THE RADIO VAGABOND (Season 6 | Episode 220)

Trading Empty for Open with Palle Bo

(Season 6 | Episode 219)

[TESSA] Are you ready to flip the script on aging and discover a life wide open? On this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, hosts Amir and I welcome back a true legend of the open road, Palle Bo. Palle is the definition of an “Open Nester”—someone who decided that once the kids flew the coop, it was time to open the door to endless possibilities. Known as the “Radio Vagabond,” Palle traded his secure life in Denmark for...

Courage (Season 6 | Episode 219)

An Interview with Tessa & Amir

(Season 6 | Episode 219)

[TESSA] In this episode, we delve into the profound themes of relationships, sexuality, and spirituality as part of our exploration of how to embrace aging with vitality. As empty nesters transitioning to a phase of life filled with endless possibilities, my partner and I share our journey into being “open nesters,” a term capturing our commitment to experiences, adventure, and deeper connections rather than merely feeling the void left by our grown children. This season opener invites listeners to reflect on courage and...

Leaning in to Better Lives

with Alia & Hayden

(Season 5 | Episode 218)

[TESSA] In this compelling episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve deep into personal transformation, intergenerational healing, and the evolving dynamics of relationships in adulthood with guests Alia Stewart-Silver and Hayden. Both are navigating their unique journeys while pursuing a vision centered around eco-cultural regeneration and personal development. The discussion emphasizes the concept of “open nesting,” a mindset that cherishes the numerous possibilities that come with this dynamic life stage, rather than viewing it through the lens of emptiness.

Alia...

Reflect and Celebrate The Open Nesters (S5 | E217)

with Tessa and Amir

In this episode, we celebrate completing five seasons of The Open Nesters Podcast, a platform dedicated to redefining the empty nester experience. We take a moment to reflect on our journey and the incredible community we’ve built around the concept of “open nesting.” Instead of viewing the empty nest as a void, we embrace it as an opportunity for growth, adventure, and deeper relationships. By keeping our hearts and minds open, we invite listeners to explore the diverse possibilities that come with t...

Evolution, Intimacy (S5 | E216)

with Lara and Michael Blackin

[TESSA] In this episode, I sit down with Lara and Michael Blackin, visionaries behind Temple in the Trees, a vibrant new community center located in Leesburg, Virginia. We delve deep into the philosophy of open nesting—a refreshing take on the empty nester experience, inviting listeners to redefine what this life stage can mean. The Blackins embrace a mindset of unfettered growth and exploration, highlighting how their mid-life journey has been full of new relationships, passions, and adventures. Evolution, Intimacy

Lara and Michael sh...

THANK AND GROW RICH (S5 | E215)

with Pam Grout

The book “Thank & Grow Rich” is for anyone interested in hooking up with the magnanimous energy field of the cosmos. Author Pam Grout, who likes to call herself the Warren Buffet of Happiness, says it all starts with getting on the frequency of joy and gratitude.

Thank and Grow Rich

[TESSA] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve deep into the transformative power of gratitude and personal growth through a heartfelt interview with Pam Grout, the author of “Thank a...

Give Thanks (S5 | E214)

with Tessa and Amir

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve into the concept of open nesting, redefining what it means to be an empty nester. We explore the endless possibilities that arise when parents embrace new adventures, relationships, and passions. This week, as we approach Thanksgiving, we address the complexities of family dynamics, expectations, and the importance of gratitude during this unique holiday.

Give Thanks with Tessa and Amir

Thanksgiving serves as a focal point for families to gather, mending old conflicts...

The Permission to Desire (S5 | E213)

with Dr. David Freeman

In this episode, we continue our enlightening conversation with Dr. David Friedman, as we delve into the transformative journey of open nesting, vitality, spirituality, and the nuanced aspects of sexuality, including BDSM. As an open nester himself, David shares profound insights into how this life transition opens up new dimensions of exploration and personal growth. We navigate the complexities of changing relationships with adult children and the exciting possibilities that emerge when one embraces the open nesting philosophy, seeing it not as an end...

What Do Women Want? (S5 | E212)

with Vicki Larson

What Do Women Want?

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive deep into the world of open nesting with a returning guest, Vicki Larson, a researcher and writer who is flipping the script on aging for women. She challenges the stereotype that women over a certain age are invisible, irrelevant, or unworthy of vibrant experiences. Larson presents a powerful narrative that underscores the importance of curiosity, agency, and intention, advocating for a redefined vision of aging that’s far from bl...

From Engineer to Erotic Healer (S5 | E211)

with Dr. David Freeman

From Engineer…

This episode of The Open Nesters Podcast delves into the inspiring journey of Dr. David Freeman, who has transitioned from a successful engineering career to a life dedicated to exploring intimacy and sexual well-being. In this enlightening two-part conversation, we engage with David about the concept of “open nesting”—embracing new possibilities and experiences at this stage of life.

To Erotic Healer

David shares his unique insights on vuln

Relationship Anarchy (S5 | E210)

with Josh and Tammy

RELATIONSHIP ANARCY

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive deep into the dynamic and evolving relationship of Tammy and Josh, returning guests who previously shared their experiences with non-monogamy and emotional intimacy. With a lens focused on the complexities of open relationships, they reflect on their journey since their last appearance and how their connection has grown amidst challenges and changes.

Tammy shares her recent move to South Carolina, which marked a significant transition in her life, both geographically...

The Balance Between Us (S5 | E209)

with Tessa and Amir

THE BALANCE  BETWEEN US

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive into the often-asked questions we’ve received from our dedicated listeners and friends about embracing this unique stage of life we call “open nesting.” Rather than viewing ourselves as empty nesters, we embrace new opportunities for adventure, relationships, and personal growth. Together, we explore what it means to be open to endless possibilities, including the evolution of our connection through travel, interests, and valuing our individual journeys.

We be...

Becoming Beloved (S5 | E208)

with Kari and Steven Cardinale

BECOMING BELOVED

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we revisit a thought-provoking conversation with Kari and Steven Cardinale, experts in coaching and thought leadership. Kari, the Senior Vice President of Digital Strategy at the Modern Elder Academy, and Steven, an entrepreneur and author of “Synaptic Alchemy,” share insights into their journey of becoming open nesters and the transformative power of love and relationships at this stage of life.

