The Raw and The Cooked - Simple Rhythms for SAHM, Honest Motherhood, and Books Worth Reading

The Raw and The Cooked - Simple Rhythms for SAHM, Honest Motherhood, and Books Worth Reading

By: Dara Boxer

Language: en-us

Categories: Kids, Family, Parenting, Arts, Books, Food

Dara Boxer is a stay-at-home mom to four kids six and under, committed to living a simple, well-organized, and beautifully functional life — mostly for her own sanity. A former personal chef and cooking instructor, she brings that same intention to her home: from seasonal meal planning to laundry systems, quiet time routines, toy storage, and everything in between.Episodes release on Thursdays, and alternate between honest book reviews and practical strategies for managing the chaos of home life with little kids. Come for the rhythm tips, stay for the raw motherhood truths — and maybe leave with a better grocery list.

Episodes

#205: Kisses from Hashem - Small Gifts in a Loud World
Jan 08, 2026

In Judaism, we sometimes call God ‘Hashem,’ which means ‘The Name.’ I love this word — it feels close and loving. In today’s episode, I’m sharing something a little softer and more reflective. Lately I’ve been feeling deeply aligned and blessed in this season of life — not because everything is perfect (it never is), but because I’m becoming more aware of Hashem’s presence in the day-to-day moments of motherhood, home life, and growth.

This episode is about contentment, trust, alignment, and learning to receive the life we already have — with gratitude and humility. I talk about noticing bl...

Duration: 00:26:24
#204: Joyful Rhyming Reads for Babies 0–3 — Books You’ll Actually Love Reading on Repeat
Jan 01, 2026

Happy 2026! We made it through the holidays and now get that beautiful fresh-start energy that January brings. I am so here for it.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing my very favorite baby and toddler books — the ones we reach for again and again with our 16-month-old and our preschoolers, and honestly the ones our older kids still love, too.

Rather than focusing on a specific age, these are simply the books that:

have a great rhythm or rhymeare fun to read aloud (over and over again!)have engaging illustra...

Duration: 00:11:07
#203: Amazon Impulse Purchases from 2025 | The Wins and The Regrets
Dec 25, 2025

Today, I'm sharing  the impulse buys that shaped a year at home with four kids, from sleep-regression gear that flopped to kitchen tools, kid storage, and one antique desk that changed everything. Honest wins, painful misses, and the small upgrades that make family life smoother. 

Kitchen:

Apple SlicerSour Dough Bread KnifeUSA Loaf PansSilicone Tipped Metal StrawsMartha Stewart Cake Stand with Glass Dome

Home

Moss Poles for PlantsFine Mist Continuous Spray BottlesRosemary and Ginger HandsoapPuzzle Glue Sharpie Pastel HighlightersMesh Laundry BagsSmall Bluetooth SpeakerAutomatic Pet Feeder

Baby

Corolla Mini Baby DollTripod Clip FanSlumber PodBaby Gat...

Duration: 00:30:21
#202: My Favorite Books of 2025
Dec 18, 2025

I’m sharing my favorite books of 2025 — the ones that stayed with me, challenged me, comforted me, or simply pulled me through a heavy season.

This year, I read 55 books (and counting), and today I’m narrowing it down to the 13 books I loved the most. These picks span fiction and nonfiction, parenting, faith, health, and pure escapism — a true snapshot of my reading life this year.

December feels heavy. The sun sets early. Everything feels like effort. And yet, there is nothing like a really good book. This episode is for anyo...

Duration: 00:16:26
#201: One-Pot Easy Winter Dinners
Dec 11, 2025

Today I'm sharing Winter Dinners that will save your sanity. One-pot and one-sheet-pan meals for busy, cold nights that'll make winter cooking easier. 

Recipes & Meals Mentioned:

Slow Cooker Sunday
• Simple slow-cooker chicken
• Honey Butter Chicken (Naptime Kitchen–inspired)

Ground Beef Monday
• Meatloaf
• Chili
• Meatballs

Asian Tuesday
• Coconut milk chicken with kale
• Korean tacos
• Fishbird Chicken
• Butter Chicken Meatballs

Salmon Wednesday
• Sheet-pan salmon + roasted vegetable

Thursday Simple Night
• Grilled...

Duration: 00:16:56
#200: Top 5 Listener Favorites (and Why I Think They Hit Home)
Dec 04, 2025

We celebrate 200 episodes by tracing the path from a 2015 blog to a no-ads show, then unpack the five listener favorites that keep you coming back. Books lead the way, followed by kids’ reads, cleanup systems, family routines, and flexible budgeting.


Top Book Review Episodes:

#25 Paper Palace#104 Lady Tan’s Circle of Women#109 The Collected Regrets of Clover#179 The Wedding People#159 Here One Moment#99 Remarkably Bright Creatures


And Other Top 10 Listener Favorites:

#46 Toddler Books We Currently Love#140 Systematically Cleaning Up the Kitchen After a Meal#178 Bedtime Routines with Four Kids Under Six...

Duration: 00:14:50
#199: Children of the Book — A Memoir Full of the Bible, Motherhood & 92 Children’s Book Recommendations
Nov 27, 2025

Today, I dive into Children of the Book: A Memoir of Reading Together by Ilana Kurshan, a memoir that ties parenting to the Bible's rhythm, and how I used it to build a curated list of 92 children’s books for our family library. I share what resonated, what I skipped, and how I turned the list into holiday gifts you can copy. 

The 92 Children's Book Recommendations. 

