Alcohol Minimalist: Change Your Drinking Habits!

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly picks up where last week’s conversation on the Fresh Start Effect left off and explores what happens in the brain after motivation fades. Using neuroscience and behavior change research, she explains why January 8 is often the point where people assume they have failed, even though this is actually the phase where real change begins.

Molly breaks down why most New Year’s intentions are abandoned by mid-January and reframes this not as a lack of discipline, but as a misunderstanding of how the brain works. She explains the difference between moti...

It’s the first full week of the new year — and if Dry January is on your mind, than this episode is for you. 

In this solo episode, Molly shares insights from her current Mostly Dry January program and explains why your month doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful. You’ll learn what the science says about cutting back (even partially), how to rewire your drinking habits using positive reinforcement, and why “mostly dry” is more than enough.

If you're ready to ditch the all-or-nothing mindset and start building real momentum with your relation...

In this New Year’s Day episode of Think Thursday, Molly explores why January 1 feels so powerful psychologically and why that feeling so often fades. Drawing on neuroscience, mindset research, and behavioral science, she explains the difference between the Fresh Start Effect and the myth that our brains reset overnight.

Using research from behavioral scientist Katy Milkman, Molly breaks down why temporal landmarks like January 1 increase motivation, how dopamine fuels anticipation, and why habits do not change through symbolism or intention alone. She explains what actually drives sustainable behavior change and how identity, repetition, and environment shape th...

As 2025 wraps up, Molly celebrates a major milestone—five full years of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast. In this reflective and empowering episode, she shares five impactful lessons learned over the past five years—lessons that have shaped her journey and the lives of thousands who are building a more peaceful relationship with alcohol.

Whether you’re a longtime listener or new to the show, this episode will meet you where you are with compassionate wisdom, science-backed insights, and practical tools to support moderation—not perfection.

What You’ll Learn

In this special holiday revisited episode of Think Thursday, Molly explores why mental rest is essential for brain health, especially coming out of a season of overstimulation. She explains how modern life is designed to hijack our attention, keeping us in constant reaction mode and depriving the brain of the downtime it needs to function well.

Molly breaks down what happens neurologically when the brain is exposed to nonstop input, including cognitive fatigue, reduced creativity, increased stress, and weaker memory consolidation. She revisits the role of the default mode network and explains why creativity and quiet, not...

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly tackles a common end-of-year mindset trap: the “sin and repent” cycle. It’s the idea that December is for overindulgence and January is for repentance—a pattern that often reinforces all-or-nothing thinking and keeps us stuck in old drinking habits.

Through personal reflections and practical coaching, Molly unpacks the power of permission-giving thoughts like “It’s the holidays, I deserve this” or “I’ll get back on track in January.” These seemingly harmless ideas delay change, undermine self-trust, and reinforce avoidance patterns.

But there’s a better way—and it star...

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explains why the holiday season can feel emotionally harder even when nothing is “wrong.” Using neuroscience and psychology, she introduces the concept of the window of tolerance and explores how cumulative stress, anticipation, sensory overload, emotional memory, and disrupted routines narrow our capacity for regulation during December.

Molly walks through what happens in the brain under prolonged stress, including the role of cortisol, emotional flooding, and nervous system survival responses. She reframes coping behaviors as signals of an overwhelmed nervous system rather than a lack of discipline, and shares realistic, supportive ways...

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly explores one of the most powerful yet under-recognized tools for transforming your relationship with alcohol: the language you use in your thoughts.

She explains how common phrases like “I need a drink” or “I deserve this glass of wine” are not just throwaway expressions. These words create specific emotional reactions that drive habitual behaviors, especially during emotionally charged moments. Using the Alcohol Minimalist framework and the Behavior Map – Results Cycle, Molly walks through how rewording your thoughts can unlock more peaceful, intentional decisions about drinking.

This episode fo...

Episode Summary

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores why December feels so emotionally intense and why anticipation plays such a powerful role in our thoughts, feelings, and habits. Anticipation is not just psychological. It is driven by the brain's predictive systems that simulate the future long before it arrives.

Using findings from neuroscience, including research highlighted in Neuron, University College London, Stanford University, and studies on dopamine and reward processing, Molly explains how imagining the future changes our emotional state in the present. She shows how anticipation can create craving, heighten anxiety...

If you’re working to change your drinking habits and create a peaceful relationship with alcohol, you’re in the right place. In today’s episode, we revisit a very special conversation with internationally renowned neuropsychopharmacologist, Dr. David Nutt.

This episode originally aired when the podcast was still called Breaking the Bottle Legacy, but the message and insights are just as powerful—and relevant—today.

In this episode, Molly speaks with Dr. David Nutt, author of Drink? The New Science of Alcohol and Your Health. The conversation dives into the science behind alcohol’s...

In this episode, Molly explores why holiday creativity is far more than a nostalgic pastime. New research highlighted in The Washington Post shows that engaging in creative activities, even at a beginner level, is associated with younger looking brains and stronger cognitive health.

Molly explains how creative acts like crafting, drawing, baking and building stimulate multiple brain networks, reduce stress hormones, and support emotional regulation.

She connects these findings to childhood holiday memories while discussing why those early creative experiences were neurologically important. Molly also shares how creativity can support habit change by providing a...

If your brain is telling you, “It’s the holidays, I’ll start in January,” this episode is here to challenge that script. Molly dives into why the belief that we need a perfect time to change our drinking is one of the most misleading and damaging patterns we fall into. In this episode, you’ll discover why December is actually the ideal time to begin changing your relationship with alcohol—and how doing so can help you build real-life skills that stick.

Drawing from neuroscience, behavior science, and lived experience, Molly shows you how to bypass the perfecti...

