terms. It’s not that I don’t believe in therapy, but I’ve come to realize that sometimes, we don’t need someone to analyze us or tell us what’s wrong. We need to feel seen, held, and loved.

I talk about the shift from seeking external guidance to finding answers within — learning to trust intuition, self-awareness, and connection. What we truly need is community, care, and presence — people who love us enough to...

Duration: 00:32:44
#35: Growing Up Together (and Apart): The Reality of Adult Friendships
Nov 09, 2025

In this episode, my sister and I dive into the beautiful yet complicated world of adult friendships. We talk about how friendships change as we grow, the challenges of staying close when life gets busier, and the bittersweet process of outgrowing certain connections.

We share our own experiences — from the effort it takes to keep friendships alive in our 20s and 30s, to learning how to recognize when it’s time to let go or redefine what friendship means.

This is an honest, comforting conversation about how friendship evolves — and how to navigate it with grace...

Duration: 00:32:16
#34: Dating Diaries, Sisters’ Edition
Nov 02, 2025

In this episode, I sit down with my sister for an honest and hilarious deep dive into the world of dating today. From first date jitters to red flags, icks, and unexpected lessons, we share our personal stories, cultural perspectives, and the ways our views on love have evolved.

We talk about what it’s really like navigating dating in your 20s and 30s balancing intuition, standards, and self-worth and how sisterly advice (and laughter) makes the whole thing a little easier.

Duration: 00:36:37
#33: I'M BACK!
Oct 13, 2025

After months away from the mic, I’m finally back — more grounded, more honest, and more me. In this episode, I share why I stopped podcasting, how my life completely turned upside down, and what it felt like to lose myself in the process.

For a long time, I believed I shouldn’t speak when I was uncertain that I had to wait until I figured everything out. But silence taught me something deeper: even when you’re lost, your voice still matters.

This episode is a raw life update, a reflection on change, and a story...

Duration: 00:34:06
#32: Navigating Anxiety: Rewiring the Subconscious, Releasing Control, and Trusting Yourself Beyond Fear
Mar 26, 2025

In this deeply honest and reflective episode, we dive into the root of anxiety and overthinking—where it comes from, why it shows up, and how it often masks itself as intuition or “gut feelings.” We talk about how the need for control stems from past experiences where we felt helpless or hurt, and how our minds work overtime trying to predict every outcome to avoid going through pain again.

But real peace doesn’t come from control—it comes from trust. Trust in yourself, in your ability to get back up no matter what life throws at you. We...

Duration: 00:44:02
#31: We have built a system of instant gratification instead of real gratitude and real healing.
Feb 17, 2024

The way our current comfort system crisis has been built is in a way that will soothe you immediately the wrong way before you can think about finding actual solutions that can change your current circumstances. I believe that’s why a lot of us can’t get out of our loops. Because we have lost the ability to sit with our emotions and feel them without any distraction like doom scrolling, binge eating, binge watching, ordering Uber eats each day, staying up all night, alcohol, drugs, and etc.

We stay in the same place that is hurt...

Duration: 00:31:42
#30: Growth mindset entails you choosing who you want to be, not to be true to the current version of you!
Jan 04, 2024

We hear a lot in self development space, that you need to be true to who you are whether it's in business, or in dating and personal life. But is this accurate?
Personally, I don't think so. Let's say you are a shy person in first grade and basically all your childhood, does that mean you are doomed to suffer till your last breath because you have to be true to that?  
Who you are right now is the result of your life experiences and decisions in the past, nothing more. I believe we are not a t...

Duration: 00:30:11
#29: Moving to a new country is the bravest and most life changing decision one can make!
Dec 25, 2023

Moving to a new country alone is one of the hardest things a person can do. I believe immigrants are the most resilient, strongest and bravest people on this planet. I don't think we talk enough about how dashing it is to say goodbye to your home country, to leave what's familiar behind and step into unknown. In this episode, I am sharing some of the hardships people face when moving to a new country as an immigrant. My intention is to raise awareness on how heart breaking and brutal it could feel at times so my immigrant listeners...

Duration: 00:36:02
#28: Life lessons from 2023
Dec 21, 2023

In this episode I talked about 4 main lessons I learned :

people don't always share the same meaning as the promises that they make to you.balance is everything. Aim for balance knowing it's a moving target.Not all the advice out there applies to me! A lot of it is for privileged people :)The deeper the hurt, the higher our capacity to feel joy.limiting beliefs are what keep us at the shore.


Listen to the episode for more details and as always, let me know if you had any questions for me to answer!

