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Ever feel like your bedroom has turned into a storage closet instead of a sanctuary? We’re tackling sexless marriage with equal parts honesty, Scripture, and practical wisdom, showing how hope grows when pressure fades. Rather than chasing quick fixes or someone else’s “normal,” we focus on how to soften your heart, clear the fog of comparison, and rebuild trust through gentle pursuit—taking a cue from Hosea’s move from judgment to restoration.

We break down the real reasons intimacy can stall: health condi...

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What if the brightest light in your life is the one you keep at arm’s length? We open Isaiah 2:5–8 and find a piercing mirror: people who had God’s light and still chose fortune tellers, cultural trends, and idols they made with their own hands. It sounds ancient, but the heartbeat is modern—backup plans that edge out trust, wealth that whispers security, and alliances that slowly redefine who we are.

We walk through Isaiah’s progression with open eyes. First comes the invitation...

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The hardest conversations in marriage are often the ones that quietly shape everything else. We dig into sexless marriage with open hands and open hearts—no shame, no blame—so couples can stop guessing, start talking, and find their way back to closeness. The cultural script says men always want sex and women always refuse, but the data and our own story tell a more human truth. Hormones, stress, health changes, medication side effects, weight gain, sleep debt, and screen habits can all thin desire. For some...

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A single passage can feel like a postcard from the future. Isaiah 2:1–4 sketches a world where nations walk uphill for wisdom, disputes end at a just bench, and weapons retire into tools that grow life. We take that vision seriously and trace its arc through Acts, Hebrews, and Revelation to understand what’s already begun and what still awaits completion.

We start with the audacity of the “latter days” and how the New Testament locates that period in the life, death, resurrection, and ascension of Jesus...

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What changes when a man who distrusts Christmas is visited by three quiet guides who refuse to argue and instead invite him to see? We follow Samuel Hart through memory, present reality, and a possible future to uncover how grief can harden a heart and how small acts of service can soften it again.

We start with a childhood street where a mother teaches that joy grows when shared, then move to a bustling community center where coats, toys, and warm meals translate generosity...

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A promise with teeth—Isaiah 1:27–31 offers redemption rooted in justice while exposing where false worship leads. We open with the hope that Zion will be redeemed and the repentant restored, then follow Isaiah’s images as they unmask Judah’s idols: sacred oaks, alluring gardens, and the illusion of strength that dries into tinder. What looks sturdy without God—status, alliances, rituals—turns brittle fast, and the very works people trust become the spark that lights the fire.

We share how Isaiah’s critique lands today. M...

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A single word can change how we see marriage. “Yada” became a pop punchline, but in Hebrew it means to know—an embodied, tender intimacy that God designed to be joyful, mutual, and deeply bonding. We open the door to that richer meaning and look honestly at why so many couples slide from soulmates into roommates when sex turns into an afterthought.

We share research that places a happy sex life near the top of marital satisfaction and shine...

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A faithful city can forget its name. We open Isaiah 1:22–26 and confront a hard picture: silver turned to dross, strong wine watered down, and leaders who love gifts more than justice. The images are vivid because the stakes are real—when worship is hollow and courts are for sale, the fatherless and widow pay the highest price. Yet the same passage that levels the charge also opens a door: God promises to refine, not erase, and to restore judges “as at the first” so the city can be c...

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Ever notice how a joke about parking or a comment about the dishwasher somehow spirals into “you never listen”? We trace the anatomy of a fight from tiny trigger to emotional explosion and reveal the quiet culprit that keeps the fire burning: pride. Drawing on relationship research, faith-filled wisdom, and hard-won personal lessons, we show how hidden stress, unspoken fears, and confirmation bias turn partners into opponents—and how a different posture can flip the script.

We walk through two vivid stories—a parking lot melt...

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Justice that looks like love is not an optional extra; it is the proof that repentance is real. We open Isaiah 1:17–21 and hear God redirect His people from hollow ritual toward a life that defends the oppressed, brings justice to the fatherless, and pleads the widow’s cause. Then comes one of Scripture’s most generous invitations: “Come now, let us reason together.” The stain is scarlet and set deep, but grace promises a cleansing we cannot manufacture—white as snow, like wool, and truly new.

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A ghost story, a river prank, and a camp legend set the stage for a bigger truth about love: real connection grows when couples stop dodging conflict and learn to repair with kindness. We open with Leo and Julia’s unforgettable “river widow” moment, then dig into why tension is the heartbeat of every great romance on screen—and why it’s just as vital in a healthy marriage. Not because drama is good, but because growth is. Avoidance turns small sparks into slow-burning distance; courage turns toug...

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What if God isn’t impressed by your most polished moments of worship, your best calendar of devotions, or your longest prayers? We walk through Isaiah 1:13–16 and face a hard truth: rituals without righteousness don’t soften God’s heart; they grieve it. From weekly Sabbaths to monthly new moons to annual convocations, Isaiah sweeps the entire religious year to show how devotion turns empty when it’s used to mask injustice. The shock isn’t that God dislikes worship, but that he rejects performance that props up hyp...

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When prayer feels like it’s hitting the ceiling and worship won’t move your heart, the distance can spill into your marriage fast. We open up about spiritual dryness—what it looks like, how it quietly settles in, and why pushing harder often makes it worse. Anchored by Greg and Erin Smalley’s powerful story from Focus on the Family, we trace the honest journey from fervent prayer through grief and doubt to a steadier trust, and we unpack what a loving spouse can do when fai...

