The Family Business with The Alessis
By: Steve and Mary Alessi, Pastors of Metro Life Church | Authors | Family Mentors
Language: en-us
Categories: Religion, Spirituality, Christianity, Kids, Family, Parenting, Society
Find out why family is EVERYBODY'S business! The Family Business with the Alessis takes you inside a growing family and shows you how to build a strong family that stays connected to your vision, even when it happens to be pastoring a church. Hosted by Steve and Mary Alessi, you’ll hear powerful conversations on how to build a happy marriage, a healthy family and a generational legacy. Now with over 200 episodes, we invite you to join the Podience and learn why family is everybody’s business. For more information on our family, our ministry and how we build strong familie...
Episodes
Brothers in the Blind: How We're Building Strong Connections with New In-Laws
Jan 07, 2026What can you learn about your new brother-in-law while spending hours in a hunting blind? In this episode, we introduce the newest member of the family, Christian Catalayud, as he shares how he's growing a relationship with his new brothers-in-law, Chris Alessi and Chris Muina.
Christian married Gaby Alessi in October 2025, and over the first few months of their marriage, Christian has been introduced to the blessed but sometimes topsy-turvy world of being married into ministry.
You'll hear a candid conversation about what it’s like to be welcomed into the Alessi family—especially through marri...
No More Excuses! How to Achieve Your 2026 Goals (w/ Chris Hart of Brave Coaches)
Dec 31, 2025Wondering why your New Year’s resolutions never seem to stick?
As we kick off a new year, Chris Alessi teams up with his coach and close friend Chris Hart to break down the real reason that so many people fail to keep their New Year's resolutions —and how to finally build momentum for a powerful year ahead.
Together, they share simple strategies for transforming your personal and family life, like starting with prayer, creating a sharp plan, finding the right people for accountability, and locking in your purpose. You'll be inspired by Chris Hart's prac...
Duration: 00:47:01Hidden Truth of Hormones: Revealing the Health Questions Every Woman Should Be Asking
Dec 24, 2025Has the medical establishment missed the boat when it comes to women's health?
In this important and hard-hitting episode, Mary Alessi and her longtime friend Mory Martinez dive deep into the hidden crisis affecting women from their 20s onward. They unpack the impact of hormones on everything from energy and mood to heart and bone health, sharing personal stories about early menopause, misdiagnoses, and the confusion surrounding hot flashes and migraines.
You’ll pick up practical tips on how diet, sugar, sleep, and strength training are major players in hormone harmony—and why starting to pay a...
Duration: 00:53:27Unhappy Holidays? How to Maintain Your Mental Health When the Christmas Season Causes Stress
Dec 17, 2025Are the holidays bringing more emotional chaos than cheer into your life?
Join Steve Alessi, Lauren Alessi, and licensed mental health counselor Ryan Landau as they unpack the real challenges of holiday stress, seasonal mood swings, and family drama.
You'll get key insights on seasonal affective disorder, financial anxiety, loneliness, and the unique pressures men and women face during this time of year - as well as practical tips for setting boundaries, finding community, and staying intentional—even when family relationships get tricky.
You’ll learn how small shifts like slowing down, budgeting, and foc...
Duration: 00:49:32Should Christians Avoid Scary Movies? How to Decide What Your Family Watches
Dec 10, 2025In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are diving into a topic every Christian family wrestles with—what should we be watching?
When shows like Stranger Things and other popular series are based on dark themes, violence and anti-family values, should we draw the line and protect our families from being influenced?
Steve and Mary Alessi provide some much-needed perspective on how to navigate entertainment choices in a world that's constantly pushing boundaries, so you can tell the difference between being overly religious and being wisely discerning about what to allow into your home.
Whe...
Duration: 00:46:19Finding the Right Place: What We Learned from our House Hunting Journey
Dec 03, 2025Sometimes when you're looking for something - you find out a LOT more about yourself in the process. That's definitely what the Muinas discovered.
In this episode, Stephanie and Christopher Muiña take you behind the scenes of their house hunt, revealing the real struggles, doubts, and faith lessons that come with navigating big life transitions as a family.
Through honest stories of dead ends, closed doors, and a nail-biting home purchase, they share how trusting God, making wise plans, and pushing past fear can open the next chapter of your life.
You’ll pi...
Duration: 00:40:49Sisters in New Seasons: How We're Managing the Shift From Singleness to Marriage
Nov 26, 2025Are you struggling to accept that your family is changing - even when it's for the best?
It happens in every family relationship - especially among siblings who are used to relating to each other, until a potential spouse comes into the picture.
In this special episode, Gaby and Lauren Alessi are getting real about navigating marriage season with your siblings.
The sisters share hilarious and heartwarming stories about dating, their engagements, and even their early attempt at creating a podcast (RIP "Girls Talking Sports"). They also open up about the realities of embr...
Duration: 00:47:47Smartphone or Smart Parent? How to Be Fully Present with Your Family (with guest Joey Odom)
Nov 19, 2025Ever have that guilty feeling when you realize you were on your phone during a conversation with a loved one?
It's not just a harmless habit. It's a real danger to the mental health and vitality of your family - and it could harm the relationships that matter most to you.
In this special guest episode, Chris Alessi sits down with Joey Odom, co-founder of Reclaim Well, for an eye-opening conversation about one of the biggest threats to healthy family relationships—our obsession with our phones.
This episode will challenge you to take an ho...
Duration: 00:52:11Drop the Defensiveness! How to Delete Drama and Instantly Improve Your Relationships
Nov 12, 2025If the title of this episode made you feel attacked - then you're the person that needs to listen the most.
In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are tackling one of the biggest relationship killers—defensiveness. You'll hear raw, personal stories from their early life and marriage as they share practical advice—including how to recognize when YOU'RE the defensive one (even if you don't think you are), and how to listen to what people are saying without going into battle mode.
If you're tired of always feeling like your walls are up or fighti...
Duration: 00:54:47How to Plan the BEST Holiday Season Ever (Even with a Complicated Family)
Nov 05, 2025Ready or not - the holidays are here...
...and if you're already feeling the pressure, we're here to help!
In this week's episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are getting into the holiday spirit early and sharing their best tips for navigating the most wonderful (and sometimes most stressful) time of the year. They discuss everything from dealing with difficult family members to blending different cultural traditions, and share practical advice on how to plan ahead so you can actually enjoy the holidays, not just survive them.
Whether you're juggling new in-laws, missing a lo...
Duration: 00:47:45Should Christians Accept Rewards? Getting Real about Award Shows and Paying Pastors
Oct 29, 2025Ever wondered what really goes on behind the scenes at Christian award shows—and what happens when ministry collides with business and industry?
In this episode, we dive deep into the debate around worship music award shows and whether Christian artists should receive recognition for their talents. Plus, we get real about the unspoken rules of honorariums for guest speakers and evangelists—who really deserves to be compensated, and where’s the line between blessing and business?
From hilarious outfit shopping in Greece (with a few family secrets spilled!) to hot takes on the true cost of...
Duration: 00:48:25Pushed to the Limit? How to Handle More in Your Life Without Crashing Out
Oct 22, 2025What do you do when big blessings come with big problems?