In this special revisited Thanksgiving edition of Think Thursday, Molly reflects on the transformative power of gratitude—how it can reshape your mindset, elevate your mood, and even improve your physical health. Originally aired in 2024, this episode has become a listener favorite for the Thanksgiving holiday and beyond.

With both scientific insight and personal reflection, Molly shares why gratitude is more than a seasonal tradition. It's a practice with real, measurable impact on your brain, your emotions, and your long-term well-being.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

In this heartfelt and empowering conversation, Molly Watts welcomes Deb Gutierrez, a seasoned nutritional therapist and friend of the show. Deb shares her powerful story of surviving a life-threatening health crisis and how it reshaped her approach to wellness from the ground up.

Deb’s experience with endocarditis and open-heart surgery forced her to surrender control in ways she never expected. Her story offers a vivid reminder of why foundational habits—like moving your body, getting sunlight, and yes, minimizing alcohol—are critical not only for longevity but for resilience.

Together, Molly and Deb explore the im...

In this Think Thursday episode, we're diving into a subject that touches millions of lives — Alzheimer’s disease.

Molly shares recent, promising research on dementia and cognitive decline while weaving in her own powerful experiences from World Alzheimer’s Day at the senior living community where she works.

From the beauty of a memorial garden filled with pinwheel tributes to being part of the top fundraising team at the Oregon Zoo Walk to End Alzheimer’s, this episode is both science-forward and deeply personal.

You'll hear:

In this inspiring episode, Molly welcomes special guest Jillian Fontana, a certified sommelier and founder of Mod Elixirs, a new line of thoughtfully crafted alcohol-free beverages. Jillian shares her personal journey from being fully immersed in the wine and hospitality industry to re-evaluating her relationship with alcohol—all while staying true to her passion for wine and food.

Through their conversation, Molly and Jillian explore what it means to be an alcohol minimalist even when you’re deeply connected to the beverage industry. Jillian’s story offers a powerful example of how we can rewrite our beliefs about...

In this Think Thursday episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly explores how visual triggers—those subtle, often overlooked cues in your environment—powerfully influence your behavior. Whether it’s a bottle on the counter, a glowing screen, or a browser tab, your brain is constantly scanning for shortcuts and responding to what it sees.

Drawing on neuroscience and habit psychology, Molly explains why visual input is processed faster than any other sense and how it becomes tightly linked with repetitive behaviors. More importantly, she offers practical strategies to reduce unwanted visual cues and introduce new ones that s...

Episode Summary:

In this timely revisited episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly dives deep into the topic of binge drinking—what it is, how it affects your brain, and most importantly, how to avoid it. In the spirit of No Binge November, Molly reflects on the broader implications of binge behavior across all areas of life, not just alcohol. She challenges long-held assumptions, shares science-backed insights, and offers both mindset shifts and practical tools to help you reduce or eliminate binge episodes.

Whether you’ve ever thought, “I’m not a binge drinker,” or you've str...

Welcome back to a revisited edition of Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast. These Thursday episodes are all about understanding your brain, challenging outdated thought patterns, and using neuroscience to support real, lasting change in your relationship with alcohol.

This week, we're bringing back one of the foundational Think Thursday conversations: The Privilege of Self-Improvement. Whether you’re hearing it for the first time or coming back for a refresh, this episode is especially relevant as we approach the end of the year and the start of the holiday season.

What You’ll Learn in T...

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly explores how your environment—your physical space, routines, and sensory cues—quietly shapes your drinking habits. From the shape of your glass to the spot you sit in at night, environmental triggers can powerfully reinforce auto-pilot behavior.

But here's the key: these external cues are not the full story. They don't create your drinking habit—they support it. Real change comes from understanding why you’re drinking in the first place and learning to respond to that emotional need in a new way.

If you’re ready to i...

Your inner critic: that voice in your head that says, “You’re not good enough,” or “You’ll never stick with this.” We all have one. But what if there was a way to take back your power—starting with something as simple (and science-backed) as giving it a name?

In this episode of Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist, Molly dives into the neuroscience and psychology behind naming your inner critic and how this deceptively small move can have a big impact on your identity, your habits, and your peace of mind.

In this episode:

Episode Summary:
As we close out More Sober October, Molly invites you to reflect not just on how many drinks you had—or didn’t have—but on who you became along the way. This episode brings the month’s theme full circle, offering a powerful emotional close and a neuroscience-backed perspective on identity change.

Molly revisits the month’s key concepts, including identity scripts, neuroplasticity, and casting “votes” for the kind of person you want to become. You’ll hear encouragement to look beneath the surface of your habits and recognize the deeper shifts that may already be t...

In this episode of Think Thursday, Molly explores the powerful difference between joy and pleasure, and why understanding this distinction matters for anyone pursuing lasting behavior change — including changing your relationship with alcohol.

We often use “joy” and “pleasure” interchangeably, but from a neuroscience lens, they activate different brain pathways and lead to profoundly different emotional outcomes. Pleasure is short-lived, dopamine-driven, and external. Joy, on the other hand, is sustainable, meaning-based, and internally constructed.

Molly breaks down the brain science behind each, explaining:

Episode Summary:

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores a powerful and often overlooked question: Can you truly celebrate without alcohol? As we wrap up More Sober October and gear up for No Binge November, Molly dives into the neuroscience behind celebration and what it means to detach joy from a drink.

Drawing on personal insight and scientific research, she challenges the deeply ingrained belief that alcohol is necessary for joy, milestones, or connection. This episode is a reminder that true celebration comes from meaning—not from what's in your glass.

...

