Liberator

George Faller joins Liberator for today's episode! George brings his experience as a licensed EFT therapist and trainer to explore the complexities of anger in relationships, particularly in the context of betrayal and pornography. George emphasizes the significance of understanding the underlying emotions behind anger and the role of love and God in the healing process. The conversation provides insights into navigating anger and fostering healthier relationships.

George Faller's website

Brave Love Great Sex Podcast

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the critical role of exercise in recovery and healing, emphasizing the importance of movement for both physical and mental health. They explore the science behind how exercise boosts brain resilience, enhances mood, and helps break cycles of temptation. The conversation also touches on the significance of setting goals, being mindful in recovery, and the necessity of doing hard things to foster growth and discipline.

In this Christmas episode of Liberator, hosts Chelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of the holiday season - including the struggles of isolation and the high consumption of pornography during this time. They emphasize the meaning of Christmas as a time for belonging with God, and Jesus' pursuit of us despite our failings.

Chelsea and Layton explore the legacy of King David, delving into themes of brokenness, redemption, and the importance of a contrite heart. They discuss David's complex life, his mistakes, and how his relationship with God exemplifies true surrender and humility.

Chelsea and Layton welcome Bonnie Pue back to the show to discuss her new book!
'Awkward' aims to equip parents to have the difficult conversations with their children around sexuality and culture. Bonnie shares her journey of writing the book, the importance of gospel-centered discussions, and the need for parents to engage in these conversations despite their fears. The conversation covers various topics, including the foundations of sexuality, the role of fathers, and the significance of community support in parenting. 

Awkward by Bonnie Pue

The Union Movement website

Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of "red lines" in relationships, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries to foster trust and accountability. They draw upon their own story to explore how these boundaries can help rebuild trust after betrayal, the necessity of open dialogue, and the shared responsibility in maintaining a healthy marriage. 

Chelsea and Layton dive into a deeply overlooked part of healing from betrayal: learning how to receive encouragement, affirmation, and love again—especially from the very person who caused the pain.

Chelsea shares vulnerably about years of brushing off compliments, both before and after betrayal, and how that heart posture revealed a deeper spiritual reality: if we reject the words of those closest to us, we may also be rejecting what God is trying to say about us.

Chelsea and Layton unpack the discipline of being fully present in the recovery journey from porn. The conversation analyzes the roadblocks created by unhealthy focus on our past mistakes or future anxieties. Personal stories and Biblical text are used to give real-life applications throughout the discussion.

Molly Bertles shares her journey of overcoming personal struggles with masturbation and shame, and how she found freedom through biblical counseling. She discusses the challenges women face in addressing sexual sin, the importance of community and openness, and the role of social media in shaping perceptions of sexuality. Molly emphasizes the need for understanding God's design for sex and the power of sharing one's story to help others find healing and hope.

You Are Not Alone by Molly Bertles

Transforming Love Course (Harvest USA)

Chelsea and Layton have one of their most nuanced conversations yet — tackling a question that many couples quietly wrestle with:

"Is it okay to replace pornography with images or videos of my spouse?"

This episode dives deep into the gray areas of sexuality, desire, and healing — exploring where connection becomes consumption, and how couples can pursue intimacy that's rooted in love, honesty, and holiness.

Chelsea and Layton share openly from their own journey through betrayal, healing, and rebuilding trust. Together, they unpack:

The difference between lust and desire — and why motive matter...

Have you ever felt like your spouse or partner couldn't possibly understand the damage that porn has created in your life?

In Episode 109, Chelsea and Layton sit down to unpack the wounds and struggles that have been some of their greatest sources of frustration. Through sharing their individual experiences as a porn consumer and a betrayed spouse, they offer insights that helped them heal and work together towards true empathy and compassion. 

Chelsea and Layton explore the story of Jesus and the woman at the well, discussing themes of sexual brokenness, personal transformation, and the healing power of faith. They emphasize how Jesus meets individuals in their struggles, offering them hope and a new identity through His grace. The conversation highlights the significance of living water as a metaphor for true satisfaction and fulfillment, contrasting it with the emptiness of addiction and sin. 