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What if God looked at our busiest worship moments and said, I’ve had enough? Isaiah 1:9–12 is a hard mirror. We walk through the prophet’s blazing words—Judah spared only by mercy, then called “Sodom” and “Gomorrah”—and see why God rejects sacrifices when the heart stays cold. The point isn’t to shame spiritual practices; it’s to restore their meaning by tying them back to repentance, justice, and sincere love.

We break down the remnant theme as a sign of covenant faithfulness, not huma...

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Intimacy isn’t just candlelight and chemistry; it’s the courage to be fully known and still fully loved. We open up about what spiritual closeness in marriage really looks like—beyond Sunday services and good intentions—and share the simple, repeatable practices that helped us move from parallel faith lives to a shared journey with God.

We start with daily disciplines you can actually keep: short prayers spoken out loud, a few verses read together, worship on your commute, and quick check-ins about what God...

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A nation on the exam table, a prophet with steady hands, and a diagnosis most of us would rather avoid. We walk through Isaiah 1:5–8 and face the images that refuse to be softened: bruised bodies, untreated wounds, and a once-secure city reduced to a flimsy field shack. The shock isn’t for drama; it’s for clarity. Isaiah draws a straight line from inner rebellion to outer ruin, from ritual without repentance to cities set on fire, and we ask the uncomfortable question: what happens when a peop...

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A deep-sea anglerfish isn’t anyone’s picture of romance, yet its eerie fusion offers a stark warning: when we confuse oneness with absorption, we risk shrinking our God-given identities to fit a relationship. We open this conversation by rethinking the unity candle and why keeping both “individual candles” lit paints a truer vision of covenant love—two whole people, rooted in Christ, choosing each other daily.

From there, we get honest about the gap many couples feel between personal faith and shared spirituality. Church att...

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A prophet opens court and calls the cosmos to the stand. We kick off our Isaiah series with a vivid walk through chapter 1, where God’s case against Judah exposes not only ancient failure but the patterns we repeat today: empty motions, stubborn hearts, and a drift from relationship to ritual. The scene is bracing—oxen and donkeys know their masters, yet people with promises forget the One who raised them.

We lay the groundwork for the whole series by situating Isaiah in real hist...

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What if “cleave” never meant cling but chase? We dig into the original meaning of Genesis 2:24 and show how active pursuit can transform a tired routine into a living, breathing romance. This isn’t about grand gestures you can’t sustain. It’s about simple, repeatable moves—observe, woo, and reinvent—that make your marriage feel new without pretending you’re new people.

We start with observation, the antidote to assumption. After years together it’s easy to feel certain and still miss the mark. We share res...

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Judgment doesn’t get the last word—holiness does. We’re kicking off a new verse-by-verse journey through Isaiah by setting the scene: a prophet with court access who spoke truth to power during invasions, sieges, and national panic. We map the turbulent history around Uzziah, Ahaz, Hezekiah, and Manasseh; the fall of Israel; the Assyrian threat to Judah; and the Babylonian exile that shaped the book’s tone. Along the way, we unpack why Isaiah’s voice is both razor sharp and deeply tender, exposing idols and...

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The honeymoon glow doesn’t just dim; it gets crowded out by laundry, calendars, and the hum of everyday sameness. We unpack why the thrill fades around the two-and-a-half-year mark, how “tedious predictability” sneaks in, and what it really takes to bring back warmth, laughter, and desire. Along the way, we share our own missteps and small wins, plus a composite story of Jenna and Mark—a couple who love each other but feel more like co-managers than partners—to show how common and fixable this drift can...

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Feeling close shouldn’t feel complicated, yet so many couples end up living like polite roommates. We explore how that slow drift happens and what it really takes to turn back toward each other with clarity, courage, and care. Using the “monkey trap” metaphor, we unpack the defenses that keep love at arm’s length—self-reliance, secrecy, emotional walls, addiction, FOMO, and denial—and share how those patterns formed for us, how they hurt, and how we let them go.

From there, we get practical wi...

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Ever shared a home, a calendar, and a life… yet felt utterly alone? We dive into the quiet shift from soulmates to roommates and tell the story of Jeff and Lindsay—a couple who does almost everything “right” but slowly drifts into separate emotional lives. Their journey becomes a lens to explore why so many marriages feel isolated, how busyness disguises disconnection, and what it takes to reweave intimacy without losing yourself.

We spotlight clear signs of parallel living—separate rooms, silent dinners, chore scorekeepi...

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Most people don’t reject God; they recoil from counterfeits of Him. This finale challenges the easy myths about faith and offers a roadmap for living unshaken—rooted in Scripture, rich in prayer, and ready to love people without editing the truth.

We start by laying the only foundation that holds: five Scripture-shaped model prayers that ask the Father to draw people to Jesus, break spiritual blindness, replace fear with adoption, send workers into everyday harvest fields, and pour out wisdom and revelation. From ther...

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The smallest moments are doing the biggest damage—or the deepest healing. We’re talking about the everyday windows that quietly decide whether your marriage drifts toward roommates or grows into soulmates: a few minutes before sleep, the way you say goodbye, and the way you greet when you get home. These aren’t grand gestures. They’re repeatable rituals that, once protected, compound into trust, ease, and warmth.