Duration: 00:35:17
#27: Breaking Barriers: Navigating the Modern Maze for Women
Dec 10, 2023

Navigating the modern world as a woman can indeed present challenges, and discussions around gender disparities, workplace dynamics, and societal expectations have gained prominence. It's important to note that experiences vary widely among individuals, and while progress has been made, there are still areas that warrant attention and improvement.

Workplaces, historically tailored to accommodate a predominantly male workforce, have undergone transformations but continue to grapple with gender imbalances. Women may encounter hurdles such as the gender pay gap, limited representation in leadership roles, and subtle biases that impact career advancement. Balancing career aspirations with societal expectations, familial...

Duration: 00:31:18
#26: The Significance of Friendships: Finding and Nurturing Meaningful Connections
Dec 03, 2023

Friendship, a profound and indispensable facet of the human experience, plays a pivotal role in shaping our lives. From providing emotional support to celebrating our victories, friends contribute significantly to our well-being and personal growth. This essay explores the importance of friendships, strategies for finding friends, and essential criteria that foster strong and lasting connections.

The Importance of Friendships

Friendships are the cornerstones of a fulfilling and enriched life. Beyond being companions for shared experiences, friends act as pillars during times of adversity, offering comfort and understanding. Research consistently highlights...

Duration: 00:32:55
#25: "Embracing the Spirit: A Festive Journey Through Gratitude and Christmas Cheer"
Nov 27, 2023

The arrival of the holiday season, such as Christmas, brings with it a unique and magical atmosphere. Getting into the spirit of Christmas is not just about decorating homes or exchanging gifts; it's also about fostering a sense of joy, gratitude, and connection with others. This festive season invites us to tap into the warmth of togetherness, spread kindness, and reflect on the blessings in our lives.

Morning Gratitude Journaling as a Gateway:

Incorporating morning gratitude journaling into the festive season serves as a powerful gateway to fully embrace the spirit of Christmas...

Duration: 00:25:23
#24: The Influence of Personal Experience and Decision-Making in Overcoming Setbacks
Nov 16, 2023

Continuing our discussion from the previous episode, the question of where to steer our course after experiencing a setback often lies in the intricate depths of our subconscious. Our life's compass is intricately calibrated by our upbringing, the company we keep, the books we read, and numerous other factors. The ultimate metric for navigating these uncharted waters is, quite simply, you—your life experience.

Why? Because you alone get to live and fully embrace your unique journey. With this understanding, the metric of your own life experience takes center stage, guiding your decisions in the wake of fa...

Duration: 00:26:12
#23: Embracing the Complex Landscape of Emotions: A Journey Through Our Response to Life's Challenges
Nov 11, 2023

At some point in our lives, we've all faced situations where things didn't go as planned or as we had hoped, and the resulting feelings can be overwhelming. But if we dive a little deeper, we find a range of complex emotions associated with these experiences.

In her book, "The Atlas of the Heart," Brené Brown delves into these emotions, which can include disappointment, regret, discouragement, resignation, and frustration. The specific emotion we feel often depends on our circumstances. For instance, we experience disappointment when we realize the outcome was beyond our control. Frustration s...

Duration: 00:29:52
#22: Decluttering Your Space for Self-Care
Nov 05, 2023

Decluttering your living space can be a transformative act of self-care, yielding multiple advantages:

1. Boosted Efficiency and Productivity: When you declutter, your surroundings become less chaotic, allowing your mind to focus more effectively. A clear space leads to improved efficiency and productivity.

2. Enhanced Clarity on Belongings: Decluttering provides you with a comprehensive understanding of your possessions, from clothing items to skincare products and household items. This can curb impulsive shopping habits, especially during the holiday sale season.

3. Rediscovery and Capsule Wardrobe: Clearing out clutter can help...

Duration: 00:25:32
#21: Failing in life can lead to finding your balance just like trying a new yoga pose!
Oct 22, 2023

Just as you need to fall a few times to find balance in a yoga pose, you need to fall to your rock bottom a few times to find your balance point in life. Each aspect of my life that currently has some balance is because I had hit a huge rock bottom. This is not to say this balance is going to stay. Balance state is a flow state. It will flow with you as you grow.

Maybe right now balance looks like working 10 hours a day while it was only 4 hours last...

Duration: 00:19:45
#20: 75 day challenge before 2024!
Oct 13, 2023

As always, I want us all to challenge ourselves to live our life more fully and more authentically. To be healthy, happy and fulfilled has been my goal for the longest time. To achieve that this year, we can start from a challenge before the new year. I know a lot of us have always had new years resolutions and we feel like each year instead of crossing them, we move it to the next year without ever accomplishing it. Do you want to break this cycle? The solution could be this challenge. Listen to this episode to...