In this episode, Chris and Richelle Alessi share some very exciting news while also opening up about navigating one of their most exciting and challenging seasons yet.
As you listen, you'll discover how this young couple is learning to handle the pressure of increased responsibilities and grow their capacity without crashing out. From simplifying daily routines to focusing on "just today," they offer practical wisdom on bringing your best even when you feel maxed out, working as a team through hard seasons, and avoiding t...
Duration: 00:42:02Charlie Kirk: Why We Didn't Talk About The Tragedy Until Now
Oct 15, 2025When tragedy and controversy hit our country, how do Christian families and church leaders respond with wisdom, love, and truth?
In this heartfelt conversation, Steve and Mary Alessi reflect on the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk, sharing their emotional reactions and the challenges of leading their church and family through grief and confusion.
You'll hear candid insights into how hate and conspiracy theories spread in the aftermath of a national tragedy, and why it's crucial for parents and leaders to guide their families towards healing, forgiveness, and critical thinking. Steve and Mary discuss the importance o...
Duration: 00:54:58A New Season! How to Let Go of Your Kids and Hold On to What Matters
Oct 08, 2025New season, new challenges - but family is STILL everybody's business!
In this heartfelt premiere of season 8, Steve and Mary open up about major life transitions and the powerful emotions that come with letting go of their youngest daughter as she prepares for marriage. You'll hear the honest emotions being felt during a pivotal week leading up to Gaby and Christian's wedding, as the Alessis reflect on the importance of relationships, honoring family legacy, and navigating those bittersweet moments when adult children step into their own lives.
This episode dives deep into the challenges and b...
Duration: 00:57:535 Minutes of Family Business! Updates, Season Previews and Surprises
Sep 24, 2025In this special five-minute update, Stephanie and Christopher Muiña give you a sneak peek into what’s coming up in season eight, launching this fall.
From major family milestones—like Gabby’s upcoming October wedding and exciting new home renovations—to memorable travels in Spain and the joys (and chaos) of raising toddlers, there’s never a dull moment in the Alessi family.
The couple also tease some surprises and changes ahead, from stepping into new seasons as a family to potential moves and the ever-present excitement surrounding hunting season (well, for the men anyway)!
... Duration: 00:05:19Iron Sharpens Iron: What Every Man Needs In Order to Level Up (with Aaron Walker)
Sep 17, 2025Ever wondered what it really takes for men to finish well in life—at home and in business?
In this powerful throwback episode, Steve Alessi sits down with entrepreneur Aaron Walker to talk about the life-changing impact of brotherhood, the painful lessons from tragedy, and why being vulnerable just might be the key to true success.
From mastermind groups to working with family, these stories go deeper than the Sunday morning message and challenge everything you thought about personal growth and priorities.
Our guest Aaron Walker, founder of the Iron Sharpens Iron Mastermind Grou...
Duration: 00:31:49How to Raise Confident Kids In Uncertain Times | Martha Munizzi & Mary Alessi (Top 10 Epsiode)
Sep 10, 2025Worried about raising confident kids in a world that seems upside down?
It might be time to rethink what it means to lead with conviction as a parent.
In this classic episode from our archives, Mary Alessi teams up with her twin sister Martha Munizzi for a candid, relatable conversation that dives into the rollercoaster of working with family, navigating social media’s hypnotic pull, and reinforcing time-honored values—even when culture pushes back. They share laugh-out-loud stories about raising kids in ministry, the tough love moments that matter, and the challenge of holding the line...
Duration: 00:42:06What We're Planning Next on the TFB (in under a minute)
Sep 03, 2025Wondering what the Alessis are up to in this pre-season? Here's a quick update on what we're planning on our YouTube channel!
Stay tuned for brand new episodes and a upgraded video experience coming soon!
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Duration: 00:00:56How to Help Your Children Discover Their Unique Gifts (Even When They Can't See It)
Aug 27, 2025Do you have a child that struggles to find their 'place' in your family? Or maybe you're the one who felt like your gifts didn't help the family at all?
Join Steve and Lauren Alessi as they peel back the curtain on what it really takes to thrive as the different one in a family of go-getters. You’ll hear Lauren’s honest journey from struggling with shyness to confidently embracing her own gifts—and how her parents, Steve and Mary, leaned in to help her discover a calling in counseling - which is now blossoming into an amaz...
Duration: 00:35:53Gentle Parenting Fail: Why Trends Don't Help You Raise Confident Kids (Top 10 Episode)
Aug 20, 2025Is “gentle parenting” helping—or hurting—your kids in the long run?
You'll find out in this top 10 episode flashback, as Steve and Mary Alessi discuss the hot topic of discipline versus gentle parenting, tackling everything from kiddie tables to tantrums in public. Together, they pull back the curtain on raising four kids with different personalities, sharing hard-won wisdom (and a few hilarious mishaps) about what really works when it comes to raising confident, secure children.
You'll find out why real discipline—and not just keeping the peace—sets your child up for future success and happiness...
Duration: 00:32:59The Honest Truth Every Young Woman Should Know about Modesty (Top 10 Episode)
Aug 13, 2025Is dressing modestly just an outdated rule, or actually meaningful for young women today?
In this throwback episode from Season 6, you'll hear from Gaby, Lauren, and Stephanie as they dive headfirst into the honest truth about modesty—what it really means, why it matters, and how it shapes self-worth and confidence. Swapping funny stories and real experiences from growing up in Miami’s “unfiltered” culture, they acknowledge the pressure to show off but reveal how true confidence comes from within.
You’ll pick up practical tips for navigating fashion trends, social media, and dating with grace, and...
Duration: 00:32:467 Ways Couples Can Support Each Other When Life Gets Tough (Top 10 Episode)
Aug 06, 2025Ever felt helpless when your spouse is struggling with a major issue? How can you be there for them when things are just not working out?
In this top ten episode from Season 5, Steve and Mary Alessi dove into the heart of marriage by unpacking seven powerful ways couples can support each other when life turns upside down. As they discuss the events that inspired Steve to write "Forty-Two: A Guide to Finishing Strong When You Were Almost Finished",, they prove that we can find the strength we need to support those we love the most.
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Duration: 00:34:11Beyond Hot Flashes? The Hidden Impact of Hormones on Women's Health and Relationships
Jul 30, 2025Some call it "The Change." Others refer to "Private Summers", or "The Big M'.
No matter what you call it, there's a major, unavoidable physical shift that every woman has to face - and how you handle it could have long-lasting effects on your emotions, your health, or even your family.
In this enlightening episode, Steve and Mary Alessi dive deep into the realities of menopause and perimenopause, sharing personal stories and hard-won wisdom from their journey.
Mary opens up about experiencing mood swings, emotional challenges, and unexpected symptoms that impacted her marriage and...
Duration: 00:43:10Faith or Foolishness? What to Think About When Making Big Decisions
Jul 23, 2025Ever feel torn between pursuing big dreams and being responsible—especially when life doesn’t fit neatly into your plans?
In this episode, Stephanie and Christopher Muiña get real about navigating the tension between faithfulness and wisdom as they search for a new home in Miami—a journey full of uncertainty, stretching, and lots of prayer.
