Being Different with Liz Durham

Y'all better buckle up because this episode is a rollercoaster... We’re covering it all, from shattered dishes before the first day of swim team, to overpriced Mickey waffles, and my very strong opinions on Disney World (spoiler alert: we won't be going back).

I’m recapping our first ever trip to Disney, why it was chaos from start to finish, and how it confirmed I’m just not a “Disney mom.” I also share some real talk on letting our kids try hard things, even when it makes a mess, and my conflicted feelings about how schools te...

Here’s the thing—just because someone’s wearing a white coat doesn’t mean they have all the answers. In Part 2, Jill and I pick up where we left off and dive straight into the deep end. We talk about the pushy vaccine talk, why tongue tie revisions might be a total scam (yep, I said it), and how even the “crunchy” holistic world can be just as profit-driven as Big Pharma. We also get into COVID, fear tactics, and how moms are expected to make huge decisions with zero real support—while also keeping their kids alive and maybe brus...

Let’s be real—the first year of motherhood is basically a blur of leaking boobs, zero sleep, and wondering if you’ve totally lost yourself. In Part 1 of my convo with Jill Wright (a fellow mom and chiropractor I met on Instagram, because social media does occasionally do something right), we get into all of it. We talk about why that first year feels like you got hit by a hormonal freight train, how Jill’s background in holistic health influenced the choices she made as a mom, and why planning your nursery is cute—but maybe researching vaccines a...

Welcome back y'all. This solo episode of Being Different is going to be about problems AND solutions. I've been thinking about the differences between stay at home moms versus working moms. And I'm going to share my ideas for a new outdoor play program at my son's school.

Look, I've been on both sides of the situation. I have worked 60-70 hour weeks, closing high pressure deals and now I'm a stay at home mom with three kids. I don't like that people make that distinction because being a stay at home mom, in my opinion, is...

In this episode, I’m back with Roman Bystrianyk, co-author of Dissolving Illusions, and y’all—we go deep. We break down the story behind polio, and spoiler alert: it’s not what we were taught. From DDT and lead arsenate to the shifting definitions of polio cases post-vaccine rollout, Roman shows how much of what we “know” has been shaped by fear, not facts. We talk about how public health declined when we started relying on meds instead of nutrition, and how the obsession with vaccination overshadowed basic immune system support like sunlight, vitamin C, and, I don’t know—eating...

Today’s episode is a real eye-opener. I’m sitting down with Roman Bystrianyk, co-author of Dissolving Illusions, and we’re diving into some seriously uncomfortable truths about the Industrial Revolution. We’ve all heard about how vaccines saved the day, right? Well, Roman’s here to flip that narrative. We talk about the grim reality of life back then—think poor sanitation, awful working conditions, and unhealthy living.

Roman breaks it down: it wasn’t vaccines that dropped those mortality rates, it was public health improvements, like better living conditions, cleaner water, and, yep, hygiene. We also unpack th...

Y'all, buckle up because this episode is WILD! I sat down with Meredith Oke and learned more about light in one hour than I have in my entire life. We're talking about how those stupid blue lights and screens are basically destroying our health, why sunglasses might be the enemy, and how something as simple as morning sunlight can totally transform your body. If you're tired of feeling like garbage and popping supplements like candy, this episode is gonna blow your mind. Trust me, I went from thinking this was gonna be another nerdy health talk to being completely...

Today I’m unpacking what it really means to set ‘stretch goals’ for myself and my kids—beyond just keeping them from turning into little jerks. Inspired by a recent convo, I’m reflecting on how we can prepare our children to be like Joshua—ready to take on God’s plan, no matter where it points.

From dealing with daily messes without losing our cool to thinking big about their futures, I’m exploring how embracing flexibility and readiness for change is crucial. This episode is all about pushing boundaries and preparing our kids to not only face the wo...

This week, I’m sitting down with John Brock—my husband Luke’s boss and business partner—who also happens to be one of the most unexpected, unconventional lawyers you’ll ever meet.