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores why sometimes not knowing can actually make you calmer, more focused, and more creative. Continuing the theme of counterintuitive brain science, she builds on previous Think Thursday episodes like The Paradox of Freedom, Novelty for Habit Change, and last week’s Defensive Pessimism to show how Selective Ignorance helps protect the brain’s limited capacity for attention, energy, and emotion.

What You’ll Learn

This week, Molly welcomes back Ian Andersen, co-founder of Sunnyside, for a timely and thought-provoking conversation on the evolving landscape of alcohol health and behavior change. Ian shares the backstory of Sunnyside’s growth from its origins during the pandemic to the recent launch of Sunnyside Med, a new initiative designed to support individuals seeking more structure and support in reducing their alcohol consumption.

If you're feeling challenged during “More Sober October,” or you’ve ever felt like you're behind the curve while the media insists everyone is drinking less, this episode offers reassurance, insight, and practical next ste...

This week on Think Thursday, we’re exploring an idea that turns conventional wisdom on its head: defensive pessimism. While it may sound like a negative mindset, it’s actually a powerful, evidence-based cognitive strategy that helps anxious or overthinking brains perform better, reduce stress, and follow through on goals more effectively.

Defensive pessimism isn't about catastrophizing or giving up. It's about anticipating obstacles and using those thoughts to prepare instead of panic. In this episode, you'll learn how this approach taps into the brain’s natural tendency to predict outcomes, and how making one cr...

In this week’s episode, Molly dives deeper into the More Sober October theme: Who are you without the drink? If you've ever felt like you're at war with yourself when it comes to drinking decisions, you're not imagining it. Molly unpacks the neuroscience behind this inner conflict and introduces listeners to the concept of our two selves—the automatic self and the intentional self.

Referencing Daniel Kahneman’s book Thinking, Fast and Slow, Molly breaks down how System 1 (your fast, emotional, habitual brain) and System 2 (your slow, rational, goal-focused brain) influence your drinking choices. This science-backed framew...

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores why the brain doesn’t experience minutes the way the clock does. Our perception of time is not fixed—it stretches and compresses depending on novelty, memory, attention, and emotion. That’s why childhood summers feel endless while adulthood years can seem to vanish.

Molly unpacks the psychology and neuroscience of time perception, including how prospective and retrospective time work, why novelty sharpens attention and stretches moments, and how emotions like fear, boredom, and joy distort our sense of time. She also shares fascinating phenomena like the “stopped clock illusion” and highli...

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores how deeply alcohol can become tied to our identity. 

Phrases like “wine mom,” “party girl,” or “craft beer enthusiast” may sound harmless, but they often reinforce the idea that drinking is part of who we are rather than something we do. Molly explains how self-schemas shape our beliefs, why identity disruption can feel unsettling when you change your drinking, and how to navigate the friction that comes with rewriting your personal story.

You will learn about the psychology behind identity labels, the concept of status quo bias, and...

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores ADHD through the lens of the brain’s energy economy. Drawing from personal experience and neuroscience, she explains why ADHD brains spend fuel differently than neurotypical brains, why tasks can feel either draining or energizing, and how understanding this difference can replace frustration with compassion.

Listeners will learn how differences in dopamine and norepinephrine signaling impact executive function and reward systems, why ADHD increases vulnerability to addiction, and which practical strategies can help conserve and redirect energy for greater clarity and peace.

What You’ll Learn in This...

In this week’s episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly shares an insightful conversation with debut novelist and recovery advocate Jessica Guerrieri.
While fiction authors aren’t typical guests, Jessica’s novel Between the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea offers a compelling and deeply personal exploration of the consequences of mommy wine culture, making it a perfect fit for the podcast’s mission.

Jessica and Molly dive into why fiction can be a powerful medium for examining difficult topics like addiction, parenting, and societal narratives around alcohol. They also talk about how book clubs, which of...

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores one of neuroscience’s greatest mysteries: consciousness. At the center of this discussion is the thalamus, a small walnut-sized structure in the brain that scientists now believe plays a vital role in generating conscious experience.

Long considered just a relay station for sensory signals, new research highlighted in an August 29, 2025 Popular Mechanics article suggests the thalamus acts as the brain’s “switchboard,” determining which sensory information reaches awareness and which fades into the background.

Molly explains how silence, rest, and focused attention support this system, and why the thalamus...

In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist, Molly explores a common trap for many habit drinkers: the cycle of staying "good" all week only to unravel over the weekend. If you've ever told yourself, "I don't drink Monday through Thursday, but Friday comes and everything falls apart," then this episode is for you.

Molly dives into the emotional and cognitive patterns behind this behavior and reveals why suppressing feelings and white-knuckling your way through the week might be setting you up to overdrink on the weekends.
 
She challenges the idea that moderation might not be f...

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores the growing field of environmental neuroscience and what new research is uncovering about microplastics and brain health. Microplastics are everywhere—from oceans and soil to food and even the air we breathe. While they have long been recognized as an environmental issue, scientists are now finding evidence that they may also influence how the brain functions and ages.

Molly explains how microplastics can interact with the brain through inflammation, oxidative stress, and disrupted signaling. She shares a striking new study linking microplastic exposure in genetically vulnerable mice to Alzheimer’s-like chan...

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly explores two common behaviors that often fly under the radar but can quietly reinforce problematic patterns with alcohol: drinking alone and drinking secrecy.

These habits are not diagnoses of alcohol use disorder, but research shows they are correlated with higher risk, especially when alcohol becomes the go-to coping strategy for stress, boredom, or loneliness. Molly explains what these patterns can look like, what the science actually says, and how to notice if they are showing up in your own life.

You will learn:

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores why September so often feels like a natural reset and how the brain is wired to love fresh starts. Building on the earlier episode The Illusion of Starting Over in Habit Change, this conversation distinguishes between the harmful idea of “starting over” and the positive psychology of seasonal resets.