From wrestling with scarcity mindsets and feeling the pressure to make wise financial moves, to embracing wise counsel and releasing control to God, their candid conversation offers insights you can apply to any major decision—be it buying a house, p...
Duration: 00:47:44Team Us! How To Handle the Identity Changes of Marriage
Jul 16, 2025True or false? Marriage means more than just changing a last name - it means changing EVERYTHING.
Whether it's the bride and groom moving out for the first time, or the parents and siblings letting go of the past - everyone has to readjust to a new reality.
In this special conversation, Mary Alessi is joined by her youngest daughter, Gaby, for an honest and emotional discussion about one of life’s biggest transitions—getting married and leaving the nest. As Gaby prepares to walk down the aisle in just a few months, Mary and Gaby re...
Duration: 01:02:47Why Trusting Influencers with Your Faith is So Dangerous
Jul 09, 2025Are Instagram preachers and TikTok theologians taking the place of pastors and slowly eroding what Christians believe?
In this episode, we pull back the curtain on influencer culture and its growing influence on faith communities—revealing how social media popularity often replaces substance and discernment in our spiritual lives.
From recently saved celebrities trying to teach Biblical concepts to the latest Christian influencer telling you how to live, today’s faith landscape is being shaped by aesthetics, consumption, and curated trends—rather than thoughtful engagement and authentic faith.
Why are so many of us willi...
Duration: 00:57:09Fallen Pastors: Should We Respond with Rejection or Restoration?
Jul 02, 2025In this honest and insightful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi continue the conversation on the challenges faced by churches, Christians, and families when influential pastors and worship leaders fall into scandal or public failure.
This time, we get even more personal as we evaluate the pastors and spiritual leaaders that share our same profession and faith - and then betrayed the trust of their followers.
You'll hear practical advice and biblical wisdom on processing disappointment, using discernment, and protecting your faith community when trusted spiritual figures let you down.
Support th...
Duration: 01:06:49From Crisis to Champion! Hockey, Heart Attacks, and Turning Trauma into Triumph
Jun 25, 2025Is it possible that your worst day can become your greatest testimony?
And if so, how do you endure long enough to flip the script?
In this heart-felt "long-play" summer road-trip episode, Steve and Mary Alessi sit down with their son Chris Alessi to open up about the life-changing moment when Steve survived a near-fatal heart attack, and how they transformed a dark day of trauma into an annual celebration of life. Through honest reflections and a dash of humor, they dive into how unexpected setbacks—whether in health, sports, or everyday struggles—can become powerf...
Duration: 01:08:19Worship Leaders Gone Wild? Our Response to Michael Tait, Kirk Franklin, and Brandon Lake's "Bubba"
Jun 18, 2025How do you respond when the people you trust step out of line?
In the Family Business, much of our work revolves around ministry, and several issues involving prominent worship leaders have become front page news in recent weeks. We're taking part of our summer road trip series to share our thoughts on these highly controversial topics so you can guide your family to respond the right way.
Whether it's the devastating confessions from former Newsboys lead singer Michael Tait, the debate over worship for 'Bubba' from chart-topping artist Brandon Lake, or the public criticism of...
Duration: 01:08:17Is Celebrity Christianity Real? + Fashion Fails (Summer Road Trip Series)
Jun 11, 2025Summer's the time to buckle the family in for the classic road trip...and we've got all the hot topics you'll need to keep everyone happy!
Join Mary and Steve Alessi as they take you along for a candid car ride full of laughs, real opinions, and honest reflections. The Alessis riff on everything from the evolution of dress codes and the peculiar power of fashion trends to how public figures like the Kardashians and Joe Rogan navigate Christianity under the spotlight.
They don’t shy away from tough questions—unpacking why Christian identity isn't just a...
Duration: 01:02:54How To Help Kids Handle Humiliation and Get Mentally Stronger | S7 E38
Jun 04, 2025Are your kids worried about being embarrassed publicly- and could that be a good thing?
In this conversation, Steve Alessi and his daughter Lauren dig into the reality of public humiliation and why facing mean words, awkward moments, and even a little embarrassment can actually build resilience in kids.
You'll hear some not-so-flattering stories —from cringey PE memories to viral Snapchat moments—and get honest tips on teaching mental toughness, healthy self-talk, and why a “marathon mindset” matters more than sprinting for quick wins.
Perfect for parents and young adults, this conversati...
Duration: 00:35:25She Said Yes! How to Set The Right Expectations from Dating to Engagement | S7 E37
May 28, 2025There's nothing like the journey from dating - to love - to a marriage proposal - but there's a lot of stuff to handle before and after that pivotal "yes".
To sort out this very real struggle, Gaby Alessi, who is newly engaged to her fiance Christian, and her sister-in-law Richelle Alessi sit down for a candid conversation that every soon-to-be-married couple (and those who love them) needs to hear.
Drawing from real-life stories and proven lessons from their own experiences in dating and preparing for marriage, you'll get answers to questions many young couples h...
Duration: 00:32:07Birth Rate Breakdown? Why It's Better for Society (and Couples) to Have Children | S7 E36
May 21, 2025Does starting a family means giving up your dreams—or does it actually unlock a richer, more fulfilling life?
Chris and Richelle Alessi open up about their own leap into parenthood, tackling the fears, cultural pressures, and surprising joys that come with having children. Using real-life stories—like trading dream vacations for unforgettable family moments—they weigh in on America’s declining birth rate and how embracing family can actually boost your career, happiness, and even your finances.
Get ready to challenge the idea that kids hold you back, as the Alessis reveal how their son Mari...
Duration: 00:31:00Why Your Kids Need Outdoor Activities in an Inside World | S7 E35
May 14, 2025Wishing that your kids spent less time glued to screens? There's an easy antidote - and it's as close as your backyard.
Step into a lively, all-guys conversation with Steve Alessi, his son Chris Alessi, and son-in-law Christopher Muiña as they swap stories about fatherhood, raising sons, and the pure chaos (and joy) that comes from letting kids get dirty, daring, and hands-on with nature.
You’ll discover why getting your family outside—gardening, washing cars, building sandboxes, or just chasing birds—can reduce stress, boost development, and create stories that stick for generations.
So i...
Duration: 00:36:06Tariffs, Trade Wars and Trouble? How to Stay Calm in an Uncertain Economy | S7 E34
May 07, 2025It seems every news story you hear in the spring of 2025 starts with the terrible T word in it... "tariff."
The scary economic news might be hitting more than just your wallet - it's also possibly causing you stress and anxiety at home and work.
In this empowering episode, Steve Alessi sits down with a friend of the Family Business - Roger Quesada, CEO of DNA At Work.
These two leaders will give you a fresh and practical perspective on how families and small business owners can rise above fear and anxiety triggered by...
Duration: 00:33:14"Confessions of a Control Freak" (TFB Top 10 Episode)
Apr 30, 2025In this "Best of TFB" flashback, we're going back in time to revisit one of our most memorable episodes: “Confessions of a Control Freak.”
This was one of our most honest, light-hearted, and revealing discussions about what it really means to be labeled a “control freak”—both at home and in business. And since we've welcomed so many new listeners over the years, you may have never gotten the chance to hear it.
You'll hear Steve and Mary Alessi dive into the ways control can show up in our daily lives, from wanting things just right in the...