We start by naming the “sirens” of modern life—phones, feeds, and never-ending to-dos—and why the solution...

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Culture keeps shouting, but hearts still crave something steady, real, and life-giving. We take a hard look at what it means to stand firm with grace—learning from Daniel’s quiet courage and exploring a simple framework for Christlike impact: the lion’s boldness, the man’s compassion, the eagle’s excellence, and the ox’s endurance. This isn’t about louder opinions; it’s about a transformed life that carries peace into tense rooms, clarity into confusion, and hope into heavy places.

We start with the t...

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Ever catch yourself scrolling while your partner speaks—and feel the room chill by a few degrees? We dive into the quiet ways marriages drift, not through fights or explosive moments, but through the small daily choices that siphon attention away from each other. Using the story of Mia and Alex as a mirror, we unpack how busy schedules, kids, work pressure, and especially our devices can turn soulmates into roommates—without anyone meaning to. The fix isn’t a grand gesture; it’s a reset of prior...

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A rushed Sunday, a quiet room, and a man who thought he was too far gone—what started as an inconvenient moment became a wake-up call about how real influence actually works. We open with that personal story, then trace a path through Daniel’s life in Babylon to show why connection before correction isn’t soft; it’s strategic, biblical, and powerful.

Across seventy years and four regimes, Daniel stood firm without becoming combative. He earned trust through integrity, humility, and consistency—and that trust...

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The difference between marriages that thrive and those that merely survive often comes down to one critical element: the quality of communication between partners. In this episode, we unpack why so many couples get stuck in patterns of surface-level interaction that leave them feeling more like roommates than soulmates.

We've all experienced those days when conversation with our spouse revolves solely around scheduling pickups, discussing bills, or solving household problems. While these practical exchanges are necessary, they're not sufficient for building true intimacy. Research...

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The physical symptoms of stress often arrive as messengers, carrying deeper spiritual warnings we've been too busy to hear. When I experienced what I thought was a heart attack during church service—later diagnosed as a severe stress attack—it became a pivotal moment that revealed how dangerously divided my life had become.

Drawing from the biblical story of "the writing on the wall," this powerful episode explores how chronic stress serves as our body's urgent alert system, signaling that something fundamental is misaligned in o...

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Ever wonder why "just communicate better" feels like such empty advice when your marriage is struggling? That's because most of us don't understand what communication actually means. In this illuminating episode, we unpack the surprising truth that communication encompasses far more than just talking—it's about how we connect through words, actions, silence, and even digital exchanges.

We share a revealing story about a husband who thought flour was his wife's favorite flower, highlighting how easy it is to miss what truly matters to ou...

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This week we have a special episode. We are taking a break for 1 week from our Unshaken series to bring you this interview. We hope you enjoy it and please go purchase Kim's Book!

Have you ever felt like your spiritual life has become more about checking boxes than experiencing genuine connection with God? You're not alone. In this heartfelt conversation with author Kim McIntire, we explore the transformative journey from routine religion to the life-giving experience of truly abiding in Christ.

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Have you ever felt like you're just roommates with your spouse instead of soulmates? The culprit might be hidden in plain sight - those small, everyday moments you're missing.

In this continuation of our Marriage Reset series, we dive deep into how busyness erodes relationships and why the solution isn't what most couples think. While many struggling couples pin their hopes on vacations or date nights to reconnect, research reveals something far more powerful: micro-moments of connection.

Relationship researcher Dr. Elaine Morris...

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The weight of your days hangs in the balance. What would God's scale reveal about your life right now?

When King Belshazzar saw mysterious writing on his palace wall, Daniel interpreted the word "tekel" as "you have been weighed on the scales and found wanting." This sobering message echoes through our hectic modern lives. We're constantly running on empty, wearing busyness like a badge of honor, and wondering why we feel so overwhelmed.

Our culture bombards us with endless choices and pressures...

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Do you ever feel like ships passing in the night with your spouse? That moment when you realize you've barely exchanged more than logistics and schedules for days, maybe weeks? You're not alone.

Marriage was designed to be our refuge—a place of refreshment and connection that energizes us for life's demands. Yet somehow, for many couples, it's become just another task on an overwhelming to-do list. The culprit? Busyness.

This episode dives deep into how the relentless pace of modern life qu...

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What would change if you knew exactly how much time you had left? This episode dives into the real yet often ignored reality that our days are numbered, drawing wisdom from the biblical account of King Belshazzar in Daniel 5.

The mysterious writing on the wall – "Mene, Mene, Tekel, Parsin" – wasn't just a message for an ancient king. It serves as a prophetic reminder for us today about the brevity of life and the importance of living with purpose. We often behave as though we have...

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Are you and your spouse running on empty? The silent epidemic of exhaustion has transformed countless marriages from vibrant partnerships into mere roommate arrangements where couples share space but little emotional connection.

Satan strategically uses exhaustion as a weapon against our relationships. When we're perpetually tired, we become irritable, disengaged, and unable to hear God's guiding voice. We ignore what matters most in life—including our marriages—because we simply have nothing left to give. Yet God designed us differently, creating rhythms of work and...