We delve into the idea of open nesting, a concept that tran...

OUR COSMIC CURRICULUM (S5 | E207)

The Open Nesters Podcast

A SEASONED ASTROLOGER

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, Tessa engages with Eric Myers, a seasoned counseling astrologer and author, to explore the transformative journey of open nesting—where life beyond raising children opens doors to new adventures and personal growth. We dive deep into Eric’s unique background, starting with his early life in Connecticut and journey into spiritual exploration. His experience in transpersonal counseling psychology has shaped his distinctive approach to astrology, where he pairs psychological insights with metaphysical pers...

EXPANDING EROTIC PLEASURE AS WE AGE (S5 | E206)

The Open Nesters Podcast

THE PLEASURE MECHANICS (Chris and Charlotte)

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve into the concept of open nesting—embracing the opportunities and adventures that arise as we transition into a new phase of life. We are joined by Chris and Charlotte from The Pleasure Mechanics, who share their unique expertise in the realm of pleasure and intimate relationships. This engaging conversation reminds us that the empty nest doesn’t have to equate to loss or stagnation; inst...

Every Day is the Day (S5 | E205)

The Open Nesters Podcast

Every Day is the Day with Darcy and Gary

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we have the pleasure of continuing our engaging conversation with Gary and Darcy, who shed light on how they embrace the open nesting phase of life with passion and adventure. As they explore themes of aging, vitality, spirituality, and sexuality, they redefine what it means to be in an empty nest, promoting the exciting concept of being “open nesters”—ready to embrace endless possibilities. To exp...

Sex and Laughter with Joyce Saltman

(Season 5 | Episode 204)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, I explore the joy and laughter that come with the journey of aging and the phenomenon of open nesting. Conversing with my dear friend and mentor, Joyce Saltman, we dive deep into the many aspects of what it means to embrace life after our children have flown the coop. Joyce, an inspiring figure who seamlessly blends wit and wisdom, shares her experiences and insights from her life, including her personal adventures in dating, relationships, and the challenges...

Resilient Hearts, Perfect Match (S5 | E203)

The Open Nesters Podcast

Darcy and Gary

In this eye-opening two-part episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve into the transformative journey of our guests, Darcy and Gary, who have successfully navigated the complexities of grief, love, and personal growth in the open nesting phase of their lives. As they share their powerful stories, we explore how they have redefined what it means to edge into new beginnings, emphasizing that being an open nester is about embracing life’s possibilities rather than feeling empty.

...

Buckle Up and Strap On (S5 | E202)

The Open Nesters Podcast

Two Sex Educators, One Goal – Give Us All The Opportunity to Expand Our Sexual Horizons

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, Amir and Tessa introduce the concept of “open nesting,” redefining the experience of becoming an empty nester as an opportunity to embrace new adventures, relationships, and passions in the third act of life. They dive deep into the topic of sexuality and personal growth, bringing back an exciting encore from Season 2 featuring sex educators Reed Mahalko and Allison Moon...

Joy Among My Tears (S5 | E201)

with Guest: Audrey Carlson

The Journey of Healing Through Loss

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve deep into the incredible journey of resilience and growth through immense tragedy with our guest, Audrey Carlson. A mother, grandmother, and a source of inspiration, Audrey shares her poignant story of navigating profound loss while cultivating a life filled with gratitude and purpose. We explore the concept of open nesting—embracing the freedom and opportunities that come in the later stages of life rather than vi...

Not Your Grandma’s Monogamy (S5 | E200)

The Open Nesters Podcast

Dr. Tammy Nelson | Not Your Grandmother’s Monogamy

[Tessa] In this episode, we revisit a compelling conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson, a prominent sex therapist and author of “Open Monogamy.” I had the distinct pleasure of discussing the dynamic landscape of relationships, particularly the concepts of polyamory and open relationships, and how they can lead to deeper happiness and fulfillment for some individuals, especially women. Dr. Nelson provides insightful perspectives on the evolving definitions of monogamy and emphasizes that non-monogamous arrangements are not...

Changing Aging

(The Open Nesters Podcast Season 5 | Episode 199)

Changing Aging

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, Amir takes the reins to share his personal journey regarding aging and dating as he reflects on turning 70. He expresses both excitement and a touch of nervousness at the prospect of hosting an episode solo for the first time. With Tessa, the usual guide and producer, cheering him on, Amir dives deep into the emotional landscape of aging, unveiling his transition from fearing his age to embracing it.

As Amir recounts...

Changing Aging

(The Open Nesters Podcast Season 5 | Episode 198)

Changing Aging

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive deep into the transformative journey of redefining what it means to be an open nester, guided by the insights of Dr. Bill Thomas and his daughter Jude Thomas. We explore the multifaceted dimensions of aging, tackling the misconception that this stage of life is marked solely by decline. Instead, we present it as an opportunity for growth, adventure, and enrichment in every aspect of life, including relationships, spirituality, and creativity.

Dating, Ghosted and Opening after 60 (S5 | E197)

[Tessa]

This episode features an enlightening conversation with Shakti Sundari, who shares her transformative experiences as a single mother and her journey into self-discovery and conscious dating. Living in Glastonbury, UK, Shakti brings a unique perspective on parenting, relationships, and personal growth after dedicating over twenty years to teaching sexual and spiritual awakening for women. As her children have grown into young adults, she embraces her transition into a new phase of life, emphasizing that the empty nest is not a void but a space of endless...

“Open Nest”: Redefining Love After Children Leave Home (S5 | E196)

[Tessa]

As children leave the home, parents often find themselves at a new life stage, ripe for rediscovering themselves and their relationships. This is the essence of being an “open nester,” a mindset that embraces new adventures and possibilities in love, intimacy, and connection. Sumati Sparks, our guide, highlights the importance of releasing outdated beliefs and societal programming. She encourages a deeper understanding of personal desires and the freedom that can come with exploring consensual non-monogamy. Sumati carefully distinguishes between open rel...