Duration: 00:34:14Are Selfish Habits Silently Killing Your Marriage? (How to Identify Them) | S7 E33
Apr 23, 2025If there was a test that measured your selfishness ...what would your score be?
Most people don't detect their own selfish actions until it's too late - and in a marriage, that can be a death sentence leading to pain and heartbreak.
To help you build a healthier relationship, Steve and Mary Alessi get brutally honest about attraction, selfishness, and those hidden habits that quietly sabotage marriages. You’ll discover how small, self-focused choices build up walls between couples—and how intentional acts of care, consideration, and vulnerability can break them down.
From tackli...
Duration: 00:32:57How to Steer Your Child Toward Healthy Phone Habits | S7 E32
Apr 16, 2025Tired of trying to get your kids off their phones and back into reality?
Maybe the answer isn't just taking away our children's devices.
Are our children's obsessions with their devices actually a sign of dysfunction or lackluster engagement at home?
In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share some interesting perspectives on how to re-shape your approach toward technology and your kids' social environment.
Discover how to guide your children toward healthier interactions, both with their phones and within their family.
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Duration: 00:32:52Win-Win Marriage! How to Get On the Same Page with Your Spouse | S7 E31
Apr 09, 2025Struggling with miscommunication in your marriage? Wishing that you could work more closely with your spouse and create harmony in your home?
In this honest and insightful episode, Chris and Richelle Alessi dive into building a stronger, more aligned relationship by focusing on teamwork and communication. By embracing the concept of being a team, they discuss the power of meeting on the "same page" rather than forcing the other to align with their view.
Through entertaining anecdotes and real-life examples, Chris and Richelle highlight the significance of intentional conversations and creating a 'game plan' for e...
Duration: 00:33:30Just Married, Now What? How to Set Healthy Expectations for Your First Year of Marriage | S7 E30
Apr 02, 2025Is the first year of marriage really the hardest?
And if so, what can a couple do to avoid letting a beautiful newlywed season turn into a rollercoaster of disappointments and unmet expectations?
Join Steve and Mary Alessi as they dive into the realities newlyweds face when managing expectations post-wedding. Through personal and relatable examples the Alessis share throughout this episode, you'll discover how navigating these early hurdles can lead to a stronger bond. Whether it’s reconciling different backgrounds or adjusting to everyday routines, you'll gain valuable insights to help you thrive - whether you...
Duration: 00:40:09The Family Peacekeeper: Are You Solving or Enabling Family Conflicts? | S7 E29
Mar 26, 2025Do you always find yourself in the middle of family conflicts, trying to keep the peace?
If so, you might be filling a role that no one asked you to fill - and it might be causing more harm than good.
In this super transparent episode, Steve and Mary Alessi get real about the role of the peacemaker in the family, and discuss whether its a role that comes with it's own set of problems. You'll discover healthy ways to approach the conflicts that occur in every family, and see how setting boundaries on when to...
Duration: 00:36:57Ideal Kids or Idol Kids? How To Keep the Right Priorities in Your Parenting | S7 E28
Mar 19, 2025Is it possible to be TOO focused on your kids?
Navigating the journey of parenthood can be challenging, especially when your instinct is to make your children the center of your universe. In this episode, Christopher and Stephanie Muiña dive into this thought-provoking topic, so you can find balance by placing faith and values at the center of your family life.
You'll hear the Muiñas share their personal stories and lessons learned as parents of two young children, offering practical wisdom on avoiding the pitfalls of idolizing your kids.
Through candid dis...
Duration: 00:36:25The Struggle to Leave and Cleave: Responding to Your Questions on Marriage and In-Laws | S7 E27
Mar 12, 2025There's one thing we all know about family and marriage - it can get complicated.
The response to our Season 3 "Leave and Cleave" episode (S3 E19) has been incredible. We noticed that many of our listeners left comments and shared their real-life issues and concerns about their marriages, dealing with parents and in-laws, and navigating the struggles that come with leaving and cleaving.
In this episode, Steve and Mary respond and share their honest feedback on some of the comments and questions asked by our "podience" on this popular episode.
It's our hope that...
Duration: 00:39:35Why Every Married Couple Should Leave and Cleave [TFB Top 10 Highlight]
Mar 05, 2025Are you and your spouse struggling to break unhealthy attachments to your parents? Is your marriage feeling the strain because someone is not respecting boundaries?
If so, you're not alone. Our episode from Season 3 on leaving and cleaving as married couples has been one of our most popular ever - it's gotten nearly 10,000 views on YouTube alone! That's why we wanted to bring it back so we can help more couples and parents who need to establish healthy boundaries in their families.
Stay tuned for a follow up episode where we'll address the questions and co...
Duration: 00:15:50A Fight for Life and Love: How the War in Israel Defined a Marriage | S7 E26
Feb 26, 2025What would you do if you had to fight for your life and your country, while you were starting your life with your spouse?
This isn't a movie plot. It's the real story of a marriage forged in the middle of a war.
Hilla and Arik Nehamkin are a Miami couple who started their relationship just before the attack on Israel on October 7th, 2023. Both of them have spent years living in Israel. Arik has served in the Israeli Defense Forces and voluntarily returned to duty in Israel when the war broke out. In this powe...
Duration: 00:45:40How to Build a Strong Marriage by Growing and Adapting Together | S7 E25
Feb 19, 2025Are you struggling to keep your marriage relationship fresh and healthy despite life's constant challenges?
In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share a conversation with long-time friends David and Mory Martinez. Drawing on over 70 years of combined experience as married couples, they tackle subjects like embracing change, aligning personal goals, and the delicate balance between career ambition and family unity.
You'll gain insights into the power of covenant relationships and the importance of laying down personal desires for unified dreams.
This episode challenges conventional ideas about individual growth and will show y...
Duration: 00:33:32Immigration Fear or Fact? Raids, Rights and What Your Family Needs to Know | S7 E24
Feb 12, 2025Are you concerned about immigration challenges facing your loved ones?
In this powerful and timely episode, we welcome Abe Cardenas, from the Cardenas Law Firm, as we dig into the realities and misconceptions about the raging debate over immigration laws and undocumented immigrants.
By shedding light on the rules and procedures often clouded by misinformation and fear-mongering, Abe demystifies the immigration process with insider insights.
Listen as they unravel the complexities of asylum, work permits, and even the impact of political promises on immigration policies today. Abe shares heartfelt stories about helping people f...
Duration: 00:41:32No-Go Zones! How to Confidently Approach Sensitive Issues In Your Marriage | S7 E23
Feb 05, 2025Are there certain topics in your marriage that you're scared to discuss? Does it feel like you're risking a potential blow-up if you even bring it up?
In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share insights into these "No-Go Zones," offering strategies to approach sensitive issues confidently. They discuss the importance of honest communication and personal responsibility in strengthening relationships.
By focusing on self-improvement rather than projecting issues onto your partner, you can cultivate a healthier marriage environment.
From hormonal shifts and weight concerns to internet transparency and open discussions about intimacy, you'll g...