Ellen Dykas is Harvest USA's Director of Equipping for Ministry to Women. She's authored several mini-books, a women's curriculum, a devotional, and, most recently, Jesus and Your Unwanted Journey: Wives Finding Comfort After Sexual Betrayal. She joins Liberator to discuss the challenges and trends in women's ministry, particularly focusing on sexual sin and the impact of betrayal in marriages. The conversation highlights the growing awareness of women's sexual struggles and the opportunity for churches to provide resources and support for healing.

HarvestUSA.org

Jesus and Your Unwanted Journey: Wives Finding Comfort After Sexual Betrayal

Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of taking your partner's pain seriously and the role of validation in relationships. They explore how emotional responses can impact communication and the significance of mirroring feelings to foster understanding. The conversation emphasizes proactive steps to support partners, the importance of love languages in healing, and the need for compassionate communication. 

Chelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of addressing root problems related to pornography and emotional struggles. They cover the importance of self-analysis, inviting God into the healing process, and the role of community and mentorship in personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need for honesty and commitment to change, providing practical steps for listeners to embark on their own journeys of healing and freedom.

Chelsea and Layton discuss their relationship mantra, "Have fun together!" They emphasize the importance of taking breaks from grief, being intentional about building intimacy, and rediscovering joy in everyday moments. The phrase has been especially helpful while navigating challenges in betrayal and addiction. Practical steps are provided for couples to reconnect and have fun, highlighting the significance of shared experiences and the need for both partners to feel valued and pursued.

Lisa Whittle joines the show to explore the complex issues surrounding body image, self-worth, and the impact of cultural narratives on personal identity. Together we discuss the challenges women face regarding body image, the influence of pornography, and the importance of understanding one's worth through a biblical lens. Lisa is the best selling author of multiple books and Bible studies, including Jesus Over Everything and her latest, Body and Soul. She is the founder of several online communities, a seasoned book and ministry coach, and host of the popular Jesus Over Everything podcast. 

LisaWhittle.com

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Chelsea and Layton explore the rise of romantic relationships between humans and Artifical Intelligence, discussing the dangers of emotional attachment to AI. They highlight the counterfeit nature of AI relationships, the illusion of emotional support it provides, and the importance of genuine human connection and growth. The discussion also touches on the spiritual implications of relying on AI for emotional fulfillment, urging listeners to seek authentic relationships.

Join Layton and Chelsea as they explore how pornography disrupts the true purpose that we are all called towards. The conversation expounds on the idea that we are God's handiwork, created for good works, and that there is always hope for us to walk our path in freedom. 

"Made for More" by Josh Baldwin, featuring Jenn Johnson

Chelsea and Layton celebrate their 100th episode by discussing the challenges of swimsuit season, body image pressures, and the importance of communication and trust in relationships. They explore how societal expectations can affect self-worth and the need for preparation and boundaries to navigate temptations. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding and supporting each other in marriage, as well as the importance of taking control of one's thoughts and feelings.

Casey and Meygan Caston, founders of Marriage 365, share their journey from college sweethearts to leading a successful marriage ministry. They discuss the challenges they faced in their early marriage, the importance of individual growth, and how their experiences led to the creation of Marriage 365. 

Marriage365.com

Nate Larkin shares his journey of recovery and healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Growing up in a conservative Christian home, Nate experienced trauma and shame that led him to seek solace in pornography. He struggled with guilt and shame, hiding his addiction from his wife and family. Eventually, he reached a breaking point and sought help through a 12-step program. Nate emphasizes the importance of holistic healing, including emotional, spiritual, and community support. He also discusses the impact of his sobriety on his family relationships and the power of vulnerability and confession in finding healing. The conversation explores...

Chelsea and Layton discuss how to be community for individuals affected by pornography. The episode explores how to approach the conversations with tact, compassion, and empathy - implementing practical steps that the hosts have learned from their own story. 

Authentic Intimacy

Harvest USA

This episode explores the personal and shared journey of healing from pornography addiction and betrayal trauma within marriage. The hosts, Chelsea and Layton, discuss the question they often receive: "Does it get easier?" They respond with honest reflections, spiritual insights, scientific support, and practical steps for healing, growth, and transformation.

Dr. Anna Lembke is a professor of psychiatry at Stanford University School of Medicine and Chief of the Stanford Addiction Medicine Dual Diagnosis Clinic. She has published over 100 peer-reviewed papers and commentaries, along with the bestselling books, Dopamine Nation and Drug Dealer, MD. 