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Duration: 00:10:44
#198: Our Simple Laundry System: What Works for Our Family of Six
Nov 20, 2025

Laundry doesn’t have to be overwhelming, even in a big family. In this episode, I walk you through the system that works for us:

Why one small load every morning is the backbone of my laundry routineHow I fit switching loads into our natural daily flow (even with preschool drop-offs and activities)My simple rhythm for sheets, towels, and diapers — and why bi-weekly is plenty in our houseThe trick to keeping laundry folded and put away (without it piling up)Why doing smaller, steady loads beats saving it all for one exhausting laundry day

This isn’t abou...

Duration: 00:15:13
#197: Book Club | The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
Nov 13, 2025

In this week’s episode, I’m diving into one of my all-time favorite books, The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — a gentle but radical call to slow down and live with more peace, purpose, and presence. 🌿 I share how this book has shaped my family’s rhythm, deepened our Shabbat practice, and reminded me that we’re allowed to live differently — unhurried, intentional, and grounded in what really matters.

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Duration: 00:18:28
#196: What We Ate This Week, How I Prepped, & What I Spent, Part VIII
Oct 30, 2025

Fall settles in as we map a full week of family dinners, pack smarter school lunches, and share the exact grocery spend that made it work. From soup and meatloaf to salmon and chili, we show how one plan and a few batch tricks stretch flavor, time, and budget.

• soup Sundays with tomato soup and sourdough grilled cheese
• meatloaf Monday with buttery mashed potatoes and a green
• quick Asian Tuesday chicken with coconut milk over rice
• hot sheet-pan salmon, rosemary mushroom cream, and leftovers strategy
• chili Friday and an easy family rotisserie Saturday
• thre...

Duration: 00:25:14
#195: 10 Things Simplifying My Life Right Now, Part IV
Oct 16, 2025

I'm sharing ten simple shifts that made our home calmer, kinder, and more joyful, from fall break routines and kid chores to one-pot dinners and paper cycle tracking. The theme of this episode is gratitude!

Long fall break without school rushKids stepping up with dishes, sweeping, resets, laundryMonochrome gym uniforms to cut decisionsFavorite cropped teePlum quarter zipNavy quarter zipBuilding a small real-clothes capsuleEarly mornings with Scripture and prayerOne-pot curries, rice on repeat, frozen ginger cubesHabit stacking coffee maker and feeding sourdough starterBoxed pumpkin bread as a seasonal shortcutPage-turner thrillers to restart reading joyPaper cycle tracking with daily body...

Duration: 00:21:17
#194: Broken Bones & Holy Interruptions
Oct 09, 2025

Our first sukkah, a broken foot, and a reminder that curveballs aren’t rejections — they’re invitations. This week taught me about slowing down, showing up anyway, and finding joy in the middle of the mess. 🕊️

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Duration: 00:15:00
#193: The Radical Gift of Sabbath
Oct 02, 2025

This week I’m sharing about one of my favorite rhythms in our family life: Sabbath. Why we keep it, how it shapes our week, and why rest is good for everyone — body, soul, family, and culture. 

I’ll talk about our own Sabbath table, the prep that makes it possible, and some wisdom from Genesis and beyond that has helped me see rest as not just a pause, but a gift.

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Duration: 00:19:07
#192: How I'm Taking Back My Life From My iPhone, Living Like It's 1995
Sep 25, 2025

Today's episode is a Part II of breaking free from cell phone addiction by turning smartphones into "dumb phones." Reclaiming our attention through intentional boundaries, mainly by living like it's 1995 again.

• Deleting apps like banking, email, shopping, and browsers forces intentional computer-based usage
• Setting boundaries like no phone before 7am and designated check-in times reduces compulsive checking
• Switching to paper grocery lists and physical tracking systems eliminates constant phone dependency
• Leaving the phone in the car during errands creates freedom from constant digital connection
• Using an actual camera instead of phone camera brings back nosta...

Duration: 00:20:43
#191: The Summer 2025 Reading Roundup: Hits and Misses
Sep 18, 2025

I share my journey through 14 books read this summer - ten adult fiction and four children's books - reviewing the highlights, disappointments, and unexpected emotional moments along the way.

• My standout favorite was "The Wedding People" by Alison Espach, likely to be in my top five books of the year
• "Ask for Andrea" by Noelle Wehe captivated me with its unique perspective from murder victims in the afterlife
• Some highly-rated books like "The Grace Year" and "Don't Forget to Write" fell completely flat for me
• "The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane" by Kate DiCamillo made me...

Duration: 00:26:52
#190: Digital Reset: Apps, Emails, Photos, and Calendars Made Simple
Sep 11, 2025

Digital clutter may not take up physical space, but it consumes valuable mental bandwidth and creates background anxiety we often ignore. This episode provides a comprehensive September reset for five key digital areas.

• Phone usage is examined through the lens of "pickups" rather than screen time—revealing how we check phones every 8 minutes on average
• Simple strategies for breaking phone addiction include app deletion, grayscale display, and designated check-in times
• Computer organization focuses on desktop cleanup, download folder purging, and refreshing wallpapers
• Email management tips include separate addresses for different purposes (personal, kids' activities, shopping)<...

Duration: 00:31:04
#189: Book Club | The Bright Years by Sarah Damoff
Sep 04, 2025

"The Bright Years" by Sarah Damnoff is a debut novel that explores addiction's devastating impact across three generations of a family. This powerful story unfolds over three decades through alternating perspectives, weaving together themes of alcoholism, adoption, redemption, and the resilience of imperfect love. 

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Duration: 00:13:23
#188: Raw Monthly Budget | What My Family of Six Actually Spends
Aug 28, 2025

Ever wonder what a real family budget looks like? This week I’m opening up our June 2025 numbers — every dollar we spent on groceries, clothes, dining out, birdseed (yes), birthday parties, and last-minute ice cream runs.