Bella Brooks: How Divorce Led to Self-Discovery and Open Relationships (S5 | E195)

[Tessa]

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve into the transformative journey of open nesting and the richness of personal relationships with Bella Brooks, a sexuality educator and intimacy coach. Bella shares her compelling story of rediscovery following her divorce in 2017, which became a pivotal moment that propelled her into exploring her identity as a part-time empty nester. This experience opened a new chapter in her life, leading her to embrace polyamory and to learn how to navigate relationships...

How to Celebrate Your Hot Flashes (S5 | E194)

Beyond the Hot Flashes: Embracing the “Open Nester” Life Through Menopause and Beyond

[Tessa]

Welcome back, Open Nesters! Tessa here, and I’m thrilled to take you on a journey revisiting one of our most impactful episodes to date: Episode 33, where we dove deep into the often-misunderstood world of menopause. This conversation was truly special, and it resonated with so many of you, so I felt it was essential to bring some of those powerful insights back to the forefront.

Our in...

Best Sex Ever After Menopause (S5 | E193)

with Dr. Carol Remz

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive into the transformative journey of aging gracefully while embracing our sexuality and vitality. As open nesters, we explore the notion that life is full of possibilities beyond the constraints of a traditional empty nest. Our guest, Dr. Carol Remz, an inspiring 80-year-old author, shares her rich insights from her critically acclaimed book, “The Best Sex Ever After Menopause.” We discuss the myriad ways women can reclaim their sensuality after significant life changes such...

Finding Purpose at Any Age (S5 | E192)

with Pat Whitty

[Tessa] In this episode of the Open Nester podcast, we revisit a heartfelt conversation with Pat Whitty, a cherished voice from the Modern Elder Academy, who shares profound insights accumulated over his 78-year journey. Pat emphasizes the importance of slowing down amidst the chaos of life, allowing for deep reflection on connection, meaning, purpose, and legacy, which he believes are essentials for continual growth at any age.

From Empty to Open: Reimagining Family Bonds in the Nesting Transition

with Zev Aaron (S5 | E191)

[Tessa] Zev Aaron, Transformational Coach, brings such a profound understanding to family life. Being the youngest of a big, blended family, he got a front-row seat to the whole “empty nest” journey even before it was his turn. He watched his parents navigate it as the last of his siblings left, and that really shaped his perspective. From a special education teacher to a Yale researcher, his path led him to become this amazing family coach. He’s not a...

My Adult Child Won’t Talk to Me:

Finding Hope and a Path Forward (S5 | E190)

[Tessa] In this episode, we delve deeply into the sensitive topic of parent-child estrangement with Dr. Joshua Coleman, an established expert in the field and the author of the impactful book, *Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflict*. Joined by Jonathan Pellett, a filmmaker and a father who has personally experienced the pain of estrangement with his daughter, we explore the complex emotions surrounding this issue. Dr. Coleman reflects on his ow...

Radical Living & the Big Ass Calendar: Marni Batista on Open Nesting, Intentional Living, and Midlife Reinvention

Open Nesters Podcast Episode (S5 | E189)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming back Marni Batista, who has recently released her insightful book on radical living and personal growth. Our conversation delved into the transformative concept of open nesting—a mindset shift that encourages embracing new adventures and relationships as we transition into this next phase of life. Our discussion highlighted how this period can be an opportunity for rediscovery, fo...

Awakening the Feminine: Moira Cormack on Tantra, Motherhood & Empowerment after 50

Open Nesters Podcast Episode (S5 | E188)

[Tessa] Moira Cormack, a passionate advocate for womanhood and personal evolution, shares her transformative journey in an engaging conversation recorded at the Open Nesters podcast.

Set against the picturesque backdrop of Moira’s Edinburgh, Scotland, the interview delves deep into our guest’s experiences as a mother of four daughters and her exploration of femininity, personal empowerment, and the practice of Tantra. From her early days of motherhood—raising twins as a young woman who had just m...

Reinventing Life After 50: Maria Leonard Olsen on Resilience, Sobriety, and Embracing Change

Open Nesters Podcast Episode (S5 | E187)

[Tessa] In this episode of the Open Nesters podcast, we engage in an enlightening discussion with Maria Leonard Olsen, a dynamic figure whose journey of transformation resonates powerfully with those navigating life’s challenges, especially after 50. Maria, a litigator and author of the book “50 After 50: Reframing the Next Chapter of Your Life,” shares her story of resilience and reinvention following significant life changes, including a divorce, sobriety, and the transition of becoming an empty nester.

Mari...

The Grace of Growing Older: Embracing Elderhood and Sacred Time (S5 | E186)

with Rabbi Dayle A. Friedman

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, I had the privilege of hosting Rabbi Dayle Friedman, whose rich spiritual insights on aging and the transition into open nesting resonate deeply with those seeking meaning in this new stage of life. Rabbi Friedman, an experienced rabbi and spiritual director, shares her journey, exploring the profound opportunities for connection, reflection, and personal growth that accompany the aging process.

Learn more about Rabbi Dayle A. Friedman...

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Rediscovering Desire: A Conversation with Sex Educator Pamela Madsen (S5 | E185)

[Tessa] In this episode of Open Nesters, we celebrate the fifth anniversary of our podcast with a revisit to one of our most impactful episodes featuring Pamela Madsen, a notable author and educator known for her work in sensuality and personal growth. I have the privilege of having Pamela share her insights into the liberating journey of embracing our somatic truth as we age, which is particularly resonant for women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s who find themselves navigating transitions in both body and...

Rediscovering Purpose: How Adventure Travel Helped This Empty Nester Heal, Grow, and Thrive (S5 | E184)

with Stacey Funt

[Tessa] This episode features an enlightening conversation with Stacey Funt, a physician, radiologist, and adventure traveler who offers deep insights into navigating the transition of becoming an open nester. Stacey shares her personal journey, which includes embracing the unexpected challenges that come with this life stage, particularly the grief following the loss of family members and the departure of her children to college. As a new empty nester, she begins to confront her own mortality, a...