In this conversation, Dr. Lembke discusses the complexities of dopamine, the brain's reward system, and how modern society's relationship with technology and pleasure has led to widespread addiction. She emphasizes that everyone is vulnerable to addiction, shares insights from her clinical practice, and highlights the importance of community and support in recovery. Dr. Lembke a...

Chelsea and Layton explore the cultural implications of extreme sexual stunts, particularly in the context of platforms like OnlyFans. They discuss the impact of porn culture on societal views of sexuality, the ethical considerations surrounding adult content, and the importance of recognizing the sacredness of sexual intimacy. 

Chelsea and Layton explore the concept of eternal desires and how they contrast with the instant gratification provided by pornography. They discuss the implications of pornography on personal relationships and emotional health, emphasizing the importance of introspection and seeking true fulfillment beyond superficial pleasures. 

Chelsea and Layton unpack the concept of "messengers" — individuals who can influence and support loved ones struggling with issues like pornography. They explore the importance of praying for these messengers, the burden of trying to change others, and the role of conviction and preservation in relationships.

Jonathan Daugherty is the founder and President of Be Broken Ministries. In this episode he shares his incredible story of moving from sexual brokenness to recovery and healing. The conversation explores the impact of addiction on his life and marriage, the significance of confession, and how to build resilience in families. 

BeBroken.org

This conversation explores the complex relationship between pornography and female sexuality, focusing on how women's consumption of porn affects their body image, sexual enjoyment, and overall mental health. The discussion highlights the negative impacts of porn on women's self-perception and the normalization of unhealthy sexual behaviors. It emphasizes the need for a deeper understanding of women's experiences and the importance of fostering healthy sexual intimacy.

Resources from this epsidoe: Study from Journal of Women's Health

Chelsea and Layton explore the profound impact of words, particularly in the context of relationships and healing from pornography addiction. The discussion delves into the science behind encouragement, the challenges of communication in emotionally charged situations, and the biblical perspective on the power of the tongue. They conclude with practical advice on how to choose words wisely to foster healing and connection.

Chelsea and Layton discuss the challenges faced by spouses dealing with their partner's porn use - specifically in the context of how much they should share with others. They emphasize the importance of community support, the need for intentional communication, and the biblical approach to disclosure and restoration. The conversation also highlights valuable resources for those affected by betrayal, encouraging listeners to seek help and not feel isolated in their struggles.

Hopequest

Sarah Society

Happily Even After

Chris and Lisa Archinal join the show to discuss their marriage's journey through betrayal and recovery. Chris shares how he came to strive for a relentless pursuit of sexual integrity, while Lisa reflects on her path to receiving a new heart after experiencing deep emotional pain. Together, they emphasize the significance of community support and practical steps in the healing process, showcasing a powerful narrative of redemption and faith. 

Chris' and Lisa's Website

Relentless Pursuit by Chris Archinal

Betrayal Trauma Survival Guide by Lisa Archinal

Chelsea and Layton discuss the complex relationship between pornography, moral absolutes, and the pursuit of happiness. They explore the societal shift towards individualism and the implications of defining personal truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of discipline and accountability in achieving true freedom and joy, contrasting it with the fleeting nature of superficial happiness.

Chelsea and Layton explore the complexities of temptation, particularly in the context of lust and pornography addiction. They discuss the nature of beauty, the struggles individuals face, and the influences of the World, Flesh, and Devil on these temptations. 

Chelsea and Layton explore the themes of condemnation, forgiveness, and identity in Christ. They discuss the lack of condemnation for those in Christ, the journey of forgiveness, and the importance of understanding one's true identity as a child of God. The conversation emphasizes the freedom that comes from recognizing that one's past does not define them and the transformative power of God's love and mercy.

Mark Sanders joins the show! The episode explores the false comfort that pornography provides, the generational shifts in attitudes towards sex and relationships, and the importance of community and healing in recovery. The discussion emphasizes the need for a redefined understanding of intimacy and the role of selflessness in healthy relationships. The conversation concludes with an overview of new resources aimed at healing and hope for those struggling with sexual integrity.

Harvest Website

Chelsea shares her personal journey of dealing with betrayal and the emotional turmoil that followed. She discusses the common feelings of self-doubt and guilt that arise after being blindsided by a partner's actions, particularly in the context of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, both for oneself and for the partner, and the need to let go of the illusion of control over others' choices. 

