The Experience Podcast

In this podcast Sir Inq dives into a conversation he had with Layla about her dating experience and how even 60yr old men who are thought to be mature and savvy but are running the risk of becoming just like their younger counterparts with wanting to see nudity before meeting in person. 

In this episode Sir Inq discusses his sexual resolutions for 2026 and how those resolutions are a continuation of the things he's been working on since 2024 and 2025.

In this episode Sir Inq gives his review on the red pill content, whats missing, and how the conversation needs to graduate to less arguing amongst the sexes to more connection between men and women for better experiences, relationships and outcomes.

In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how to seduce the woman of your desire, discusses how to set the mood and walk her into your world seamlessly.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his version of Curious Girls “pair and a spare” which he likens to dating tiers and uses rooms as an example to explain his remix of her theory. #dominance #submission 

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how to look at the videos she sends not only for your viewing pleasure but its a good view into what pleases her and how to make her climax when you're ready to take her there!

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses why men suffer from erectile dysfuntion, the things we use to combat them ie ED pills and drinks, but also discusses the mental side as well as the physical health side that most men ignore that's the actual canary in the coal mine!

In this episode I discuss how men with good intentions that are overly negotiable end up suverting their leadership role to their wife or girlfriend and are not in control of their relationships, family and finances.

In this podcast I discuss how seasoned men do not pursue women for sex but for true connection in a way that is healthy and is willing to provide an environment and or experience that allows his poteintail date to be themselves so they. can get to know each other with less to no pressure. A thoughtful man understands in todays time with social media and the lies that are told for the conquest of sex it's important if you value connection their are healthier ways to approach it and being like everyone else just won't do it!

In this episode I discuss the wonderful world of bj's, soul snatchers, the wrong way to do it and what makes it so awesome that most men can't deny wanting them when done correctly.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his latest observation on the dating game and so how many single people aren't fully equipped to date properly and why it's important to step ones game up and in what areas need one needs to focus on themselves. #dominance #submission

Sir Inq reminisces over quotes he’s heard since a young man until present time and how they have such deeper meaning today then when he first heard them! #dominance #submission #sirinq

Sir Inq discusses the difference between those you like the bdsm lifestyle for just the kink not the discipline and relationship aspect of it. #dominance #submission #sirinq

Sir Inq responds to a follower’s question on “what are some non sexual things that make men feel desirable?”.

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Sir Inq discusses why it’s important to find a way to decompress and compartmentalize your work stress for the sanctity of your home life.

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In this podcast Sir Inq delves into how men grow in their sexual prowess and skills from being a young man into his more seasoned years of 40+, also how some men never evolve and for them it’s about having an orgasm not actually pleasing their partner.

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In this episode Sir Inq questions the smart ladies on why they accept so much bs when they absolutely know better! Y'all read all the blogs, listen to podcast after podcast, engage in the groups on Facebook and more yet some of y'all go for the bs and lie to yourselves openly and quietly which is dangerous in todays dating market!

Sir Inq discusses that thin line between wanting a partner for love an companionship and needing a a partner for survival and future stability and growth that one has not successfully created for themselves due to self inflicted negligence and not taking their future serious enough in their 20's,30's and wake up in their 40tys only to realize their in a shrunken dating market and feel the pressure to stop playing around and settle in.

In this talk Inq discusses if a Dom can be only a mentor to a sub without a loving relationship or claiming said submissive. Also discusses the importance of having a Dominant in your life as a mentor regardless of any other aspects of the lifestyle.

In this podcast Inq discusses laziness in relationships and the problems it leads to, and what you can do as a Dom to get out of that rut!

In this podcast Inq responds to a followers question of “is there love in BDSM?” and of course his answer is “yes” but hear why.

In this podcast Inq discusses the difference between bdsm and kink and what are some of the ways you can tell the difference between the two and how one has less than the other.

In this podcast Inq discusses if a regular man can become a Dominant man within the lifestyle.

In this podcast Inq discusses how many Dominant men do not represent the lifestyle openly and many may not participate in many aspects of kink, role play etc but at the core dominants and go about their lives without wanting attention or recognition. #domination #submission #sirinq

In this podcast Inq discusses how our own selfish wants and dream of love and relationships not only blinds us to certain realities but also binds us to disfunction and bad outcomes. #domination #submission

In this podcast Inq discusses why before the new year he takes inventory of his friends, relationships, business affairs etc and how he weeds the one out that no longer serve his overall purpose and goals, and how it’s not easy and not all endings are bad and actually allow room for growth. #domination #submission 

In this podcast Inq discusses the importance of practicing your side f the dynamic even when you're without a D or s.