THE RADIO VAGABOND (FULL EPISODE – S5 | E183)

with Palle Bo

THE RADIO VAGABOND – EPISODE 205

[Tessa] While Amir and I are busy at work making more Open Nester Podcast episodes for you, we are thrilled to share this episode from The Radio Vagabond.

The Radio Vagabond is a travel podcast created and hosted by Danish radio producer Palle Bo. In 2016, at the age of 50, Bo made the life-changing decision to sell his house, car, and nearly all his possessions to become a full-time digital nomad, with the ambitious goal of visiting ever...

AN END TO ARGUING (S5 | E182)

with Linda and Charlie Bloom

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we delve into the transformative journey of couples as they transition from traditional empty nesting to a more expansive and vibrant phase, which we call open nesting. I’m excited to introduce Linda and Charlie Bloom, seasoned social workers, educators, and authors with a wealth of experience in nurturing deeper relationships. Married since 1972, they bring to our discussion profound insights gleaned from their enduring bond and extensive professional background.

AN END TO ARGUING Duration: 00:00:00

Love Relationship & Sexuality Sampler

[Tessa] In this sampler episode of Open Nesters, Tessa and Amir explore how couples can rekindle intimacy and redefine relationships as children leave home, sharing strategies and real-life insights for navigating this transformative phase. It’s a Love Relationship & Sexuality Sampler.

Relationships, Love and Sexuality

In this special sampler episode of the Open Nesters podcast, we take a reflective journey through our four seasons, focusing on the most impactful themes that resonate with our listeners — relationships, love, and sexuality. As Tessa and Amir, we dive into the...

“Embracing Aging: Ashton Applewhite on Fighting Ageism, Wisdom, and the Joys of Act III

An Open Nesters Encore Presentation

In this episode, Amir and I reflect on the conclusion of Season One and the upcoming content that delves deeper into key topics surrounding aging.  The focus here pivots to the enlightening conversation with Ashton Applewhite, an advocate against ageism and author of “This Chair Rocks: A Manifesto Against Ageism.”

“Embracing Aging: Ashton Applewhite on Fighting Ageism, Wisdom, and the Joys of Act III

Deepen Your Relationships with AI

An Introduction to the Bonds App (S5 | E181)

Deepen Your Relationships with AI

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive into the transformative concept of “open nesting,” which invites listeners to embrace new adventures, relationships, and passions during this exciting life stage. We challenge the notion of being an empty nester, celebrating instead the rich possibilities that come with reimagining our lives as our children transition into adulthood. As the conversation unfolds, I introduce Daphna and Lior, founders of an innovative new app...

Loving Without Boundaries

with Kitty Chambliss (S5 | E180)

In this episode of Loving Without Boundaries, hosted by Kitty Chambliss, Tessa and Amir from the Open Nesters podcast return for an enlightening reunion after four years since their last appearance. Their previous discussion focused on their burgeoning journey into polyamory, and now, they reflect on how their understanding and experience have deepened over time. With the passage of four years filled with growth, exploration, and profound transformations in their relationships, Tessa and Amir share the lessons they’ve gleaned and the ways their pr...

 Revealing Pleasure – The P.A.R.N. Approach to Play and Intimacy

with Steve and Shane (S5 | E179)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive deep into the concept of “open nesting,” a refreshing take on the empty nest phase of life. Instead of viewing the absence of children as a void, we explore how it can lead to an abundance of new experiences, connections, and personal growth. Amir and I had the pleasure of welcoming back Shane Kulman, one of our favorite guests from Season One, who is join...

Authentic Aging & Sensuality After Empty Nest

Maria DiSalvo Interview (S5 | E177)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive into the vibrant life of Maria DiSalvo, whose journey exemplifies the essence of being an open nester.

With her children grown and launched into their own lives, Maria embodies the philosophy of embracing new adventures, relationships, and passions that come with this transformative stage. Our conversation serves as an engaging introduction to our Love and Sexuality Month, exploring the personal and societal narratives surrounding intimacy and self-discovery.

Reflections on Transcendence and Growth

with Tessa

(Season 5 | Episode 176)

[Tessa] Welcome welcome 2025. Such a year this is going to be for us all!!!

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, I dive into the concept of open nesting, redefining this phase of life as not merely an empty nest but a vibrant stage filled with new adventures, relationships, and revitalized passions. I share a few reflections on the recent challenges faced by many, particularly due to the devastating fires in California, and emphasize the importance of addressing fundamental human...

Tessa and Amir Season 5

(Season 5 | Episode 175)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we continue to reimagine open nesting as we reflect on our journey into Season 5.

Open nesting, a mindset that embraces new adventures, relationships, and passions, rather than viewing an empty nest as a loss.

Join us, Tessa and Amir, as we explore how we have navigated the past year, celebrating the milestones and the insightful conversations that have enriched our lives.

As we wind down Season 4 and look ahead to 2025, we share the...

Thin Threads Where Creativity Meets Risk

with Kevin Frest

(Season 4 | Episode 174)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we have an enlightening conversation with Kevin Frest, a leading publisher, agent and photographer. Kevins’ career is extremely interesting. In Kevin’s own words: 

I came from Gary, Indiana. I had to go somewhere so I chose San Francisco thinking I might end up in New York. I started this whole international publishing company….

The big takeaway for me is seize the day, do it, and don’t wait and...

Kids, Identity and Thanksgiving

with Tessa and Amir

(Season 3 | Episode 143)

[TESSA] On the surface it is a joyous American celebration. Thanksgiving. Yet dangers lurk in this annual gathering of family around the table.

Today we spend some time working through the relationships we have with our older children. When the ties are strained or even broken Thanksgiving can be a dark holiday. In our wonderfully open society, it could be that kids come out at Thanksgiving. Or we learn that they are exploring new sexual and relationship paths that we...

The Emotional Path

MIND SPIRIT MEDITATE with Dr. Dawson Church

(Season 4 | Episode 173)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we have an enlightening conversation with Dr. Dawson Church, a leading expert on the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and neuroscience. We delve into the rich themes surrounding the idea of open nesting, a mindset that encourages exploration and growth as we navigate what many refer to as the ’empty nest’ phase of life. Dr. Church introduces the concept of resilience, emphasizing how our later years can be filled with vitality, purpose, joy...