Chelsea and Layton unpack the concept of formation and how our daily choices shape our lives and futures. The conversation touches on the importance of being intentional about what we consume, especially for those recovering from addiction or trauma. The discussion covers the impact of music, movies, and other media on our mental and spiritual well-being, advocating for a mindful approach to content consumption. 

Chelsea and Layton discuss their recent trip to Bangkok, where they witnessed the stark realities of the sex industry and its impact on workers and customers. They reflect on the importance of perspectives gained through travel, the deep sin nature of humanity, and the compassion shown by those who have escaped the sex trades. The conversation emphasizes hope and redemption, highlighting the transformative power of God even in the darkest places.

Chelsea and Layton welcome Craig Marshall to the show! Together they explore the complex relationship between beauty, embodiment, and the impact of cultural standards and pornography.

Seeing and Seeking Embodied Beauty by Craig A. Marshall

Chelsea and Layton unpack the deep physical and emotional reactions that porn consumption and betrayal create. They share personal stories of their own struggles navigating triggers, and explore the importance of vulnerability, relationships, and communication in healing.

Layton shares his journey of overcoming pornography consumption and the transformative power of Christ. He emphasizes the importance of community, accountability, and the role of God in his healing and redemption. The talk also touches on the impact of sin on his relationships, his call to ministry, and the significance of sharing personal stories to help others.

Chelsea and Layton explore the complex journey of finding joy amidst suffering, grief, and addiction. They discuss the difference between joy and happiness, the importance of intentionality in our low points, and the necessity of community support during difficult times. The conversation emphasizes the significance of taking breaks from grieving, redefining one's identity beyond pain, and the power of trust in finding joy.

Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith join the show. They share their personal journey from friendship to marriage, the challenges they faced due to addiction, and the transformative power of vulnerability and honesty in healing. The discussion emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive framework for couples navigating difficult conversations and the ongoing journey of rebuilding trust and intimacy.

Raabsmithteam.com

Chelsea and Layton explore the concepts of generational sin and redemption, discussing how these themes impact personal growth and family dynamics. They delve into the science of addiction, particularly focusing on epigenetics, and how our choices can affect not only ourselves but also future generations. 

Jacob Valk from Into the Light Ministries returns to the show to discuss pornography, sexuality, and parenting. Jacob shares insights from his ministry's journey, including the creation of a masterclass developed to empower parents to address porn with their children confidently. The discussion highlights the significance of personal stories and the collective responsibility of parents in shaping a healthy understanding of sexuality for the next generation. The episode contains conceptual truths about pornography and the family, as well as specific insights into how to make the home safer for children. 

Parenting & Pornography Masterclass

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Chelsea and Layton Boeve delve into the complexities of dating and the often-taboo subject of pornography. The conversation emphasizes the need for both partners to be honest about their feelings and experiences with pornography, and how it can impact their relationship dynamics. They also explore the significance of personal healing and the necessity for individuals to address their own struggles with pornography before entering or continuing a relationship. 

Chelsea and Layton share the best advice they each personally received during the healing journey. The conversation hits on the importance of confronting personal and familial secrets as a means of growth and recovery, as well as the centrality of grace, honesty, and courage in addressing our sin. 

Chelsea and Layton explore the damaging effects of pornography on the brain, the rationalizations people make to cope with addiction, and the importance of self-honesty in recovery. They discuss the cost of following Christ, the influences of media on personal behavior, and the challenges of healing from betrayal and insecurity. The dialogue emphasizes the need for deep introspection and the courage to confront difficult truths in order to find true freedom and growth.

Chelsea and Layton are joined by Caitlin McCaffrey, the Director of Women's Ministry at Harvest USA. They explore the mission of Harvest USA, God's heart towards those struggling with betrayal and sexual sin, and the significant need for support among women facing these challenges. Caitlin shares insights on betrayal trauma, the importance of acknowledging pain, and the role of church leaders in providing care. The discussion also delves into the science of pornography addiction, neuroplasticity, and the hope found in Christ for healing and restoration.