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What happens when we find ourselves surrounded by chaos? Do we grab tighter for control, or is there another way forward?

This powerful episode of Connecting the Gap explores how our attempts to control our circumstances often lead us further from peace. Through the biblical story of Jacob—a man who spent his life grasping and manipulating—we discover the transformative power of surrender.

Our current cultural landscape reveals a society adrift from its moral foundations. Campus protests, political divisions, and ideological warf...

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Modern life is killing our marriages—not through dramatic blowups, but through the slow poison of chronic exhaustion. When was the last time you and your spouse truly connected beyond logistics and schedules? If you're functioning more like efficient roommates than passionate partners, you're experiencing what we call "marital exhaustion."

Satan's most effective strategy isn't tempting us to outright sin; it's keeping us so busy that we drift apart without even noticing. Between careers, children, social commitments, household responsibilities, and even church activities, couples fi...

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What happens when our feelings take the driver's seat in life's most important decisions? In this powerful exploration of faith versus emotions, we examine how prioritizing feelings over God's wisdom leads to cultural compromise and spiritual drift.

Drawing from Daniel's unwavering example in Babylonian captivity, we uncover the secret to standing firm when everything around us urges compromise. Rather than being swayed by feelings or cultural pressure, Daniel consistently demonstrated a life guided by deliberate choices and firm commitments—choices that often went directly ag...

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What happens when the person you married starts feeling more like a housemate than a soulmate? In this deeply personal exploration of marriage disconnect, we continue our Marriage Reset series by examining the subtle shifts that transform passionate partnerships into practical arrangements.

While dramatic issues like infidelity and addiction can damage relationships suddenly, most marriages don't collapse overnight. Instead, they erode through what we call a "slow fade" – the gradual accumulation of small behaviors that quietly create distance. Drawing from personal experience and years of...

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Pride—the subtle sin that convinces us we're self-sufficient—might be the greatest spiritual danger we face today. Drawing powerful lessons from King Nebuchadnezzar's dramatic fall and restoration in Daniel 4, this episode examines how pride infiltrates our hearts and culture, gradually pulling us away from dependence on God.

When life runs smoothly, we often forget who provides our blessings. Bills paid, family healthy, career advancing—suddenly we believe we're managing fine on our own. Prosperity becomes a spiritual test many of us fail. Yet when c...

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We've all felt it—that subtle shift when the person sleeping next to you starts feeling more like a housemate than a soulmate. The passionate connection that once defined your relationship has been replaced by practical coexistence, separate routines, and conversations limited to household logistics.

Our new series "Marriage Reset" begins with an honest exploration of how marriages drift from deep connection to mere cohabitation. Through the story of Caleb and Lena—marriage experts who found themselves emotionally disconnected despite their professional knowledge—we examin...

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Have you ever struggled to make sense of tragedy and suffering in a world created by a loving God? The tension between faith and heartbreak lies at the heart of this week's episode of our "Unshaken" series, where we confront one of faith's most challenging questions: Why would God allow pain in the lives of those who love Him?

Through the moving story of 16-year-old Sid Ortis, whose battle with cancer transformed an Alabama community, we explore what happens when faith collides with devastating...

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What makes a truly Christ-centered marriage different from the world's version of partnership? It's not just about living under the same roof or maintaining surface-level peace—it's about cultivating specific spiritual fruits that transform two people into one flesh with God at the center.

In this episode, we dive deep into eight biblical characteristics that create a flourishing godly marriage. From the foundational quality of 1 Corinthians 13 love that "keeps no record of wrongs," to the often-misunderstood balance of submission and sacrificial love described in Ep...

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The world grows increasingly hostile to biblical values, leaving many Christians wondering how to remain faithful without facing severe consequences. Drawing from personal experience with grief after losing my father to cancer, worship became my anchor during life's darkest moments, bringing the "peace beyond understanding" promised in Philippians 4:7.

The frightening parallels between Daniel's Babylon and today's culture cannot be ignored. We face growing hostility toward faith, directives that challenge core beliefs, real consequences for non-compliance, and cultural backlash for standing firm in our convictions...

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When boundaries break in marriage, the path forward can feel uncertain and overwhelming. Do you fight for restoration or flee from the pain? In this final episode of our boundaries series, we explore the critical steps that lead from brokenness to healing.

Healthy boundaries provide the foundation for a thriving marriage, but what happens when those lines are crossed? Whether through infidelity, dishonesty, or emotional violations, boundary breaches can devastate relationships. Yet through our own journey of restoration, we've discovered a four-step pathway that...

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Ralph Waldo Emerson's wisdom sets the tone for this week's exploration: "A person will worship something. Have no doubt about that... what we are worshiping we are becoming." As we continue our journey through the book of Daniel, we confront an uncomfortable truth—everyone worships something, and our devotion shapes our identity.

Why do we feel perfectly comfortable shouting at football games, painting our faces, and high-fiving strangers in celebration, yet hesitate to raise our hands in church? This cultural contradiction reveals much about wh...

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Boundaries in marriage aren't restrictions that limit freedom—they're intentional frameworks that protect what matters most. This episode dives deep into the delicate balance of emotional, verbal, physical, and digital boundaries that create space for true intimacy to flourish.