John didn’t take the typical path to success. As a kid, he struggled in school, barely knew how to read in elementary, and had to fight for every win. Now? He’s running one of the most forward-thinking law firms in Knoxville. We talk about what it took to get here, the hustle (he’s a 4 a.m. workout guy, y’all), and how he and his wif...

Moms, I don’t know about y’all, but I am over it—the busy-for-the-sake-of-being-busy nonsense, the never-ending school events that do nothing but stress parents out, and the homework that somehow becomes my responsibility. Who decided we needed a themed snack day every other week? And don’t get me started on the over-scheduling—kids don’t need another enrichment class, they need to go play in the dirt.

This week, I’m breaking down why less is more when it comes to motherhood and why I refuse to let society guilt me into running myself ragged. We’re...

I'm in a mood, y'all. Today, I'm talking about why I believe society’s got it all wrong when it comes to raising our kids and making life choices. I’m laying it all out—no filter, no apologies. So if you're feeling easily offended, go ahead and skip to the next episode. 

From the myths of birth control and the push towards late marriages, I'm over it. I'd rather have real conversations about the benefits of homeschooling and the magic of breastfeeding. I talk about why I think early marriage can be a game changer and why it’...

Today's conversation is deeply personal, and deeply important. I sit down with my dear friend Emily Smith to discuss her incredible journey with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. Just months after her shocking diagnosis, Emily's cancer had already spread to her brain - a rare and aggressive progression that left her doctors uncertain of the path forward. But today, we talk about the courage and grace Emily carried in the midst of her fight. It will leave you in awe and eager to embrace each day with renewed purpose.

Through it all, Emily has maintained an unwavering...

To me, Matt Kaye is a true embodiment of the American dream. From his humble beginnings in Oak Ridge, Tennessee, to creating a booming $300 million business that cleaned up old explosives from military sites, Matt’s story is iconic. Now, retired at 49 and diving into the restaurant world with Cazzy’s, he’s living life on his terms. We’re gonna dig into how he made it big, the challenges along the way, and what it’s like stepping away from the corporate grind to spend more time with his beautiful family and his latest passion project. 

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Ever feel invisible while doing the hardest job in the world? Yeah, me too. Today I’m talking about losing it over the lack of ‘thanks’ I get and why we need to smash the perfect mom façade. You'll hear about my first big trip away from the kids and how we handled it at home—after we saved a chicken in the freezing cold, of course.

This year, it’s all about  ditching impossible standards and actually enjoying the experience. Forget perfection—let’s get real about making sure our identity stretches beyond just being a mom and settin...

This week, I am yet again totally inspired by the confidence and creativity of 17 year old entrepreneur, Sofi SanMiguel. With the support of her mother Dena, Sofi launched her own business, Ivory Beau Boutique while tackling life as a high school student. We talk about the flexibility and freedom that comes with running your own business, as well as the challenges of time management and self-promotion. 

Plus, Sofi and Dena share what it takes to run a business, including details like selecting inventory, navigating the financial side, and building relationships with customers. You'll get a glimpse into t...

If y’all have been keeping up with my show for a while, you may remember my conversation with Dena SanMiguel about her transition from her career to stay-at-home mom. This week she’s back and she’s not alone - her daughter Sofi joins us to talk about their latest adventure: Ivory Beau Boutique. At just 17 years old, Sofi is already stepping into the entrepreneurship ring with her mom’s support, and you don’t want to miss their story.

Sofi and Dena told me all about how they came up with the concept and name, and the ch...

Have y'all seen the documentary about Martha Stewart? I think she's fascinating. In this episode, I sit down with one of my funniest friends, Kyri Tombras, to talk about Martha's life and legacy: from her unconventional upbringing, her meteoric rise to become a homemaking billionaire, and her dramatic fall from grace after her insider trading scandal. 

Kyri and I are curious about what Martha's story shows us about the myth of the perfect homemaker. As moms ourselves, we know how unrealistic it is to keep a tidy house, cook healthy meals, and maintain our sanity. So let's p...