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Chelsea and Layton wrap up Liberator's Beyond the Porn Phenomenon series by diving into Barna's research on pornography and the church. They discuss the importance of community support for both congregants and leaders, the generational perspectives on pornography, and the challenges faced by church leaders in addressing these issues. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and proactive measures within the church to foster a healthier environment for all members.

The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix It by Sam Black

Chelsea and Layton continue their Barna series, exploring the impact of pornography across different generations. The conversation compares differing attitudes around porn, while emphasizing the importance of communication and mentorship between different age groups.

We are rewinding back to one of our favorite episodes with some of our favorite people, the Greshes!

Bob and Dannah Gresh are bestselling authors and leaders of the Pure Freedom, True Girl, and Born to Be Brave ministries. They join us to talk about Dannah's book, Happily Even After, and the incredible redemption story of their marriage. 

Resources Dannah mentioned:

Healing Your Marriage When Trust is Broken by Cindy Beall

Dannah's website: PureFreedom.org

Merry Christmas from all of us at Liberator! We're taking a brief pause from our, "Beyond The Porn Phenomenon," series to do a special Christmas encouragement. You are not alone!

Chelsea and Layton delve into the motivations behind pornography consumption, exploring how factors like boredom, stress, and personal arousal influence individuals' choices. They discuss the differences in motivations between men and women, the impact of technology on access to pornography, and the need for the church to engage in discussions about sexuality and provide guidance. 

Chelsea and Layton introduce a new series based from Barna's research on pornography usage in the U.S., discussing the growth of consumers and frequency of use across the country. They also explore the themes of substance versus shadow in life, particularly in relation to pornography and its impact on society. 

Chelsea and Layton speak with Jamie Gordon from Screen Sanity about the challenges parents face in managing technology use among children. Jamie shares the mission of Screen Sanity, and shares practical strategies for establishing boundaries, addressing difficult topics like pornography, and fostering open communication with kids.

ScreenSanity.org

The Gabb Phone

Bark Tech

Chelsea and Layton discuss the themes of pain, suffering, and God's role in our lives during difficult times. They explore the biblical concept of the 'refiner's fire' and how it relates to personal growth and healing. Through the stories of Job, Peter, and Judas, they emphasize the importance of understanding God's character and the hope that can be found even in the midst of pain. The conversation encourages listeners to seek God in their times of need, reminding them that they are not alone in their journey.

Chelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of communication around pornography use, particularly focusing on the questions that can hinder healing after betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trust and avoiding assumptions, as well as the impact of genuine curiosity. The conversation also highlights the significance of constructive dialogue and seeking divine guidance in understanding oneself and one's partner.

Chelsea and Layton explore the life of King Solomon, examining his rise to greatness and subsequent fall from grace. They discuss the importance of vigilance in leadership, the dangers of temptation, and the need for contentment and stewardship in relationships. The conversation serves as a cautionary tale about the consequences of straying from one's values and the hope for redemption through repentance and gratitude.

Amanda Aanestad joins Liberator for episode 57! Amanda is the Co-Founder of The Victory Collective, an online ministry for girls and women seeking to overcome pornography and sexual shame. Amanda shares her personal journey, the power of confession, and the story behind the creation of the Victory Collective. The conversation explores the significance of understanding triggers, navigating relationships, and the resources available for support. 

Chelsea and Layton discuss the early days of their personal story of porn use, betrayal trauma, and healing. They explore the struggles of confessing to a partner, the journey towards sobriety, and the impact of addiction on self-worth and trust. The conversation emphasizes the need for open dialogue, understanding, and support in overcoming challenges together, ultimately leading to hope and renewal.

Dr. Juli Slattery returns to the show to address listeners' most frequently asked question, "What should I do if my partner can't or won't stop watching porn?" Our conversation will dive into the challenges faced by individuals dealing with sexual addiction, the importance of humility in relationships, and the necessity of pursuing wholeness and sexual integrity on an individual level. The discussion navigates how to frame these issues whether you are married, dating, or single. 

Chelsea and Layton discuss the alarming rise of sextortion, a form of blackmail particularly affecting young people. They explore the mechanics of sextortion, the emotional impact on victims, and the importance of open communication between parents and children. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, practical safety measures, and the role of faith in overcoming the fear and shame associated with these threats.