From the Fresh Start Effect and temporal landmarks to the role of the Default Mode Network (DMN) in shaping your self-narrative, you will learn how your brain uses beginnings to motivate you. Molly also shares three practical ways to harness seasonal ener...

Episode Summary:

 As part of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast’s Summer Content Series, this episode features a replay from Molly's former podcast, Live HAPPIER Longer. Originally episode 40, this conversation highlights the extraordinary story of Pat Gallant-Charette, a world-renowned open water swimmer who didn’t even start training seriously until age 58.

Pat’s journey is a testament to what’s possible when you stop letting age define your limits. From overcoming grief to chasing world records, Pat’s story is filled with resilience, purpose, and bold reinvention. If you’re feeling stuck, unsure, or like your time has...

In this revisited Think Thursday episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly Watts returns to a timely and deeply relevant conversation about our brilliant human brains and how we can consciously shift from fear to purpose. Originally aired in January during a time of political unrest and uncertainty, this episode reminds us that fear—though natural—is not a permanent state.

Molly explores how neuroscience explains our brain’s hardwired fear responses and how those responses often lead us into coping behaviors like doom scrolling, overeating, or pouring a drink. But instead of retreating into old habits, she in...

In this episode, Molly continues her Summer Content Series by featuring an impactful conversation from Elizabeth Benton of the Primal Potential Podcast. The episode dives deep into the critical difference between compliance and consistency—a distinction that’s especially relevant for anyone trying to create a peaceful relationship with alcohol.

Molly reflects on how often people struggle with making "doable plans" for changing their drinking habits because they equate plans with rigid rules. Elizabeth’s insights provide a compelling framework to help shift your mindset from strict rule-following (compliance) to flexible, value-based behavior (consistency).

Whether you’ve...

In this replay of a favorite Think Thursday episode, Molly revisits a deceptively simple yet critically important topic: hydration and brain health. With high temperatures hitting the Northern Hemisphere and many of us enjoying summer activities, this episode is your science-forward reminder to drink more water—for your brain’s sake.

From the cognitive impact of just a 1% drop in hydration to how alcohol interferes with your body’s water balance, Molly explores how vital water is to focus, mood, memory, and even long-term mental wellness. If you’re building a peaceful relationship with alcohol, staying hydrated is not o...

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly shares another installment in her Summer Content Series, featuring guest content from one of the most influential voices in the alcohol-reduction space—Rachel Hart, host of the “Take a Break” podcast.

Molly opens up about Rachel’s pivotal role in her own journey to change her drinking habits, describing her as the first person who helped her believe it was possible to rethink her relationship with alcohol. Through books, podcasts, and coaching, Rachel’s voice provides clarity, validation, and a methodical approach to mindful drinking that aligned closely with the A...

Episode Summary:

Most people know the three classic stress responses—fight, flight, and freeze—but there’s a fourth that’s often missed because it hides in plain sight: the fawn response. This is when your nervous system decides the safest way to handle a threat is to please or appease it. It’s not weakness—it’s a deeply ingrained survival strategy that can run for years without you realizing it.

In this episode, Molly explains what the fawn response is, where it comes from, why you may never have heard of it, and how it might b...

This week on the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, we’re kicking off our Summer Content Series, a special tradition where I take a short break from creating long form episodes and share valuable conversations and ideas from other voices I trust and admire.

Today’s guest, and you’ll probably recognize her voice, is Monica Reinagel, host of the Nutrition Diva and Change Academy podcasts. Monica and I share a common approach: evidence based, practical strategies for creating lasting behavior change. We’ve collaborated on coaching programs, podcast appearances, and even behind the scenes peer coaching.

In this...

This week on Think Thursday, we’re diving into the latest research around brain-healthy eating—and how artificial intelligence is changing the nutrition game. In July 2025, a major new study introduced the MODERN diet—a machine-learning-optimized eating pattern that may reduce your risk of dementia by more than 50%.

In this episode, I compare the MODERN diet with the more established MIND diet (a blend of the Mediterranean and DASH diets), break down how both support cognitive function, and explain why the science behind these claims is powerful but not perfect.

I also circle back to my Oct...

In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, I’m joined by Mike Hardenbrook—author of No Willpower Required and host of the Journey to the Sunny Side podcast—for a conversation that’s been a long time coming.

Mike’s story will resonate with anyone who’s ever struggled with drinking more than they want to but never felt “out of control” enough to warrant a label. His approach to habit change is science-forward, rooted in neuroscience and behavioral psychology, and deeply aligned with our core belief at Alcohol Minimalist: you are not powerless.

Together, we...

In this episode of Think Thursday, Molly explores the power of possibility thinking—a grounded, science-supported mindset that helps you move forward even when you're feeling unsure or stuck.

This is not about positive thinking or forced optimism. It’s about learning how to stay mentally open to change, using thoughts your brain can actually work with.

Molly also shares the remarkable story of Reverend Robert Schuller, who built a global movement—starting from the roof of a drive-in theater—by believing in what could be possible.

What You’ll Learn

Episode Summary:

 In this honest and reflective episode, Molly shares her personal journey with More Dry July and what it really means when your outcome doesn’t match your original goal. She walks through her mindset shift from chasing perfection to reinforcing identity, and how 21 alcohol-free days—rather than the planned 24—still powerfully reflect the systems she’s built as an Alcohol Minimalist.

Drawing from James Clear’s Atomic Habits and Elizabeth Benton’s Chasing Cupcakes, Molly explores how honest tracking, identity-based change, and keystone habits can keep you aligned even when things don’t go perfectly. S...