You know how everyone keeps asking me if I’m going to talk politics on this show? Well, I’m not going to tell you what to think, but I am going to challenge you to think. This episode isn’t about the Trump vs. Kamala drama, but what the recent election means for folks like us. I asked my friend and producer Anthony Palmer to sit down and talk about the complexities of voter behavior and the importance of empathy in our political conversations.


Despite our differences, our chat reveals how much we actually share—like wan...

That's right, I'm back on this topic. I’m over the big, flashy birthday parties. Today, I'm going to tell you about Mac’s latest birthday that Luke went all out for, and honestly, it was just too much. It’s time to rethink the whole event thing—especially with Christmas coming up. I feel guilty about buying cheap toys that barely last and contribute to some real bad stuff globally. We're voting with our dollars, and I think we can do better. So, let’s get real about cutting back, focusing on what truly matters, and teaching our kids the s...

You all know I've been frustrated with our school options. Well, I heard from Charlene Paffumi - a former public school teacher turned homeschooling guru - and felt like we all needed to hear it. After venting my frustrations about formal schooling, Charlene shared her innovative approach to education using a hybrid homeschool model. She tailors her three daughters’ learning experiences around what they're actually interested in, and balances days between a homeschool academy and time at home. I was left feeling inspired and empowered to continue seeking the best educational path for my own family. If you're a pa...

Y'all, I think all this stuff we think we need is just weighing us down. My friend Sarah Verzyden is here, and she's the queen of helping people ditch the clutter and find their freedom. We're talking minimalism, getting rid of the crap that doesn't serve us, and how to teach our kids not to be slaves to material things. Sarah's been in the trenches, seeing it all - from hoarders to people who just can't let go. She's sharing her best tips and tricks to help you get your space and your mind right. If you're sick of...

Can modern women find real fulfillment in the old-school template of homemaking without losing themselves? I'm tackling the "Trad Wife" debate in today’s episode. I’ve been chewing over a podcast featuring Lauren Southern, who swung from political commentator to "Trad Wife" and then critiqued the movement. Don't get me wrong, I had my moment as a self-proclaimed feminist. But now as a SAHM, I want to talk about a biblical take on gender roles and mutual respect in marriage, exploring why it’s crucial for women to hold onto their skills while navigating traditional family dynamics. Buckle up, I...

Welcome back. It’s been a while since you’ve heard a good feminism rant from me, so that’s what we’re doing today. I’m ready to tackle the stigma around stay-at-home moms and the societal pressure to maintain a career. In this episode, I reflect on my own decision to pause my career to raise my children, challenging the ridiculous narrative that women should balance it all. I’m going to debunk the ‘hot mess mom’ stereotype because, honestly, I see motherhood as a dedicated and respectable role. Also, if you know any positive influencers on Instagram, shoot...

Having worked in mortgages for years and now watching my kids grow up, I’m thinking about how to talk to them about money and investing. It strikes me that many parents struggle with this because they don’t fully grasp it themselves. To get some insight, I sat down with Drew Nix, my financial guru, to talk about empowering our kids with money smarts.

Drew talks about how early financial education, like starting Roth IRAs and understanding mutual funds, can set our kids up for success. We even cover 529 plans, life insurance, and why it’s crucia...

Today, I’m diving into the whirlwind of Mac’s transition to full-time pre-K at a private school here in Knoxville. Let me tell you, it’s been a journey—from battling early morning routines to handling the long commutes. The rigid schedule has been tough on Mac, leading to exhaustion and those dreaded meltdowns. I just don't think every kid fits this mold.

I’m also getting real about our breastfeeding journey, where we navigated the tricky waters of tongue and lip ties, and the painful revisions that followed. Are these procedures really necessary...

Today I'm talking about regrets and lessons learned. From the over-the-top birthday parties I used to throw to the rigid schedules I tried to force, I'm going to share how I've simplified things and focused on what really matters - quality time with my family. I'll also talk about how I've changed my approach to feeding, sleep, and dealing with my own stress and anxiety as a working mom.