Aging and Eroticism

with Anne More

(Season 4 | Episode 172)

[Tessa] In this episode, we engage with Anne More, a returning guest whose insights on aging and eroticism resonate deeply with our journey as open nesters. We explore the concept of “open nesting”—a vibrant approach to life after children have left home.

This discussion is enriched by Anne’s expertise in boundaries, sensuality, and the celebration of aging. Our focus is not just on surviving this stage of life, but thriving by opening ourselves up to new possibilities in relationships, passions, and self...

Playing with the Unexpected

with Laura & Izzy

(Season 4 | Episode 171)

[Tessa] In this episode of the Open Nesters podcast we’re playing with the unexpected!

What a rich conversation with Laura and Izzy!! This is a dynamic couple who embody the evolving landscape of relationships after Laura’s children left the nest. The discussion dives deep into the challenges and triumphs of navigating life in Act 3, exploring themes of family obligations, autonomy, and the complexities of a non-traditional partnership.

Laura, previously married with two grown children and grandchildren, reflects on h...

Normalizing Sexuality, Aging and Menopause

What is Your Pleasurespan?

(Season 4 | Episode 170)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive deep into the vibrant world of open relationships with returning guests CJ, Linwood and their partner April. Our conversation explores the transformative experiences of modern relationships, particularly as they relate to the concept of “open nesting.” We are reminded that entering this new chapter of life offers not an end, but endless possibilities, exciting adventures, and rich connections.

EPISODE TIME-CODE

Finding Freedom & Meaningful Connections

Mission & Minimalism in the Empty Nest with Cameron Syke

(Season 4 | Episode 169)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, I sit down with Cameron Syke, a man whose journey through the complexities of relationships and personal growth perfectly embodies the spirit of the open nesting philosophy. We explore how this stage of life, often viewed through a lens of emptiness, can instead be a doorway to newfound adventures, friendships, and deeper life meanings. Cameron’s story is not only heartfelt; it holds valuable lessons about love, loss, an...

Body Wisdom Aging Sex & Self

with Suzanne Noble

(Season 4 | Episode 168)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we explore the transformative journey of embracing aging, sexuality, and new adventures with our guest, Suzanne Noble. Our conversation dives deep into the heart of what it means to be an “open nester,” a term that celebrates the possibilities that come with the children leaving home while rejecting the label of “empty nester.” I am thrilled to welcome Suzanne back as we discuss her insights on evolving relationships with passion and vitality in our late...

Self Expression in Open Love with Tessa & Amir

with Tessa & Amir

(Season 4 | Episode 167)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we explore the concept of embracing an open life during our third act, challenging the traditional narrative of being an empty nester. Together, Amir and I delve into the thrilling possibilities of adventure, personal growth, and the deepening of relationships that come with this stage of life.

We discuss how redefining our identities can open our hearts and homes to new experiences, friendships, and even aspects of sensuality...

A 30 Day Boyfriend, A Journey of Sobriety, and Beyond

with Wanda and Christopher

(Season 4 | Episode 166)

[Tessa]  In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, Wanda Webster and Christopher Mack share their journey and work in healing, recovery, and transformation.

Christopher discusses his 24 years of sobriety, starting in 2000, and the impact of trauma on addiction. He delves into his unique approach to healing and energy work, showcasing his ability to help others overcome challenges and achieve significant transformations. Wanda emphasizes the importance of inner exploration and discovering one’s gifts and abi...

Fearless in Bali: A Single Mom’s Journey

with Jessica Seiders

(Season 4 | Episode 165)

[Tessa] Join us as we dive into the inspiring journey of Jessica Seiders on The Open Nesters Podcast.

Jessica shares her transformation from an empty nester to an open nester, embracing new adventures, relationships, and passions. After feeling lost and disconnected upon her daughter leaving for college, Jessica decided to take a leap of faith. She sold her belongings, quit her job, and embarked on a solo journey to find herself.

EPISODE TIME-CODE

Dominatrix and Submissive: Exploring Power Dynamics

with Heather Hundhausen

(Season 4 | Episode 164)

[Tessa] Heather Hundhausen is our guest this week on The Open Nesters Podcast. We continue our conversation – it has been a few years since we first met Heather in Episode 43, Paradoxical Power and Healing with the Dominatrix.

Today our focus shifts towards embracing open nesting and exploring new adventures in Act Three of life. Guest Heather Hundhausen, a coach and dominatrix, joins Amir and me to delve into the complexities of power dynamics in relationships. Heather candidly shares her ex...

Living Life Boldly, Your Move

with Steve Kantor

(Season 4 | Episode 163)

[Tessa] Steve Kantor is our guest this week on The Open Nesters Podcast.

We discusses the concept of open nesting and living life boldly. He shares his personal journey, from being a serial entrepreneur to becoming an open nester after a major life-decision to leave his marriage. Steve emphasizes the importance of self-confidence, morning routines, and mental preparation in pursuing one’s passions during the open nesting stage.

EPISODE TIME-CODE

Mothering Love and Success – Part Two

with Tami Nora, Leslie Russell and Tessa

(Season 4 | Episode 162)

[Tessa]  MOTHERHOOD! Today it’s Part 2. And, just letting you know – we are really excited about this mini-series about mothering with Tami Nora and Leslie Russell. To listen to Part One click here: PART ONE. And to catch up we have a few clips from Part One on this page.

Why so excited? Well the response so far has been really positive! Lots of love coming towards these amazing women. So let’s get into it.

Mothering Love and Success – Part One

with Tami Nora, Leslie Russell and Tessa

(Season 4 | Episode 161)

[Tessa]  MOTHERHOOD! Today we highlight the importance of deep listening in parenting. The conversation includes guests Leslie Russell and Tami Nora, discussing their experiences with motherhood and the challenges and surprises they have encountered.

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Come Back to Love

with Robyn Vogel

(Season 4 | Episode 160)

[Tessa] A new friend on the podcast this week. Welcome Robyn Vogel to our Open Nesters Family!