Duration: 00:42:01How to Kill Your Marriage: Avoiding Traps So Your Relationship Stays Strong and Happy | S7 E22
Jan 29, 2025Note to parents: this podcast contains frank and candid discussions about marriage and intimacy. Please listen and consider whether this material is age appropriate for your young children before sharing.
Are you currently doing things that could cause your marriage to be DOA?
Unfortunately, marriages end every day because of habits and behaviors that led to an untimely death of the relationship.
But it doesn't have to be that way.
In this episode you'll learn about dangerous relationship killers that could damage and destroy you marriage if you don't control and comb...
Grandparent with Grace! How to Manage Discipline Issues with Your Grandkids | S7 E21
Jan 22, 2025Being a grandparent can be joyous and fulfilling - but it's not always simple.
Especially when grandkids are being, well, kids.
How do well-meaning grandparents maintain the right posture when it comes to setting standards, without overstepping parental boundaries?
Dive into a candid conversation with Mary and Steve Alessi as they explore the delicate balance of being supportive grandparents without stepping on parental toes. They unveil the nuances of defining your role, respecting boundaries, and extending grace and patience while your adult children find their footing as parents.
You'll discover how to...
Duration: 00:31:46When Truth Hurts: How to Handle Family Conflicts with Healthy Communication | S7 E20
Jan 15, 2025Does speaking the truth in your home feel like lighting a fuse?
When your family has to face the inevitable disagreements that happen in every home, you have two choices - you can embrace uncomfortable but healthy conversations, or you can allow unhealthy responses that lead to more pain later on.
In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi discuss the nuances of effective family communication, emphasizing the need for truth-telling and constructive conflict resolution.
You'll learn the importance of self-awareness, self-care, and leadership in managing family dynamics, as well as the art of ad...
"Did They Really Say That?" More Favorite Family Business Moments (2024 Rewind)
Jan 08, 20252024 was a GREAT year for TFB...
..but did you REALLY catch all the best highlights and insights from last year's episodes?
If not, this is your chance to catch up on some powerful and funny moments from 2024. This special flashback episodes brings together some of our favorite moments, offering a deeper glimpse into our family dynamics, personal experiences, and the wisdom we share every week!
These moments include the Alessis talking about the pressure on today's youth, the dangers of information overload, and the value of genuine connection. From Steve and Mary's reflections on...
3 Key New Years Resolutions to Start 2025 Right (Best of TFB)
Jan 01, 2025To kick off 2025, here's a "Best Of" episode of the Family Business from Season 3!
Do you want to enjoy a better, healthier, and more fulfilling new year?
These areas - your faith, your family and your fitness - form the foundation of a healthy lifestyle that will help you enjoy a better life, no matter what your current situation is. But it takes practical steps, a solid plan, and commitment to a schedule in order to turn New Year’s Resolutions into real accomplishments by next year this time.
The way you start dete...
Festive or Frugal? How to Work with Your Family to Make Christmas Magical | S7 E16
Dec 18, 2024When it comes to Christmas, are you Buddy the Elf in your family - or the Grinch?
Every family has a variety of personalities, and it's no different when it comes to celebrating the holidays. Some people love to spend and dive into the gift giving, while others are more reserved and concerned about the budget.
In this fun and enlightening episode, you'll discover how to blend the two sides of your family's holiday approach without losing the fun and magic of the season!
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Duration: 00:31:42Tension at the Table? How to Steer Clear of Politics at Family Celebrations | S7 E15
Dec 11, 2024Afraid that your family gatherings will turn into political battles instead of a joyful reunions?
In our latest episode, we dive into preserving family unity while political tensions are still running high following the 2024 election.
You'll discover why it's crucial to prioritize faith over politics, and how a simple act of grace can mend even the most fractured relationships.
Want to know the surprising step Steve almost took because of a political disagreement? You'll have to listen to see why it's so important to keep your focus on the right things!
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Duration: 00:32:09Sleigh the Holidays! How to Plan a Joyful Christmas in Your Twenties | S7 EP14
Dec 04, 2024Being a twenty-something isn't easy - and during the Christmas season life can get really interesting. How can you make sure your holidays are joyful when you're in a season of constant transition?
In this episode sisters Gaby, Lauren and Stephanie examine the joys and challenges of celebrating the holidays, especially in your twenties.
From balancing family time with personal relaxation to dealing with unmet expectations and potentially tough relationship issues, the hosts share treasured Christmas memories and valuable insights on embracing the unique nature of the holiday season in this pivotal decade of life.
Holiday Getaway! Why Family Vacations Are Even More Important Than You Think |S7 E13
Nov 27, 2024Are your family vacations are more stressful than restful? Do you cringe at the thought of the time and expense of taking your family out-of-town?
Maybe it's time to re-prioritize your holiday getaways.
In this special episode, recorded both from the Alessi farmhouse and the podcast studio in Miami, Steve and Chris Alessi dive into the transformative power of family vacations.
You'll discover how time spent away brings both creative rejuvenation and physical relaxation away from city life. They discuss how these retreats not only help with personal reflection but also strengthen family bo...
From Heart Attack to Hope: Lessons from a Death Defying Experience with The Community Voice | S7 E12
Nov 20, 2024Do you need help turning life's crushing moments into stepping stones?
If so, the inspiring story of Steve Alessi's near-fatal heart attack and his journey from survival to strength will help you find hope.
Speaking to Fara Sax on The Community Voice podcast, Steve delves into the gripping details of his harrowing experience and the transformative lessons he penned in his book, 42: A Guide to Finishing Well When You Thought You Were Almost Finished.
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Experience the raw, emotional moments as Steve recounts the Father's Da...
Duration: 00:28:00Standards of Excellence: How to Empower Your Family with Principles that Last | S7 E11
Nov 13, 2024Are you setting the standards for your family - or are you letting other people set them for you?
In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi dive deep into why adhering to healthy principles and moral standards is essential for a balanced and fulfilling life for you and your family.
You’ll hear about the importance of maintaining consistent standards, even when societal trends shift. They share personal stories, including the emotional impact of divorce and how it creates empty homes and broken lives.
They discuss crucial issues like financial responsibility, dealing with chan...
Women's Wisdom: Intimacy, Dating and What Men Actually Think with Daniele Hage | S7 E10
Nov 06, 2024Do women really understand how men think?
According to our guest, it's not only possible, it's a woman's secret weapon. But women rarely get clarity on this key part of their lives in the ocean of messages from culture and unhealthy past experiences.
In this fun and informative episode, Mary Alessi sits down with her lifelong friend Daniele Hage, host of The Daniele Hage Podcast, for a candid and honest talk about marriage, intimacy, dating, the role of a wife in the home, and how women can confidently navigate the lines between submission and influence...
Your King Era! Why We Need Men to Step Forward and Lead Their Families | S7 E9
Oct 30, 2024Have men been exiled from their place as kings of their castles in the home?
And if so, how can strong, Godly men retake their place as responsible leaders in their families?
In this episode, we reveal why our society needs strong men to take their leadership role in the family with courage and confidence.
Steve and Mary Alessi dive into the evolving roles of men in households, debunking modern misconceptions about masculinity. The Alessis unpack their experiences with maintaining balance and mutual support in marriage, emphasizing the need for men to embrace le...