If you're a parent, I know you'll relate to a lot of this. And if you're not a parent yet, consider this a cautionary tale (and a dose...

Have you seen those hilarious videos about black SUV moms vs white SUV moms? After I finished laughing - I'm a gray SUV mom, by the way - it made me think about the deeper issues there, like the realities of homemaking and the expectations of being a 'perfect' mom.

Today, I'm talking about the pressure to keep up appearances and the importance of finding practical resources to manage everything from meal planning to household maintenance. I've even tried to use tools like a planner from "The Confident Mom" to help bring some order to the daily...

Balancing careers and motherhood is no joke. In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend Tori Ivey to discuss the challenges we've both faced. Tori and I have known each a long time and we've both been through the wringer when it comes to managing the demands of work and family life.

Tori talks about realizing her desire to be a full-time mom, how she explained it to her husband Zach, and the support he provided in making that transition. And then, we discussed the reality of what it looked like putting our young children...

There’s a huge societal expectation for moms to do it all—all by ourselves. But it’s time for some honesty about reaching out for help when we need it. I'll be honest - I've relied on cleaning services, grandparents, babysitters, you name it, just to keep my house afloat. The media, especially influencers like the Kardashians, sell the "boss mom" image while hiding the support that makes it all possible. I'm ready to break the stigma and talk about how we can rely on our village to make it happen.

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Welcome to ‘Being Different with Liz Durham’—where we don’t just go with the flow, we stir it up! Tired of being spoon-fed what to think? So was I. That’s why I started this podcast - a no-holds-barred experiment of being different. Join me as we challenge the norms, embrace new perspectives, and engage in the art of lively debate. Forget the echo chambers; let’s bring humor and lightness back to tough conversations. Ready for a wild ride? Follow along on Instagram @LizDurhamTN or dive deeper at LizDurham.com.

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When it comes to breaking the mold of traditional parenting and education, forging your own path as a mother isn't always easy. I sat down with Kate Panchal and we hit it off right from the start. We both know the struggle of balancing demanding careers with raising our kids.  But it was her experience with adopting nature-based Waldorf practices and worldschooling our kids that really struck me.


Kate’s background in television and my own experiences have taught us a lot about the sacrifices and rewards that come with choosing family over everything else. When Kat...

I’m thrilled to bring you this episode of Being Different with a very special guest, Congressman Tim Burchett from Tennessee’s 2nd District. I’ve been tuning in to Tim’s podcast, Tennesee Talks, and honestly felt like I knew him before we even met. His straightforwardness and willingness to call out corruption in Washington really struck a chord with me.

Tim opens up about his upbringing and the formative experiences that shaped his perspective on politics and ethics. We dive deep into the rampant corruption and lack of accountability plaguing our nation’s capital, topics he’s not a...

So, why the fuss around vaccines? Why does mentioning them feel like dropping a bomb? That's what bugs me. Can't we just talk about it without it turning into a political showdown? That's why I sat down with Dr. Jason Hall again. And this time it's not about mommy makeovers, but about the state of vaccine discussions in the US.

We cover it all - from the history of vaccine development to the ethical questions around financial incentives. As far as I'm concerned, it's important to start asking questions about vaccines without judgment and with an open...

Today I wanna chat about staying true to your purpose no matter what the world says. Liz here with some thoughts on that buzz-worthy commencement speech by Harrison Buctker, the Kansas City Chiefs' kicker. Now, I'm not one for football, but this guy stirred the pot.

He speaks at a Catholic college about sticking to your God-given role, and the internet erupts - especially feminists. Turns out, it wasn't all that wild. Mostly about men stepping up and leading, with a shoutout to his wife for owning her homemaker role. 

It got me pondering the c...

There is one book that has totally changed my perspective - and I've read a lot of parenting books. Michaeleen Doucleff is the author of "Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans." She joined me on the show to get real honest about the struggles of modern parenting and how it's making us and our kids miserable.