Duration: 00:30:04
#19: Self improvement is about decreasing recovery time after rough patches not avoiding them.
Sep 22, 2023

Just like how consistently working out reduces recovery time, working on yourself and having a self improvement journey can reduce the time you need to heal. It can make you more resilient after each hard patch in life so you bounce back faster and 10X better. Reducing this time does not mean avoiding it, you do need time to heal and time to sit with yourself and your emotions alone to discover your patterns, to discover what's going on in your heart and in your mind and to gain clarity over your reality. This self improvement only means you...

Duration: 00:34:56
#18: Why cliche relationship advice in modern world might be wrong for you, (and why I have been away from podcast)
Aug 23, 2023

“You’ll find the right person when you are fully ok and happy on your own”

“You just need to put yourself out there”

“You need to enjoy your time alone to let the right person in”
“You need to heal your trauma to attract the one”

“ You shouldn’t go look for love, love should find you”

“ Don’t chase, attract”

We all have heard these quotes a thousand times by others trying to coach us on how to find love, especiall...

Duration: 00:29:16
#17: First VS Second child and family dynamics: An episode with my sister!
Jul 29, 2023

This episode is a special with my sister, Reyhaneh! and it's going to be in farsi!
I am so glad she is here with us, we have a great banter in this one! A fun episode to go over our childhood memories, talk about trauma, family dynamics, life and so much more!
Hope you listen to this one and enjoy!

Duration: 00:48:44
#16: Does our trauma make us stronger?
Jul 04, 2023

What makes someone build resilience through the hardships of life instead of toxic coping mechanisms to survive?

I have asked this question from myself several times as I have seen examples of both in my life. In this episode I want to answer this question to the best of my knowledge. In my view there are two main reasons for this. First reason could be the dosage of trauma we get in a period of time. If the dosage is too much (just like a deadly disease), we are most likely going to latch onto negative coping...

Duration: 00:33:47
#15: Social media isn't toxic; How you utilize it, is.
Jun 26, 2023

As you all know, I love talking about nuances rather than just the cliches. The cliche here is that social media is toxic and the information here is almost useless and repetitive, that it can harm people's self esteem and isolate them. Although there is truth to that for most people, the reality is that there are people in this world who have utilized their social media to earn 6 figure income, travel the world, gain financial freedom, meet new interesting people and be happier and more content with their lives! The key here in my view is about how...

Duration: 00:45:25
#14: Is anything else other than focusing on goals a waste of time?
Jun 19, 2023

We have all heard this quote before that I am about to butcher a little bit. It says once you know your goal and you know what you want, everything else becomes a distraction. Although that could be true to some degree, not everything that isn’t our primary goal is a distraction! Let’s say your main goal is to run a marathon. Does this mean any other activity rather than training for Marathon is a waste of time? NO! You still need rest, you need time with friends, time with family, time to reflect, and so much...

Duration: 00:39:25
#13: Being aware of our patterns helps us being kinder to others
Jun 07, 2023

We all either know someone who could be short with others or we are the one who sometimes could be a bit rude towards people. In my view, this behaviour comes from a deeper wound within that needs some work, like a kid screaming for help and attention! And that's why I believe when we are triggered, we should take the time to process our emotions and get to the root cause of this issue. This can be done with therapy, with time in nature, meditation, exercising, connecting with loved ones, sun exposure and so much more. In this...

Duration: 00:29:56
#12: Building a healthy body that ensures your longevity is more important than your body shape
May 29, 2023

Being on a health journey has changed my life completely and I want to share some tips that could have saved me a lot of time and hassle in the beginning. I narrowed it down to exercise, nutrition and sleep and talked about each in great detail. One thing to keep in mind about all of these points is, you have to consider your own body, anatomy, culture, age and other personal factors into account when trying to come up with your healthy routines. Oh and more thing, please don’t compare your body to others as a fa...

Duration: 00:48:49
#11: Investing in yourself and getting people to invest in you
May 24, 2023

If you invest in yourself, people are going to see your value and try to match the energy and effort you put in yourself. This means the more investment they put down, the more likely they are to be invested and be around and they will like you even more! So if you are listening this episode, please stop playing cool when you are not cool with low effort from people! Start by investing in yourself, feeling grateful for who you are and see people desiring you even more! People notice how you treat yourself and if you treat...