Robyn Vogel from Come Back to Love, is a wise Open Nester offering insights and advice, especially for single women. Robyn shares her personal journey of becoming an open nester, navigating loss, divorce, and embracing open-mindedness and open-heartedness in relationships.

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Walking for Comfort, Vitality, and Inspiration

with Bruce Fertman

(Season 4 | Episode 159)

[Tessa] This week on The Open Nesters Podcast:  We explore embracing movement for graceful aging with author Bruce Fertman.

Balance. Vitality. Mindfulness... in the “open nest” stage of life. We explore the transformative power of walking for holistic well-being

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Catastrophe Soup

Ingredients for Reinvention

(Season 4 | Episode 158)

[Tessa] The Open Nesters podcast – this week with Margery and Dom. We’re calling it “CATASTROPHE SOUP.”

This Open Nesters podcast features a conversation with Margery and Dom Piccini, a couple who share their journey as they transition into the open nesting stage of life. They reflect on their experiences as their children left home and they faced financial hardships, ultimately leading to a period of reinvention. Margery discusses her shift from a successful mortgage broker to a life and business coach, incorporating her pers...

Viva Monogamy

with Mali and Joe

(Season 4 | Episode 157)

[Tessa] The Open Nesters podcast – this week with Mali and Joe.

Mali and Joe share insights from their book “Wild Monogamy,” discussing challenges faced in promoting it and the importance of investing in relationships. They explore topics like handling jealousy, social media’s impact, and sustaining connection through activities like date weekends.

About The Book

Wild Monogamy: Cultivating Erotic Intimacy to Keep Passion and Desire Alive

National Indie Excellence Awards: Gold Medal
Living Now Book Awards...

Home Everywhere and Nowhere

with Jonathan Pillot

(Season 4 | Episode 156)

[Tessa] He’s back! My dear friend Jonathan Pillot.

Jonathan is a creator, an explorer, and a man who is constantly challenging the norms. Each time we meet he brings me so much that is new. And so I am thrilled to have Jonathan back on the pod.

In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, Jonathan shares his personal journey of self-discovery and open nesting. He discusses open nesting, embracing nomadic living, and freeing oneself from societal labels. Jo...

Relationship Fluidity in the Empty Nest

with Dr. Tammy Nelson

(Season 4 | Episode 155)

[Tessa] The Open Nesters podcast with Dr. Tammy Nelson.

Today we explore open relationships and non-monogamy, emphasizing communication and boundaries. Tammy and I discuss societal acceptance of diverse relationship models, from traditional monogamy to polyamory. Dr. Nelson introduces the Date Night Card Deck for intimate conversations and mentions a couples retreat in Joshua Tree. The episode highlights the importance of continuous communication and respect in navigating non-traditional relationships.

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0:01:15 Dr. Tammy Nelson’s Expertise Duration: 00:35:11

Infidelity, and the Empty Nest

with Gordon & Jenn

(Season 4 | Episode 154)

[Tessa] In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we hear from Jenn and Gordon as they share their journey from swinging lifestyles to polyamory. They discuss the importance of communication, honesty, and setting boundaries as they navigate blended families and transition into an open relationship. Jenn and Gordon highlight the growth in their relationship, self-discovery, and the support of a community. Hosts Amir and Tessa reflect on the significance of communication and community in unconventional relationships, offering resources for those exploring...

Why Slowing Down Builds Intimacy

with Dr. Karen Berry

(Season 4 | Episode 153)

[Tessa] Welcome to The Open Nesters Podcast! In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Karen Berry, an experienced marriage and sex therapist with a soulful, spiritual approach that resonates with us as Open Nesters. We kick off our Love, Sex, and Intimacy series for February by diving into the importance of intimacy and how it can be expanded in partnerships.

Dr. Berry highlights the complexity and acquired taste of intimacy, emphasizing the connection between grief, loss, and the...

Spiritual Cross Training

with Benjamin Shalva

(Season 4 | Episode 152)

[Tessa] I have known of Rabbi Benjamin Shalva for over a decade. I can think back to when my kids were all at home and even then his words connected with me.

I read his book, Spiritual Cross Training: Searching Through Silence, Stretch, and Song, and was greatly inspired. Equally wonderful is his book, Ambition Addiction: How to Go Slow, Give Thanks, and Discover Joy Within.

About Rabbi Shalva

Benjamin Shalva’s poetry and prose have appeared in Im...

Sobriety and the Empty Nest

A Panel Discussion

(Season 4 | Episode 151)

[Tessa] Something particularly special for you… and SO early in the year!

Kelvin, Andrea, and Dede have a lot to say about their own very touching stories. They are ‘open books’ about their alcoholic and addicted pasts, and we can learn quite a bit from their lives. The Open Nesters Podcast presents a panel discussion on sobriety (drugs and alcohol). Our panelists are intimately informed on this topic. On the panel we have:

KELVIN YOUNG

Kelvin Young...

Season IV | The Open Nesters Podcast

AND… WE LAUNCH!

(Season 4 | Episode 150)

[Tessa] Amir and I discuss the many themes we have covered across our first three seasons. What we like. Candid conversations. How discussions about grief can be invigorating. How these 75 hours of programming have affected our relationship.

And we announce that we are going to a bi-monthly broadcast schedule. We’re so glad you are along for the ride. It’s season IV and we are thrilled to be with you again for another year.

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Dry January in the Empty Nest

A Panel Discussion

(Season 3 | Episode 149)

[Tessa] Do you observe a dry January? Do you need (!) a dry January?

The Open Nesters Podcast presents a panel discussion on sobriety (drugs and alcohol). And the panelists are intimately informed on this topic. On the panel we have:

KELVIN YOUNG

Kelvin Young is an award-winning sound healer and co-founder of Soul Care Love, LLC. He has been sober from alcohol and other drugs since March, 6th 2009. Kelvin received his recovery coaching training at...

Trust and the Empty Nest (Part 2)

with Tessa and Amir

(Season 3 | Episode 148)

[Tessa] Empty The gift of space. Room to grow. Room to play.