We explore the critical skill of "speaking truth in love," examining how truth without love becomes harsh and damaging, while love without truth enables dysfunction. Drawing from our own relationship journey, we share how respecting each other's emotional processing st...

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What happens when life threatens everything you love? 

I start out this week's episode with my wife, Michelle's, medical journey - from severe migraines to a botched hysterectomy that nearly cost her a kidney. Through the darkest moments, our mantra became "not today, Satan," as we fought to hold tight to our faith while medical disasters compounded. This raw testimony reveals how personal crisis becomes either the breaking point or the refining fire for our deepest convictions.

Faith that remains untested is f...

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Think boundaries are barriers to intimacy? Think again. In this week's episode, we dive deep into why boundaries are not just good for marriage—they're essential to God's design for relational flourishing.

Drawing from scripture and personal experience, we unpack how most couples struggle with boundaries due to fear of conflict or appearing selfish. What makes this especially challenging in marriage is the vulnerability that comes with complete commitment. As one of us shares, "When you're dating, you overlook things because you're so in lo...

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The image of the White House illuminated in rainbow colors following the Supreme Court's ruling on same-sex marriage represents a pivotal moment for American Christians. This visual metaphor perfectly captures how cultural pressure constantly grinds against biblical values until we either compromise or find the courage to stand firm.

Drawing wisdom from Daniel's example in Babylon, we explore how his brave refusal of the king's food parallels our modern challenge to maintain biblical convictions while living in a society that increasingly rejects God's standards...

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The world constantly tries to rename us, but do we have the courage to hold fast to our true identity? 

When Daniel and his companions were taken captive to Babylon, their captors immediately changed their Hebrew names—which honored God—to pagan Babylonian names that mocked their faith. Daniel's name, meaning "God is my judge," became Belteshazzar ("Lady, protect the king"). This wasn't merely administrative; it was a deliberate attempt to erase their God-given identities.

This ancient tactic mirrors what many believers face...

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Cultural shifts pull us toward extreme reactions - either condemning those with different views or accepting everything without question. But what if there's a better approach?

The new "Unshaken" series explores how Christians can remain steadfast in their faith while engaging lovingly with a changing culture. Through the compelling story of a pastor's encounter with a tailor who practiced a different religion, we see a powerful contrast in approaches. While previous Christians had condemned the man's idols and even told him he was "going...

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Boundaries in marriage often get misunderstood as walls that keep love out, when they're actually doorways to deeper connection. We tackle six common misconceptions that prevent couples from establishing healthy limits in their relationships.

The first myth we debunk is that boundaries create division. Rather than walls keeping your spouse at a distance, healthy boundaries function more like doors with doorknobs on the inside—allowing you to control when and how you connect while still maintaining an open heart. As one spouse shares, "When I...

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What if the secret to a more intimate marriage isn't removing barriers, but creating the right ones? Boundaries might sound like restrictions, but they actually create the safe structure where love, faith, and respect flourish between partners.

This episode breaks down the four essential types of boundaries every marriage needs: emotional, physical, spiritual, and relational. We explore how emotional boundaries allow partners to express feelings without judgment or dismissal—creating space where vulnerability can thrive. You'll discover why saying "you're overreacting" or "that's not a...

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Twelve seemingly harmless beliefs about marriage could be quietly sabotaging your relationship. From the myth that "marriage solves relationship problems" (it actually magnifies them) to the belief that "successful couples never argue" (healthy disagreement can strengthen your bond), we're dismantling the misconceptions that set couples up for disappointment and frustration.

When Daniel and Michelle share their personal battle with "the look" that triggers old memories of conflict, we realize how even strong marriages face challenges. Their honesty sets the stage for an eye-opening discussion...

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The journey of blending families brings unique challenges that require wisdom, patience, and supernatural guidance. In this deeply personal conversation, Scottie and Vicky Albious generously open their hearts to share the story of how they've successfully navigated their blended family journey with God's help.

When Scottie and Vicky first met, his daughter Khira was already in the picture. Rather than rushing into a disciplinary role, Vicky wisely built trust first—approaching Scottie privately with observations rather than correcting Khira directly. This foundation of respect cr...

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Cultural differences can either fracture relationships or become the foundation for something beautiful. For Scottie and Vicky Albious, navigating the chasm between Marshallese traditions and American expectations became an unexpected journey of growth, compromise, and spiritual transformation.

When Vicky first encountered Scottie's family, she stepped into a world where women served everyone without question. She watched as grown men expected their mothers to fetch drinks, clean up after them, and handle every domestic task while men maintained authority without responsibility. Coming from a completely...

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What happens when love finds you after divorce? Scottie and Vicky Albious join us to share their remarkable journey of building a marriage where one spouse had been previously married with a child, while the other was experiencing marriage for the first time.

Their story begins at a church volleyball game that sparked a friendship, eventually blossoming into something deeper. Scottie, having experienced divorce and raising a young daughter, initially planned to remain single until his daughter reached her teens. The complexity of introducing...

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Rejection stings at the core of our identity, challenging our worth and purpose in moments that feel like failures rather than redirections. But what if these closed doors are actually divine protections guiding us away from paths not meant for us?

This bonus episode explores seven powerful truths about rejection that transform our perspective from defeat to destiny. When relationships end, job opportunities slip away, or dreams crumble, we often ask "why me?" But the better question might be "what now, Lord?" This subtle...