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the themes of shame, redemption, and the story of Rahab from the Bible. They explore how shame can distort our identity and how faith can lead to freedom. The conversation highlights Rahab's role as an unlikely heroine and the importance of obedience in the face of risk. They emphasize that God values everyone, regardless of their past, and that true freedom can have a ripple effect on families and communities.

In this conversation, Chelsea and Kori explore the themes of identity, beauty, and freedom in Christ. They discuss the struggles women face regarding self-worth and outward appearance, emphasizing the importance of finding identity in God's love rather than societal standards. The conversation highlights the power of community, confession, and the journey towards embracing true beauty and liberation from core lies.

Troy and Melissa Haas share their profound journey through pain, addiction, and healing in their marriage. They provide a roadmap and tools for the process of disclosure in overcoming betrayal. Their story leads to the founding of HopeQuest, a ministry dedicated to helping others impacted by addiction find hope and healing. The conversation emphasizes the significance of honest communication, therapeutic processes, and the relentless grace of God in the journey of recovery.

HopeQuestGroup.org

In this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the emotions and struggles that arise after betrayal, even years after confession. They explore the importance of cultivating a safe community for confession and the shame that the betrayed person may carry. They share their own experiences and offer insights on how to cope with intense emotions and navigate difficult conversations. They emphasize the need for self-awareness, communication, and reliance on God's truth to find healing and restoration.

Christian Watson, founder of 1924.us, shares his personal journey of overcoming pornography addiction and the importance of speaking out about it. Christian discusses the root causes of pornography addiction, including trauma and brokenness, and highlights the need for understanding and support. He also addresses the shame and guilt associated with addiction and the importance of self-discipline and accountability. The conversation delves into the normalization of pornography and its harmful effects on individuals and society. The need for open discussions about the porn industry and its consequences is emphasized, along with the importance of personal growth and venturing onward.

In this last and final epsidoe of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of intercession in the context of spiritual warfare and healing. They emphasize the need for community and the power of prayer in supporting and uplifting one another. They also highlight the role of prayer in bringing comfort, peace, and hope to those who are struggling. The conversation concludes with a reminder that God equips and empowers us to fight against sin and that we are not alone in our battles. 

What does the Sword of the Spirit have to do with pornography?  Porn is a destructive trap, but we have been given the power to fight back. In this episode Layton and Chelsea highlight the importance of the spoken word of God and the ability to use Scripture against the lies of the enemy. Every piece of armor before this has been defensive in nature, but the sword is explicitly for offense; tune in to find out why.

Chelsea and Layton unpack the Helmet of Salvation as part of their Armor of God series. They explore the significance of the helmet in protecting the mind and controlling our thoughts, while emphasizing the importance of understanding our identity as children of God and the assurance of salvation. The connection between the breastplate of righteousness and the helmet of salvation is drawn, both of which are freely given to us by Jesus.  The episode concludes with encouragement to listeners to stand firm in their belief and authority as children of God, even in the face of temptation and struggles w...

The conversation explores the concept of the Shield of Faith, drawing parallels from historical references and personal experiences. It delves into the nature of faith, its challenges, and the importance of community support. The discussion also addresses the relationship between faith and fear, the significance of God's promises, and the role of faith in overcoming pornography addiction.

Online Communities L&C reccommend: 

SamsonSociety.com

SarahSociety.com

SheRecovery.com

AuthenticIntimacy.com

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the significance of having 'sandals fitted with the Gospel of peace' as part of the Armor of God. They explore the concept of peace as an active and powerful state, the metaphor of feet for scaling mountains, and the battle against sin and brokenness. They also share personal experiences and reflections on finding peace in the Gospel message.  

In the second episode of The Armor of God Series, Chelsea and Layton discuss righteousness and it's relationship with porn and healing. They contrast positional and conditional righteousness and how both are related to our walk with Jesus. The episode concludes with prayer and an encouragement to put on the Breastplate of Righteousness every day. 

In this episode, Layton and Chelsea introduce their new series on The Armor of God. They discuss the importance of truth as the foundation of the armor and how it applies to various aspects of life, including overcoming porn addiction and betrayal. They explore the lies of the world and the flesh, and the power of God's truth to combat them. They emphasize the need to challenge negative thoughts and replace them with God's truth. The episode ends with a prayer for strength and guidance in living according to God's truth. 