We talk about giving each other space in this short episode. Part 2 of our intimate episode about trust and generosity. And in reviewing our conversation I can see that we interpret the word generosity in a novel way. The generosity of time and space. Giving your partner the freedom to explore what excites them. Not getting in the way. Encouraging life experiences that might very well...

Trust and the Empty Nest

with Tessa and Amir

(Season 3 | Episode 147)

[Tessa] Empty Nest Generosity. Trust. Responsibilities. Big Words… and lots for Amir and me to discuss this week.

We refer a lot to what we learned in Season 3 | Episode 108 with Jessica Fern.

H  E  A  R  T

Jessica Fern is a polyamorous psychotherapist. Her ground-breaking new book, Polysecure, looks at how attachment theory shapes and plays out in non-monogamous relationships.

REFERENCED (for polysecure and simply the trust we discuss in this episode)

Empty Nest Love (in the Love Lab)

with Sue Jaye and Joe

(Season 3 | Episode 146)

[Tessa] You know that sense of wonder you have when you read an exhaustive and brilliant piece in The New Yorker? Or maybe when the New York Times just delivers something eye-popping on The Daily Podcast or in the Sunday Edition of the paper? Or how impressed you are sometimes when you hear Anna Sale or Ira Glass or the Radiolab guys blow your mind?

Well – get ready. You’re going to feel that when you list...

The Radio Vagabond

Still on the Road with Palle Bo (S3 | E145)

[Tessa] WE LOVE PALLE BO!

Again and Again… and Again!

Today we break a record. Palle Bo is the first three-time guest on our show. Well deserved!

Yes – our staff listens to Palle’s world-class podcast, The Radio Vagabond, each week. Amir and I love to travel and, even when we are state-side, we can travel along with Palle through his podcast. I guess we’re a bunch of vagabonds at The Open Nesters Podcast...

KINK & POLY

Reflections by Amir

(Season 3 | Episode 142)

[AMIR] Reflections on a past episode. A highly stimulating, kinky and sexy episode from Season 2 (Buckle and Strap On). In some ways I hope you missed this one and that we can reflect on it here. Then you can go back and listen to the whole thing… afterward. I excerpt my favorite points in my first solo episode in our three seasons of The Open Nesters. And I have to say it is really a pleasure to muse on.. kinky pleasure and pursuits.

As...

Deciding Without Fear

with Paul and Peg

(Season 3 | Episode 141)

[TESSA] We have Peg and Paul this week on The Open Nesters Podcast. As I listened to our work after doing the interview it was like eavesdropping on one of a million conversations that 60-something’s are having all over the world. I think the value here is to hear how others make their decisions and hedge, and bob and weave… and – basically… live.

To continue the conversation jump on our private Facebook group or send me a note at tessa@theopenn...

Flirting with Mortality

Your Legacy with Kit Pappenheimer

(Season 3 | Episode 140)

[TESSA] This is an emotional episode. With the crisis in Israel and the passing of my father a few months ago, I really needed to speak with Kit Pappenheimer. You may remember, from season two, our conversation with Kit and her husband, Jeff: Love in the Third Third of Act III. If not you might revisit that one. We had a wide-ranging conversation about their past lives and their current relationship. We discussed Jeff’s fascinating business venture and Kit’s work duri...

Don’t Let Age Get in the Way

with Ashton Applewhite and Kyrie Carpenter

(Season 3 | Episode 139)

[TESSA]  This episode is all about NOT trying to stay young. Because, if you think about it… none of us are going to stay young.

Rather this episode is about all that goes with aging. In fact, we spend a considerable amount of time talking about ageism. We take a hard look at the names we ascribe to ourselves and to others as we grow older. What about that comment we hear and may even...

A Male Tradition of Mentorship and Wisdom

with Adam and Isaac Paulman

(Season 3 | Episode 138)

[TESSA] We have an interesting experiential journey across a 50-minute interview with father and son, Adam and Isaac. Adam (the father) explains Cuddle Party and the importance of human touch. Isaac (the son) teaches us about nature through his adoption of the Japanese practice known as Forest Bathing.

BEING RELEASED: Isaac had so much to say about himself being “released” by his father to go out and explore his world. And he recently “released” his son (at a rel...

Late Bloomer’s Success

with Tessa & Amir

(Season 3 | Episode 137)

[TESSA] It is Q&A Time with Amir. We’re going to cover a lot of ground in about 25 minutes so buckle your seatbelts.

I want to call this one “no holds barred” questioning. This is in some ways my chance to do an on-air Q&A with Amir… to tap into his thinking on ACT III of life. The topic is Late Bloomer’s Success.

It turns out Amir is indeed a late bloomer. From kissing, to sex to marriage...

Choices That Matter

with Kim DeYoung

(Season 3 | Episode 136)

[TESSA] Our guest this week, Kim DeYoung, is the Choice coach, author of The Book of Choice and host of The Voice of Choice. Kim’s particular kind of genius is helping thoughtful people make intentional choices that allow them to live more examined lives. By making conscious choices, they become who they want to be.

Kim shares a number of stories about her children. I loved her interaction with her 24-year-old son (and his college buddies). They meet multiple times each ye...

Creative Passions in Act III

Tessa and PJ Chat it Out

(Season 3 | Episode 135)

[TESSA] It’s like bringing the band together – in this case for the first time on the air. Tessa, Amir… and Mr. PJ. PJ Ewing has been a part of our podcast troop since the beginning. We have learned so much about how to build our show to the success that it is together. We feed off one another. The concept that captures what we do is “cross-pollination.” I have a theme idea, Amir validates and expands on it, PJ visuali...

Dream Big, Live Courageously!

with Marni and Jeremy

(Season 3 | Episode 134)

[TESSA] Courage… friend of the podcast… courage!!!

These two, Jeremy Crane and Marni Batista, are just like you. They want a lot out of life. They know that there are risks to making big decisions. They are not “made of money.”

What defines them is that they have this little thing called courage. Plus they are not afraid to dream big. But what does that mean in real life?

For Marni and Jeremy, it meant divorce. Dating...