Episode Summary:
In recognition of World Brain Day (July 22), this Think Thursday episode is a deep dive into the powerful, daily practices that shape your brain’s future. While most of us worry about cognitive decline, far fewer realize how much influence we actually have. Molly introduces SHARP—a simple, science-backed framework for protecting and enhancing your brain’s longevity, clarity, and resilience. From reducing dementia risk to boosting neuroplasticity, this episode gives you the tools to keep your mind vibrant for years to come.

What You'll Learn – The SHARP Framework:

In this insightful episode, Molly sits down once again with Dr. Brooke Scheller, clinical nutritionist and founder of Functional Sobriety, to discuss one of the most buzzed-about topics in the health and wellness space: GLP-1 medications (like Ozempic and Wegovy). Originally developed for treating Type 2 diabetes and now widely prescribed for weight loss, these drugs are increasingly being talked about for their potential to reduce alcohol cravings.

Together, Molly and Dr. Scheller unpack the growing curiosity (and concern) surrounding the off-label use of GLP-1s by those trying to moderate or change their drinking habits. They dive...

Welcome back to Think Thursday, where we explore the intersection of neuroscience, behavior change, and mindset, all in service of your beautifully brilliant human brain. In today’s episode, we’re diving into brand-new research from UCLA that uncovers how chronic stress physically alters the brain—and why that matters deeply for your habits, memory, and sense of self.

You’ll learn:

In this episode, Molly dives deep into a topic that’s both emotionally resonant and neurologically relevant: what’s really going on when we feel like we “just don’t care anymore” about our drinking habits or goals. This isn’t about laziness or lack of willpower—it’s often a sign of emotional burnout, a condition that physically alters our brain and chips away at our motivation and executive function.

Molly explores how summer routines, vacations, and social gatherings can disrupt our usual anchors and lead to identity drift, making it harder to stay committed to alcohol-related...

Episode Summary:

 This week on Think Thursday, we're taking a step back in time to revisit the very first episode that kicked off this science-forward, mindset-focused mini-series from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast.

As Molly is out of town this week, she shares one of her favorite episodes—the inaugural Think Thursday segment. It’s a powerful reminder of why this series exists: to explore the beautiful, brilliant human brain and its incredible capacity for change.

In this encore presentation, Molly revisits the groundbreaking science of neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to rewire itself in resp...

In this special episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly Watts revisits the very first episode of the show—originally aired in January 2021 under the name Breaking the Bottle Legacy. While the podcast’s sound quality and delivery may have evolved since then, the heart and mission behind Molly’s message remain just as powerful and relevant.

Molly shares her story as an adult child of an alcoholic and someone who lived with a 30+ year daily drinking habit. She reflects on what inspired her to begin this journey, the beliefs that shaped her transformation, and the scienc...

In this special Independence Day edition of Think Thursday, we're diving into a surprising truth about freedom. While freedom is often associated with having more choices, the neuroscience tells us that too many options can actually hinder our ability to make meaningful progress. In this episode, Molly explores why excessive freedom can lead to decision fatigue, anxiety, and overwhelm—and how structure can actually be the key to creating real freedom in your life.

What You'll Learn:

Summer can feel like one long permission slip to indulge—looser routines, longer days, more social events, and vacation vibes that whisper “just this once.” In this episode, Molly unpacks why summer can be a particularly slippery slope for anyone working to change their drinking habits—and what you can do to stay mindful without sacrificing fun.

Drawing from her own experience and behavioral science, Molly explores how deeply context-based cues shape our drinking habits and why “vacation mode” doesn’t have to mean mindless drinking. You’ll learn how to navigate barbecues, weddings, family reunions, and lazy summer nigh...

Episode Summary:

 In this Think Thursday episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores why change often feels harder than it should—and what’s really going on beneath the surface. It’s not that you’re incapable of change. More likely, you’re stuck in what she calls a belief echo: a practiced, well-worn thought that has become so automatic it feels like your identity.

These belief echoes, like “I always give up” or “I’m not someone who finishes things,” aren’t facts. They’re just thoughts your brain has repeated—and protected—over time. This episode unpac...

Episode Summary:

In this episode, Molly explores the surprising ways summer heat and alcohol interact—and why your body may be struggling more than you realize during warmer months. From dehydration to disrupted sleep, summer brings hidden stressors that alcohol intensifies. Whether you love basking in the sunshine or spend the season waiting for cooler days, understanding the physical toll of heat combined with drinking is key to staying in alignment with your goals.

Molly breaks down the physiological impact of heat, why alcohol complicates it, and how to support your body better so you ca...

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly Watts challenges the deeply ingrained belief that we must “start over” any time we slip up in our habit change journey—especially when it comes to drinking. Drawing from neuroscience, behavior psychology, and the Alcohol Minimalist framework, Molly explains why this mindset is not only emotionally unhelpful but also neurologically inaccurate.

Listeners will learn how to reframe off-plan moments not as failures, but as meaningful data points that contribute to long-term growth and brain change. Whether it’s drinking, eating, spending, or any behavior you’re trying to shift, this episode offers an...

Episode Summary

In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly dives into one of the most challenging but common scenarios: staying committed to your goals when everyone else around you is celebrating with alcohol. As summer ramps up—bringing with it weddings, barbecues, vacations, and concerts—the social pressure to drink can feel stronger than ever.

Molly explores the neuroscience behind our desire to fit in, how FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) hijacks our behavior, and why choosing intentionality over impulsivity can feel so hard—but is absolutely doable. She shares mindse...

In this insightful Think Thursday episode, Molly dives into the surprising power of novelty and how it can support meaningful behavior change. While consistency remains a cornerstone of habit transformation, Molly explores how introducing small shifts in your routine can re-engage the brain, disrupt unhelpful patterns, and open new pathways for intentional living—especially during seasonal transitions like summer.