In this podcast Inq discusses the reasons and causations behind being rejected, how to view rejection and why it isn't always a you issue.

In the podcast Inq discusses the various differences in how some Dom's punish and think differently in their dynamics.

In this podcast Inq discusses the difference in Dom's that are more flexible and those that "Dom down hard" and are less tolerant with their submissive's access to certain things.

In this podcast Inq compares the classic story of the tortoise and the hare to relationships and having life goals that keeps an individual focused and not sloppy and all over the place.

In this podcast Inc discusses the difference between men that have their ish together and the ones walking around with their shirts (swag) untucked and how it makes a mess of not only their lives but the lives of others!

In this podcast Inq calls the ladies to the carpet on trying to fix a man that is set in his way but it's also a diversion for them to not focus on themselves.

In this cast Sir Inq delves into the foundation of each Dom and sub as some mask who they are in the title and surface acts but who one truly is can not be hidden for long and it's best to be who you are unapologetically for the best outcomes!

Let's discuss the importance of investing in the lifestyle as a way to expand your experience and avoid hitting a wall within your dynamic. There is a reconning that comes when you get yourself into such an expansive lifestyle and try to lowball what comes with it! #submission #domination

In this podcast I briefly discuss why timing and context is important to avoid uncomfortable moments, arguments and public embarrassment. Many intimate conversations do not need to be had in public spaces or in front of others that add no value to the situation at hand.

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Let’s discuss why it’s important to control your environment to maximize on the experiences you desire and stay away from moments and people less desirable. 

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Young boys need proper mentorship to become successful decent men without the hard knocks life can bring without prior knowledge of where the pitfalls are as we mature. A wise man learns from others mistakes but it takes all generations of males to embrace one another for the betterment of our species. 

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Too many of us men/ Doms try to pry or force our way onto a sub to have our way instead of taking the time to know her and tailor a relationship based on common interest and needs. #domination #submission

How to become a perfect sub is a ridiculous notion that needs to be discussed in detail to qual false ideas and restore healthy ways to live within the lifestyle without self abuse and abuse from others.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his own personal struggles with work and ambition and maintaining his creative edge and motivation for putting together meaningful sessions that last more than 30 minutes. He also delves into how a dynamic has more aspects to it than D/s only and how those other aspects help carry you thru rough patches. 

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In this podcast Sir Inq discusses his first time playing with fire in a session and the reaction from his sub who experienced a scary fun good time. He also discusses safety measures and things that need to be considered equipment wise.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how a friend of his says one thing about women but chooses the opposite and his choices betray his words and exposes him as a masochist and maybe a service submissive.

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In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of filtering the opinion of the masses and most time why blocking them out all together is the most important thing one can do for their mental health and focus in on the outcomes you desire for your life.

Why do so many men use their dominance to force submission on a woman? Is this how it should go or no?

Sir Inq discusses his thoughts on thinking and living outside societal norms in an authentic or clandestine way seeking the same results.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses "where are the kings men" in a poetical way but touches on the reality of how many men have been feminized in todays times.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest The Curious Girl discuss how many women have lost the art of finessing and how feminism has duped them into thinking being a boss b!tch will not only equal success at work but also in their homes, which has failed them as a strategy!

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Where are we going with life and this lifestyle of kink, domination and submission? In todays times you can be whoever you want, have what you want and switch up as you please but is that a good thing or driving us to be indecisive and inconsistent leading to the lack of good unions?

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how each Dom should have their own style and not chase the view of what a Dom is supposed to be thru imagery online.

Should you blow the lid off the secrecy of your interest and role in the lifestyle of Bdsm or should you still keep it to yourself?

In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses the issues men face wanting multiple lovers but not satisfying one, and do some men really care if even one is satisfied compared to their own score card.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses when attending some bdsm parties normally there's a head master and mistress, more than likely they have house rules that everyone needs to follow and how it's important to know what they are before you attend to avoid any misunderstandings.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the online games being played on dating sites to fool unsuspecting people into giving up their money and to string them along.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how relationships are based on mutual agreements and healthy relationships are not based only on what the Dominant wants.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses if a Dom should break a sub and how the terminology has been tainted and needs to be reexamined for healthier outcomes.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how taking on a submissive with more experience than yourself is not a bad thing nor should you as a Dom avoid those types out of egoistic reasons!

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how your innergy (energy) attracts situations and a further conversation of how relationships are a reflection of oneself and how we need to change ourselves to attract different outcomes.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance of mastering ones life before trying to becomes someones Dom!

In this podcast, Sir Inq tells a short story of a girl who was curious about impact play and how her girlfriend wanted to watch.

In this podcast, sir Inq discusses the error in seeking out the perfect play partner and discusses what he thinks finding an other is about.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how to react when your sub is in their zone, should i do something or nothing at all?!