I’m sharing where the impulse spending sneaks in, what makes it worth it, and how I think about money not just as math but as a living record of our values, chaos, and care.

Come peek behind the budget curtain. I hope it inspires you to look at your own spending with a little more honesty — and a lot more...

Duration: 00:27:57
#187: What If September Didn't Have to Feel So Overwhelming?
Aug 21, 2025

September has a way of rushing in with new routines, school schedules, and endless lists, leaving us feeling like we’re already behind. But what if this month didn’t have to feel so overwhelming?

In this episode, I’m sharing how I’m experimenting with a gentler rhythm for fall — including my idea of a “fall dashboard” to keep things simple — and how we can give ourselves permission to focus on what matters now, instead of everything at once.

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Duration: 00:25:46
#186: What We Ate This Week, How I Prepped, & What I Spent, Part VII
Aug 14, 2025

This week on the podcast, I’m sharing exactly what our family of six ate over the course of a full summer week—plus what we spent on groceries and dining out. With my dad visiting, it was a lively, food-filled few days of sourdough baking, summer dinners, and simple breakfasts. Tune in for a peek at our real-life meal rhythm, how I balance homemade with easy wins, and the total cost of feeding our crew this July.

Mentioned Recipes: 

Sourdough Brownies 🍫Sourdough Chocolate Chip Cookies 🍪Sourdough Tortillas 🌮Greek Chicken Marinade 🍋

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Duration: 00:13:28
#185: How I Structure Summer Weekdays with Four Small Children
Aug 07, 2025

In this episode of The Raw and the Cooked, I’m taking you inside a typical summer weekday morning in our house—with four kids under six, it’s as wild and sweet as you’d imagine. From the early wake-up call (courtesy of the cat) to swim lessons, snack prep, and that sacred solo coffee shop hour, I’m sharing the rhythms that help keep things (mostly) running. If you’re deep in the trenches too, I hope this one makes you feel a little less alone.

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Duration: 00:14:35
#184: [REPLAY] Audio Magic: When Narrators Transform Good Books Into Great Ones
Jul 31, 2025

The magic of audiobooks lies in the unique relationship between listener and narrator. Just as our parents became our first storytellers, reading bedtime stories with dramatic voices and engaging inflections, today's professional narrators transform words on a page into immersive experiences. The right narrator can elevate a good story into something extraordinary—think of George Saunders' "Lincoln in the Bardo" with its hundred-voice cast, or the perfect pacing in "Daisy Jones and the Six" that brings its interview format to vibrant life.

Mentioned Audiobooks:

Fates and Furies by Lauren GroffLincoln in the Bardo by Ge...

Duration: 00:19:20
#183: [REPLAY] The Power of the Pan Sauce
Jul 24, 2025

This replay dives into the magic of pan sauces — how they work, when to make them, and why they’re a shortcut to flavor and elegance. You’ll hear tips for building sauces from the bits left in the pan, plus my go-to combos that save dinner again and again.


The Wooden Spoon

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Duration: 00:14:04
#182: [REPLAY] Batch Cooking Will Transform Your Weeknight Dinner Routine
Jul 17, 2025

Stop cooking every night, especially in the thick of summer time. Today, we're going to discuss stretching three meals into seven nights with the help of batch cooking. 

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Duration: 00:09:43
#181: [REPLAY] Counter Intelligence: The Secret Life of Organized Kitchens
Jul 10, 2025

Today, I'm sharing five simple strategies to transform your kitchen into a stress-free space where you'll actually enjoy cooking, focusing on manageable daily actions that create long-term impact.

• Clean up completely after every meal, including a "three-minute sweep" to remove non-kitchen items that accumulate on countertops
• Gradually declutter cabinets and drawers while putting away clean dishes, removing broken items and duplicates you never use
• Reorganize kitchen storage based on frequency of use, putting regularly used items in accessible spots
• Implement regular meal planning to reduce food waste, save money, and eliminate mealtime stress
• Decant pan...

Duration: 00:15:25
#180: [REPLAY] Meal Planning Made Simple
Jul 03, 2025

Meal planning doesn't need to be complicated or time-consuming to be effective. We break down a simple four-step system that will transform your weeknight dinner routine and eliminate the daily stress of deciding what to cook.

• Determine exactly how many nights you'll be cooking each week
• Create a list of 3-5 "staple meals" that you enjoy making and your family enjoys eating
• Check your fridge and pantry for ingredients that need to be used up
• Fill in your calendar with specific meals, drawing from your staples
• Keep meals simple with the protein-starch-vegetable formula
• Main...

Duration: 00:19:42
#179: Book Club | The Wedding People by Alison Espach
Jun 26, 2025

I'm completely swept away by "The Wedding People" by Alison Espach, a book that surprised me with its raw honesty and emotional depth. This winner of the 2024 Goodreads Favorite Fiction award deserves every bit of its 4.1-star rating and half-million reviews.

• Audiobook narrator Helen Lazor delivers an exceptional performance, bringing characters to life with distinct voices
• The premise follows Phoebe, who checks into a hotel to end her life, and accidentally connects with bride-to-be Lila
• Their unlikely friendship forms the heart of the story, creating genuine humor amid serious themes
• The book handles the topic of...

Duration: 00:10:59
#178: Orchestrating Chaos: Bedtime Routines with Four Kids Under Six
Jun 19, 2025

Managing evening routines with four kids under six presents daily challenges that require flexibility, patience, and a consistent framework. Parenthood transforms us into versions of ourselves we never imagined possible, handling the beautiful chaos of young family life.