Safety First: What All Parents Need to Know to Protect Kids from Human Trafficking | S7 E8
Oct 23, 2024*Warning* Sensitive and graphic information on the topic of sex trafficking is shared in this podcast episode. Parents are advised to use discretion in sharing this with children.
In this episode, we share important facts about the dark and dangerous world of human trafficking. You'll learn how parents can protect their kids from criminals and predators, both online and in real life.
Talking with us in this episode is Susette Valdez, who has been actively working in the Anti-Human Trafficking field for over 10 years. Susette has worked as a caregiver in a safe hou...
Allowance or No Allowance? How to Confidently Raise Cash Smart Kids | S7 E7
Oct 16, 2024What does it take to show your children the RIGHT way to handle money - before they get the chance to waste it?
In this enlightening episode, Steve Alessi sits down with his son Chris Alessi to discuss how they are approaching the eternal question of giving kids allowance or making them work / do chores for money in the family budget.
You'll see how both experienced and new parents are approaching this question in various ways, yet keeping the same principle - making sure the next generation has the tools they need to be financially s...
Diet Beware: The Hidden Risks of Eating Disorders and Body Image Obsession | S7 E6
Oct 09, 2024In a culture obsessed with looks and image, how do we protect our families from developing dangerous, unhealthy habits with food?
Join us as we unpack the complexities of eating disorders and trauma, debunk common misconceptions about self-diagnosing mental health issues, and explore the impact of social media on body image.
Lauren Alessi, a licensed mental health counselor, welcomes her mentor and expert in eating disorders, Angelica (Angie) Gonzalez. In this powerful conversation, these two mental health professionals share their rich professional insights and personal reflections on body image, weight loss fads and the dangerous cult...
DNA of Business Success: How to Start Your Own Business The Right Way | S7 E5
Oct 02, 2024Ever dreamed of starting your own business?
It's a huge decision that could either become an incredible blessing - or a major disappointment.
To help all of our Podience members who want to one day have a family business that brings them success and fulfillment, Steve Alessi sits down with his good friend Roger Quesada and shares the keys they've learned from years of building successful business enterprises.
You'll learn from Roger's extraordinary journey of scaling a company from a one-man show to an operation with over 500 employees across 7 states.
They revi...
Say Goodbye to Mom Guilt! How To Break Free of the Mother Comparison Trap | S7 E4
Sep 25, 2024Moms: Are you constantly second-guessing your choices as a parent?
Do you feel a heavy weight of anxiety and concern when it comes to your kids...especially when you see other moms making different decisions?
In this honest and practical episode, Stephanie Muiña and her sister-in-law Richelle Alessi share their experiences as young moms and describe how they are overcoming mom guilt. You'll hear some real-life solutions that are helping them embrace their unique paths as mothers, and you'll be empowered to ditch your mom guilt and walk confidently in your God-given gifting as a p...
Buy vs. Rent: How to Find a Home in Today's Market for Your Family | S7 E3
Sep 18, 2024Does the dream of home ownership feel out of reach for your family?
In this extremely informative episode, Chris Muiña sits down with his father-in-law Steve Alessi to tackle the big question: should you buy a home or rent in today's tough economy?
You'll get generational support, financial prep, and biblical insights as you hear shares personal experiences and practical advice on stepping up the property ladder.
You'll see why owning can shift your mindset and how incremental growth in real estate can solidify your financial future.
With real-world examples, tips...
Duration: 00:33:03Honest Responses to Your Toughest Family Questions | Ask The Alessis Q&A | S7 E2
Sep 11, 2024Are you facing family issues that are keeping you up at night?
We asked our Podience about the family challenges they were facing, and you responded with some really tough questions and situations. We did our best to give you honest answers that would help you deal with these real-life family challenges, including bringing in more help from other members of the family!
Have another question that you'd love to Ask the Alessis? Send a message via our Podience Textline at (302) 524-0800 and let us know what family challenge you'd like us to tackle next! <...
Perils of Permissive Parenting: How to Raise Your Kids on a Solid Foundation | S7 E1
Sep 04, 2024Is trying to be the 'nice parent' turning you into the wrong kind of parent?
In this engaging start to Season 7, Steve and Mary Alessi dive into the perils of permissive parenting and show you how to lay a solid foundation for your children. You'll discover the lessons they've learned on their own parenting journey, why they chose their parenting styles, and the importance of confronting conflict rather than avoiding it.
You'll learn why establishing boundaries is crucial for healthy child development and how permissiveness can actually harm a child's sense of security and understanding o...
Duration: 00:35:07Confessions, Mixups and More Unexpected TFB Moments! (Summer Shorts 3)
Aug 14, 2024We're keeping the summer of 2024 going (for as long as we can) with more favorite moments from the Family Business!
From unfiltered marriage advice to yawn attacks, medication mixups and more, there have been a lot of unpredictable moments that lead to learning and laughter - and you'll enjoy this look back at our favorite moments!
If you've got a favorite family story / memory you'd love to share with the Podience, make sure to send it to us via our email, social message, or our Podience textline - (302)524-0800.
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Mothers and Sons, Modesty and Other Family Matters (More TFB Shorts)
Jul 10, 2024What's better than a summer memory? A bunch of them!
As we make memories with our family in this mid-season, we're also looking back at the wise words and hilarious situations we've encountered throughout our six current seasons.
Thankfully, you've shared some of your favorites and we're telling them in our TFB Summer Shorts series!
If you've got a favorite family story / memory you'd love to share with the Podience, make sure to send it to us via our email, social message, or our Podience textline - (302)524-0800.
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Family Finale! Celebrating Season 6 Wins and Revealing Season 7 Surprises | S6 E39
Jun 26, 2024All good things must come to an end...but great things keep going!
It's been an amazing season in The Family Business, and this episode is a celebration of our Podience and all you've made possible for us - and what we can look forward to in Season 7!
Here, Steve and Mary Alessi discuss the challenges and rewards of podcasting as a family for six seasons that have been full of dramatic changes. We'll reveal some incredible milestones we'll accomplished together, and you'll hear how the podcast has become a platform for sharing th...
Duration: 00:30:07United Against Hate: How To Have Tough Family Conversations About Antisemitism (w/ Rabbi Robyn Fisher) | S6 E38
Jun 19, 2024Is there a double standard when it comes to how we see the Jewish community? And how do we educate the younger generation on the dangers of antisemitism?
In this powerful episode of The Family Business with The Alessis, Steve Alessi welcomes Rabbi Robyn Fisher, spiritual leader of Beth Or in Miami, Florida, to the podcast to dive into the complexities of discussing antisemitism within our own homes.
Join us as we uncover ways to stand against hate and create meaningful dialogue filled with compassion and understanding.
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Duration: 00:34:45First Time Dad: Why It's Worth It To Be a Hands-On Devoted Father | S6 E37
Jun 12, 2024How does a first-time dad figure out his new role? And has society re-defined what it means to be a dad?
Join Chris Alessi and his dad Steve Alessi as they explore the role of fathers in light of Chris' first year of fatherhood and the ongoing debate over gender roles.
They dive into the strengths and weaknesses that fatherhood has revealed in their lives, and you'll learn the importance of being a dad that lives in the moment while preparing for the future.
With stories that are raw and relatable, they break down...