Living from the Wisdom of Silence

with Edi Pasalis

(Season 3 | Episode 133)

[TESSA] The wisdom of silence. It brings so much to mind. When you consider that word what do you think about? Yoga? A pause in your day? A morning ritual? The times in between? Contemplation.

As it turns out silence is a thing you can practice. It can help you become more familiar with your own self. A means of feeling your body and looking at your mind. Just the act of inhaling and exhaling has a space in...

Failure is Our Friend

with Terry Clarke Murphy

(Season 3 | Episode 132)

[TESSA] A dear friend as a guest means a meaningful episode.

Terry Clarke Murphy. I know this lady so well. From the time that our children were running around the backyard naked and we were breastfeeding on the back porch to recent days following her passion and practice of helping people. Soulful Sidney Explores Diversity, the book, comes to mind.

Act III: Dream Big, Dream Small

with Tessa and Amir

(Season 3 | Episode 131)

[TESSA] Gloves off!

Amir and I go at it (in the most loving way possible) about the nature of dreams. Big and small. Dreams of life’s Act III. We have very different approaches to many things, including this idea of a dream. While we have a robust conversation about the topic, maybe it is helpful to see what the word means in its many contexts.

Britannica Dictionary definition of DREAM

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Evolutionary Family, Partnership & Vision for Earth

with Alia & Hayden

(Season 3 | Episode 130)

[TESSA] This is our second entry into our new Voices of Millennials and Gen Z series.

Hayden and Alia visit us from two very different places for this interview. Hayden in Durango, Colorado. Alia in Latk Atitlan, Guatemala.

The word that comes to mind from our conversation with these two highly innovative people is “cultivate.” Hayden and Alia have cultivated so many aspects of the world around them: communities, relationships, bonds, even the food from the land on a...

Women & Community

with Lillian Taylor

(Season 3 | Episode 129)

[TESSA] Women live longer. Just a fact of life. That means that there are a lot more women than men living deeper into ACT III of life. And that can lead to loneliness. Enter Lillian Taylor and community building among women. Lillian takes us through how her interest in an online life many years ago has translated into new meaningful relationships “in real life” or what we’ll call offline.

One example of a female community that has gathered so many women together is Mod...

Monogamish 101

with Dan and Mary

(Season 3 | Episode 128)

[TESSA] This week: Mary and Dan, two people who are living their best lives… after the kids have left the nest.

To me, it seems like these two are “finally” living their best lives. And I appreciate the lives they lived before finding each other. Marriages and child-rearing are all-encompassing and absolutely worthy of our admiration. It’s tough.

That said, finding ecstatic, conscious, dance, exploring new partners and a monogamish lifestyle, and just feeling free to do what they want to do, a...

The Precipice of Readiness

with Nancy Colier

NOTE: THIS ONE IS FOR MOMS

(Season 3 | Episode 127)

[TESSA] We are so pleased to introduce to you the psychotherapist, interfaith minister, and author Nancy Colier. And let me say this too, as you will hear in this episode, Nancy is an incredible mom of a 12 and 20-year-old (both girls).

A Mother’s Individuation

And we start there. How to create space for your older children to move ahead ON THEIR OWN with life as opposed to clinging to them? Yet...

Aligning Our Values in Act III of Life (S3 | E126)

Series: Are You Ready for Act III?

(Season 3 | Episode 126)

[TESSA] This is the beginning of a new series that we will return to over many months. In the three years that we have been working on this podcast, we have learned a lot about the third act of life. We’re there now as are so many of our guests.

But what about you? Are you ready for Act III?

In this first episode, you get us… Tessa and...

Laughing and Dancing with Life and Death

with Lynnea Brinkerhoff

(Season 3 | Episode 125)

[TESSA] Lynnea Brinkerhoff played an important role in my life. Specifically when my mother died. Lynnea was there to help manage the impact of this incredibly challenging and momentous occasion.

I asked Lynnea to join me on this program to talk through “Laughing and Dancing with Life and Death.”

In Lynnea’s own words, “I am not really afraid to touch the depths of my grief and sadness and loss. I’ve lost so many over these last...

Open Bi Kinky Over 50

with CJ and Linwood

(Season 3 | Episode 124)

[TESSA] Many years ago CJ and Linwood by chance met online. And that could have been it. But… there… was… something…

Now they are together. Truly a grand partnership. After 7+ years. Across the globe. From Australia to California. A dominant and submissive relationship. A non-monogamous relationship. With one partner exploring bisexuality along the way. Each with children. Right? So many layers here.

If that sounds complicated… then you will find this episode with CJ and Linwood, particularly interesting.

Op...

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Josh Miller Changemaker

(Season 3 | Episode 123)

[TESSA] We’re all about the 50+ crowd… right?

Well, yes. We are. Certainly.

That is until we turn the eye of The Open Nester Podcast to the lives, missions, relationships, love, and romance of our children.

Welcome to Voices of Millennials and Gen Z. A new category (and a new series) for The Open Nesters Podcast.

And I could really not, from all of the myriad choices in this world, have a better guest to launch this new component of T...

Paradise on Earth

with Sharman Hawk

(Season 3 | Episode 122)

[TESSA] I met Shaman Hawk on the beach in Florida. I am so grateful that I did because I can now introduce this remarkable man to you, dear Open Nester Podcast listener.

I called this episode ‘Paradise on Earth’ to try to capture the point of view of Shaman Hawk.

In this brief episode, Hawk and I cover a lot of ground, from his militaristic upbringing to the incredible careers of his three adult daughters and his “wild child” 18-year-old.  We also l...

Love’s Not Color Blind

with Kevin & Antoinette

(Season 3 | Episode 121)

[TESSA] Kevin and Antoinette are a couple. A polyamorous couple… with children. And from what you will hear in this episode… this all works… just fine.

When they were first carving out this lifestyle for themselves they didn’t even know it was a “thing.” Then they found the polyamory community in Philadelphia. And that really opened up their eyes to so many possibilities. And, just for the record, the kids are well aware of their parents’ relationships.

KEVIN PATTERSON<

Duration: 00:58:32