Scripture:

Ephesians 6:10-18

Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, shares her personal journey into sex education and the importance of reclaiming the conversation around sex. She discusses the challenges and misconceptions surrounding sex education, while also highlighting the impact of pornography on kids and offering guidance on how to respond when they are exposed to it. Kristen's mission is to empower parents and equip them with the tools to have open and honest conversations about sex with their children. The importance of resting in God's design is explored, as well as the benefit of approaching our children with curiosity rather than...

This week's conversation explores the possibility of finding freedom and sobriety from pornography without a belief in God. Chelsea and Layton discuss their different perspectives on the topic, while emphasizing the importance of Jesus in true healing. They also address the challenge of waiting for someone to find sobriety and the power of prayer in the process. The conversation concludes with a prayer and a reminder to trust in God's work in the lives of loved ones.

In this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of betrayal and how Jesus can empathize with those of us who have experienced it. They explore different examples of betrayal in the Bible, including Judas, Peter, and the Pharisees. The goal of the conversation is for listeners to rely on Jesus and understand that he truly understands their pain and emotions.

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of strongholds, specifically focusing on Psalm 9:9 which states that the Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed in times of trouble. They explore different perspectives on strongholds, including the idea of reclaiming them and making Jesus the ultimate stronghold. They also discuss the importance of recognizing and repenting of sin strongholds, seeking revelation and accountability, and trusting in God's promise of a way out. The episode concludes with a prayer for freedom.

Our friend Scott Kedersha joins us to discuss the challenges and impact of pornography in relationships. Scott is the Marriage Pastor at Harris Creek Baptist Church. He shares his personal journey and how he became passionate about helping couples build strong marriages. Scott provides insights on how to address pornography addiction, the dangers of watching pornography together, and the importance of finding hope in difficult situations. He emphasizes the need for open conversations about pornography and the role of faith in strengthening marriages. Scott also introduces his books and podcast, which provide practical guidance and encouragement for couples. The...

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate fear in relationships, particularly when there has been a history of betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trusting in God's goodness and surrendering control. They also discuss the need to question feelings and challenge irrational thoughts. Applying biblical truth and communicating openly in relationships are key to overcoming fear. The episode concludes with a reminder that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.

In this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the impact of dopamine on addictive behavior, particularly in relation to pornography and sexual addiction. They explore how engaging in addictive behavior can lead to temptation and sin, as well as the dangers of dopamine addiction. They also discuss the influence of big tech and the need to be present in order to hear from God. Practical steps for overcoming addiction and healing from unhealthy self-image are also shared. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of understanding the role of dopamine in our culture and taking intentional steps to break free from...

Nate Larkin shares his journey of recovery and healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Growing up in a conservative Christian home, Nate experienced trauma and shame that led him to seek solace in pornography. He struggled with guilt and shame, hiding his addiction from his wife and family. Eventually, he reached a breaking point and sought help through a 12-step program. Nate emphasizes the importance of holistic healing, including emotional, spiritual, and community support. He also discusses the impact of his sobriety on his family relationships and the power of vulnerability and confession in finding healing. The conversation explores...

In this episode of Liberator, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of fighting fair in the context of pornography and relationships. They draw from their own experiences and share insights on how to navigate conflict without bringing up past hurts. They emphasize the need for humility, forgiveness, and taking thoughts captive. The episode highlights the power of vulnerability and communication in resolving conflicts and building stronger relationships.

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate friendships of the opposite sex in the context of healing and rebuilding trust after experiencing betrayal. They emphasize the importance of being vulnerable with the right people and being cautious of oversharing. The conversation covers topics such as seeking accountability, setting boundaries, including spouses in conversations and interactions, and the role of emotional connections in relationships. They also highlight the significance of building trust through scripture, open communication, and embracing community and friendships.

Phil and Priscilla Fretwell share their journey of healing and restoration in their marriage after years of secrecy and addiction. They emphasize the importance of transparency, vulnerability, and accountability in overcoming struggles and finding healing. Their story has had a ripple effect, impacting their family and friends, and they now minister to others through Savage Marriage Ministries. They encourage couples to take a step into the pain and seek healing through confession and prayer. Their story offers hope and encouragement to those who feel hopeless in their marriages.