Michaeleen shares how the families she visited in other countries just seem so much happier - their kids are well-behaved and actually want to help out! We talk...

When every day feels like chaos, how are you supposed to make time time for your relationship? Ashley Willis co-hosts of the Naked Marriage podcast with her husband, Dave. I was so excited to sit down with her for a raw and real take on the joys and challenges of married life.

We talked about balancing marriage and parenting, especially with little ones running around screaming. Like, how can you not feeling resentful towards your partner while navigating the everyday rollercoaster of parenting?

Ashley shared some invaluable advice on communication, asking for help from your...

At first I thought there was no way, but after talking to her I am seriously impressed.  Our husbands were friends in law school and now we both have kids - but let me tell you, her son has never seen a screen! At first I was like no way, but Lindsay filled me in on how they do it. 

Between juggling work and kid stuff, Lindsay Hall's dedication is next level. Her son is so well-spoken and curious about everything. He just plays with his toys for hours! Lindsey and I will be getting real about th...

Y'all, I'm really struggling with all the changes I've seen in youth sports. It seems like leagues are starting earlier and earlier, and the pressure to participate becomes a handful to balance along with family life. Are we pushing too hard, too young?

I decided to talk with my old friend Mark Pancratz to get his opinion. Mark is not just your average sports enthusiast—he's been in the game his whole life, from playing sports himself to coaching at UT, and now, he's figuring it out with his two daughters. 

We talk about the val...

What would you grade yourself as a parent? In this solo episode, I'm gonna give you an honest update on what it's been like transitioning to being a full-time stay-at-home mom after working for so long.

I'll fill you in on all the things I'm still struggling with, like getting Mack to school on time and keeping a consistent bedtime routine. Cooking dinner, money management, and more. And how about all the extracurricular activities? Spoiler alert: I just don't see the point of it yet!

At the end of the day, I think being home...

Alisha Owen is an advocate for justice. In this episode, we discuss the importance of parenting, drawing boundaries, and teaching children moral values and responsibility. Alisha opens up about her own upbringing and experiences with abuse.

We also talked about the goals of Alisha's organization Epstein Justice, which is calling for an independent Truth and Reconciliation Commission to investigate coverups of Epstein's crimes.

Have you listened to part 1? Hop back to my feed to hear more about her experiences and what we can do to prevent trafficking in our own communities. 

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After speaking with Nick Bryant about trafficking networks among high-profile people, I knew I needed to know more. In this first part of my conversation with Alisha Owen, it became clear that this really can happen to anyone.

Alisha began her journey as a whistleblower and advocate for victims of human trafficking and sexual abuse when she was 19 years old. Now, as the Associate Director of Epstein Justice, she continues to advocate for trafficking victims, and educate the public on the realities of human trafficking and sexual abuse.

Tune in to find out how this...

Our pastor said we really do have more control over our kids than anyone else and that was something that really hit me. Today I want to talk about using my power as a parent for good, being consistent with discipline, and really listening to what each kid needs.

Being a mom is just the wildest ride, and every kid is so different that you're constantly having to adjust. I talk about why Mac's in trouble at school this time and how I'm still trying to find the right approach with my defiant little Charlie.

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Get ready for a reality check. Liz sits down with and Dr. Jason Hall to peel back the layers of the "mommy makeover" phenomenon. They talk about what it really entails, the sobering truth about recovery times, and the importance of aging gracefully in a world obsessed with youth.

Jason Hall, M.D., F.A.C.S., is the director of Trillium Plastic Surgery, and the host of The Trillium Show podcast. He is quick to share that it's not just about the physical—it's also about the mental headspace required for anyone considering cosmetic plastic surgery.  Duration: 01:02:53

Have you ever felt pressure to choose between pursuing your career ambitions or prioritizing your family responsibilities? Today, host Liz Durham is joined by successful Knoxville real estate agent Debaran Hughes to swap stories from their experiences and share how their perspectives have evolved over time.