Duration: 00:24:28
#10: Mental breakdowns, feeling stuck and how to get out!
May 17, 2023

I didn't publish any episodes last week as I was experiencing a lot of stuck energy and I had to retreat and reserve my energy to come back again with higher energy levels and new lessons 🙂The topic of today’s episode is about feeling stuck in our lives and feeling like nothing is working out in our favor, it’s as if our lives are one roadblock after another! Trust me, I understand. But! I have some really effective tools for you through the end of the episode, to help you navigate these hard times 🙂And in case nobod...

Duration: 00:45:24
#9: Contradicting advice from outside world, being true to ourselves, finding balance
May 02, 2023

Are you tired of all the advice out there that sometimes contradicts each other? 

Should I settle down or should I have high standards? Should I lose weight or not? 

I think the answer boils down to understanding the balance you should bring in your life. But what is the balance? Well! We talk about it in this episode. To find a balance to be true ourselves while also levelling up. Hope you enjoy listening to this episode and find something you can take home 🙂


Duration: 00:27:38
#8: Self worth, communicating our worth and believing in it
Apr 25, 2023

Have you watched the new Air movie? Well, you should! This episode focuses on a lesson I learnt from the movie. I always talk about our self worth, communicating our worth and believing in it but this movie gave me a new perspective and a new vocabulary to talk about this topic. I.e. to talk about being bold and being unapologetic about what matters to us. If you believe you are worth what you are asking for, that you deserve what you desire, there is no stopping you honey! Doesn’t matter if it’s in dating, if i...

Duration: 00:24:19
#7: Power of subconscious wiring, Synchronicities and Alignment with higher self, a personal story.
Apr 18, 2023

There are moments in life that feel like magic, and the more in sync we are with the universe and higher power, the more of these moments we'll see. The simplest reason to explain this is to get to the power of mindset and self perspective. If you set your mind into believing good stuff is always coming your way and focusing on the little positive moments in your life and embrace yourself in the gratitude that comes with this fixed focus, you'll get to experience the magical moments more, called synchronicities! In this episode, I share a recent...

Duration: 00:40:06
How to practice English to become indistinguishable from a native speaker!
Apr 11, 2023

This is all I have to say about practicing English as your second language! 
Most of my advice is based on my personal experience and the IELTS exam I took 3 years ago. Hope this helps you gradually improve your English skills.

Duration: 00:28:06
Do you have high standards in dating or are you just aware of the value you bring to the table?
Apr 04, 2023

In this episode we talk about standards in dating. We all have some standards and to some people, those standards might be so high and they will try to talk us out of having them. Some of these people really and deeply care for us and want to see us happy but not all have good intentions! Even those with good intentions might not know us completely and know what would work for us. My suggestion for all the friends in my community is to get feedback from people and reevaluate accordingly but not let them rule your thoughts...

Duration: 00:41:44
Your morning routine starts from the night before!
Mar 31, 2023

Ever wanted to elevate your day by building a winner morning routine? My suggestion for you in this episode is to keep it simple and add activities in your morning that contribute to any of these 4 categories: nourishing your body, moving your body, mindfulness, connecting with nature and people. As long as you are hitting all these 4 goals daily, you are set for a beautiful day! One thing to keep in mind however is that your million dollars morning routine won't happen if you don't have a good night time routine. You have to set yourself up...

Duration: 00:28:36
Haters are your fans in disguise!
Mar 28, 2023

In this episode we talk about haters! Because as you know, we all have them! they're everywhere! They are sitting around, waiting for you to do something with your life so they can talk about it in order to feed their vacant existence. Can you guess why? right! Because their lives are empty and their identity revolves around spreading lies and hate towards others. They honestly have nothing better to do with their time! So instead of working on themselves, engaging in their own communities or just simply minding their own business, they decide to talk about you! Because...

Duration: 00:24:53
Is the voice in your head your intuition or anxiety?
Mar 24, 2023

We all have experienced times when we thought about someone or some experience in our life, and our body felt like something might be off. Our mind sent an alarm to our system to make us avoid that person or that situation. Although sometimes this subconscious trigger help us be safe and sound, it can also be a false alarm! In this episode we talk about why this alarm goes off in our body and how to distinguish between the real threat or just a false alarm. 
Disclaimer: This episode is not a substitute for help of a m...

Duration: 00:30:05
Introduction (Procrastination)
Mar 21, 2023

This episode is an introduction to my podcast! Yes!!! My podcast! Finally I am here on this platform to echo my opinion, hang out with all of you and grow with you. In this episode, we also briefly talked about procrastination, fear of success, fear of being seen and why we don't start working on our dreams. Hope you find this episode helpful! Can't wait to talk to you guys soon.

Duration: 00:31:25