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Nothing tests wedding vows like a medical crisis that transforms your relationship overnight. When Michelle underwent what should have been a routine hysterectomy in 2018, neither she nor husband Daniel could have predicted the cascade of life-threatening complications that would follow – a massive jugular blood clot, damaged ureter, kidney disease, and multiple emergency surgeries that permanently altered her body.

Beyond the physical trauma lay an unexpected challenge that many couples face but few discuss openly: the devastating impact on their intimate life. As Michelle's body ch...

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What if the rejection you feel most deeply isn't even real? We all create stories in our minds about how others perceive us, but these narratives often spring from our own insecurities rather than reality. This powerful conclusion to our three-part rejection series explores how living from a foundation of being deeply loved transforms everything about how we navigate perceived slights and actual rejection.

Through an uncomfortably relatable story about a gym encounter gone wrong, we discover how easily we assign thoughts to others...

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Have you ever felt the sting of rejection so deeply that it altered how you see yourself? This raw, powerful episode takes us on a journey from the pain of past rejection to the stability of an identity anchored in something unshakable.

Through a seemingly simple home repair story about a stubborn cable that wouldn't budge, we discover a profound truth about human identity. Just as that cable needed secure attachment to function properly, our sense of self requires anchoring to something permanent rather...

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Rejection's invisible wounds cut deeper than we often recognize. This powerful opening episode in our three-part series on Rejection examines how today's rejections act as precision-targeted stealth bombs, unearthing our past hurts with excruciating intensity.

Through a personal airport story, we discover how negative self-talk becomes the most insidious form of rejection. When an unexpected encounter with an airport employee halted self-deprecating comments with the powerful statement "Not here in front of me will you talk that way about yourself," it revealed a profound...

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Sexual intimacy in marriage represents the deepest form of connection God designed for couples, yet many Christians struggle to discuss it openly or understand its sacred purpose. As we conclude our journey through the Four Laws of Love, we explore seven transformative steps to create true sexual intimacy that honors both your spouse and God's design.

The biblical approach to sexuality begins with prayer. Many couples feel uncomfortable bringing sexual matters before God, yet He created this gift...

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Sexual intimacy isn't just physical—it's also spiritual. This truth, largely forgotten in our secularized culture, holds the key to experiencing the deep connection God designed for marriage.

The statistics are sobering: 64% of American men view pornography monthly, with Christian men matching the national average. Women's usage is rising sharply too. Yet despite unprecedented access to sexual content, marriages are struggling more than ever with intimacy issues. Why? Because we've divorced sex from its spiritual context.

Wh...

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What's the first thing you think of when someone mentions "intimacy" in marriage? If you immediately thought "sex," you're not alone—but you're only scratching the surface of what true intimacy means.

Most couples don't realize they're missing three-quarters of the connection God designed for marriage. When intimacy feels lacking, many wrongly conclude they married the wrong person or that deep connection just isn't possible for them. These misconceptions lead to empty relationships or desperate attempts to fill the void through unhealthy means.
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When anger strikes in marriage, the path we choose determines whether we'll grow closer or drift apart. This raw, honest exploration of conflict resolution dives deep into the spiritual battleground of marital disagreements, revealing how seemingly small decisions—like sleeping on the couch after an argument—can create dangerous openings for destructive thoughts and patterns.

Drawing from personal experience and biblical application, Daniel and Michelle Moore share vulnerable stories from their own marriage, including moments when unresolved anger nearly destroyed their relationship. They candidly disc...

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Just like Satan deceived Eve in the Garden, he continues to deceive us today. Just as he misled Eve by promising that sin would improve her life, he uses the same tactics on us. It is important to recall that before Adam and Eve fell into sin, they had a flawless marriage - they were united as one, bare and unashamed, basking in the intimate and loving wonder of their union. However, after they succumbed to sin, they became two isolated individuals hiding from both each...

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In marriage, we naturally seek to share our true selves with our partner. However, for this to take place, there must be a prepared and protected atmosphere providing an environment where we can regularly “get naked.”

God intended for the vulnerability of marriage to encompass every aspect of our beings - physical, emotional, and spiritual. When we can be completely open and transparent with our spouses without feelings of shame or fear, we lay the foundation for a strong and intimate relationship to flourish. If t...

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As marriage counselors counsel as many couples as they have, they get used to hearing certain phrases a lot. One of the phrases they hear the most from distressed spouses in failing marriages is: “We’ve grown apart.” What began as a deeply romantic and satisfying relationship is now the opposite. The result is increasing emotional distance that is commonly described as “growing apart.”

In each instance of this dynamic, the essence of partnership is being disregarded. The unity that was once present has now dissip...

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Ever wondered if love letters have more impact than voicemails when it comes to expressing love? Well, this is Daniel, and I have an opinion on that! Tune in to our special Valentine's Day Couples Q&A episode where Michelle and I share amusing anecdotes and insights on everything from our favorite taco indulgences to the rarity of giving each other a massage. We start with a devotional reading from 1 John 4:7-8, setting the stage for a heartfelt exploration of emotions that Valentine's Day brings—be it...