• Striking a balance between consistent bedtime routines and summer flexibility
• Reset the entire house after dinner with a family "power tidy" system
• Divide evening responsibilities between partners without rigid role assignments
• Implement age-appropriate chores for children as young as four years old
• Coordinate multiple bedtime routines simultaneously while maintaining sanity
• Find small moments of personal tim...

Duration: 00:26:25
#177: Guilt, Rage, and the Belle Doll — Managing Grandparent Overindulgence and Toy Overload
Jun 12, 2025

This episode is part confession, part therapy, for any mom drowning under a sea of plastic toys, overzealous grandparents, and the guilt that keeps you from tossing it all in a donation bin. I’m sharing what our kids bedrooms really looks like (hint: 5 baskets of stuffed animals, and that’s just the start), the infamous Belle doll incident that broke me, and how I’m learning to set boundaries, release guilt, and reclaim our space. We’ll talk systems, scripts, and why you are allowed to say, “This doesn’t belong here.” It’s not about the stuff—it’s about protect...

Duration: 00:19:41
#176: The Tim Birthday Card Project
Jun 05, 2025

In honor of our late cousin Tim, I wanted to carry his birthday card legacy alive and well —armed with a spreadsheet, stamps, and a stack of Trader Joe’s finest $1 cards. In this episode, I share the surprisingly simple system that keeps me organized, why the little act of sending a card matters more than you think, and how you can keep the kindness ripple going in your own mailbox. Because maybe we all need a little less scrolling and a little more postage stamps.

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Duration: 00:10:30
#175: Tiny Meals, Big Mess | A Survival Guide to Starting Solids (6-12 months)
May 29, 2025

We're talking all about starting solids with sanity for babies around six to twelve months, sharing raw and honest approaches without losing your mind during this beautiful yet messy period of development.

• Most nutrition from birth to 12 months comes from milk/formula - solid foods are just a bonus
• Starting with simple whole foods like blueberries, bananas, and avocados requires minimal prep
• Balance both baby-led weaning for independence and purees for added nutrition
• Constipation challenges are normal - pears, prunes and peaches help get things moving
• Sanity-saving supplies: silicone bibs with catchers, easy-clean high chair...

Duration: 00:22:38
#174: The Summer 2025 Reading List + 4 Children's Chapter Book Recommendations
May 22, 2025

In this episode, I’m sharing my top picks for summer reading in 2025, from literary fiction and psychological thrillers to gripping dystopian tales. I also have a special selection for children ages 4-7, if you're planning on taking any family roadtrips, these would make excellent audiobooks! 


Read along with me this summer! Summer 2025 List: 

These Silent Woods by Kimi Cunningham Grant The Light Pirate by Lily Brooks-Dalton The Grace Year by Kim Liggett Ask for Andrea by Noelle W. Ihli The Wedding People by Aliso...

Duration: 00:15:24
#173: Starting Again, Gently | A Slow Reset After Sickness, Chaos, or Just a Lost Week
May 15, 2025

After a week of sickness, missed routines, and general chaos, getting back on track can feel overwhelming. In this gentle, honest episode, I share what it looks like to reset slowly—without pressure or perfection. From freezer meals and fresh bedsheets to spiritual grounding and small acts of beauty, this is an invitation to begin again with compassion. Whether you’re coming off a lost week or just craving a softer reentry into daily life, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to bounce back all at once.

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Duration: 00:13:10
#172: What We Ate This Week, How I Prepped, & What I Spent, Part VI
May 08, 2025

Welcome to Installment #6 of What We Ate This Week, how I prepped and what I spent! This was a lovely and smooth week filled with simple meals, lots of grilling, and zero food waste. The grand total for the 6 of us was $250+ for two Trader Joes trips and a super quick Costco run. 

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Duration: 00:19:20
#171: Book Club | God of the Woods by Liz Moore
May 01, 2025

This week, we're diving into God of the Woods, a gripping literary mystery set in the Adirondacks. With shifting timelines, vivid imagery, and rich character work, Liz Moore weaves a haunting story of family secrets and long-buried truths. Stay tuned through the end for a spoiler segment and one big lingering question.

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Duration: 00:12:46
#170: Why ‘What’s for Dinner?’ Is the Most Annoying Question Ever (And What to Do About It)
Apr 24, 2025

If you flinch every time someone asks “What’s for dinner?”—you’re not alone. In this episode, we unpack why that one simple question feels so loaded, especially for moms juggling the mental load. I share real talk on meal planning stress, emotional exhaustion, and why the timing of that question makes it feel like a personal attack. Plus, I offer practical tips (and a little humor) to make dinner planning just a little easier.

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Duration: 00:17:12
#169: The Power of the Monthly Note
Apr 17, 2025

I’ve really noticed a difference in how much less overwhelmed I feel. The best part? I’m not trying to keep everything in my head anymore. If you’re anything like me, that mental load can get heavy. But having this simple, month-by-month reference has made it so much easier to keep everything on track.