From juggling work responsibilities to battling feelings of guilt over not spending enough time with their kids, Liz and Debaran lay it all on the line. They're not afraid to confront the harsh realities of societal expectations and the uphill battle women face in the workforce after becoming mothers.

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Step back in time with Liz Durham and former KGB spy Jack Barsky. In part two of their conversation, Jack peels back the layers of his journey—from disillusionment with communism to his unexpected embrace of Christianity.

Prepare for some straight talk as Jack shares how his experiences in the US shattered his belief in communism and led him down a path towards faith. As you'll learn, Jack's journey is filled with twists, turns, and hard-earned wisdom.

Listen in as Liz and Jack dissect society, government, and the importance of individuality. From government cover-ups to th...

Liz Durham first heard Jack Barsky's story on Jordan Peterson's podcast and she knew she needed to talk to him - but she didn't think in a million years he would ever respond. Jack is the author of "Deep Undercover: My Secret Life and Tangled Allegiances as a KGB Spy in America," and today his story is on Being Different. 

In part one of this mind-blowing interview, Jack shares his unbelievable life experience—from his days growing up under communist rule in East Germany to his recruitment by the KGB. Yep, you heard that right—spy life in th...

Liz lays bare her raw and real experience with postpartum emotions and body image after welcoming her third bundle of joy. From feeling like a walking zombie to battling insecurities about her post-baby bod, Liz holds nothing back as she dishes on the rollercoaster of emotions that come with new motherhood.

Liz gets real about the hormonal rages and the struggle of feeling like she's not being heard by her oh-so-supportive (but sometimes clueless) husband. Spoiler alert: it's not all sunshine and rainbows!

But fear not, dear listeners, because Liz isn't just here to vent—sh...

With the news of child sex trafficking rings running rampant, host Liz Durham wants to know: Is real justice actually served to perpetrators? In this episode, Liz sits down with journalist and author Nick Bryant to shed light on the hidden corners of child exploitation, justice, and reform.

Nick shares insights from his book "The Franklin Scandal," which uncovered a trafficking network involving high-ranking officials in the 1980s - and now, seems eerily similar to the Jeffrey Epstein case. Admist claims of government and intelligence agency cover-ups, Liz and Nick emphasize the urgent need for justice for...

Are people making their kids "soft" by protecting them too much? In this episode, our host Liz Durham is joined by Armando SanMiguel, her former boss and mentor, for a conversation about coddling and its impact on children's development. 

Drawing parallels from their professional experiences, Liz and Armando discuss how shielding kids from adversity can hinder their growth and resilience. Armando shares insights into his management approach and emphasizes the importance of preparing his employees for real-world challenges.

The conversation doesn't stop there - what about the phenomenon of colleges prioritizing feelings over exposure to d...

Ever wondered about the secrets to raising resilient children? Turns out, farming and the animal care can offer some valuable insight. Today, Liz Durham is joined by Lexi Young Peck to discuss how she helps her kids navigate the process of life and death. They both agree: facing difficulties head-on shapes confident children who embrace challenges rather than shying away from them.

After their last conversation about homebirth, in this episode Lexi shares her experiences handling a miscarriage and stillbirth, offering insights into navigating these difficult topics with children. In the face of grief, Liz and Lexi...

Liz Durham's experience raising chickens on her farm has been far from easy. From foxes to hawks, raccoons to skunks, Liz dishes on the relentless attacks on her feathered friends. 

She talks about the various predators that have attacked and killed her chickens over the past year, and shares a chaotic story about trapping and relocating a raccoon that had been decapitating her chickens. 

But after she posted a video online, she received backlash about animal cruelty. Find out why she's committed to protecting her chickens by any means necessary. 

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Modern parents are getting caught up in unneccessary fears and excessive reliance on parenting books. But after reading "Free-Range Kids: How Parents and Teachers Can Let Go and Let Grow" by Lenore Skenazy, our host Liz Durham has some new ideas about embracing a more liberating approach to parenting and fostering confident, resilient children.