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Can a marriage thrive under the weight of the dominance and control of an overbearing spouse? We explore this pressing question as we unravel the complexities of destructive dominance in relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, we shed light on how dominance and narcissistic traits can disrupt the balance and harmony in a marriage, potentially leading to dissatisfaction and even divorce. Listeners will learn how to recognize these patterns and gain practical strategies to foster equality, mutual respect, and a healthier partnership.

Our discussion...

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Imagine transforming your marriage by embracing biblical principles that have stood the test of time. That's exactly what Michelle and I have been inspired to do through our journey in "The Four Laws of Love" series. This transformative experience has paved the way for an exciting shift in our podcast's focus. We are thrilled to announce the launch of "Marriage Life and More," a dedicated platform where we’ll explore the complexities and beauty of marital relationships. Our episodes will feature heartfelt interviews with couples sharing th...

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·         Are you completely surrendered to your mate?

·         Is there something you are holding back and not sharing with them?

·         Are you controlling your spouse and not treating them as an equal?

Placing everything we have into a marriage offers the invaluable advantage of complete mutual sharing. Both partners belong entirely to each other, with no barriers preventing them from sharing every aspect of life.

Intimacy is not built on great sex or deep conversations; authentic intimacy emerges when two individuals in...

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If you ask a Christian couple if God put them together, they will almost always respond with something like, “Yes, we believe God put us together.” Then, if you ask them why God put them together, they will rarely be able to give you the answer. But there is an answer. Having that answer will take every married couple to another level in their relationship.

After Michelle and I had been married for around ten years, we finally had a good marriage. The Lord had...

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Are you looking to strengthen your marriage and avoid the pitfalls that can lead to a relationship full of conflict and stress? In this video, we’ll explore 5 powerful ways to avoid a marriage from hell and build a thriving, joyful relationship that stands the test of time. Whether you’re newlyweds or seasoned partners, these practical tips will equip you to nurture your marriage and enjoy a deeper connection with your spouse.

You’ll discover how to:
✔️ Serve your spouse’s needs selflessly...

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In the last episode we talked about the Law of Pursuit. We must work at our marriages to keep them strong and vibrant but at the same time we must work at them in accordance with God’s design. God designed marriage with respective roles for husbands and wives. In this week’s episode we are going to study that out using Ephesians 5.

In the Bible, we can thank Paul for giving us the most revelatory and descriptive text in marriage and how it is t...

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Is your marriage feeling like more of a struggle than a blessing? In this candid and transformative episode, Daniel and Michelle Moore share their personal journey of turning a troubled relationship into a thriving partnership. Drawing from their experience, they introduce the Law of Pursuit and unpack timeless biblical principles from Genesis 2 to reignite love and respect in any marriage.

Discover how moments of emotional distance and disillusionment can become opportunities for deeper connection and growth. Learn practical steps to stop taking your relationship...

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What Justifies an Affair?

Can romantic love in marriage fade, and how do we reignite the spark to ensure a thriving, God-centered union? In this eye-opening video, we explore the heart of marital romance, its significance, and how neglecting your spouse’s unspoken needs can contribute to relational struggles, including temptations that no marriage should face. Grounded in biblical principles and real-life examples, this discussion takes a deep dive into:

1️⃣ Meeting Your Spouse’s Unspoken Needs - Discover how proa...

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What’s the secret to keeping love alive in a long-term relationship? In Do This to Keep Romance Alive, we dive into actionable tips and proven strategies that couples can use to strengthen their emotional connection and reignite the spark. Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been married for years, romance plays a vital role in fostering intimacy, trust, and lasting love.

Discover the transformative power of small, daily acts of romance—like sending a heartfelt text, giving a meaningful compliment, or sha...

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What if Christmas was more than twinkling lights and wrapped gifts? In A Foster Child's Christmas, journey through the eyes of Jacob, a foster child navigating the season's emotional complexities. Despite the festive cheer of the Harrison family, Jacob feels like an outsider—until a life-changing encounter at a church event opens his heart to the season's true meaning.

This emotional video dives deep into themes of love, belonging, and hope, showcasing Jacob's transformation as he discovers the profound message of Christmas through the ki...

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The greatest threat to our marriages isn’t from bad things – it is from good things out of priority. When we allow relationships with family or friends to take priority over our marriage, it can create feelings of jealousy and resentment in our spouse. This can lead to conflict and ultimately damage the relationship.

It is important to remember that marriage is a covenant between two people, and it should be given the highest priority in our lives. This means that our spouse should come...

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Communication of any type requires trust. The deeper the level of communication, the more trust must be present. Open, honest, and intimate sharing means we must open our heart and expose ourselves. Then the most sensitive areas of our life are most vulnerable.

We will not open the deepest parts of our hearts when there is a significant risk of hurt, betrayal, or rejection. The equation: the more you gain my trust, the wider the door of my heart opens. The more you violate...

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Communication in a marriage is often described as the lifeblood of the relationship. It is the key to understanding, connection, and intimacy between partners. While technology has made communication faster and more convenient, it cannot replace the depth and quality of face-to-face communication.

Microwaving communication, or trying to rush through important conversations or discussions, can lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and unresolved issues. It is essential to take the time to communicate effectively with your spouse, actively listening and expressing yourself clearly and honestly.<...

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What do you have when you bring home a paycheck to a home where the people don’t get along? You have a perverted situation where the home supports the job. Instead, it should be the job that supports the home. This confused priority has caused untold amounts of confusion and divorce.