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Duration: 00:09:51
#168: Navigating Pregnancy and Childbirth in the American Medical System
Apr 10, 2025

Baby #1 Birth Story — Episode #41Baby #2 Birth Story — Episode #42Baby #3 Birth Story — Episode #92Baby #4 Birth Story — Episode #146


Practical Resources:

The Mama Natural by Genevieve HowlandIna Mya's Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin

Pro Tips: 

Ask for Natera's self-pay option - $250Fresh Test for alternative glucose screenings (non-GMO, gluten free, artificial flavoring free, dye free, BPA free and preservative free)

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Duration: 00:27:13
#167: Five Overrated Reads
Apr 03, 2025

Five Overrated Books I've Read Recently: 

A Novel Love Story by Ashley PostonThe Husbands by Holly GramazioThe Middle of the Night by Riley SagerThe Perfect Marriage by Jeneva RoseWe Used to Live Here by Marcus Kliewer

PS. The new to us children’s book we loved: Truman by Jean Reidy


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Duration: 00:15:43
#166: SAHM of 4's Rhythm for a New Month, a New Week, and a New Day
Mar 27, 2025

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Duration: 00:22:33
#165: Getting Your Kids Outside This Spring
Mar 20, 2025

Outdoor Spring Activities with Kids

Nature Walks: Around the neighborhood, a new to you trail, or parkStaring a Simple GardeningPicnics, try one in your own backyard! Exploring New-to-You Playgrounds / Parks / Trails Biking + Walking + Scootering around the neighborhoodOutdoor Art Projects (using chalk, grass, flowers, rocks, & sticks)Bird Watching -- so fun!

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Duration: 00:15:21
#164: Book Club | All The Colors of the Dark by Chris Whitaker
Mar 13, 2025

So much to love with this novel, however the ending was terrible that made so little sense. 

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Duration: 00:16:23
#163: Finding Mindfulness in Motherhood this Spring
Mar 06, 2025

Mindfulness Practices Motherhood This Spring:

Evening cup of teaDaily gratitude journalingMoment of mindfulness in the morningsPhone-free time challengeMindful listening 

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Duration: 00:16:41
#162: Impulse Spending | The Good, The Bad, The Ugly
Feb 27, 2025

I tracked all my 20204 impulse purchases on Amazon and Target. Here are the things I loved, and worked out super well, in addition to all the things I deeply regret. 

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Duration: 00:24:59
#161: Book Club | Peaks and Valley's by Spencer Johnson
Feb 20, 2025

Peaks and Valleys: Making Good and Bad Times Work for You by Spencer Johnson

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Duration: 00:08:50
#160: Breastfeeding is Not Free (And Other Lies)
Feb 13, 2025

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Duration: 00:34:25
#159: Book Club | Here One Moment by Liane Moriarty
Feb 06, 2025

Oh boy, this book left me very underwhelmed, which was a bit disappointing from a Liane Moriarty book! Here's why... 

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Duration: 00:08:26
#158: Daily Goals as a SAHM of 4 Kids 6 and Under
Jan 30, 2025

Starting the day with an empty dishwasher. This typically happens the night before, it’s the last thing my husband does before coming up stairs for bed. The daily load of laundry, ideally started first thing in the morningA shower. Doesn’t happen everyday, at this point10-15 minutes of weights and or a 30+ minute stroller walkOne small home task, like vacuuming a room, or wiping down the bathroom, organizing a drawer, etc. A clean kitchen after breakfast + a home reset before leaving the houseDinner prep while my kids eat lunchReseting the coffee maker for the next dayAnother home reset during...

Duration: 00:15:33
#157: What We Ate This Week, How I Prepped, & What I Spent, Part V
Jan 23, 2025

Welcome to Installment #5 of WWATW, how I prepped and what I spent! This was an unusual week for us, as we had two epic snowstorms, so grocery shopping and meal planning were very much fly by night. We did manage to get groceries mid-week and the grand total for the 6 of us was $228 at Trader Joes. 

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Duration: 00:12:25
#156: Organizing Your Family Photos
Jan 16, 2025

A very daunting, but totally doable task! Here's a step-by-step guide to help you tackle this beast in bite sized chunks:

Upload and sort all photos from your phone, digital camera, USBs, etc. to an external hard drive (I have this one 1T External Hard Drive). Go slowly, month by month, year by year. From there, delete excess from your phone, digital camera, USBs, etc.Pick out favorites from each event / year — Upload to DropBox, Google Drive, Amazon Photos as a 3rd back-up choicePrint physical copies of favorite photos (mPix is a great place!), and update photo frames aro...

Duration: 00:15:56
#155: 3 Thrillers to Kick off Your January Reading
Jan 09, 2025

Each of these were quite enjoyable! 

That’s Not My Name by Megan Lally Listen for the Lie by Amy Tintera The Last One at the Wedding by Jason Rekulak 


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Duration: 00:10:27
#154: Surviving with 2 Under 2
Jan 02, 2025

The most important piece of the puzzle for 2 Under 2 is grace and patience for yourself. You're doing great, this is a very challenging season of life! Second, here are a few past episodes that will help get your home squared away, because life is hard enough:

#45: A Simple Laundry Routine#37: A Simple Cleaning Schedule Throughout the Week#36: Simple Meal Prepping Throughout the Week#113: Simple Everyday Habits for the SAHM#98: 10 Rules for Getting Things Done in Busy Seasons#72: Finding Time to Exercise Surrounded by Little Screaming People#74: A Consistent Bedtime Routine for Moms

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Duration: 00:14:32
#153: The 10 Non Fiction Books I’m Revisiting Annually
Dec 26, 2024

Loving the Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches by Rachel JankovicHow to Talk so Little Kids Will Listen: A survival guide to life with children ages 2-7 by Joanna FaberThe Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children by Wendy MotelThe Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children by Shefali TsabaryThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World by Comer, John Mark *The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Tolle, EckhartYou're Not Listening: What You're Missing and Why It Matters by...

Duration: 00:18:27
#152: Planning 2025 | The Week in Between Xmas & NYE
Dec 19, 2024

Some ideas for planning out 2025 during this slower week, the last week of the year: 

Digital DeclutterphoneemaillaptopphotosCloset CleanoutUnsubscribing to JunkmailWriting out Goals for 2025Moving into new 2025 plannerReviewing finances from this past yearA new plant!