In This Episode, You'll Learn:

Episode Summary:
We're officially halfway through the year, and today’s episode is your invitation to pause, check in, and realign. If you’re feeling like you’ve drifted from your intentions around alcohol—or life in general—this isn’t about judgment. It’s about awareness. Molly introduces a powerful, science-informed tool called the PEACE Self-Audit to guide your mid-year reflection and help you gently reassess where you are and where you want to go.

This episode ties back to a recent Think Thursday episode on values alignment and burnout, highlighting how the gap betwee...

In this short and powerful Think Thursday episode, Molly explores a feeling we all face—discomfort—and why it's so often misunderstood. Rather than being a sign that something’s gone wrong, discomfort is often evidence that change is happening.

Through the lens of neuroscience and personal insight, you’ll learn why your lower brain instinctively resists unfamiliar experiences, how to engage your higher brain to override outdated fear responses, and why discomfort is a natural and even necessary part of learning and growth.

You’ll Learn:

If you’ve ever said, “I just don’t have the discipline,” or wondered why it feels so hard to follow through on your intentions—this episode will help you understand what’s really going on in your brain.

Molly takes a science-forward look at dopamine, the neurotransmitter that drives motivation, pleasure, and effort. With insights from Dr. Andrew Huberman and Dr. Anna Lembke (Dopamine Nation), she shares why alcohol’s unnatural impact on dopamine matters and how to support your brain’s reward system as you change your drinking habits.

This episode doesn’t prescribe one-size...

Welcome to Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, where we explore the power of your brilliant human brain. In this episode, we’re revisiting the very first Think Thursday conversation. If you're new to the series or need a powerful reminder of just how capable you are of creating change, this episode is a must-listen.

Molly is taking a brief pause this week, making it the perfect opportunity to revisit the core concept that sparked Think Thursdays—how your mindset literally changes your brain.

This episode explores one of the most exciting and empowering disc...

In honor of Memorial Day Weekend in the U.S., we’re revisiting a popular episode that dives into the practicalities of drinking like an alcohol minimalist. If you’ve ever wondered what the day-to-day approach looks like or how to create a plan that helps you drink less and worry less, this episode is for you.

Molly shares actionable tips and strategies that go beyond theory. She breaks down how alcohol minimalists navigate drinking decisions with intention and how the Alcohol Minimalist approach differs from other moderation-based communities.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Welcome to Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast — where we take a moment to pause, reflect, and recalibrate. This week, we’re honoring Mental Health Awareness Month by digging into a powerful insight from Brené Brown:

In this episode, Molly explores what that space looks like in everyday life and why it might be the real reason behind your emotional exhaustion — not just your schedule.

You’ll hear:

Memorial Day weekend often marks the unofficial start of summer—and for many, it can also signal the return of old drinking patterns. In this episode, Molly explores how to approach holiday weekends with clarity, confidence, and a sense of peace—whether you plan to drink or not.

You’ll learn:

In this deeply honest and science-backed episode, Molly explores a topic that often gets misunderstood in the world of personal development: toxic positivity. 

While optimism, hope, and gratitude are powerful tools for creating a more peaceful relationship with alcohol—and life in general—Molly dives into the real science of why ignoring negative emotions does more harm than good.

Learn how suppressing your feelings can lead to stress overload, impaired decision-making, and disconnection, and how true emotional resilience means feeling your emotions, not avoiding them.

What You'll Learn:

In this timely episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, host Molly Watts takes a deep dive into a public health conversation that few people are having—but everyone should be listening to. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, Molly tackles the proliferation of legal but dangerously unregulated mood-altering substances that are readily available at gas stations, vape shops, and convenience stores.

From kratom and delta-8 THC to nitrous oxide and nicotine salts, Molly explains how these substances affect the brain, the risks they pose (especially to teens and young adults), and why they are anything but ha...

In this episode of Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, host Molly Watts explores the transformative mental health benefits of self-transcendence.

After recently visiting the South Rim of the Grand Canyon for the first time, Molly shares her personal experience of awe and expansion, describing how moments of transcendence can shift perspective, lighten emotional burdens, and promote mental well-being.

Drawing from Abraham Maslow’s later work on human needs, Molly explains why self-transcendence sits above self-actualization as the highest human goal. She discusses how practices that cultivate transcendence — like connecting with nature, practicing gratitude, serv...

In this episode, Molly revisits a listener favorite: Undoing the Urge to Overdrink — a heartfelt and informative conversation first shared just before Thanksgiving 2023. Molly reflects on how emotional triggers, life events, and deeply rooted habits shape our relationship with alcohol — and how we can interrupt the cycle to create lasting change.

Molly also shares a poignant personal moment, connecting the episode's theme with the anniversary of her father’s passing on Thanksgiving night in 2022, making this revisited conversation especially meaningful.

This episode coincides with the launch of Just One More, Molly’s new two-week mini-course aimed at...

In this week's Think Thursday episode, we explore an unexpectedly powerful topic: the science of smiling. 

Is being a "natural smiler" something you're born with? Can smiling actively improve your mood, or is it just a reflection of how you feel?
And what role does a simple grin play in rewiring your brain for resilience, positivity, and emotional peace?

Molly dives into the research on genetic influences on smiling, the concept of the facial feedback loop, and the emotional benefits of practicing intentional smiles. You'll also hear a heartwarming story about how even our b...

Welcome (or welcome back!) to the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast with your host, Molly Watts, coming to you from salubrious Oregon!

In this final episode for Alcohol Awareness Month, Molly gets personal and shares the three major ways her drinking habits — and more importantly, her thinking about alcohol — have evolved over the years.