Do you want your children to grow up with a marriage model of unhappy and unfulfilled parents? One of the best models you can leave a child is to show that you lo...

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All the way to the alter, a couple highly prioritizes their relationship. If there are any problems, they console themselves with the idea that everything will be fixed when they get married. They spend lots of time together and focus on each other during the wedding and honeymoon. The new relationship and living arrangement keep the excitement there to keep things going.

Then children come along and that can often lead to a shift in priorities within a marriage. As the excitement of the...

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Is it ok to be jealous in our marriage and relationships? When we have trust issues in our marriage can we install apps on our phone to watch our significant others every move? Some of you are probably saying, "I already do that!" But is that really a healthy way to live life together when you are trying to be one unit in marriage but are really completely divided?

Our conversation this week takes an honest look at the dynamics of friendships with the...

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Celebrating our 200th episode is truly a milestone worth cherishing, and what better way to commemorate it than with my special guest—my beautiful wife! We reminisce about the journey I've undertaken over the past four years on Connecting the Gap while launching a new marriage series, "The 4 Laws of Love." This series promises to offer real-world insights and heartfelt guidance for couples, whether newlyweds navigating the early stages of marriage or those facing long-standing challenges, all while centering God in our conversation.

Marriage is...

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Roses are red, violets are blue, if I were a cat, I’d spend all my lives falling for you!
Roses are red, violets are blue, I’m not a fortune teller, but my future looks brighter with you!
They say dating is a numbers game, so can I get yours?
Do you believe in love at first sight, or do you need to look at my profile again?
Do you have a map? I just got lost in y...

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The upcoming 2024 November elections hold the power to reshape abortion laws across ten pivotal states, and we're here to break it all down. From Arizona to New York, critical ballot initiatives are on the table with contrasting approaches to abortion rights, like Nebraska's Initiative 434 and Initiative 439. We uncover the potential consequences of these measures, including the erosion of protections for women and unborn children, and the implications of taxpayer-funded procedures. By examining demographic data and CDC statistics, we provide a clearer picture of the demographic trends...

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Forgiveness and redemption are at the heart of this Connecting the Gap Podcast episode. This week, special guest Brittany Poppe, joins us and shares her personal experience with abortion at the age of 15 and adds invaluable insight to our discussion on how major legal turning points like Roe v. Wade and Dobbs v. Jackson have influenced abortion laws across the United States.

As we discuss her emotional aftermath of abortion, we uncover stories of healing through faith-based support and the transformative power of God’s...

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I want to share with you all this week, a very sober subject. It’s a subject that really isn’t talked about very much. It might even be a little bit of a flashback to being old-school. A nod to the way I grew up. This may sound like a judgmental discussion today, but believe me, it is done out of love. And just to make it clear, I am teaching to the choir. I need this message as much as anyone. This isn’t really...

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In school, testing is an opportunity to reveal your understanding. In life, testing is an opportunity to reveal your faith.

Sometimes God puts us in difficult positions to test us. And believe it or not many of Jesus miracles involve the testing of faith. The miracle of Jesus walking on the water marks the second, not the first time that Jesus used the storm on the Sea of Galilee to test His disciples. 

Have you ever thought about the fact that sometimes y...

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Ever wondered how a career in nursing could prepare someone for a life in ministry? In this episode of Connecting the Gap, we sit down with Ashley Wilhite to uncover her inspiring journey from a pastor’s kid in Skiatook, Oklahoma, to a children’s pastor and author of the new devotional book "Favored." Ashley opens up about the divine favor she experienced throughout her life, even during times when she felt distant from God. She discusses her unique transition from nursing, particularly in Alzheimer's and deme...

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Jacob's struggle with his identity and worth stemmed from a deep insecurity and fear of not measuring up to what he believed he was destined to be. He felt the weight of his inadequacies and constantly sought validation and fulfillment through his own efforts rather than trusting in God's plan for his life.

Despite his strong ambition and desire for greatness, Jacob's lack of faith and reliance on himself led to a cycle of deceit, manipulation, and comparison with others. He believed that he...

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I'm not a fan of Pinterest!

Maybe you aren’t a Pinterest user. Maybe for you it is HGTV or Food Network. Maybe it is Facebook or X. Maybe it is your pastor or neighbor that is super fit or the soccer mom that always looks perfect at the soccer park on any given day of the week no matter what time of the day it is. You look at them and wonder why you can’t have it all together and measure up to t...

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The story of Jacob shows that a life driven by self-serving motives can lead to prolonged struggles, broken relationships, and unfulfilled desires. Jacob's journey taught him the hard way that his manipulative tactics and self-centered behavior did not bring lasting satisfaction or true fulfillment.

Similarly, many people find themselves caught up in the cycle of self-preservation and self-advancement, constantly striving to secure their own interests at the expense of others. This mindset can lead to a sense of isolation, mistrust, and emptiness, as individuals...

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When I was a kid, I created my fair share of fake identities. I used to watch karate movies and try to work on all the karate moves and would have fake fights. It wasn’t that I was trying to be something that I wasn’t or that I was trying to deceive anyone. Maybe it was just me trying to belong or maybe it was too uncomfortable to embrace who I was. It might have even been a little bit of both.

I al...