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Duration: 00:18:40
#151: The Morning Routine with 4 Kids 6 and Under
Dec 12, 2024

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#150: Book Club | The PLAN by Kendra Adachi
Nov 21, 2024

The PLAN by Kendra Adachi is a NO for me. The feminist rage was just off the chart here, in addition to the inception of acronym and list within acronyms and lists, it was just so much here, yet nothing at all. I guess that's what happens when you try to market a book to everyone? 

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#149: The Everything Holiday Episode
Nov 14, 2024

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#148: Fourth Trimester with Four Under Six
Nov 08, 2024

Our fourth trimester is coming to a rapid end soon, and I wanted to share the experience and what it was like the fourth time around. What was easier, what was harder, and all the beautiful messy things in between. And what life is like with four kids under six years old. 


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#147: Baking with Toddlers without Loosing Your Mind
Oct 17, 2024

TLDR; preparation and a fresh perspective! 

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#146: Sophia's Unmedicated Birth Center Story
Oct 03, 2024

Our fourth baby is here! We delivered her at a birth center at 40+1 weeks. It was an uncomplicated delivery up until the tail end, overall a very positive experience. 

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#145: Reviewing Everything I Read This Summer
Sep 05, 2024

How to Solve Your Own Murder by Kristen PerrinHappiness Falls by Angie KimFamily Lore by Elizabeth AcevedoThe Possessions by Sara Flannery MurphyThe Favorite Sister by Jessica Knoll The Survivors by Jane HarperThe Rachel Incident by Caroline O’DonoghueBye, Baby by Carola LoveringWayward by Emilia Hart Funny Story by Emily Henry

Other books I read this summer: 

Loving the Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches by Rachel JankovicJust for the Summer by Abby JimenezThe Paradise Problem by Christina LaurenThe Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Jonathan HaidtHow to Walk into...

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#144: What We Ate This Week, How I Prepped, & What I Spent IV
Aug 22, 2024

Welcome to another episode of WWATW (What We Ate This Week), How I Prepped and What I Spent (hint: it was a lot $$$)! 


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Duration: 00:11:30
#143: Last Minute Purchases / Preparation for a New Baby
Aug 15, 2024

Don't let this episode stress you out. These are all gentle suggestions of things to maybe think through if you're in your second or third trimester. Even if you do nothing, you and your baby will survive! 

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#142: Thoughts on Motherhood in the Little Years
Aug 08, 2024

Just 38 weeks pregnant, and super hormonal, reflecting on what a blessing it is to raise little children, that's all. 

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#141: 3 Summer Romance Novel Reviews
Aug 01, 2024

Today, I'm reviewing three popular 2024 summer romance novels (spoiler: I strongly disliked two of them):

1. Funny Story by Emily Henry
2. The Paradise Problem by Christina Lauren
3. Just for the Summer by Abby Jiminez

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#140: Systematically Cleaning Up the Kitchen After a Meal
Jul 25, 2024

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#139: Purse & Diaper Bag Organization
Jul 18, 2024

These are the cleared zipper pouches I use.

And here is the Tote Savvy Bag. 

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#138: My 75 Pregnancy Challenge
Jul 11, 2024

Starting a 75 Hard / 75 Soft / 75 Mom / 75 Pregnancy Challenge is the perfect way to focus your mind, body, and spirit. And that's exactly what I'm looking forward to during these last few weeks of my fourth pregnancy. Here's my *super* adapted version of the 75 Pregnancy Challenge: 

Drink a gallon of water every day (128-ounces = 1 gallon) — this will include a mix of water and coconut water for the electrolytes. Exercise 2-3 times per week for 45 minutes -- this will include an upper and lower body workout + a walkRead 10 pages of a book everydayNo screens past 9pm — this is for my mental health...

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#137: Toddler Books We Currently Love, Part 4
Jul 04, 2024

And continuing on in the Toddler Books We Currently Love Series, today we have installment number 4. My three children are 5 and under, and that's the target audience for most of these books:

Piranahas Don’t Eat Bananas by Aaron Blabey Eat Pete by Michael RexSnail Crossing by Corey Tabor The Phantom Tollbooth by Norton JusterAlice ’s Adventure in Wonderland by Lewis CarrolTen in a Hurry by Lo ColeBear Feels Scared by Karma WilsonDon’t Worry Little Crab by Chris Haughton I Know a Shy Fellow Who Swallowed a Cello by Barbara Garriel 999 Frogs and a Little Brother by Ken Kimura...

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#136: What We Ate This Week, How I Prepped, & What I Spent, Part III
Jun 27, 2024

Welcome back to another episode of What We Ate This Week, How I Prepped, & What I Spent in a Week as a family of 5! 

Slow Cooker Honey Garlic ChickenPasta BologneseLemon-Berry Crumb Cake

 
And the beloved cherry pitter!


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#135: The Paper Plate Phenomenon
Jun 20, 2024

Using paper plates on Friday nights and when we host our family & friends has simplified my life so much. 

And here other ways I've made my life easier as a SAHM to 3 kids 5 and under:

In busy parking lots, having my kids all get in and out of the car through the same doorMaking an afternoon snack plateRotisserie chicken for dinner, and hot dogs for lunch on Costco Run daysDedicate one day for running errands, or batch them with appointments or other commitments (episode #106)Small load of laundry every morning (episode #45)Scheduling my workouts and sticking w...

Duration: 00:17:36
#134: Keeping the Playroom Clean, Tidy, & Organized
Jun 13, 2024

Today, we’re going to talk about keeping the playroom clean, tidy, and organized for a more peaceful home. 

As for the clean and tidy portion of our episode, I wanted to say again how much I really loved the book How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis,  the best thing I took from her book is the 5 Step Cleaning method. The basics of the method is that there are only ever 5 kinds of items found in any cluttered or  messy room: 

trashdisheslaundrythings out of place and things that DON'T have a place (yet)....