Now with three children, Liz shares stories of how things changed after she granted her son more independence - and what she learned while challenging societal norms. Liz also summarizes key points from the book, including analyzing a generational shift in parents harboring...

From new iPhones and after school curricular activities to college tuition - how do parents decide where to draw the line with financial support? In this episode, our host Liz Durham is joined by Armando SanMiguel, her former boss and mentor, for a conversation about parenting, money, and how to instill a strong work ethic in the next generation.

Liz reflects on watching her mom sacrifice a career to raise her children, and the decisions she makes now as a parent. Armando shares how hard his parents worked to provide for their family despite coming from very...

Women are faced with polarized roles in today's society: either being a stay-at-home mom or pursuing a career. But Liz wants something more. In this episode, she advocates for finding a middle ground that allows women to have successful careers while also prioritizing their families.

This polarization has been happening for decades. Drawing parallels to historical technological advancements like the printing press and washing machines, Liz delves into the unintended consequences of progress and the subsequent need for societal adjustment. 

Rather than feeling confined to either the "career woman" or "traditional wife" identities, Liz plans t...

And then, there were three! Liz is navigating a transformative season with her newborn son, Cooper, at the center of it all. In this solo episode, she shares the whirlwind of emotions and challenges that come with caring for three young children while recovering from childbirth. 

Liz shares her personal struggles, from the complexities of nursing Cooper to the daily juggling act of getting her kids in and out of the car and keeping up with household chores. She also reflects on the isolating moments that often accompany motherhood. Despite the chaos, Liz expresses her gratitude for C...

At her 36-week ultrasound, host Liz Durham received unexpected news that her unborn baby boy might not have a left kidney. After meeting with a high-risk doctor, who offered both reassurance and insight into the unknown, Liz was left with the choice: worry, or trust in God's plan.

In this episode, Liz candidly shares her emotional struggle with the lack of control over her baby's health, despite her strong faith. She delves into the complexities of parenting, self-blame, and the spiritual lessons she's learned along the way. 

As Liz explores her newfound empathy for parents o...

Television shows have the power to shape and influence our perceptions of the world around us. In this episode, Liz considers the impact of shows she watched growing up. Have beloved sitcoms like Friends and Sex and the City contributed to negative stereotypes about gender roles?

As Liz reflects on these shows, she recognizes their influence on her own views of men and relationships. Now, she sees the need to be more discerning about the media she consumes and the shows her children are exposed to.

While these shows certainly brought laughter and entertainment, Liz...

Gary Ashton is a trailblazing entrepreneur and accomplished real estate agent based in Nashville. With a background that spans continents and industries, Gary's journey is a testament to the power of early adoption, entrepreneurial spirit, and the fusion of human intelligence with technology.

In this episode of Being Different, host Liz Durham sits down with Gary to talk about how working with the family business from a young age helped shape Gary's entrepreneurial mindset, and how technological change is impacting parenting now more than ever.

He and Liz discuss the pros and cons of AI...

As the definition of motherhood changes over generations, it becomes harder to pin down the idea of “balance.” In this episode of Being Different, host Liz Durham chats with Taylor Brasel, a loan officer who has decided to focus on her career and wait to have children. Thus begs the question, when?

From navigating gender roles to maintaining work-life balance, Liz and Taylor provide different generational insights into the complexities of managing family and professional lives. They share personal experiences, tips, and the importance of open conversations with partners about expectations and roles. 

Whether you're a mot...

Pouring a glass of wine may seem like a reward after a tough day with the kids, but did you know alcohol is actually a depressant? And it could make your anxiety worse, not better.

The normalization of alcohol consumption peaked during the pandemic, and with phrases like "mommy juice" and "wine mom" culture, the trend is clear among moms, too. In this episode of Being Different, host Liz Durham sits down with her friend Aubrey Arms to shed light on the pressure to indulge in alcohol as a means of coping with the challenges of motherhood.<...