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses pt 2 of taking things from online to meeting live and creating a D/s situation but also some safety guides before the rope, cuffs and ball gags come out.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the concept "when the student is ready the master shall appear" and relates it to our lifestyle of Bdsm.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses trust issues and where they come from and how to manage them.

In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how some view the daddy dom little girl dynamic the wrong way and clarifies what it is and what its not.

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In this podcast Sir Inq discusses how the dynamics of relationships have changed and how to approach a self sustained/ assertive modern woman and how old relationship paradigms may not work in todays era.

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses the difference between being distracted and neglect and the ramifications that neglect spawn.

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses a moment of clarity he had during a session when using a paddle and how he found different ways to use the paddle on different body types and how it takes time, practice and knowing your subjects body for maximum effect.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses are women conditioned to settle for less, fake orgasms and forgo their own sexual satisfaction for the sake of mens ego?

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In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how the most elaborate fantasy get away, session or apparatus is not out of your reach with proper planning and discipline.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his travel to Brazil and how to have the experiences you desire in those places you dream about through strategy and discipline.

When to punish and when to give a pass can be tricky but let's discuss it!

Pt 2 of rolling your buffet of protocols, requirements, rules etc in a methodical way.

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In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how being committed to the lifestyle will yield you the results you desire, but if you're one foot in and one foot out you'll suffer the consequences!

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In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses how a dominant rolls out their dominance to a potential submissive first to earn the trust to delve deeper into a productive d/s dynamic if the chemistry is there.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses his trip to NY to see an erotic poetry show by the Punanny Poets and how they told a story of a how public spanking went wrong and how SI had to clarify what they saw and how that display went left.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance with making agreements in relationships and how those agreements can be revised with open communication and agreeing to the proposed change(s).

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses if you know what your D/s talents are and if you're a good fit in a certain situation in a specific role?!

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why there's no need to chase the idea of being a dom in every and all situations, and how there will be moments that you will just be and not hard-lined into the dom role.

In this podcast, Sir Inq briefly discusses the difference between your self worth to what you bring to a relationship.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how alpha males from other relationship dynamics (vanilla, swingers etc) come into the world of Bdsm and some without taking advice or doing their own due diligence will sometimes go off what they think domination is and will falter and most times self destruct a dynamic.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how we can get into a place where things become routine or redundant and we seek ways to spice things up and the pros and cons of certain things like adding another partner.

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Sir Inq discusses the concept of "eating lies when we're hungry" and how to stave off bad decisions by not controlling our carnal urges.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how many of us are still stuck in old dating views, habits, mindset, and most of all costly unfulfilling outcomes.

In this podcast, Sir inq discuss some challenges the swinger community may face coming over into the world of bdsm beyond the kink aspects.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq answers anonymous questions and confessions posed to him the past week thru the NGL app and briefly touches on swinging into bdsm.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how so many men allow sexual gratification and the pursuit of women make them disregard their responsibilities as the alpha wolf or expose themselves as sheep.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how men cum each time but not so much for women and how we as men need to be more attentive to our partners body and sexual release.

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Sir Inq goes in on the subject of when and how to say provocative things and not ruin the mood with off kilter convo.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses what the cost of polyandry is and how it's more than financial, though money is a factor not many discuss how you must be balanced and judicial with ones time, thoughtfulness and physicality.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how Dominate men need to understand how the modern woman thinks and functions, and how many though assertive are willing to let go but that happens over time and with help from the Dom to get them to a point of disarmament and show them that you are trustworthy to not drop the ball.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a funny situation his client had with a women he thought was a potential wife, when really what she wanted was a 3 some!

In podcast, Sir Inq talks about how men need to respect their accomplishments and how not everyone should benefit off the value they've created and to do so there must be rules and regulations in place.

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In this podcast, Sir Inq explains his theory on three different types of men, however the man in the middle really suffers the most. Also why we as men need to raise more emotionally competent men.

In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why we ignore red flags and how they may not appear right away but how one must stave off the emotional connection to make heathy decisions.

In this podcast, Sir Inq reads a writing from The Light Keepers Journal from his page on Tumblr about the journey from the vanilla world into the lifestyle of bdsm and kink.

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In todays fast moving dating world, managing the field of daters and discovering the best matches takes one to know themselves, what you want, and how to convey that to a potential mate. Also if you're further ahead in the lifestyle than someone you are dating how should you approach the situation without coming across as being manipulative.

Are those we consider to be fake in some instances just inexperienced with how to leading and others knowing how to follow? The most pressing question is how to know the difference between fake and those who have room to grow?!