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#133: The Summer Reading List
Jun 06, 2024

Today, we’re going to discuss the ten books I plan to read this summer and I’m hoping you’ll join me, so we can discuss and have a large and in charge book club episode at the end of summer:

How to Solve Your Own Murder by Kristen PerrinHappiness Falls by Angie Kim Family Lore by Elizabeth AcevedoThe Possessions by Sara Flannery Murphy The Favorite Sister by Jessica KnollThe Survivors by Jane HarperThe Rachel Incident by Caroline O’DonoghueBye, Baby by Carola LoveringWayward by Emilia HartFunny Story by Emily Henry*The Paradise Problem by Christina Lauren * (bonus read...

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#132: Authors That Include Covid in their Novels, Why?
May 30, 2024

Dear Contemporary Fiction Authors, please stop including Covid in your novels, Sincerely a Lover of Contemporary Fiction. 

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#131: 10 Things Simplifying My Life Right Now, Part III
May 23, 2024

As with everything, there are constant changes. Especially with growing children. On today's episode, I'm sharing an updated list of the 10 things that are simplifying my life right now  with a 5, 3, and 1 year old at home. 

Setting a timer for my kids clean-up at the end of the day or it gets tossed, stray legos get tossedLibrary story-time + a tote bag dedicated for library booksShop vacuum in the garage for my mini-van and the strollers for crumbs, grass, leaves, etc.Tote bag dedicated for snacks + water bottles for the dayChildcare at the gymSlow cooker meals on really busy da...

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#130: The Summer Playbook
May 16, 2024

We only have 18 summers with them. 

Now is a great time to evaluate what your average week will look like come summer, with all the appointments, and activities, and summer camps, and commitments, and cleaning, and meal prep, and laundry, and really stopping to evaluate if you have margin in your schedule to start tackling additional items on your to-do list. Is there a project you’ve been putting off? Is there a goal on your annual list you’ve been ignoring? Or is your schedule so jam packed this summer that the thought of adding anything on is...

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#129: What I Prepped This Week & What We Ate & What We Spent on Groceries , Part II
May 09, 2024

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#128: America's Food Supply is Poisoned: 10 Food Items to Make at Home Instead of Buy
May 02, 2024


Salad dressingsMayonnaise & BBQ Sauce & KetchupTaco Seasoning & Fajita SeasoningSour dough & homemade breads & challahsTomato sauceBreadcrumbs Chicken stock — next time you roast a whole chicken or purchase a rotisserie chicken, save the bones and skin. Freezes beautifully. Coffee! Still have to buy the beans and milk, but brewed at home rather than $6 at a coffee shopNew to us,  but nut milks. Almond milk, cashew milk, etc. Trail mix


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#127: 5 Mystery / Thriller Book Reviews
Apr 25, 2024

Today I'm reviewing the five latest mystery / thriller novels I recently read: 

Murder Road by Simone St. JamesFirst Lie Wins by Ashley ElstonThe Marriage Lie by Kimberly BelleBright Young Women by Jessica KnollSalthouse Place by Jamie Lee Sogn

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#126: 15 Kitchen Tools to Elevate Your Home Cooking
Apr 18, 2024

Taking your home cooking to the next level with a few tools that make a huge difference!

Lemon JuicerMicroplane GraterVariety of Wooden SpoonsGarlic PressGood Quality Kitchen SheersBench ScraperHandheld MandolinPotato MasherY-shaped Vegetable PeelerNorpro Silicone Mixing BowlsA Kitchen ScaleSilicone Ice Cube MoldsImmersion Blender Nested Prep BowlsDutch Oven

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#125: Simplifying Everything
Apr 11, 2024

Sometimes, taking a good hard look at our schedules and how we're spending our time can help us better manage our day to day. Are we drinking enough water? Getting enough sleep? Moving our body? Spending too much time on our phones? 

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#124: Getting Your Toddlers Started with Chores
Apr 04, 2024

It's never too soon or too late to get our children involved in household chores. Here's what we do and expect from our three children, five and under.

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#123: Our Hormonal Cycles, Energy Levels, & Treating Ourselves with Kindness
Mar 28, 2024

How & why we should start paying attention to where we are in our menstrual cycle, and how it affects our energy levels, & what to do to honor that. 

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#122: Putting Together a Minimal Maternity Spring Wardrobe
Mar 21, 2024

With a serious closet clean-up of anything that screams fall / winter, plus anything that would normally work with spring weather, but won't accommodate a growing bump... here are the five types of outfits I'm repeating all spring for my second trimester:

Flowy maxi dress for the gorgeous spring daysOversized sweatshirt & leggings for the blustery 'WHY ISN'T WINTER OVER' daysLeggings & athletic top & pull-over for mornings at the gymMaternity jeans & oversized top (flowy or button down) or oversized tee shirt for the occasional change upA fitted dresses for the night out with my husband or friends


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#121: What We Ate This Week, How I Prepped, & What I Spent
Mar 14, 2024

Here is the breakdown of what we ate for each meal, where we shopped, where we dined out, and how much we spent for our family of 5 in a one week period. 

Minestrone Soup Recipe

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Duration: 00:24:10
#120: Life Lately
Mar 07, 2024

Some big fun life updates around here! 

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#119: Kitchen Decluttering & Organization for Easier Flow & Meal Planning
Feb 29, 2024

The kitchen is a tricky spot to stay on top of, because we're in it so often, and so much comes in and out. However, it's also a fantastic place to declutter and organize BECAUSE we're in it so often. We can take our time. Declutter & organize one cabinet, one drawer, one section of the countertop at a time. 