This isn’t just about counting drinks or cutting back to a “magical low number.” It's about creating peace with alcohol and living intentionally. Molly dives into how shifting from automatic drinking to intentional, mindful drinking has been the cornerstone of her transformation.

She a...

Have you ever said to yourself, “This habit feels unbreakable”?

Whether it’s procrastination, nighttime snacking, or pouring that end-of-day drink, it often feels like these behaviors are wired into our identity. But what if the real thing holding you back isn’t the habit itself—but the story you’re telling yourself about it?

In this Think Thursday episode, we’re exploring why some habits feel impossible to change—and why negative self-talk might be quietly reinforcing the loop. We’ll unpack the science behind the negativity bias, the way your brain treats repeated thoughts as eviden...

In this compelling episode of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly reconnects with Katie Lain, founder of Thrive Alcohol Recovery, to explore the power of neuroscience-based strategies for changing your relationship with alcohol. Katie shares her personal recovery story and how the Sinclair Method, a treatment protocol that uses the medication naltrexone, gave her a new lease on life.

This conversation goes beyond the medication to highlight the vital role of mindset, habit formation, and long-term commitment to behavior change. Molly and Katie discuss the real-world challenges people face in recovery, the importance of self-compassion, and how small...

This Think Thursday episode may just become one of your favorites. Molly explores the overlooked but powerful connection between water and brain health. From hydration to hydrotherapy, sound to sensation, this episode unpacks four science-backed ways water supports your brain, helps regulate your emotions, and contributes to meaningful, lasting behavior change.

Whether you love a hot bath, play ocean waves to fall asleep, or are curious about cold plunges, you'll come away with practical tools and deeper insight into how water can shift your mindset and support your alcohol minimalist journey.

In This Episode, You’ll...

In this special Alcohol Awareness Month episode, Molly Watts sits down with Ben Kramer, a licensed psilocybin facilitator and educator in Oregon. As the state pioneers legal psilocybin services, this insightful conversation unpacks how this once-taboo compound is emerging as a powerful therapeutic option for mental health and substance use struggles. Ben, a veteran of the U.S. Marine Corps and former firefighter, shares his personal and professional journey to becoming a facilitator and advocate for psychedelic-assisted therapy.

What You'll Learn:

Episode Summary
In this episode of Think Thursday, we’re diving into the psychology and neuroscience of reminiscing. Why does it feel so comforting to revisit our past? What is actually happening in our brains when we do it? And how can we intentionally use this experience to feel more grounded, present, and connected?

This isn’t just about nostalgia—it’s about using our memories as a powerful tool for self-awareness, emotional regulation, and identity reinforcement. You’ll learn why reminiscing matters, what research says about its benefits, and how to intentionally evoke it to support a...

In this episode kicking off Alcohol Awareness Month, Molly Watts dives into the subtleties of emotional drinking, helping listeners uncover unconscious patterns and build emotional resilience to disrupt them. Drawing inspiration from an episode by Corinne Crabtree on emotional eating, Molly makes powerful parallels to alcohol habits many listeners may not even recognize as emotionally driven.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

If you've ever thought, “I know what to do—why am I not doing it?”, this episode is for you.

In this Think Thursday edition of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly breaks down the Hierarchy of Competency, a science-backed framework that explains why sustainable behavior change can feel frustrating—and why that doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. From the origins of the model in the 1970s to how neuroscience confirms its relevance today, you’ll discover a practical roadmap for moving from struggle to sustainability.

To bring this to life, we follo...

In this episode, Molly kicks off Alcohol Awareness Month by shining a light on five pervasive myths about alcohol that many people still believe—and why they matter. These aren’t opinion-based takes or moralistic warnings. They’re data-backed truths designed to help you reassess your relationship with alcohol through the lens of science, compassion, and practicality.

Molly revisits commonly held beliefs like “red wine is good for your heart” and the idea that there’s a universally “safe” level of drinking. She also unpacks the misconceptions surrounding alcohol dependence, the blurred line between moderate and excessive drinking, and wh...

March is National Sleep Awareness Month, and in this Think Thursday episode, we’re revisiting one of the most overlooked—but absolutely essential—pillars of brain health: sleep.

Molly shares compelling new research from a December 2024 Yale School of Medicine study showing that sleeping too much or too little is linked to measurable brain changes that can precede stroke and dementia. If you're working to change your drinking habits or build better behaviors, understanding the role of sleep in neuroplasticity is critical.

This episode unpacks the science behind sleep and habit change, especi...

In this episode, Molly revisits one of the most important conversations around changing your relationship with alcohol—how shame can keep you stuck, and how to break free from the shame spiral.

This episode is a spring break replay, and for good reason—it’s one of Molly’s favorites and a foundational message for anyone working to become an alcohol minimalist.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Hey there, and welcome back to Think Thursday from the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast!

Today's episode explores why March might actually be a better time to start new habits than January. If you've struggled with keeping those ambitious New Year’s resolutions, this might be exactly what you need to hear.

What You’ll Learn:

Podcast Episode: Radical Transformation with Becca Jacobson

Welcome back to The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast! In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Becca Jacobson, an author, coach, and host of the Sober Living Snippets podcast. Becca’s journey is nothing short of extraordinary—her transformation from a life of addiction and secrecy to a thriving career as a college professor and now a sobriety coach is truly inspiring.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ How Becca overcame a lifetime of addiction and self-limiting beliefs
 ✅ The impact of secrecy and shame on mental h...

In this episode of Think Thursday, host Molly Watts explores an unconventional yet profoundly impactful idea: how thinking about death can actually help us live happier, more meaningful lives. Drawing from personal experiences, research, and books like Being Mortal by Atul Gawande and Briefly, Perfectly Human by Alua Arthur, Molly discusses how acknowledging our mortality enhances gratitude, presence, and purpose.