We all know proper money management skills are crucial in our lives, so why not equip our kids with these tools early on? In this episode of Being Different, host Liz Durham dives into her personal journey of teaching her kids about money and finances.

Liz reflects on her own desire to go beyond traditional approaches to instill invaluable lessons about credit scores, responsible credit card usage, and how to steer clear of overwhelming student loan debt. Liz shares why she thinks there are ways to foster financial literacy at any age. 

Plus, find out h...

So we’ve heard from Liz - but what’s her husband’s experience? 

Host Liz Durham and her husband Luke sit down to chat about Liz's journey of leaving her job to become a stay-at-home mom. From COVID to household labor - they cover it all. Hear about his unwavering support for Liz's decision, initial struggles with the transition, and navigating the division of labor at home - plus, advice for couples who are sharing one income.

Despite the loss of her career, Liz shares how she's adjusting and discovering new purpose as a stay-at...

As a parent, vacations can be the ultimate test of patience and flexibility. It can be challenging, tiring, and downright frustrating at times. In this solo episode, Liz reflects on the challenges she faced during her summer vacation with her young kids. 

She shares her experiences and highlights the importance of adjusting expectations and working on our own selfishness - alongside being willing to listen to the same song over and over again in the car. Liz emphasizes the importance of sleep for young ones, as well as the power of patience and flexibility. While it may n...

Are there hierarchy issues within modern parenting? Today we explore the ever-evolving landscape of motherhood with Tammy Peterson – a seasoned mother and host of The Tammy Peterson Podcast.

Together, host Liz Durham and Tammy delve into the impact of feminism, the significance of outdoor play, and the importance of self-directed learning for young children.

Tammy shares hard-learned lessons, thoughts on the impact of birth control pills in the '60s, and the over-parenting phenomenon that plagues many families today. She offers valuable insights on the dangers of social media and media consumption, as well as th...

As a working mom, Liz was once taken in by these misconceptions, and now she’s ready to challenge them head-on. In today’s reflection, she breaks down why it’s crucial to understand the impact these lies have on families.

Liz breaks down the difference between quality time versus quantity, the daycare dilemma and early socialization, and the myth of our children’s memories in younger years. 

How do we model hard work for our children without compromising on our presence in their lives? Tune in to find out what Lis has learned. Plus, hear how...

How much of our trouble starts with a lack of of family structure at home? In this episode of Being Different, Liz Durham is joined by recent guest, New York Times bestselling author Mark Mathabane.

Mark highlights the crucial roles both parents play in a child's upbringing and how the absence of family structure can give rise to issues. Liz and Mark discuss different approaches to discipline within the family, the impact of divorce on children, and the importance of being involved in your child's education. 

Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the y...

In today's society, staying at home as a mother can be met with mixed opinions and even judgment from others. In this solo episode with host Liz Durham, she reflects on the last five months and her journey into her role as a stay-at-home mom.

Liz shares the unexpected obstacles and surprising rewards, lessons in balancing her days, and giving herself grace. Learn how spending more time together led to knowing her kids on a deeper level than ever before.

Plus, transforming into a single-income family can be a delicate subject to tackle. Liz offers...

How do we navigate the conversation of race with our children? Host Liz Durham sat down with Ace Battle to discuss a topic that is as important as it is complex.

On his podcast Until The Tables Turn, Ace raises concerns about the dangers of looking at people in groups and not as individuals, fostering divisiveness and agendas. In this episode of Being Different, he shares the impacts of social media, labels, and CRT, and the importance of speaking with your values rather than just your beliefs. 

Liz and Ace discuss the importance of educating c...

In this second episode with Mark Mathabane, we hear more about his experience growing up in South Africa during apartheid and how his life changed in America. 

He joins host Liz Durham to talk about the crucial role of mothers and parents in educating children with balanced experiences and and opportunity. He emphasizes the importance of embracing our common humanity and reaching across racial boundaries.

Make sure you tune in to part 1 of this conversation, visit lizdurham.com to learn more. 

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