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#118: Surviving the Rest of Winter with Toddlers at Home
Feb 22, 2024

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#117: When an Authors Second Novel Disappoints, Part II
Feb 15, 2024

Part of Your World (Loved) and Yours Truly (Disappointed) by Abby Jimenez and The Dead Romantics  (Loved) and The Seven Year Slip (Disappointed) by Ashley PostonThe Push  (Loved) and The Whispers (Disappointed) by Ashely AudrainLittle Secrets (Loved) and Jar of Hearts (Disappointed) by Jennifer HillierGood Neighbors  (Loved) and It All Comes Down to This (Disappointed)by Therese Anne FowlerAsk Again, Yes  (Loved) and The Half Moon  (Disappointed) by Mary Beth KeaneThe Silent Patient  (Loved), The Maidens (Disappointed), and The Fury (Disappointed) by Alex Michaelides


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Nothing to See Here by Kevin WilsonThe Heaven & Earth Grocery Store by James...

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#116: One Skillet Dinners: Asian Style Chicken 3x
Feb 08, 2024

We love Asian flavors around here, and we also love easy one skillet recipes. Well, here you have it! One Skillet Dinners: Asian Style Chicken 3 Ways: 

Thai Style Chicken & Vegetables in Red CurryChinese Style Chicken & Vegetable Stir FryChinese Chicken with Bok Choy & Rice

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#115: 10 Things Simplifying My Life Right Now, Part II
Feb 01, 2024

 quick dry nail polishbracelet key ring on car keychaina weekly pill organizer for daily vitaminswhite vinegar & baking soda & dawn dish detergenthomemade fresh breada room by room declutter gorilla glue clear zipper pouches instant hot water dispenser target pickups



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#114: 4 Overrated Books + 1 Parenting Book Recommendation
Jan 25, 2024

Four overrated books back to back for me! Two were DNF's. 

The House in the Pines by Ana ReyesLand of Milk and Honey by Pam C. ZhangThe Wishing Game by Meg ShafferIt All Comes Down to This by Ann Therese Fowler

Loved loved loved The Blessings of a Skinned Knee by Wendy Model. It was the parenting book I've been searching for!

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#113: Simple Everyday Habits for a SAHM
Jan 18, 2024

Here are the small and simple habits I do daily to be the best version of myself for my children, my husband, and for myself:

Wake up before your kidsA small load of laundry Move your bodyOne small cleaning taskHave designated home resets / pick-upsDaily clutter auditsTurn down your home at nightLoosely outline your dayMeal plan!


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#112: 5 Rules for Maintaining a Well-Organized Home
Jan 11, 2024

I don’t necessarily believe that it’s how much stuff you have, but more so how you manage what you have, and your daily habits for keeping the mess at bay. So here are 5 overall rules, that I find are most helpful for keeping your home well-organized: 

Give Everything a Home That Actually Makes SenseRegular Home Resets: Put Things Away Regularly Daily Decluttering AuditsMindful GatekeepingLetting Go of Perfectionism 



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#111: 75 Items to Throw Away Right Now + 10 Week Home Organizational Challenge
Jan 04, 2024

Here are the 75 items you can throw away right now and please join me for a 10 Week Home Organization Challenge: 

Week #01 Bathrooms & Laundry RoomWeek #02 Coat Closet & EntrywayWeek #03 Kitchen & Dining RoomWeek #04 Primary BedroomWeek #05 Kids BedroomsWeek #06 Closets & DressersWeek #07 Family RoomWeek #08 PlayroomWeek #09 Office & PaperworkWeek #10 Garage



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#110: Top 23 Books of 2023
Dec 28, 2023

Of the 72 books I finished this year, here are my top 23 in 2023:

A Visit from the Goon Squad by Jennifer EganThe Candy House by Jennifer EganNora Goes off Script by Annabel MonaghanLittle Secrets by Jennifer HillierTomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by Gabrielle ZevinHidden Pictures by Jason RekulakBlack Cake by Charmaine WilkersonThe Marriage Portrait by Maggie O’FarrelThe Dead Romantics by Ashley PostonYou’re Not Listening by Kate MurphyPart of Your World by Abby Jimenez Thank you for Listening by Julie WhalenThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark ComerGood Neighbors by Sarah LanganThe Dry by Jane HarperSmall Mercies by De...

Duration: 00:14:20
#109: Book Club | The Collected Regrets of Clover by Mikki Brammer
Dec 26, 2023

There’s a lot to think about when reading The Collected Regrets of Clover by Mikki Brammer, though in no way is it macabre. It’s more poignant and sweet, and introspective, and really makes you appreciate every single day, and the people you surround yourself with. 


If you were to die today, what would be your biggest regret? 


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#108: Setting Up a Family Command Center
Dec 21, 2023

Family Command Center: the unofficial, official term for a spot where all the action happens. It’s strategically placed in a spot where you and your kids enter and exist the home, as a way to organize the dreaded drop-zone and keep the home chaos at bay.

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Duration: 00:10:49
#107: When to Quit a Book + Choosing Better Books in the Future
Dec 14, 2023

So, when was the last time you gave up on a book? How long did read for before you couldn’t go any further? 

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#106: The How's & Why's of Batching Errands and Household Chores
Dec 07, 2023

Batching is a great tool any homemake should have in their back pocket. It teaches you to effectively group together all-like tasks that need to get done without having to switch over your brain to something new. Because switching from one task to another makes it difficult to tune out distractions and can actually slow you down. It also takes the mental load and decision fatigue away from figuring out WHEN to batch specific items. 

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Duration: 00:12:12