Savage Marriage by Phil & Priscilla Fretwell

In this conversation Jamie Ivey discusses her book 'Why Can't I Get It Together?' and shares her personal struggles with feeling out of control and having unrealistic expectations. She emphasizes the importance of community and vulnerability in overcoming these challenges. Jamie also opens up about her experiences with pornography and the power of sharing personal stories. Throughout the conversation, she encourages self-compassion and highlights the journey of healing and growth.

Jamie's New Book: https://www.jamieivey.com/get-it-together

Jamie's Website: https://www.jamieivey.com

The healing process after betrayal is long and fraught with unexpected challenges. Even the smallest misunderstanding can spiral into a full-blown fight when trust is fragile or missing. In this episode we break down a common conflict that we've found ourselves in, as well as how we've learned to navigate it over the years.

Every day seems to bring a new invention or scientific breakthrough. This episode we take a few minutes to parse through the intersection of technology and porn, as well as give our thoughts on where we see some of these trends heading. 

Heath Lambert (M.Div, Ph.D.) joins Liberator this week! Dr. Lambert will share insights into pornography and relationships from his book research, as well as years of experience as a pastor. Our conversation delves into marriage, singleness, and Heath's advice for those suffering the aftermath of betrayal.

Heath's Books: Finally Free and The Great Love of God.

Heath's Podcast: Marked By Grace Podcast

Is watching porn really that big of a deal? It seems like it's a lot better than some of the alternatives, and it feels especially harmless if I'm single. Join Chelsea and Layton as they take a closer look at one of the most common questions they receive.

Fight The New Drug

Truth About Porn

Join us as we take a closer look at one of the key verses that helped Layton on his journey towards healing. We'll explore the themes of freedom and our identity in Christ.

"For Freedom Christ has set us free. Stand firm, therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery."

We are joined today by our dear friend, Dave. Dave's work on the missions field takes place in sensitive and dangerous circumstances, so his full name is being withheld to protect his family and ministry partners. In this episode we will discuss the spread and impact of pornography throughout the developing world, as well as the enduring power of dying to ourselves.

We are joined today by our dear friend, Dave. Dave's work on the missions field takes place in sensitive and dangerous circumstances, so his full name is being withheld to protect his family and ministry partners. In this episode we will discuss the spread and impact of pornography throughout the developing world, as well as the enduring power of dying to ourselves.

It's time for our Season 3 Q&A! Please join us as we open up the inbox and answer listener's questions from Instagram and Liberator.com. Thank you for another fantastic season and entrusting us with your time and attention. We look forward to connecting with you soon. Be well and God Bless!

Resources Layton & Chelsea mentioned:

Defend Young Minds, Birds & Bees Instagram Page, Screen Sanity, and Dr. Meg Meeker Website.

This week we are joined by Kristen A. Jenson. She is the founder of Defend Young Minds® and the #1 best-selling author of the Good Pictures Bad Pictures read-aloud books. Her books have translations in over a dozen languages and are now augmented by a Guidebook for Counseling Kids supporting child therapists and educators. She is also the executive producer of the Brain Defense: Digital Safety® curriculum—a powerful and engaging video-based course for families and educators. Kristen is a positive voice for raising empowered, resilient, screen-smart kids who know how and why to reject pornography. 

Website/Books: www.Def...

Bryan and Bonnie Pue are the founders and leaders of The Union Movement. As a young man, Bryan was into the party scene - depressed, angry and addicted to porn. Meanwhile, Bonnie was the homeschooled Christian teen whose naivety was shattered by the sexual sin of a church leader. Though their backgrounds were vastly different, they were both deeply impacted by sexual brokenness.

As they found restoration and freedom, their passion grew to help others find wholeness and to strengthen churches and ministries who desire to do the same. They created The Union Movement for this purpose.<...

Crystal Renaud Day is a pastoral counselor, certified coach, podcast host, author, and speaker with over 15 years of experience working with women facing pornography and other unwanted sexual behavior. Crystal owns and operates Living on Purpose Coaching & Pastoral Counseling and is the founding director of SheRecovery, an online ministry helping women overcome porn and sexual addiction. She has authored several books including 90 Days to Wholeness and Dating Done Right. Crystal resides in the Kansas City area with her husband Tim.

Crystal's Website: SheRecovery.com

Crystal's Books: 90 Days to Wholeness:: A Porn Addiction Recovery Devotional and...