Key Takeaways

Episode Summary:
In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly Watts tackles one of the most frequently asked questions: How long will it take to feel at peace with my relationship with alcohol? If you’ve ever wondered whether 12 weeks, 30 days, or a year of effort will be enough, Molly breaks down why the answer is both simpler and more complex than you might think.

Key Takeaways:

In today’s Think Thursday episode, we’re diving into one of the most powerful, yet often overlooked, tools for behavior change: human connection. We’re not just talking about any connections, but deep, meaningful relationships—the kind that profoundly shape our brain, our well-being, and even our relationship with alcohol.

We’ll explore what I call the “Connection Economy”, where investing in quality relationships provides neurological, emotional, and physical benefits. Unlike the Attention Economy, which constantly pulls us into distraction and stress, the Connection Economy is where we all profit—gaining better mental health, stronger habits, and a more fulfi...

In this episode of Alcohol Minimalist, Molly speaks once again with Dr. Carl Erik Fisher, an addiction psychiatrist, author, and person in recovery, to discuss the complexities of addiction beyond just alcohol. We explore the fascinating (and often overlooked) intersection between behavioral addictions—like gambling—and substance use disorders.

Dr. Fisher recently penned a compelling piece for The New York Times about the public health consequences of gambling addiction, especially in light of the recent surge in sports betting. He shares insights on why we need to move beyond a binary approach to addiction—where you’re either "...

In this episode of Think Thursday, we dive into an often-overlooked aspect of brain health—mental rest. Not sleep, not meditation, but true cognitive downtime, the kind that helps your brain recover from the overwhelming levels of input we’re exposed to every day.

📢 Key Topics Discussed:

Episode Summary:

In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly Watts unpacks a common misconception that keeps people stuck in their drinking habits: the belief that “It’s just a habit.” While it may seem like a harmless or even helpful perspective, this thought can actually prevent meaningful change.

Molly discusses how drinking is not just a habit like brushing your teeth—it’s often an emotional response to deeper triggers. She explores how shifting your mindset from breaking a habit to addressing the underlying thoughts and emotions can lead to lasting, sustainable change.

If yo...

In this week’s Think Thursday, we’re diving deep into the science of awe—an often-overlooked emotion that has the power to shift our thinking, reduce stress, and deepen our connection to the world around us. Inspired by the book Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life by Dacher Keltner, this episode explores how awe isn’t just reserved for grand, life-changing moments but can be cultivated as a daily practice to improve our well-being.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

🔹 What awe really is and why it’s more t...

Episode Summary:

In this episode, host Molly Watts revisits a key discussion from 2022, exploring the challenge of changing your relationship with alcohol when you genuinely enjoy drinking. Molly shares insights on how to shift your habits without guilt, deprivation, or an all-or-nothing mindset. She discusses four key strategies for breaking the cycle of daily drinking while still being able to enjoy alcohol in moderation.

Molly also reflects on the launch of Step One, a foundational program that is now an integral part of Making Peace with Alcohol. She recounts her own journey...

Curiosity isn’t just a fun trait—it’s an essential function of the human brain that fuels learning, adaptability, and even emotional resilience. In today’s Think Thursday episode, I’m diving into the science of curiosity and how asking the right questions can supercharge your brain.

We’ll explore:
✅ How curiosity activates dopamine and enhances memory
✅ Why lifelong learning helps delay cognitive decline
✅ How curiosity strengthens emotional regulation and relationships
✅ Practical ways to reignite curiosity in your daily life

Curiosity is critical—not just for growth, but for thriving in every aspect of lif...

In this episode, Molly dives into a topic that resonates deeply with anyone struggling to build a peaceful relationship with alcohol: perfectionist or all-or-nothing thinking. Often disguised in subtle ways, this mindset can block progress and contribute to cycles of shame and guilt.
Molly uncovers how this cognitive distortion manifests in our drinking habits, why it keeps us stuck, and how to break free by understanding our mind’s powerful role in shaping behavior.

In this episode of Think Thursday, Molly dives into the surprising science behind silence and why it’s critical for brain health and emotional growth. While our modern lives are filled with noise, Molly reveals how even brief moments of intentional quiet can be a game-changer. From improving memory to reducing stress and enhancing creativity, learn why silence is more than just the absence of sound—it’s a tool for transformation.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

In this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast, Molly explores the topic of how drinking trends and behaviors have evolved across generations. 
From Baby Boomers and Gen X, who often normalized alcohol as a symbol of success and leisure, to Millennials and Gen Z, who prioritize mindfulness and wellness, this episode dives into what’s driving these shifts.

Molly draws on her personal experiences with family alcohol abuse and her journey to becoming an alcohol minimalist. She examines societal and cultural shifts, including how the normalization of after-work happy hours and weekend benders shaped older generations, and...

In this Think Thursday episode, Molly dives into the neuroscience of fear, mindset shifts, and the power of helping others to create a positive ripple effect on both our lives and mental well-being. She explores how shifting from fear to action through acts of generosity and kindness can help you step out of emotional paralysis and into purposeful living. Drawing on neuroscience and real-world studies, Molly shows that helping others isn’t just a good thing—it’s biologically rewarding and transformative for your brain and life.

Key Topics Covered:

 Welcome to this episode of The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast! 

As January winds down, we’re talking all about Dry January and the opportunity to finish strong. Whether you’ve stuck to your goals or stumbled along the way, this episode is here to inspire you to recommit, reflect, and take meaningful steps toward creating a peaceful relationship with alcohol.

Molly dives into the neuroscience behind habits, why your brain’s feedback loops matter, and how finishing what you start builds lasting change. You’ll learn why setbacks aren’t failures but opportunities to learn and grow. This e...