Summer Shorts! The Podience's Favorite Stories from the Family Business | S6 E36
Jun 05, 2024Summer time is story time in the Family Business...and boy, have we got some stories to tell!
As we make memories with our families throughout the summer, we want to remember fun short stories that we tell each other every time we gather. Thankfully, you've shared some of your favorites and we're telling them in our TFB Summer Shorts series!
If you've got a favorite family story / memory you'd love to share with the Podience, make sure to send it to us via our email, social message, or our Podience textline - (302)524-0800.
Kicker Chaos: Marriage, Gender Roles and Thoughts on the Harrison Butker Speech | S6 E35
May 29, 2024Should men and women try to break free from traditional roles in their marriage? And who decides what's right for each gender?
The conversation around traditional and non-traditional gender roles burst into a firestorm in 2024, sparked by a commencement speech by a football player, Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker.
Chris and Richelle Alessi analyze this debate by sharing their personal journey of blending family, faith, and work. They dive deep into the importance of aligning priorities, maintaining unity in marriage, and respecting each partner's strengths and contributions. Discussing everything from Harrison Butker's comments on gender roles...
Worship Takeover! An Insiders Look at Music, Ministry and Industry | The God and Gigs Show | S6 E34
May 22, 2024It's a take-over episode for the ages - as The Family Business meets Metro Life Worship in a episode with The God and Gigs Show!
In late 2023, worship leader Stephanie Muiña was interviewed by our producer / fellow worship musician Allen C. Paul on his podcast, The God and Gigs Show, and it was a perfect example of how we navigate relationships and family in worship and the music industry.
The God and Gigs Show is a podcast and community for Christian creatives, musicians and entrepreneurs helping them to thrive as they work in the ma...
Building Bridges of Faith: How to Combat Antisemitism in our Communities | S6 E33
May 15, 2024Have you ever had to take a stand for someone else - someone who needed your support even though you had a very different background?
In this powerful interview, Steve Alessi, along with Community Newspapers host Fara Sax and Rabbi Robyn Fisher of Beth Or, shares powerful insights and real-life experiences on the battle against antisemitism.
From personal journeys to community initiatives, our hosts and guests discuss the impact of education, empathy, and building relationships in creating a united front against hate. You'll be enlightened on the importance of leadership, partnership, and the ongoing fight for...
Mom to Mom: Timeless Wisdom from Two Generations of Mothers | TFB Flashback
May 08, 2024What can today's moms learn from the moms who raised them?
In this flashback episode from Season 5, Mary Alessi's mother Dr. Faith Fredrick joins the podcast to explore the ‘then and now’ of motherhood. With incredible wisdom, these two women revisit the journey of both being raised by strong moms, and raising their children with intention, faith and a strong moral compass.
As they share fun and poignant memories, these stories will help parents grappling with the societal pressures and anxieties of raising kids in today's world.
You'll discover how to celebrate every stage o...
When Haters Attack: Why We Stay Positive When People Criticize Our Beliefs | S6 E31
May 01, 2024Do you think it's important to speak up about one's beliefs, even if they might be controversial? In this episode, Gaby and Chris Alessi tackle the hot topic of dealing with criticism and staying positive when faced with negativity.
They share personal experiences and discuss their controversial views on dating, marriage, and relationships, which have sparked diverse reactions from their audience. Tune in as they address the feedback they've received, stand by their beliefs, and playfully navigate through the ups and downs of engaging with their listeners and even the occasional YouTube troll.
So, grab yo...
Stressed Out? Why It's Dangerous to Normalize Unhealthy Coping Habits | S6 E30
Apr 24, 2024Honestly...have you made some unwise choices when you unwind from the stresses of your day?
In this hard hitting episode, Mary and Steve Alessi unpack the impact of normalizing what used to be considered bad habits. You'll dive into the realities of the stresses of everyday life and learn how to avoid falling into harmful patterns.
Sharing personal experiences, they discuss addiction, marriage, and the dangers of normalizing vices like vaping, porn, marijuana, and social media obsession.
Get ready to be empowered to set healthy boundaries so you can create a family cult...
The Death of Normal: Why It's Important to Pursue a Higher Quality of Life | S6 E29
Apr 17, 2024Ask yourself...when did being normal become unpopular?
In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi take an unapologetic look at the cultural attitudes that are destroying the fabric of our society by accepting abnormal behavior and calling it normal.
You'll hear about their personal battles with everyday struggles, which highlight the impact of a positive approach to life. You'll see why normal is actually more about striving for the best and taking responsibility for your actions, instead of succumbing to culture's lowest common denominator.
Join us and learn how to resist the...
Liberal vs. Conservative: How Should Your Christian Values Influence Your Vote? | S6 E28
Apr 10, 2024What does your vote say about what you REALLY believe?
We're taking a thought-provoking journey in this episode as we unpack the complexity of intertwining Christian values with today's pressing issues.
Today Steve and Mary Alessi dive boldly into the divide between conservative and liberal Christians, and provide insight into the potential consequences of blurring the lines between biblical teachings and progressive social views.
You'll discover how to advocate for respectful discussions and to prioritize biblical values over political affiliations. Don't miss this chance to navigate the intersection of faith and politics and...
Revive Your Dream: Untold Stories After One Year of "Forty Two" | S6 E27
Apr 03, 2024Can your story of overcoming obstacles become more powerful with time?
Yes, it can! And we're sharing an example of that as we reflect and celebrate the one year anniversary of the release of Steve Alessi's first book, "Forty Two".
In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share the untold stories and personal challenges that led to the release of this powerful guide to finishing well when you thought you were finished, as well as some stories they never shared publicly before the book was published.
Since being published, "Forty Two" has blessed and...
Blinded By Love? How to Combat the Influence of Modern Dating on Teens | S6 E26
Mar 27, 2024Swipe right, DM, hook up... is THIS what dating has become for young people?
Join Steve Alessi and his daughter Gaby Alessi as they take a deep dive into the shifting world of dating and love in modern times - and how the wrong examples are messing up a lot of young people's futures.
They lay bare the evolution of relationships from phone-based interactions to the changing sequence of love, cohabitation, and marriage. They touch on everything from teenage dating pressures to setting boundaries and readiness for dating. You'll hear their honest and personal anecdotes ab...
Family Case Study: How We Use Biblical Principles to Build a Strong Family | S6 E25
Mar 20, 2024Are parents who uphold strong principles just "old fashioned"?
This week, we're going to share why our family is a case study of the power of sticking with traditional, conservative and biblical values.
Join us in this episode of The Family Business, as we share how our family has been a "case study" on the effectiveness of raising kids with conservative biblical values.
With a focus on biblical principles passed down through generations, we'll guide you through the power of intentional parenting and setting clear guidelines.
You'll discover why it's crucial that...
Family Feuds: How to Get Along with Your Family Even When You're Frustrated | S6 E24
Mar 13, 2024What do you do when the people you love frustrate you the most?
In every family, there's the potential for conflict - but that potential grows when dealing with grandparents, in-laws, stepparents and other complex family relationships.
How do you keep the peace and prioritize healthy, long-term relationships when things go south?
In this episode of "The Family Business with The Alessis," hosts Steve and Mary Alessi engage in a heartfelt conversation with their mom, Dr. Faith Fredrick about navigating the complexities of family relationships that can be both meaningful and messy.
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The Wisdom Gap: How to Gain Time-Tested Perspective on Today's Political Issues | S6 E23
Mar 06, 2024What can today's generation learn from those who have lived through decades of elections and social changes?
In this episode of The Family Business, the Alessis welcome back Dr. Faith Frederick, Mary Alessi's mother, as they dig into the polarization and perspectives surrounding the hot topics in today's political climate.
In this honest discussion, you'll discover why older generations in our families can often detect patterns and long-term consequences of cultural issues that younger people don't understand yet - and why we should value their ideas.
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Daily Dose of Heaven: Prayer, Faith and A New Part of The Family Business | S6 E22
Feb 28, 2024Imagine taking one step of faith that creates something special - something that grows far beyond your greatest expectations.
That's what we're sharing as we celebrate a special partnership in The Family Business.
In this episode, we introduce our guest, Alison Delamota, as we share her remarkable journey and her inspiring podcast, "My Morning Devotional."
Alison's "My Morning Devotional" has been nothing short of a phenomenon, amassing over 2.6 million downloads over the past three years and uniting a global community in their pursuit of daily spiritual nourishment. Her dedication to providing a tool fo...
Duration: 00:27:37Feeling Small? How to Stop Being Intimidated Around Other People | S6 E21
Feb 21, 2024Do you struggle with feeling small and powerless around people with big personalities and big influence?
You don't have to stay in that place of fear and insecurity.
In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi dive into the deep waters of overcoming feelings of inadequacy and intimidation.
You'll hear how this couple handled their own struggles with intimidation in various aspects of life, from professional pressures to personal relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insightful advice, you'll gain practical tips on building confidence, embracing strengths, and navigating family expectations; including:
How to Keep Romance in the Family Business [Season 1 Flashback] | S6 E20
Feb 14, 2024In this classic encore episode, Steve and Mary Alessi 'pull back the covers' on some touchy subjects as they talk about love and intimacy in marriage!
In Season 1, our Podience asked the Alessis some real-life questions about how they maintain the love and passion of their marriage while staying focused on ministry.
Their answers were super transparent, often hilarious, and emotionally honest.
If you've been a listener for a while, but forgotten how powerful this episode was, it's a perfect time to look back and apply these lessons to your current or future rel...
House Rules: How to Set a Family Culture that Empowers and Protects Your Kids | S6 E19
Feb 07, 2024Feeling a clash between what you believe and what actually happens in your home?
Maybe it's time for you to take charge of the culture of your family.
In this episode, Mary and Steve Alessi reveal how to establish a strong family culture. By instilling clear rules and guidelines, and being intentional about your parenting, you both empower and protect your children and set them up for a better future.
You'll discover that the power of family culture and values goes beyond how you were raised, and impacts how you and your children wi...
Makeup Madness? Sephora Kids, Dangerous Trends and What Parents Need to Know | S6 E18
Jan 31, 2024How did girls go from playing with dolls, to using Drunk Elephant and Dior?!
The distrubing trend of "Sephora Kids" - young tween girls and younger buying high-end makeup products, encouraging and mimicking adult skin care techniques - has woken up the culture to the dangers of social media influence.
But what should parents do about it?
In this real and transparent episode, Mary Alessi and her daughter Gaby tackle the underlying issues causing young girls to get into makeup and skincare way too early—especially the influence of TikTok and social media.
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No Offense: Why Men Should Master Emotions and Quit Being Easily Offended | S6 E17
Jan 24, 2024If the title of this episode offends you, that's the point.
In every area of our modern culture, being offended has become a badge of honor, even among men who once had the strength to stand on convictions rather than being overly sensitive.
To combat this epidemic of emotional drama, Steve Alessi welcomes back his life-long friend and guest Pastor Steve Hage, as they challenge men to embrace their masculinity and avoid easily taking offense. You'll learn why men need to support and sharpen each other, and how they are sometimes discouraged from being strong emo...
From Pain to Progress: How to Turn Your Struggles into Blessings w/ Steve Hage | S6 E16
Jan 17, 2024What's more powerful - the pain of your past, or the possibilities of your future?
To get that answer, we're bringing you a special guest, who's been a dear friend of the Alessis for decades - Pastor Steve Hage.
In this thought-provoking episode, these two pastors and friends share insights on the importance of family support, character-driven choices, and overcoming your past pain to achieve growth. From honoring parents in every circumstance, to embracing continuous growth and serving, this enlightening conversation will provide you with valuable lessons for your personal and spiritual development.
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Move Forward in 2024! How To Unlock an Inspiring Vision for This Year | S6 E15
Jan 10, 2024It's a brand new year, but is your family moving forward in a new way?
Or are you worried that you and your loved ones will be stuck in neutral?
The Alessis have proof that seeing things differently can transform your family and their approach to life.
In this episode, you'll discover how to reset for the new year with a fresh, inspiring vision that will set you and your family on the right path - even if you have to endure some setbacks and unexpected challenges.
You'll get a recap of...
"I Hate When You Talk To Me That Way!" | TFB Midseason Flashback
Jan 03, 2024You know how mad you get when your spouse says that ONE thing you can't stand?
It's time for a candid and insightful throwback to one of our most beloved episodes, 'I Hate When You Talk to Me That Way,' where we dive deep into the dynamics of communication and conflict resolution within relationships.
In this Best Of episode, Steve and Mary Alessi engage in an open, honest discussion about the challenges they've faced and the valuable lessons learned in their own marriage and family life. From the importance of personalized communication to setting bo...
Not Mama's Boy: How To Build A Healthy Mother-Son Relationship | S6 E14
Dec 20, 2023Can moms love their sons too much?
No mother wants to hinder their son from becoming a man, but the mother-son dynamic can create major headaches for the entire family if not handled properly.
In this episode, we delve into the intricate dynamics of the mother-son relationship and the valuable roles both parents fill in their young man's life.
From discussing the differences in parental roles to highlighting the importance of respect and clear communication, Steve and Mary Alessi sit down with their son Chris offers insightful perspectives on family relationships and...
The Message of Modesty: Guidance For Young Women on What to Wear (and Why)
Dec 13, 2023Ladies: Does the way you dress truly represent who you are?
For generations, women have debated the importance of modesty when it comes to their attire and appearance.
In this episode of "The Family Business with The Alessis," hosts and sisters Gaby, Lauren, and Stephanie jump into the controversial topic of modesty from a young woman's perspective, and discuss whether it's outdated or a very important part of defining a woman's image and character.
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Duration: 00:32:25How to Grieve with Grace: Navigating Loss and Finding Joy Again w/ Pastor Ann Alessi | S6 E12
Dec 06, 2023In this heartfelt and deeply personal episode, we are joined by Steve Alessi's mother, Ann Alessi, as we open up about family, grief, and finding strength in the face of loss.
Having been married to her husband Pastor John Alessi for over 60 years at the time of his passing in 2020, Pastor Ann highlights the importance of faith and family support during this challenging time. She also shares her experience of finding a new season in her life after her husband's passing and the importance of finding support and healing through faith. You'll hear wise advice on how...